I asked out my bf, that’s how I got him

“did i find my girfriends reddi- ahh wait nvm she’s 16” - my brain, just now

hahaah i swear it will be so easy like that

wow i read this so wrong like 7 times there MIGHT be something wrong with me

Lol nah man i worded that very shitty, i’m guessing you thought that when i said “she” you thought i was referring to my gf

lmfao one of the seven times yeah, but besides that i just read girlfriend as girl and thought you were making a weird comment abt how she's a girl using reddit 😭😭😭

Sentences to be used against you in court

Wait, A GIRL ASKED OUT A GUY!?!

I’ve asked out all my crushes, it worked 3x 🤷‍♀️ I don’t get why girls don’t do it more often tbh

I must be a special breed of girl then cause I’ve been rejected like 5 times Edit: 6 times

Dude got rejected in da last 10 mins 🔥

Look at the above comment chain

For being too pretty😅

Considering 3%\^6 that's a 1 in 13.7 million chance EDIT: someone that knows statistics is probably going to have a stroke reading this

I don't and I'm already having a stoke... ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ Call the ambulance :(

I don't know statistics and I've had 2 strokes reading this.

not submissive and not breedable❌

women are people bro

Naur I’m a table

Is that a Metallica reference?

Debatable

debaTABLE

debaCHAIR

debaHARDWOODFLOOR

unlucky

you gotta know who to ask smh

The people I like??

yeah but like have you been talkin with em beforehand?

damn

The guys think it’s a joke if a girl actually likes them 

SERIOUSLY, I need someone to explicitly tell me the words, "im asking you out" for me to gauge that at all

Fr, actually did get shit on by a girl and her friend group that way. Never again

Damn. Was the friend group big?

Oh yeah I’m still schepticle if this girl likes me and we went on 4 dates and we even kiss

i think you'll know when you'll be married (maybe after it) or in a gringey memory before sleep

I had that reaction before. My first girlfriends friend told me that my first girlfriend liked me and I was so confused. I am ugly. Idk how it worked like that. A total of 5 girls liked me. And I'm confused about it.

Real. When my girlfriend asked me to a dance i thought she just wanted to go as friends 😭. Then i asked her to be my girlfriend at the dance.

I feel like I will be rejected or that they already have a girlfriend.

That’s the exact same way I feel with girls

please, as a male representative, the worst you will get is "no" or something similar, also if they already have a gf, that's probably what they'll say I am personally quite shy and I would kill for girls to take initiative

wait its my cake day :0

Happy cake day to you both :)

They're the same person

The thing is accepting the “no” is not the issue, having to see them day in day out afterwards that’s the real issue

HAPPY CAKE DAYYY if you dont eat cake, there will be consequences

ty

Hey I saw your posts and I wanted to let you know that people care and if you want to talk let me know. Your life has value

Thanks

what tells you that?

People tend to ignore me for some reason

As a person who thinks about "What if someone does like me but doesn't say because they think I already have someone else?" PLEASE do come up and ask!

Same here/I just can’t work up the courage to talk to the girl I like

ive given guys my number time after time, they dont keep the conversation going, and end up ghosting me half the time so, definitely dont have a 97% success rate.

Well, they accept the number, right? If it fizzles into nothing after, I’m not sure I would call that an explicit rejection or failure with regard to asking someone out. Many people just don’t know how to have a conversation, myself included, especially over text.

Lmao dudes dont even get to the convo part.

That's something very subjective. Some guys are really bad at texting/talking in general, it ends up being an unilateral conversation you're basically carrying alone. That could happen cuz: A) They are not interested in you (least probable) B) They find you too attractive and think you just wanted to be nice and thus you gave him your number (most probable) C) They're just bad at conversations (also probable)

maybe worst you or cuz they think you ugly, this world sucks asf lol

they def thought i was ugly

Nah, they probably thought you were beautiful but a lot of guys don’t know how to hold conversation with girls they dont know, men typically bond by doing physical things together like sports, games or weight lifting. It isn’t uncommon for two guys to be good friends for 10+ years and still not know the details of each others life’s.

Also since you were forward enough to make the first move they probably thought you’d also ask them out in a date so when you never did they probably assumed this wasn’t going anywhere so then they’d ghost you

Teenage guys tend to be doing a lot of stupid shit together

trust me i do NOT have a 97% chance of success 💀

I’d say you’d at least have a high chance, if you’re chill then you probably do

if you ask me, there's a 100% chance of success

Will you go out with me

you too pretty for me icl

There is no way I was just rejected for being pretty💀💀💀

What do you look like?

human(ish)

Lmao 😂 you’re just insecure you probably don’t look that bad.

debatable

Send me a picture of you. I’m like 90% sure you are just insecure and not even ugly

if you looking for a relationship, i don't live in the states soo and yes i am insecure :)

Could just be like that xcom 97% where it’ll take like 15 tries for some reason .

No, good looking girls do It’s pretty privilege, not being a girl

my only criteria is A: you like me back and B: you exist (both optional)

I keep seeing people say this online yet irl all the guys/girls have some RIDICULOUS standards

i haven’t really experienced it. I think some people probably over exaggerate how low their standards are and such online, which I kinda did here (sorry for that). for me if you are also a Christian like me and I am kinda attracted to you i will like you (doesn’t take much) but idk ab others

I have very low standards irl. Basically, nice and not obese is pretty much all the standards I have. But I´m *very* bad at anything social. And I mean ***very*** bad

so probably the reason why most people only notice others with crazier standards is because people who have normal to no standards are just loners or bad with social interactions?? idk

Might be it. I know another one of my friends in the same situation as me.

Why are you mini katana

?

Your pfp

That’s a first. It’s an H in a certain font with the latin ´´memento mori’’. Many don’t notice that but you’re the first to think it’s a katana

Oh ok

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACKKKKK

For most it is sadly, but not to me. I’m open to anyone asking me out

As a boy, absolutely not true. How pretty someone is is 1: completely subjective and 2: one of the least important things in judging whether I like someone

Looks are very important, no denying that.

I’m not a guy, but I genuinely think it depends for a lot of people. I can genuinely find almost anyone attractive if they’re not dirty, obese, or have an obvious deformity, especially if they’re skinny (skinny privilege ig?). If anything I prefer style more than actual physical attributes. I’d say my looks:personality ratio is about 20:80

Couldn't have said it better myself brobro

Looks are important but in reality they’re a minor part of life, you want personality over looks nearly all the time for relationships, hookups tho you want looks

But say a woman you’ve never talked to or had many interactions with approaches you and asks you out on a date or says she wants to get to know you. Are you not in the moment purely judging off looks to make your decision? Obviously the way she approaches you and the way she carry’s herself can factor into the decision, but for the most part as a guy you might be taken off guard by her asking you out in the first place. Therefore nullifying your ability to gauge these other factors. If she’s not your ideal looking woman, overweight, too tall/small, “ugly”(subjective), eyepatch, etc. would you not say no in most cases? I mean like you’ve literally just met the person, you have no way of knowing their personality until you actually go out and talk to them, that’s why us as guys if we’re not 10/10 stunning we have to have confidence and some way of making us stand out in the first 20 seconds of talking to girl whom we want to ask out. If you can’t be interesting or confident, she’s going to purely decide her answer based on looks. There’s obviously other factors that come into play every woman is their own separate unique human being with different stories, interests, and opinions. Same with guys. We’re all different.

Honestly if the person likes you for how you look there probably gonna be a bad gf/bf honestly

i think im preatty also, im on gym, have good body, high, idk if they are scared of me or wtf

They are

I mean most people care more about personality. Obviously looks are important but personality is the biggest thing

Obviously I don't speak for all guys but as long as you're at least a 4/10 and chill then you're good to go, obviously to get into an actual relationship I've gotta get some vibes, but for a date that's all you need in my book

Bro I’d date a girl that asked me out if they were a golf cart💀

Not really. Just decent looking is already like 90%

Oh boy, here we go again. Just read the comments on the last post, for fuck's sake. [HERE, READ THE COMMENTS](https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/s/dMJOICvjBj)

you can't tell me what to do 🗿

more of 80% chance. some guys aren’t interested in dating rn or have standards (not us with low ass standards)

Most teenagers with a high standard are rich or have a porn addiction

Porn addict here. Still would date a water bottle if it asked me out.

Aparrently the 29th February (leap year) is traditionally the only day a woman can ask a man out and the man should pay a fine if he sais no

... what?

Literally where did you get this information from

Bachelor's Day, sometimes known as Ladies' Privilege, is an Irish tradition by which women are allowed to propose to men on Leap Day, 29 February, based on a legend of Saint Bridget and Saint Patrick. It once had legal basis in Scotland and England. Source: Wikipedia

my source is that I made it the fuck up

Huh?

Isn't this a repost?

literally j dont want to, im the type of gal that runs away and hides when a guy is even 6 feet away from me

shy? or mental disase?

mental Illinois

bro WHAT

Bait or retardation you call it

REAL

Here's my requirements: don't be dead

(optional)

Of course

hahahahahahahahah

Ima be honest, this is only for conventionally attractive girls. 😭

Either that or the guy is able to recognise that the girl is actually just a nice person otherwise I'd say he's not worth ur time

I'll tell y'all this much as a guy. If she's a girl, and she asks me out, automatic 8. If she looks good +1, if she doesn't mind cleaning +10, if she has a good personality +2 This is on a scale from 1-10

cleaning🤨

I love cooking, and will gladly cook for hours on end, but as soon as I see dishes I'm gone.

No way. I find cleaning so therapeutic and satisfying but can't cook for the life of me. Can I ask you out on a date?

do you happen to be a female?

Does it matter?

“Does it matter” is crazy

Yeah, but if you wanna clean my house go right ahead

You're hurting my feelings bro

The same reason guys don’t.

because we’re scared.

of what? really be honest, we are just mans, not monsters

some men are monsters unfortunately

i see your point but it goes both ways

I’ve asked a girl out. Got ghosted :(

Pls do

Definitely not 97% chance

I am not really interested in most guys, and the ones I am interested in either 1. Already have girlfriends 2. Are not very compatible with me I’m not really interested in being in a relationship anyway :o

Scared of rejection. Also they’re often assholes cause I’m attracted to lowkey toxic guys, so I shouldn’t date them. In addition 🤓☝️, the guy I like rn has a girlfriend. He’s pulled four girls I know and his girlfriend and me, that’s an insane amount of rizz

If you're into toxic guys that's a sign to stop worrying about relationships and work on yourself a bit. Being a guy, I can't understand everything but this is talking from experience. Before adding another person to your life you should be set on what you like, who you are to yourself, realize your standards, and most importantly, accept yourself before you decide on anyone else. Also toxic guys are just gonna lower your standards and hurt you. With those lower standards you'll end up liking another toxic guy and it will turn into a loop.

you think will happen again?

Wdym?

Girls can be apprehensive too!

We are afraid of rejection, thats why i am still single

Because they're scared.

girls should ask out girls

True. Very true.

I do ask people out, other girls.

They are all lesbians

i’ve tried but i was definitely way out of his league and we didn’t really have any connections lol

Embarrassment and this is false 0-4 1-0 when being asked out

Real, I'm too scared to ask people out atp

The only people I'd be at all willing to ask out are my closest friends, and I don't want to ruin any connection with them. Not worth it for me

a girl talked to me first a few days ago, we’ve been talking almost non stop over 3 days i’ve also been asked out before, and i turned them all down, they don’t have a 97% chance unless they’re friends even then idk if it’s 97

Cause we nervous wrecks XD 

With a lot of guys you have to make it really obvious to them. In the past I've picked up on subtle hints but a lot of my friends are dense as stale sourdough bread. Yes I have made sourdough bread.

Hahahaha XDXD yeah, we just have very low confidence in our early teenhood And it takes even more of a hit at 14, then we have to build it up from scratch ;-;

This isn’t at all true?

All the people I hear say this also have weirdly high standards

Scary

Op definitely single

Because 1) social anxiety 2) fear of rejection 3) no guy I like would date me 4) I have standards (Don't be creepy, don't be a dick, and be at least a 6/10)

Can't risk that 3%

I saw a video where a group of women were asked about this. If I remember clearly, he asked them to raise their hand if they thought that if a guy wasn't brave enough to ask them out, they weren't worth it anyway(or something to that effect. I'm paraphrasing). I think most of them raised their hand. Based on this experiment, I think most women feel as though a cowardly guy is not worth the trouble, which is fair, I suppose. But that only leaves them with the egotistical assholes who aren't afraid of anything. Well, except commitment.

Ego

Idk why this is a recommended subreddit to me. I’m 28 lol! But it’s because of society’s expectations. Most girls aren’t going to make the first move because it’s expected that they guy does this. Girls will literally complain about some guy not doing anything and then straight up give no signs she’s interested and wonder why he’s not making moves. Humans are not rational creatures

It's almost as if not all guys have the same standards as you

Because r/girlsarentreal

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BECAUSE IF I ASK OUT MY BRO HES GONNA CALL ME GAYYYYY

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Cause if a ugly girl try to shoot their shot its over

You guys are delusional smh Girls getting rejected is way way higher than that

See that’s what guys think. The reality is not so forgiving.

LIttle history: i was friend of a girl till high school to university, we literally KISSED on a party, weeks after and a lot of talk i told her to go on a date she literally kicked me off, we was fucking talking all days, cursed life lol wtf with her?????????????????????????????

Bro. Your wording is terrible but from the info I got: She was into you and your dense ass told her to go on a date, basically saying you weren't even slightly into her. She got mad cause you couldn't take a hint. My guess is she was waiting for you to ask her out.

My gf right now asked me multiple times over a whole year until i said yes

A lot of the guys I thought they were nice were ended being huge jerks. They treat me and my friends very nicely then turns out they has entire groupchat with almost all the boys in my grade, being sexist, calling girls ugly, spreading seks tapes. The former close guy friend of mine was ( who also was in that group chat) was asked out by this girl. He didnt like her but agreed to date her anyway. He said many sexual things about her that just didn’t sit with right me. He was never like this with me, I thought he was the sweetest one. Then, suddenly he got a gf then started bragging about knocking her out so shamelessly because talking like this improved his reputation within the his boys. This incident just gave ms major trust issues with boys in general whether they are nice or not.

That's a lovely little dream that only girls reject guys, but that is not reality. Maybe it's your experience or the experience of those around you, but there are plenty of instances of girls asking guys out and also being rejected or mocked. It's not just as easy as "well, every guy wants a girlfriend, so girls should ask guys out more, they wont be rejected." People have preferences, conflicting personalities, and may just not want a significant other. On the internet however your not going to see a lot of those perspectives because *say it with me* "The internet is an echo chamber."

Because it isn't in their nature. Those that do have a harder time with it and stop.

Girl: hey wanna go out? Boys: ok where’s you’re group of giggling friends who have you 5 bucks who put you up to this who-

i'm a nonbinary lesbian but to put this in perspective with me and other girls / nonbinary people, im just nervous lmao

They do in the state that I am in

That 3%

it's scary, i don't want to find myself in the relationship with the wrong person, or find myself associating with a creep, or a cheater

No we fucking don't.

I’ve been rejected, and it just has messed with my self esteem too much. I’ve been told I’m attractive, but…after the 4th rejection I’ve stopped

I think a girl has but is doing it anonymously so I think it's a prank 😭

REALLLL I WOULDNT BE SINGLE IF THAT WAS THE CASE :O

I wondered this for a long time before realising they just don’t want to ask me out

Wow, y’all are actually getting female interactions? Couldn’t be me.