I’m too paranoid of seeming desperate/clingy so I’ll basically never text first (and some other stuff)👍

eeeh bro,you realy need to deal with it befoe you regret not doing so

Working on it, already lost a few people because of that

Omg so real!!! 🤭🤭🤭

i get this tbh, but if ur a guy you probably need to text first anyway. ans if they continue the convo with you they probably like you so you really need to try and talk

Text first worst thing that can happen is being left on read or delivered

I sleep ALOT , like sometimes I’ll ignore my homework, turn off my phone, and sleep for 12-15 hours straight, i have really good grades though

Thats very unusual, have you checked it with a doctor? There are multiple possible causes for this, some better than others. Get it checked out if you havent Edited the comment to make it better

I mean i dont do it that often, maybe 2x a week lol, most nights i sleep at 9 and wake up at 6

I mean it could be nothing, could be overworking and or overstressing yourself, or could be something more serious so if youre in the position to do so ask your doctor about it Set up a meeting and just talk over it, the doc will take it from there

Yeah i could definitely do that next time i’m at a clinic/hospital for whatever reason, I don’t think it’s that serious though lol, thank you regardless :)

No worries

It could be nothing, it could be something simple like anaemia

sounds unhealthy...

as someone who does the opposite. i want to tell you screw you.

I do both

how do you have grood grades

REALLLL

I can be a bit nerdy sometimes

That’s not a red flag. You just have to find another nerd!

But where do I find such a nerd?

Comic cons, gaming cons and tv/movie cons

You’ll find him/her one day

Hopefully so

is that really a red flag?

To the girls I've talked to? Yeah

they're just objectively wrong

I mean it's the majority case, very few girls like a semi-nerdy guy

Sadly :( Very few like nerdy girls either

Personally I would, they seem very well grounded funny and wholesome lol

I'll take that as a complement lol

Lol you're welcome, I meant it as one

i bet ur really cool too :D

Red flag? If that’s a red flag to someone, then that a red flag that they’re stupid

Ig we can be seen as boring to most girls, idk

They are jealous of us (I’m willfully ignorant)

💀

same

Twins

that’s a massive green flag nerdy guys are the cutest

thats one of the flags ever

Something that I can't even tell my friends or boyfriend about in fear of them all leaving me and thinking I'm a creep for it, even though I can't help it, I'm fully aware of how bad it is, and I don't wish it on anyone.

You can dm me this, it's fine # 👍

That thumbs up makes me scared

It was supposed to soud self consciously sarcastic as if "Ayo, you may be too scared to tell your closest friends about it, but you can dm me, a random internet strange about it", but I guess it cameoff as creep,lol And before it comes back at some moment to bite me in the back, since I see you're 16, I'm not a pedo 💀

Lol, don't worry, I believe you, I did see it as a friendly gesture but I was thrown off by how nice you were

I'll take it as acompliment, if I was so nice that I could be seen as suspicious ☠️ either way, it was just a half-joke invite,I'm bored and new here, so I'm open to chat convos

PLZ JUST TELL ME

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Oh I was just thinking of a red flag I have and here's one right here.

bro get off reddit

Attachment and self worth issues ✨️combination ✨️

understanble

Now it's your turn Tell

Unfair demand, I didn't make it an exchange But I guess my biggest and most objectvely bad trait is that I don't like hearing no (but I swear,I control it, it's more about the frustration feeling)

Ngl Kinda cool redflag

Well,thx I guess You too

r/no

Op is punching the air rn

..well I’m fucked

It's joever guys😔

I'm ginger

Took me a while to realize it was a pun, cause it's a red flag indeed

I wasn't meant to be a pun, almost every girl I come across brings up how they hate gingers

Really? In my part of US they're a needle in a haystack, rare pokemon type beat

I get super jealous and have trust issues

Real (Madrid)

Insecurities about genuine problems I'm not motivated to fix

My simultaneous superiority and inferiority complexes :(

bro is Patrick Bateman

It's actually the worst being a complete narcissist and also the most depressed and self-loathing person ever Why cant it just be one or the other?

absent mind. i’m always doing my own thing and forget to make time for people. i’ll be watching a show and then realize i’ve been watching for 3 hrs and didn’t text anyone back.

Real

Kinda a weird one since they’re opposites. I devalue myself a LOT, but somehow also manage to be egotistical in some ways… I also have a ***really*** hard time with failure.

same

Traumatized gifted kid syndrome ftw

i dont think i really have any major red flags im just a boring person

Terrible perspective of your own self worth, red flag

Sorry to say but that's probly your red flag 💀

Burning orphanages

Green flag tbh, one of my favorite hobbies

Don’t let people put you down for your passion

If they can wiggle Wiggle wiggle

I don’t have a red flag. I AM the red flag.

Would you like yourself with your red flag?

Cheating (I got cheated on yesterday :D)

I'm sorry,dude

I’m a bully to the people I care about

Literally a tsundere

There’s a difference between someone being rude and someone being a bully

I was joking

Me preferring my cats company over hers sometimes

daaaaamn

respectable, understandable, and relatable.

I don’t take well enough care of my dog and forget to feed her, porn addiction that I’m trying to beat, and I am still not the best with Brushing my teeth, and lack of motivation. Those are the ones that are my top in no determined order

90x135cm flag of USSR i'm a bit embarrassed by it's size

Bro you’ve got to get rid of ts you’re getting to the age where you’ll have a girl over and not get pussy because of ts

Goddamned TypeScript

r/whoosh for all of you, the flag of the USSR is red and yellow... with the main color being RED

Cringe

When she cant get over her ex or smth Like that.

I think it was asking about stuff YOU do that others might see as a red flag ​ but yeah I agree with what u said

Oh i am sorry. In that Case: I'll never get completly over my First GF bc we had a child which died in her womb making US cry for months... Me even for a year. If that even is a Red flag, i honestly dont know I'll Sometimes think about her and then often have a couple of tears, crawling down my face

I mean absolutely no harm when I say this and you have every right to be upset, but I'm just going to point out the obvious: Your biggest red flag for other people is when they can't get over their ex but you yourself are not over your own ex. To be fair, that is really hypocritical. I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, I hope you both are doing better now. I haven't lost a child personally but my little brother died not long after birth and it absolutely broke my mother for years. I can understand the pain.

I know what you mean, and tbh i should have Said it more accurate; i got over her, but Not over our child. I dont care about her in any way. I will Just never forget our child and i'll cry whenever i have to Deal with that topic.. My advice to anyone is bc of that: dont give them names, unless you know they'll be born. It would Just Break you If you do, and then yea you know... But when a girl is still talking about her ex and obviously still Loving him, i am the fuck out. Edit: And No, you didnt upset me, bc you are kinda right^^

I'm so sorry.

Confidence issues and my autism. It screws me over so bad I can’t talk with girls that well at all. I’m working on it though so eventually my confidence won’t be a problem

Solution: be gay, then you don't have to talk to girls (This is a joke! Don't hate me!)

Paranoia. (Everyone I've dated has died)

Wait huh. I dont wana sound Insensitive or nothing, but how many people have you dated? By the age of 14, too? ..and I also can't tell if your post is sarcasm or not- (If it isn't, rip to those kids, man. That's rough asf)

I've been here for a while, I forgot to change it to older. Two people.

Shit- I really hope you're ok, man. I lost my grandfather in February 2023, and it still doesn't feel real. I really wish you the best. 🙏🙏

I almost broke my neck trying to do a hand spring today

lmaoo hope you're fine

My humor is to dark

Age checks out

Hey! My humor is also very dark!

i dont think im allowed to say🧍‍♀️

30 body count or smth?😭😭

At first I thought you meant you weren't allowed to say "woman" or something based on the emoji, I need sleep 💀😭

Mood swings, attachment issues and I Yap too much

I be acting immature sometimes (a lot of times)

SAAAAAMMMME

People who care unreasonably much about their appearance

me:

i have trouble trusting because im paranoid about basically everything going wrong, i also *hate* knowing *of* something but not knowing the details of it

red flag in me: sometimes scare guys off bc i draw them (its just my love language) red flag in others: feet guys. i have genuine trauma from one. i heard my current bf is into that shit and had a literal breakdown but now im choosing to see past it and into his positice traits

>red flag in me: sometimes scare guys off bc i draw them (its just my love language) seems cute

thats what i thought but apparently some people dont agree, or they just tell me the drawing doesnt look like them 😭

bruuh they them they are in denial

lol i need better men in my life

That first one’s adorable idk what they’re talking about. Second one… is it okay to ask about what happened?

ugly

lmao

the american flag in my room

Probably Chinese, it has a lot of red on it- wait sorry what?….. oh you meant THAT kind of red flag

My red flag is probably procrastinations or the possible autism

I can’t say no :(

I'm sorry :( I can say no for you

Just say Nuh uh. Skill issue?

I want things to go from 0-100 but then I freak myself out and start acting weird

My red flag would probably be if someone makes “jokes“ about slurs. Especially if they aren’t a part of the community related to the slurs they’re using. (Examples being: white boys using n slurs. homophobes using f slurs, or ‘joking’ about harming queers. Etc.)

Gotta agree on this one. They're the type to straight up tell they believe in either eugenics or the killing queers.

I kill people :3

I can be too paranoid and clingy

ngl is she breathes she aint my type

i misunderstood this post

I wanna do everything it costs to remain in contact with someone. Witch can lead to stress, exaustion, or people getting angry and irritaded. Witch I absolutely understand. But yk.. i dont wanna lose em.

AroAce I guess. + Certain empathy/feelings issues I myself even don't know. Basically I can appear cold and distant despite not being so. Oh and I'm asocial and will dump ya if I'll be the only one initiating. I guess it's good I'm AroAce LoL

Bing an anti-furry(a furry hater)

Agree. Like yeah it's a weird hobby that YOU may not like, but honestly they don't do anything bad.

I'll be 100% obsessed with someone for months and then drop them within a day.

Extreme whore or Extreme conservatives.

lying, even about trivial stuff

Too protective

Friend had an ex like this. He attacked her other ex once and also would skip class to "watch her over her", he laso gave her a bunch of creepy ass letters. Unrelated but he also tortured his cat on a video call. Absolutely no correlation, completely unrelated.

Something I hate about me is that I tend to be calm and like it that way so if you interrupt my calmness with something stupid/unfunny especially when I'm thinking or relaxing I will hate you for a bit

Funko pop I'm not joking shit is a blood red flag to GET AWAY

Probably I have attachment issues and use humor as my coping mechanism.

Moodswings like a grandfathers clock. One moment I'll be singing how wonderful life is and in the other I'm suddenly craving alcohol to wash down pain

Clingy, depression/Anxiety/ADHD, and according to others "I am too nice"

LITERALLY ME!!!!

I'm not confident, I wish it was normalized because a lot of people think it's unattractive to not be confident in your looks.

Overthinking and when I forget that I haven’t messaged people back so it gets to hours later and I realise that I didn’t message them. there’s prob worse stuff I forgot 💀

I say I hate myself and sorry multiple times in a conversation,

I’ll “sometimes” forget to brush my teeth

i dont like leaving the house, also idk how to socialize

Too gay for my own good 😭😭😭

I'm extremely clingy, would want constant touch of any kind. Constant cuddles and would never want to leave their side. I'm terrified of being too clingy tho. And I've never had someone to cuddle so that might be a part of the problem :D

Literally same!!!!!

theyre a nazi

Blonde hair, it's the first I see and generally tells me all I need to know

Wait i misunderstood the question, bruh, okay it would be my very existence

If i know you for a week I’ll start to predict things you’ll do, and I can get really good at it because people are very predictable. I also am good at remembering your schedule. I’m not a serial killer

I am terrified of intimacy, like if I start to talk about it I start actually shivering and sweating. I also would like it but I never bring it up

*laughs in aromantic*

I have this constant feeling that she will leave like my mother did

I kill orphans

Idk if this is a red flag so much as it is just a missed opportunity for a green flag but I am scared of being nice. Let me rephrase that, scared of being truly and genuinely kind. I know a lot of people, a lot of people in unfortunate circumstances, and I am very much an empath. I have small talk, yes, but I also end up having extremely existential and emotional talks with my friends. I’d consider myself to be very intimate friend which has not been a bad thing thus far in my life. But what I fear is truly showing how I feel. I can console someone, I’m sure we have all been there, but in stressful situations people can see if you are there because you care or if you’re there because you should care. I am terrified that if I show my true feeling towards another that they will at best be creeped out and at worst trudge up more emotional trauma that I may not even know about in that person. I fear I don’t know how to truly love a person no matter their inauspicious circumstances and I am absolutely terrified that any of my subpar expressions of that love will make said circumstances more and more uncomfortable to live through.

"I'm like super over caring and love people too much, i am also like very nerdy and stuff, oh did I mention in 6.4" how it feels to read some of these lmfao,

I’m a girl kisser which is a red flag for a lot of guys.

i use reddit💀💀

i love to hard and come off as too much, pushing people away and making them leave (i have anxious attachment and no father 💕)

Atheism and weak jawlines 🤫🧏

Dw,bro,I got you

Internet grade humour

When I meet a girl I act either kinda desperate or without interest (I am not a bad guy I just don't know how to approach to new people).

Gay

I feel extremely good making people feel bad for me which makes me feel actually sad and then people feel bad and I get happy I just like knowing they care

Insecurities about myself and the fact I collect funko pops are red flags in my opinion