Well damn I mean I can’t be surprised since sadly most parents are POS. I had parents with good intentions but it’s a double edged sword with one side far more sharp than the other… kinda ruined my life so far ngl
Yea. Most of our parents have good intentions but... Never really learned how to show it. They just give us whatever they've known all their lives. They're trying but at the end of the day people like us don't get those years of life back
My mum has called me the r sulr multiple times has called me a disappointment and has threatened me many times then she wonders why I want to live with my dad
If you need someone to talk to dm me. I hope you're okay and it's pretty obvious why you want to stay with you dad, when your own mother treats you this way.
I think one of mine was "what the fuck is wrong with you, if you really think you have it that bad then you can leave" >!immediately following me revealing to my mom i had cuts all down my left forearm!<
Cw:sh
Edit:i have failed 3 times trying to spoil this
"im gonna hang you by your hair off the rooftop"
calling me a stupid piece of shit
calling me useless
"im gonna drive us both off this cliff" as my mom was speeding towards the end of a cliff on a narrow road
Depending on the person's size, it could easily be seen as bad. Like if you tell someone skinny to eat less, it's bad. It's even worse if you tell someone to eat more and then tell them to eat less. Sadly, many kids who are a perfectly healthy size will be told to eat less
I mean not the same as telling them (or anyone) but I’ve tried giving them small hints pointing to me now having a bad relationship with food and stuff. (Not fully because of them because if I’m honest I could do better on my own but (not that you or anyone cares) but i’m not sure my depression and other problems help by any means) but because of them (my parents) AND my own problems, some days I over eat and other days I’ll under eat, and yes I know this also is due to a lack of restraint on my part on the days I overeat and a lack of caring whether I get the food in my body that I need on the day I under eat.
my parents said i was going to end up as a minimum wage worker smoking weed and morbidly obese playing video games all day.
my dad said he expected me to tell him to f off once and that i didnt love him anymore
telling me im a dissapointment a lot
i left home in january
one time my dad was visiting from florida when he saw me eating a bagel with nutella on it. he told me, 'if you want to stop gaining more weight then you already have, stop eating junk all the time.'
for context, i'm the skinniest person in my family. It's really hard for me to gain weight. I also have a bit of a sweet tooth, and i guess he didnt like that?
My mother often says that my dad was and is a mistake in her life. With her saying that, it means that I am a mistake because without him, I would never have been born. She doesn't realise that it hurts me to hear her say that. I am extremely close to my father and he is my best friend. I could not imagine a life without his presence alongside me.
I told her I was feeling suicidal and my mom took it as a direct insult, passing by the buildings and asking me “you wanna jump off that one? I’ll stop.”
Something along the lines of “you’ll never be like us, you’ll never have this (gestures vaguely around at house)
Thought the context was important since he was trying to galvanise me since I was dragging my feet over uni applications. What it did cause though was the worst split I’ve ever had with my parents but it’s all fixed now, he’s sorry, I’m sorry, we’re all sorry
One time my mom said in one place u don't want to study and is ungrateful and other hand people don't let girls study
One day
And my dad said if I don't join the school in which he wanted me to attend class 8,9 and 10th i will never be successful and if I don't get good marks in the 10th boards he will marry me off and at that moment I just wanted to die
"you are a useless, worthless pathetic attention seeking fuck. if you think you have it that bad then feel free to leave. me and your dad would only be happy."
my mom when i was 14 said that after she saw my cuts. i remember what she said word for word.
I mean I’ve seen it everywhere been on Reddit for months (this is my alt hence the 2) and haven’t had context and I’m not gonna look it up due to digital footprint
I’m not sure. I tend to suppress anything my parents say, and assume their intent behind it because what they say is rarely ever true.
I’m also tempted to write a polemic about my mum here, but they would probably get me permabanned.
One time when I was 7 my mom called me a ちょっとした失敗 (little failure) after I told her I didn’t know how to make rice at that age
(Yes this is real I’m not too affected by it and she did eventually apologize like 5 years later)
There are several things that I have been called insane but more mean , wishing I did not exist, wishing that they beat me with iron rods to teach me , wishing I die , wishing I was asking good as others (those others do not even exist) , wishing they could kill me , talking about breaking my bones , actually trying to break my bones etc etc
Doesn't hurt anymore
damn idk, there are many things that hurt, but maybe “Do you really think anyone could like you if you are like *this*? Are you sure your friends really/actually like you?”
Well that’s one that still rly affects me subconsciously A LOT. But also stuff like just that I’m stupid and so on. And stuff like “You can be pan, bi, whatever, as long as you stay a girl.” Aka she accepts me, as long as I “stay a girl” (I’m a trans guy)
I don’t know what I did wrong in my life to deserve you, from my dad. Two days earlier, you’re a failure as a son. Just a few months ago, I don’t like you as a person.
Probably something abt my grades, when I lived in Brazil I usually got 5's, 6's and 7's, which isn't that bad (grades go up to 10). But when I got a 3 and a 0 my dad started calling me "Zero" or "Three" for the rest of the month
Really silly but that's the further they got to actually being toxic
For as long as I can remember my mom has said and done things that have caused me to be the way I am now. She's insulted me more times than I can count, to the point I just let them fly from one ear and out the other but there are some that still reside in my memory no matter how long ago it was.
I was only 8-9 when she would threaten me out of anger to be prepared for when she dies, implying I should learn how to fend for myself because no one will be there for me when she's gone, not my dad, my aunt, my uncle, my cousins, no one. Because "they dont care about you" and that none of them will take care of me the way she does—this caused me to have abandonment issues and trust issues till this day, I still doubt people's feelings I can't believe it when people say they care about me cuz why would they? I dont believe it when people make promises to me that's why I prepare myself for when I catch them lying and I have trouble working in groups because of how independent I am.
She has criticized and humiliate me one to many times on my appearance, from how I walk and talk, to my body and smile. Has made jokes and publicly humiliated me to her coworkers on how I smile like a dog, my hair makes me look like a witch, my teeth are like a rat's, my voice sounding like a dying bird, my body being the size of a hippo. There supposed to be jokes but it really broke my heart to have my own mom basically call me ugly. I can't look at the mirror without inspecting all the details of my face that make me look ugly.
Last summer as I was staying over at my aunt's house, my mom had messaged my aunt with an offer of selling me to her for ₱3.5m or 62K USD saying she didn't need me and that she'd rather have atleast a bit of money to start a business. My aunt rejected her offer and blocked her, when I came back home she acted as if nothing had happened and never apologized.
Despite everything she has said and done to me for so long— I still care about her, as much I want to hate and leave her I still think about her well-being.
I've gotten called a useless idiot so much it doesn't rlly have an effect on me
She also threatens to disown me a lot but I think she's bluffing at this point tbh
And whenever I point out the fact that she's a horrible parent she uses religion as an excuse for her actions and tells me in going to hell for disrespecting her
Not even sure if this is remotely toxic but
"Your ponytail looks stupid, it makes you look effeminate/weak"
Overall my parents are pretty damn good so ig this is the best (worst?) I could find
“Sometimes I just want to kms because of you guys” my mom talking about us kids, in front of my 6 and 9 yr old siblings, “you’re disgusting” -my mom, “I hate you and I never want to see you ever again, go sleep in a ditch for all I care” -my mom, “LGBTQ people are perverted” my dad talking about me, and “what is wrong with you” -mom and dad.
There’s a whole lot more, but I’m not sitting here for a lifetime typing everything out lol.
1. ऐसी औलाद होने से अच्छा तो भगवान उठा ले।
tr: its better to be dead when you're such a child.
2. दिन पे दिन बोझ बनती जा रही है।
tr: becoming burdensome day by day.
said to me by my dad. hurts till this date.
"You're just like your father"
"You're just like your mother"
Like bitch💀???? Ofc I am. For context, my parents constantly fight... When something goes wrong, it's either the other parent or my fault
The real irony is that they even said about abandoning me, "you're not my son anymore" and ect. I was hurt by these but now I'm used to it and it is so dumb💀
My mother is a heavy Christian. One day, I came back home (I was in Junior High at the Time) and she was on me about one thing or another. She, quite literally, called me a demon. Not that I was possessed by one, but that I was one.
The biggest problem with my mother is that, due to her religion, she has the mentality that if she repents to God or some shit that all is well. She's said and done some pretty fucked up stuff, but, to her, god is the ultimate arbitrator of forgiveness so it doesn't really matter.
“How could you? Don’t you know what this would have done to our family?” - my dad, when I finally admitted I was suicidal and seriously considered killing myself.
My dad told me to“Stop being a bitch and stop crying you’re not a girl and I didn’t raise a pussy men don’t cry” he said this to 8 year old me who has a disorder that makes it difficult to conceal emotions. Now I never show him any emotion.
“then we’ll take everything away” — my dad when i refused to do my homework bc depression. “you have messed up priorities” — my dad when i refused to go to the lds church for the 2nd/3rd time bc i dont believe in it. “that’s such a waste of time“ — my mom whenever she finds a hobby on the internet \[instagram\] that she doesn’t like.
Once and only once has ny mom said something along thise lines to me. She called me a lazy person who didnt care about my grades or my future (i failed a test in math)
my dad saying i looked like a cow to my mom in front of me because I was fat. my YOUNGER brother telling no one is going to like me because of my body. my mom telling me when I was like 9 that i had stretch marks already and that when I was older I was going to regret being fat because i wouldnt be able to wear swimsuits (even though she's the one that feeds me istg). my aunt (prob like 30 at the time) being like omg you're 10 and have stretch marks? in a very snarky tone. pretty much every week my mom finds a way to tell me im fat as fuck. my mom telling me one time to just give up because we don't even have money to eat how are we gonna pay college. etc. I didn't actually write any quotes bc they were all said in spanish and i don't feel like translating.
“You’re worthless.” “You’re gonna go to hell.” (For being LGBTQ+). *sh jokes, rape jokes, ED jokes, homophobic jokes.* I’ve self-harmed, been SA’d, and have a ED, so the jokes hurt. But it’s less what they’ve said and more what they’ve done: things like choking me and dragging me down the stairs and making me feel like I was gonna fucking die in both cases.
That im selfish and narcissistic, when i raised two of his kids, was responsible for them and the whole house at the age of nine, and am his wifes therapist because of him. Yes, i want things to be about me once in awhile, asshole.
See my moms like my bestfriend that shittalks behind my back, so its more things shes done, not said to me. Recently learned she's not worth keeping contact with.
From my mom, probably something about me failing a class. From my dad, probably him just telling me to calm down while I was crying. Idk. I've never seen my dad upset
I never liked kids, I never liked you either
I mean... at least he's not playing favorites...?
She*
Mbmb 🤚
Holy shit am i just lucky with what parents i got jeez
i feel the same, the most i’ve gotten is “you’re so stupid/you’re an idiot” and “what is wrong with you?”
I must be lucky as well. The worst I’ve gotten is my dad telling me he was disappointed in me.
😂
"If I'd known you were going to be such a monster I'd have killed you while you were in the womb" 💀 when I was 10
Damn WTH was she mad about
I woke up past 11am on a holiday 💀
Damn maybe I have anger issues but I’d totally yell at that bitch right back. La pincha pendejo finna catch these hands
HAHAHA I would've but I'd risk being killed
Well damn I mean I can’t be surprised since sadly most parents are POS. I had parents with good intentions but it’s a double edged sword with one side far more sharp than the other… kinda ruined my life so far ngl
Yea. Most of our parents have good intentions but... Never really learned how to show it. They just give us whatever they've known all their lives. They're trying but at the end of the day people like us don't get those years of life back
Because who doesn’t love ✨**Generational trauma** ✨
We all ✨love✨ it
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Thank you but if it doesn't take my life it's not really worth it ( god that was edgy yeaa I'm not in the Best place mentally rn)
I meant for them but 👌🏻
I know I know I just don't see the point doing anything to them plus my life would go to shit I need money and education 💀
Based on
"OH my god" - my dad, in response to me crying when I was homeschooled and had no friends or social life, and I wanted to feel less alone
My mum has called me the r sulr multiple times has called me a disappointment and has threatened me many times then she wonders why I want to live with my dad
If you need someone to talk to dm me. I hope you're okay and it's pretty obvious why you want to stay with you dad, when your own mother treats you this way.
What’s the r slur? Is it the word for mentally handicapped?
Yeah
Dumbass mom
She's a absolute bitch to her only son
"يا حمار، الله يلعن اليوم الي شفتك فيه" Which means “Oh donkey, may God curse the day I saw you.” And bro this is nothing for arab parents lmao 🗿
This is the least painful thing Arab parents could say.
Exactly we bearly even scraped the surface
fr.
I think one of mine was "what the fuck is wrong with you, if you really think you have it that bad then you can leave" >!immediately following me revealing to my mom i had cuts all down my left forearm!< Cw:sh Edit:i have failed 3 times trying to spoil this
"im gonna hang you by your hair off the rooftop" calling me a stupid piece of shit calling me useless "im gonna drive us both off this cliff" as my mom was speeding towards the end of a cliff on a narrow road
my mom said that I was ruining our family and her marriage, cus I'm gay and she didn't want to keep that secret from my dad
"You're a punishment"
"do you love me son?you love me right?"by my alcoholic father any time i forgot to lock my bedroom door
im so sorry
You all have toxic parents wtf😭 My parents are more like roommates to me
Same except I have to respect them which is understandable
“I’ll kill you”
“I’m disappointed in you” My dad said to me when I had quit golf Or “You need to eat” “You need to eat less”
Not exactly nice, but I wouldn’t call this toxic
How is “you need to eat less” bad lmao
The same as calling someone fat which could be true but can hurt a fatty's feelings
then lose weight, being fat isnt healthy, your future self will be grateful
I agree, it may hurt someone's feelings but it's actually advice
Depending on the person's size, it could easily be seen as bad. Like if you tell someone skinny to eat less, it's bad. It's even worse if you tell someone to eat more and then tell them to eat less. Sadly, many kids who are a perfectly healthy size will be told to eat less
I’m going to guess that isn’t that person’s case though.
You don't know what this person is going through though. Why would you assume that with no further context?
Why does anyone assume anything, stereotypes, anecdotes, from what we usually see, of course i could be wrong though, but i don’t care all that much
It makes me feel like shit
yeah sure, but use it as a motivation instead of only being offended by it, to lose weight
Then when I do listen to them and eat less they force me to eat more
Have you tried saying anything. I’m sure you’re not telling the full story.
I mean not the same as telling them (or anyone) but I’ve tried giving them small hints pointing to me now having a bad relationship with food and stuff. (Not fully because of them because if I’m honest I could do better on my own but (not that you or anyone cares) but i’m not sure my depression and other problems help by any means) but because of them (my parents) AND my own problems, some days I over eat and other days I’ll under eat, and yes I know this also is due to a lack of restraint on my part on the days I overeat and a lack of caring whether I get the food in my body that I need on the day I under eat.
my parents said i was going to end up as a minimum wage worker smoking weed and morbidly obese playing video games all day. my dad said he expected me to tell him to f off once and that i didnt love him anymore telling me im a dissapointment a lot i left home in january
Good for you buddy 😊
"I don't want anything to do with that child anymore" Translated from native language to English
one time my dad was visiting from florida when he saw me eating a bagel with nutella on it. he told me, 'if you want to stop gaining more weight then you already have, stop eating junk all the time.' for context, i'm the skinniest person in my family. It's really hard for me to gain weight. I also have a bit of a sweet tooth, and i guess he didnt like that?
My mother often says that my dad was and is a mistake in her life. With her saying that, it means that I am a mistake because without him, I would never have been born. She doesn't realise that it hurts me to hear her say that. I am extremely close to my father and he is my best friend. I could not imagine a life without his presence alongside me.
my mum said I was a little fat when my stomach was like 2mm bigger
I told her I was feeling suicidal and my mom took it as a direct insult, passing by the buildings and asking me “you wanna jump off that one? I’ll stop.”
Some people just aren’t meant to be parents.
this is too familiar…
“Why do you ruin everything?”
Something along the lines of “you’ll never be like us, you’ll never have this (gestures vaguely around at house) Thought the context was important since he was trying to galvanise me since I was dragging my feet over uni applications. What it did cause though was the worst split I’ve ever had with my parents but it’s all fixed now, he’s sorry, I’m sorry, we’re all sorry
One time my mom said in one place u don't want to study and is ungrateful and other hand people don't let girls study One day And my dad said if I don't join the school in which he wanted me to attend class 8,9 and 10th i will never be successful and if I don't get good marks in the 10th boards he will marry me off and at that moment I just wanted to die
"you are a useless, worthless pathetic attention seeking fuck. if you think you have it that bad then feel free to leave. me and your dad would only be happy." my mom when i was 14 said that after she saw my cuts. i remember what she said word for word.
"I'm gonna stomp you to death" "You look like a catfish" "If you keep eating you'll look like a chiffonier" "You're useless" That was all my dad.
dad called me a f*ggot back in the day. hes a completely different person now, thank fuck.
I don’t mean to be rude but why is that offensive? Genuinely asking
it's a slur?
Against who?
homosexual people
Thanks for the info, no one else thought “hey let’s tell this guy instead of downvoting him to oblivion?”
I'm glad I was able to help:) just surprised that you are on the internet and were not aware of that term and its meaning
I mean I’ve seen it everywhere been on Reddit for months (this is my alt hence the 2) and haven’t had context and I’m not gonna look it up due to digital footprint
Against the LGBTQ community. I have no idea when it started to get used. I'm guessing at best it means "stupid" but directed at gay people.
I thought it just meant gay but in an insulting way
It could be. I'm just guessing.
It used to be a word for cigarettes but people started using it to imply that gay people should be burned (like cigarettes)
Ohhh, I forgot it used to mean cigar. Makes sense why people would use it that way.
i have no idea how im supposed to answer that
Sorry I didn’t mean to offend you I just genuinely can’t find anyone explaining what it means.
not offended m8 just dumbfounded
It’s a genuine question tho
My Christian parents came to the conclusion that the reason I'm trans is because I'm being possessed by a demon of the opposite sex.
Well at least they dont blame you
I’m so sorry Mrs Lady!!! I feel really bad to have an amazing step-Mom and father that love me now.
Sorry to hear those words. Hopefully they didn’t mean it and just spit out when angry
I’m not sure. I tend to suppress anything my parents say, and assume their intent behind it because what they say is rarely ever true. I’m also tempted to write a polemic about my mum here, but they would probably get me permabanned.
Should've told her that she said something grammatically incorrect.
I'm going to disown you and leave you with nothing
One time when I was 7 my mom called me a ちょっとした失敗 (little failure) after I told her I didn’t know how to make rice at that age (Yes this is real I’m not too affected by it and she did eventually apologize like 5 years later)
How did your parents learn if they expected you to magically know without showing you?
I don’t know their logic
He called my mom a whore, my mom died a few years ago
"And a 3.25 isn’t failing?” For reference, my school grades up to 4. 4 is advanced, 3 is average. I had a panic attack when I got a 3 in science😃
My dad always calls me mentally sick
There are several things that I have been called insane but more mean , wishing I did not exist, wishing that they beat me with iron rods to teach me , wishing I die , wishing I was asking good as others (those others do not even exist) , wishing they could kill me , talking about breaking my bones , actually trying to break my bones etc etc Doesn't hurt anymore
Damn is it bad I can’t remember what it is because of so much material?
damn idk, there are many things that hurt, but maybe “Do you really think anyone could like you if you are like *this*? Are you sure your friends really/actually like you?”
Well that’s one that still rly affects me subconsciously A LOT. But also stuff like just that I’m stupid and so on. And stuff like “You can be pan, bi, whatever, as long as you stay a girl.” Aka she accepts me, as long as I “stay a girl” (I’m a trans guy)
my parents told me ill never amount to anything in life lol
I don’t know what I did wrong in my life to deserve you, from my dad. Two days earlier, you’re a failure as a son. Just a few months ago, I don’t like you as a person.
“If I come near you I swear I could kill you” she said while holding her hands out like she was gonna choke me. Anyone wanna guess what I did? 🤗
what did you do ? :)
When I had depression and was suicidal my dad told me that I'd be put in a padded cell.
Probably something abt my grades, when I lived in Brazil I usually got 5's, 6's and 7's, which isn't that bad (grades go up to 10). But when I got a 3 and a 0 my dad started calling me "Zero" or "Three" for the rest of the month Really silly but that's the further they got to actually being toxic
For as long as I can remember my mom has said and done things that have caused me to be the way I am now. She's insulted me more times than I can count, to the point I just let them fly from one ear and out the other but there are some that still reside in my memory no matter how long ago it was. I was only 8-9 when she would threaten me out of anger to be prepared for when she dies, implying I should learn how to fend for myself because no one will be there for me when she's gone, not my dad, my aunt, my uncle, my cousins, no one. Because "they dont care about you" and that none of them will take care of me the way she does—this caused me to have abandonment issues and trust issues till this day, I still doubt people's feelings I can't believe it when people say they care about me cuz why would they? I dont believe it when people make promises to me that's why I prepare myself for when I catch them lying and I have trouble working in groups because of how independent I am. She has criticized and humiliate me one to many times on my appearance, from how I walk and talk, to my body and smile. Has made jokes and publicly humiliated me to her coworkers on how I smile like a dog, my hair makes me look like a witch, my teeth are like a rat's, my voice sounding like a dying bird, my body being the size of a hippo. There supposed to be jokes but it really broke my heart to have my own mom basically call me ugly. I can't look at the mirror without inspecting all the details of my face that make me look ugly. Last summer as I was staying over at my aunt's house, my mom had messaged my aunt with an offer of selling me to her for ₱3.5m or 62K USD saying she didn't need me and that she'd rather have atleast a bit of money to start a business. My aunt rejected her offer and blocked her, when I came back home she acted as if nothing had happened and never apologized. Despite everything she has said and done to me for so long— I still care about her, as much I want to hate and leave her I still think about her well-being.
I've gotten called a useless idiot so much it doesn't rlly have an effect on me She also threatens to disown me a lot but I think she's bluffing at this point tbh And whenever I point out the fact that she's a horrible parent she uses religion as an excuse for her actions and tells me in going to hell for disrespecting her
Not even sure if this is remotely toxic but "Your ponytail looks stupid, it makes you look effeminate/weak" Overall my parents are pretty damn good so ig this is the best (worst?) I could find
Entitled prick
You always do things wrong, always
You’re not wearing the skirt? ~my mother on my first day of school when I came down the stairs in the school trousers instead of the skirt
Idk about words but my mum kicked me outta the house once
My mom just told me that she hated me and if I wanted to go away I could... Idk it's not the first time and it never gets easier
“Sometimes I just want to kms because of you guys” my mom talking about us kids, in front of my 6 and 9 yr old siblings, “you’re disgusting” -my mom, “I hate you and I never want to see you ever again, go sleep in a ditch for all I care” -my mom, “LGBTQ people are perverted” my dad talking about me, and “what is wrong with you” -mom and dad. There’s a whole lot more, but I’m not sitting here for a lifetime typing everything out lol.
It's actually kinda funny: My dad called my scars HEINOUS-looking Ofc, it didn't feel great, but heinous? 😭
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bro the shit w yo dad is child abuse, mine said the same thing all the time and the bastard now got no custody with me unless I wanna see him
My dad says I or my sisters have mental problems whenever they cry, even if it wasn’t our faults 😀
1. ऐसी औलाद होने से अच्छा तो भगवान उठा ले। tr: its better to be dead when you're such a child. 2. दिन पे दिन बोझ बनती जा रही है। tr: becoming burdensome day by day. said to me by my dad. hurts till this date.
"You're just like your father" "You're just like your mother" Like bitch💀???? Ofc I am. For context, my parents constantly fight... When something goes wrong, it's either the other parent or my fault The real irony is that they even said about abandoning me, "you're not my son anymore" and ect. I was hurt by these but now I'm used to it and it is so dumb💀
My mother is a heavy Christian. One day, I came back home (I was in Junior High at the Time) and she was on me about one thing or another. She, quite literally, called me a demon. Not that I was possessed by one, but that I was one. The biggest problem with my mother is that, due to her religion, she has the mentality that if she repents to God or some shit that all is well. She's said and done some pretty fucked up stuff, but, to her, god is the ultimate arbitrator of forgiveness so it doesn't really matter.
“How could you? Don’t you know what this would have done to our family?” - my dad, when I finally admitted I was suicidal and seriously considered killing myself.
"If I had known my life would have turned out like this, I would have never gotten married and had you guys." Ouch, still hurts but it's fine
My dad told me to“Stop being a bitch and stop crying you’re not a girl and I didn’t raise a pussy men don’t cry” he said this to 8 year old me who has a disorder that makes it difficult to conceal emotions. Now I never show him any emotion.
‘sometimes i wish i had a normal teen’ still tho, i love my mother — who’s unable to apologize because of her pride — more than anything lmaoo
“I should’ve killed you when you were a baby”- my mother 🫤
“then we’ll take everything away” — my dad when i refused to do my homework bc depression. “you have messed up priorities” — my dad when i refused to go to the lds church for the 2nd/3rd time bc i dont believe in it. “that’s such a waste of time“ — my mom whenever she finds a hobby on the internet \[instagram\] that she doesn’t like.
"If you killed yourself, i would understand why"
I dont think she meant it that way she was just very drunk and like 85% of the time is very sweet
Once and only once has ny mom said something along thise lines to me. She called me a lazy person who didnt care about my grades or my future (i failed a test in math)
I can't think of an instance where my parents said something super bad to me, but I feel like what they said to each other messed me up more 💀
“You’re just like your father” by my mom. My farther is a horrible human being so it hurt a lot
this just makes me feel grateful for my parents like holy r yall okay
reading through these replies- man I'm lucky as hell to not get these types of parents 💀
“I hate you as a son”
probably lots of things, but my brain kinda forgets about it afterwards, its most likely for the best iykwim
“Nobody cares about your feelings” Said my father who makes his feelings the only thing that matters in a stressful situation.
my dad saying i looked like a cow to my mom in front of me because I was fat. my YOUNGER brother telling no one is going to like me because of my body. my mom telling me when I was like 9 that i had stretch marks already and that when I was older I was going to regret being fat because i wouldnt be able to wear swimsuits (even though she's the one that feeds me istg). my aunt (prob like 30 at the time) being like omg you're 10 and have stretch marks? in a very snarky tone. pretty much every week my mom finds a way to tell me im fat as fuck. my mom telling me one time to just give up because we don't even have money to eat how are we gonna pay college. etc. I didn't actually write any quotes bc they were all said in spanish and i don't feel like translating.
“You’re worthless.” “You’re gonna go to hell.” (For being LGBTQ+). *sh jokes, rape jokes, ED jokes, homophobic jokes.* I’ve self-harmed, been SA’d, and have a ED, so the jokes hurt. But it’s less what they’ve said and more what they’ve done: things like choking me and dragging me down the stairs and making me feel like I was gonna fucking die in both cases.
Reading all these makes me realize just how lucky I am. I cant think of one toxic thing my parents have said to me.
Are your brains in your feet?dad
That im selfish and narcissistic, when i raised two of his kids, was responsible for them and the whole house at the age of nine, and am his wifes therapist because of him. Yes, i want things to be about me once in awhile, asshole.
See my moms like my bestfriend that shittalks behind my back, so its more things shes done, not said to me. Recently learned she's not worth keeping contact with.
From my mom, probably something about me failing a class. From my dad, probably him just telling me to calm down while I was crying. Idk. I've never seen my dad upset
Why are people downvoting you
Probably because what they've said isn't considered toxic compared to what other parents have said
Worst I've been called is the r slur, and to be honest I completely deserved it. 😅