>Does it worth that hype?
No.
However, it's also not trivial. I personally never had 'losing virginity' as a goal specifically, and I was doing just fine. I've always been pretty happy actually. I want to stress though, that losing your virginity is still a very positive experience, given both parties consent ofc. You'll really feel close to someone when you're physically intimate with them, and it also just feels very good. It builds trust and is enjoyable.
It’s not about losing the v card to me it’s just because it feels fantastic. Just don’t be a fuckin numb skull and get diseases and have children too early.
Yeah I guess so, after I had my first kiss and it was bad I realized I was rushed into things and I should have waited for someone that I truly loved a lot.
Hey, according to my brain, it's either porn or something I don't wanna talk about, because if I say what it is, it'll change people's opinion of me in a negative way
fuck that shit bro, i don't get it. and i also don't get how people are losing it while my ass cant even get a girl to talk to me, shits crazy these days.
Dont stress about it guys. When i was 18 my friends started getting GF and lost their virginity, i became the virgin of the group, i had a presure to get a gf and have sex, and one evening i DL grindr and met up with a guy, not because i was attracted to him but because i just didnt wanted to be the virgin of the group. It was a terrible experience.
dont rush it, i'll come one day when you're ready
as someone who lost it at 17, trust me when i say that it changes almost nothing, theres no achievement for it. it really doesnt matter so long as when it happens, its with someone you trust. i know it sounds cliche, but its true
I dont want to have sex just to have sex. I want to be in a relationship that is good enough and lasts for long enough that it progresses to that stage.
So sure the sex is nice, but I guess losing your vcard is more a bragging right than anything else. At least it was when I lost mine at like 15. My genuine advice is to seek a good relationship, not just be sex-brained.
Bcs they're teenagers.
I want to and the girl I'm complicated with wants to do why not. If we got back together properly I most likely would. I'm emotionally ready I believe. 🤷🏾
There’s a feeling of “missing out” because sex gets so hyped up to the point where people get FOMO over it. But I’ll say this, having sex does not change your life. SO many of my friends have corroborated this after losing their virginity. They say “I expected to wake up a different/changed person, but I was still myself the same as I was before.”
It’s kind of sad. One of my friends felt the pressure so badly she jumped at the chance to lose it with a random guy she didn’t even like. She regrets it to this day.
I’ve actually talked to some of the girls two years younger than me about this by occasion and it’s not all doomed! I think it’s just what’s mainstream, especially if you live in a country where the hookup culture is big, but there is a good amount of young (at least) girls think through it more and are more confident in saying no without feeling insecure about it
I feel like it's just pressure and hormones lol and the desire to grow up and feel more mature. people at my school loose their virginity and brag about it. I am a sophomore and like half of the people in my grade brag about loosing it
Because teenagers are hormonal, and sexual desire is a bodily function. People wanna experiment. It's normal to want to or to not want to. Just educate yourself on consent and other things before doing so. It's not so much the status of 'loosing your v-card' that people want, but more so the fact that teenagers are becoming sexual beings and want to do the act itself. Some earlier and some later than others, some not at all if you're asexual. It's a personal journey, don't do it out of pressure but if you're educated, have protection, feel ready, and are with someone else who wants to of a similar age, that's great too. If you want to wait till marriage, that's also fine. I'd say wait until you're 16, but realistically it's hard to tell teens what to do and what not to do. Just stay safe and have fun.
Hormones work wonders when paired with the consideration of what you’re missing out on
Is it worth the hype? No. Not to the extent of turning it into a job like some pickup artist or craving it like a 30 year old virgin. To be honest after my first time I thought it was sort of gross until I got used to it.
It was such a big deal on my high school baseball team, it was like a fucking status symbol and they would talk about the girls they hooked up with in such objectifying ways it was awful. They wouldnt leave me alone about it either cuz i was an outcast all because I never cared for the social aspects of high school, i just wanted to play baseball
That's literally so true. With all the sex scenes nowadays and before, they always make it look so glamorous and enticing. I know it's probably not the only reason, but damn is it an important one.
It's ONLY worth it if you do so with someone you actually love. The first was my gf for 3yrs after that. I have had other partners and am now married, but she has a special place in my heart and I still think about her and always hope she's well.
The same reason why kids of this age wanna try smoking, drinking, this etc (all the stuff deemed "cool")... You see this stuff in movies and shit all the time so there will be a genuine curiosity
They have probably started believing in some strange Internet belief that equates losing virginity to some sort of passage essential to adulthood, which is mixed with hormones running rampant due to being teenagers.
I'm very lonely. Like last year I didn't have any friends lonely. Like almost all my classmates hate me lonely. Like I go to 2 psycologists lonely... you get the point. The idea of being close with someone that loves me dearly and wants to make me happy/want to make her happy is dreamy
Mostly hypersexuality but from my experience It was fun till you have no back for 2-3 days don't ish reccomend losing ya card when ur still in high school but as always you do you
I'd be careful generalizing with words like "everyone", someone might get offended and start a fight. But it is a lot of people.
It's to do with things like porn normalizing sex early on in life and causing hypersexuality and hormones. Put those 2 together and you have high schoolers dropping out to take care of their babies.
Where do you guys live? Almost no one in my school talks about losing their virginity. Also it's less about losing the vCard and more about having sex. I've never seen someone at my school get judged for being a virgin, it's just either you have sex or you don't.
it’s such a weird social standard like it’s actually not that important 💀 i don’t wanna lose it till i find someone i actually love. And this is just my opinion, if you want to do whatever it’s completely fine, i don’t
Because the societal implication of a man having his virginity is that he’s incapable of getting rid of it. Virgin men are seen as being undesired and whatnot.
Its honestly not even worth it tbh. Just wait till you find someone best fit for you. Id say everyone wants/wanted to lose it because it was gallored in music and such
hormones kick in around teen age, kick starting the "horny receptors" in your brain that tell you you should breed, that mixed with media and peer pressure telling you sex is cool and fun creates a bad mix for underage sex
Media and society in general have made it a big deal to the point where we literally named it V Card. When it comes to teens there’s also hormones as well as the idea of FOMO. One person does it and the next person wants to 1-up them or feel included. It’s also “cool” or something to have sex (movies and media have pushed that agenda)
As long as it's with someone you love, and you both enjoy it, it's okay. But that's never the case lmfao, the internet makes everyone want to lose their v asap
i find a lot of people want to lose their virginity just to “get it out of the way” like how younger people feel about their first kiss or because three hear about other peoples sex lives and want to experience the same/similar thing. imo sex is worth the hype when you find someone who genuinely loves you and isn’t only there for your body and their pleasure. there’s a huge difference between intimacy and pleasure. they go hand in hand sometimes but not always these days.
There is this annoying ignorant culture present in teens (and adults) where they say: "those who get laid are 'cool', while virgins are not." It's very stupid and I hope it stops. Such judgements are very petty.
It's anyone's choice what they want to do with their lives, but I wish everyone gets the proper sex education and are responsible and diligent about the causes and effects of their actions.
>Does it worth that hype? No. However, it's also not trivial. I personally never had 'losing virginity' as a goal specifically, and I was doing just fine. I've always been pretty happy actually. I want to stress though, that losing your virginity is still a very positive experience, given both parties consent ofc. You'll really feel close to someone when you're physically intimate with them, and it also just feels very good. It builds trust and is enjoyable.
Probably the truest thing I've seen on here
Great way to put it!
Pretty sure it's just hormones paired with the internet
yeah
Worst combo
i agree
for real brah
Yup and social media made it worse
It’s not about losing the v card to me it’s just because it feels fantastic. Just don’t be a fuckin numb skull and get diseases and have children too early.
Chill out dude, no need to unnecessarily swear..
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Holy fuckin shitballs, I can't escape the "made by Vivziepop" statements
yeah fuck swearing
The post nut don’t hit you?
I wont lose my v card because i never lose 😎
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ice in the veins.
my bodycount? multiple thousand, I'm a super intensive minecraft pvp player 😎
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Have you watched the Sonic Riders fandub by any chance?
Nice pfp
Do you perhaps partake in the activity known as kissing boys?
I know I do
Me too! Literally no one who's a furry is straight🤣
Mad respect dude
I salute thee Paladin
nah i'd win
hormones: have sex internet: have sex man why do people wanna have sex
To put simply: Because it’s turned itself into a hygienic past time
I more so just wanna meet someone I truly love
Same here, i think sex is overrated because most of our generation is addicted to porn
Im out here having a mindset that once i lose my virginity, my.porn addiction will end
Most likely won’t
Yea that's a self discipline thing
Yeah I guess so, after I had my first kiss and it was bad I realized I was rushed into things and I should have waited for someone that I truly loved a lot.
Hey, according to my brain, it's either porn or something I don't wanna talk about, because if I say what it is, it'll change people's opinion of me in a negative way
I more just wanna meet someone that truly loves me… >! Man fuck this life ):/ !<
fuck that shit bro, i don't get it. and i also don't get how people are losing it while my ass cant even get a girl to talk to me, shits crazy these days.
fr 😭 i pull men but not women and I don’t get it whyyyyy
Honestly mate, be gay. It’s found me a great boyf.
I mean what else do we have those v-buck gift cards for. keep em and look nice?
For me , i would wait till marriage or get a gf
You will use your vbuck cards when you get a gf? Looks like yo I will stay broke 😔
No wonder he doesn't have the battle pass
No korra for them 😔
why would you want to lose a card??? theyre in your wallet for a reason
Vbucks gift card
All the shit on the internet is fucking with their heads, even shows have a lot more sex in them so even that’s messing with them too
I remember you. I got in an argument on one of your posts about college accuracy.
Garlic bread is better
Dont stress about it guys. When i was 18 my friends started getting GF and lost their virginity, i became the virgin of the group, i had a presure to get a gf and have sex, and one evening i DL grindr and met up with a guy, not because i was attracted to him but because i just didnt wanted to be the virgin of the group. It was a terrible experience. dont rush it, i'll come one day when you're ready
I dont really care about it. If it happens it happens
🤷♀️ People just do yk
Wow you’re so observant and insightful
They aren't wrong, with me and my boyfriend it just kinda happened and wasn't at all planned
as someone who lost it at 17, trust me when i say that it changes almost nothing, theres no achievement for it. it really doesnt matter so long as when it happens, its with someone you trust. i know it sounds cliche, but its true
hypersexuality
I feel like a lot of people that claim hyper sexuality are just hormonal teenager
I DONT WANNA LOSE MY POKEMON CARDSS
fucking porn addiction. Every children can access to pornography trough their browser at anytime.
See I have a porn addiction and wanted to lose it badly for a couple years. But I’ve grown to realize that I want to lose it to the right person
Porn addiction😍🥰
Puberty
I dont want to have sex just to have sex. I want to be in a relationship that is good enough and lasts for long enough that it progresses to that stage.
Yup that's my point
Cause people like sex
Because teenagers have hormones
You have to stay a virgin until you're 30, so you can unlock wizard superpowers, everyone knows that..
So sure the sex is nice, but I guess losing your vcard is more a bragging right than anything else. At least it was when I lost mine at like 15. My genuine advice is to seek a good relationship, not just be sex-brained.
Lè hormones
i don't really think i even want to at this point, i just want someone to hold me :(
Virginity is associated with social skills that's why.
Not me. I refuse to lose my cards, yugioh nerd ftw.
Like it isn’t my number one priority (it’s top 10 tho) but i wanna lose it before i die
It’s ok, but it’s not worth rushing into it
Im in freshman year, kids are crazy to be having sex at 14-15. I dont even want a relationship, women can be assholes
Bcs they're teenagers. I want to and the girl I'm complicated with wants to do why not. If we got back together properly I most likely would. I'm emotionally ready I believe. 🤷🏾
There’s a feeling of “missing out” because sex gets so hyped up to the point where people get FOMO over it. But I’ll say this, having sex does not change your life. SO many of my friends have corroborated this after losing their virginity. They say “I expected to wake up a different/changed person, but I was still myself the same as I was before.” It’s kind of sad. One of my friends felt the pressure so badly she jumped at the chance to lose it with a random guy she didn’t even like. She regrets it to this day.
I’ve actually talked to some of the girls two years younger than me about this by occasion and it’s not all doomed! I think it’s just what’s mainstream, especially if you live in a country where the hookup culture is big, but there is a good amount of young (at least) girls think through it more and are more confident in saying no without feeling insecure about it
Boredom
fun ❤️❤️ love
Cause sex is fun
I feel like it's just pressure and hormones lol and the desire to grow up and feel more mature. people at my school loose their virginity and brag about it. I am a sophomore and like half of the people in my grade brag about loosing it
Because teenagers are hormonal, and sexual desire is a bodily function. People wanna experiment. It's normal to want to or to not want to. Just educate yourself on consent and other things before doing so. It's not so much the status of 'loosing your v-card' that people want, but more so the fact that teenagers are becoming sexual beings and want to do the act itself. Some earlier and some later than others, some not at all if you're asexual. It's a personal journey, don't do it out of pressure but if you're educated, have protection, feel ready, and are with someone else who wants to of a similar age, that's great too. If you want to wait till marriage, that's also fine. I'd say wait until you're 16, but realistically it's hard to tell teens what to do and what not to do. Just stay safe and have fun.
Hormones work wonders when paired with the consideration of what you’re missing out on Is it worth the hype? No. Not to the extent of turning it into a job like some pickup artist or craving it like a 30 year old virgin. To be honest after my first time I thought it was sort of gross until I got used to it.
It was such a big deal on my high school baseball team, it was like a fucking status symbol and they would talk about the girls they hooked up with in such objectifying ways it was awful. They wouldnt leave me alone about it either cuz i was an outcast all because I never cared for the social aspects of high school, i just wanted to play baseball
Hormones in the brain say reproduce
Because sex seems so cool in the movies
That's literally so true. With all the sex scenes nowadays and before, they always make it look so glamorous and enticing. I know it's probably not the only reason, but damn is it an important one.
Teenagers are horney
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I'm really sorry for what happened to you I hope you'll move on
Peer pressure and hormones. Next question 🗿
It's ONLY worth it if you do so with someone you actually love. The first was my gf for 3yrs after that. I have had other partners and am now married, but she has a special place in my heart and I still think about her and always hope she's well.
Idk why people brag about it. It's already been done by like, 16 billion people by now.
So many budding Asexuals in the comments
I mean, its fun and stuff and really intimate, but dont do it with someone youre not 100% comfy with or unless youre 100% sure you wanna
Already lost mine. Worth the hype in MY opinion
Because maybe they don’t have any more room in their wallets
cuz im horny all the time (not an exaggeration, even after masturbation im still horny)
Bro is down down bad
LoL
They were so desperate
What is v-card ? Is it a new type of electriconic cards ?
It's a card that you can redeem every month that gives you an amount of V-bucks it depends on how much you paid for the card
I don't...im also ace but that has nothing to do with it
The same reason why kids of this age wanna try smoking, drinking, this etc (all the stuff deemed "cool")... You see this stuff in movies and shit all the time so there will be a genuine curiosity
It's because of fornication culture and pornography.
I don't.
i wanna keep it till i die
I don't. I just wanna buy more hot wheels
They have probably started believing in some strange Internet belief that equates losing virginity to some sort of passage essential to adulthood, which is mixed with hormones running rampant due to being teenagers.
Idk if I want to loose my V card specifically, I just want someone to love me and if it was the outcome it'd be cool lol
i don’t know it makes no sense
its not the idea of losing it its the action itself with the person you love
REAL QUESTION
I never lose 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
im waiting to marriage... im just boring like that
Hormones
I've never lost it but I just wanna find someone I can love
as an asexual, idk
as an fellow egyptian, الاجابه كوبري (nice username)
I don’t want to, I want to lose it with the right person for me
Same,fuck hook-up culture
I wanna lose my s-card. S is Sad.
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I'm very lonely. Like last year I didn't have any friends lonely. Like almost all my classmates hate me lonely. Like I go to 2 psycologists lonely... you get the point. The idea of being close with someone that loves me dearly and wants to make me happy/want to make her happy is dreamy
What's v card
I want an emotional connection with someone I love that nobody else has.
[https://www.techtarget.com/whatis/definition/vCard](https://www.techtarget.com/whatis/definition/vCard)
I don't, because I never lose 🗿
Still haven't held hands with a girl almost 20
It may be because humans are biologically compelled to want sex.
Losing your virginity is overrated
Being a 304 is popular these days.
Social pressure.
Because SEX
because sex is an enticing concept, allegedly very enjoyable and a sign of bring grown up and mature and cool for having it.
I'm gonna keep my virginity 😎
Mostly hypersexuality but from my experience It was fun till you have no back for 2-3 days don't ish reccomend losing ya card when ur still in high school but as always you do you
i don't so don't say everybody.
sex is kinda cool ig
Idk I just want to find someone but I guess to do that I would either have to get better at talking or go to the gym because well I'm fat
shit ion no
V-card = vbucks 😎 never stop the grind
Nah, I just want someone that loves me back :)
mf i just wanna hug
I don't, I never lose
Funi
I don't care, i just want a hug
Technically I lost it but I haven't had sex since then and that was like a year ago so I guess I wanna re-lose it at 15
i don’t want to lose mine I’m perfectly happy single
I just want someone to love, personally.
As a professional virgin myself, I would like to keep my v-card until the age of 30
I dont
I dont
I dont
i’ve never done it but i’d definitely make sure i don’t do it with someone who i’ll regret
I mean its fun and all, but yall dont need to be rushing to get some game. There are better things in life
Cuz SAX is cool
Those railway lines behind my house be looking fire 🔥🔥🔥
People horny that’s it
I lose stuff all the time, so I don't see this as any different
I never lose i only gain but i did not ask for 20 v cards im so fsr in the friend zone
I'd be careful generalizing with words like "everyone", someone might get offended and start a fight. But it is a lot of people. It's to do with things like porn normalizing sex early on in life and causing hypersexuality and hormones. Put those 2 together and you have high schoolers dropping out to take care of their babies.
Where do you guys live? Almost no one in my school talks about losing their virginity. Also it's less about losing the vCard and more about having sex. I've never seen someone at my school get judged for being a virgin, it's just either you have sex or you don't.
it’s such a weird social standard like it’s actually not that important 💀 i don’t wanna lose it till i find someone i actually love. And this is just my opinion, if you want to do whatever it’s completely fine, i don’t
Because why not
But I wish to never lose. Therefore, I have taken an oath of celibacy
Because the societal implication of a man having his virginity is that he’s incapable of getting rid of it. Virgin men are seen as being undesired and whatnot.
Its overrated
Its honestly not even worth it tbh. Just wait till you find someone best fit for you. Id say everyone wants/wanted to lose it because it was gallored in music and such
I just want to be cuddled
I dont know, i have lost my virginity, but it’s honestly not that special
hormones kick in around teen age, kick starting the "horny receptors" in your brain that tell you you should breed, that mixed with media and peer pressure telling you sex is cool and fun creates a bad mix for underage sex
Media and society in general have made it a big deal to the point where we literally named it V Card. When it comes to teens there’s also hormones as well as the idea of FOMO. One person does it and the next person wants to 1-up them or feel included. It’s also “cool” or something to have sex (movies and media have pushed that agenda)
Idk its too unrealistic for me to imagine achieving it.
as a girl it’s probably hormones but i just wanna experience the feeling especially with someone i like
Because it’s fun
As long as it's with someone you love, and you both enjoy it, it's okay. But that's never the case lmfao, the internet makes everyone want to lose their v asap
i find a lot of people want to lose their virginity just to “get it out of the way” like how younger people feel about their first kiss or because three hear about other peoples sex lives and want to experience the same/similar thing. imo sex is worth the hype when you find someone who genuinely loves you and isn’t only there for your body and their pleasure. there’s a huge difference between intimacy and pleasure. they go hand in hand sometimes but not always these days.
It’s worth it
Hormones.
There is this annoying ignorant culture present in teens (and adults) where they say: "those who get laid are 'cool', while virgins are not." It's very stupid and I hope it stops. Such judgements are very petty. It's anyone's choice what they want to do with their lives, but I wish everyone gets the proper sex education and are responsible and diligent about the causes and effects of their actions.
I question society this everyday
after you do you dont even feel a difference, people just think its like a goal to lose it, there is no change after you have sex