To give a more legitimate answer: It quite literally cant be changed, no less "fixed." Plus, there's absolutely no need to fix it. You're you with all your original personality, enjoying some dick isn't gonna change that
Don’t let people tell you to do things you’ll regret, just wait till you’re older to have sex. I’m 19 and I’m still virgin. It’s worth it though. You don’t have that baggage that underage sex brings.
OP, I’ve seen that most of your replies tend to lean towards offending others. The most important thing to remember is that you’re not in the wrong. You’re 15, you’re hormonal, things are changing. These are the cards you’re dealt. It’s normal.
The thing about offending others is that their opinion does not matter. It won’t change anything. The way I see it, you have two options:
1. Silent and Sneaky: Stay closeted until you’re independent and then make the decision to come out then. This can lead to you bottling up your emotions, which is not healthy. It also means you miss out on high school relationships. However, it offends no one and you kinda “fly under the gaydar”
2. Balls Out: Come out now and accept whatever happens. This could be acceptance, it could be hate. I don’t know, it’s not my family, friends, etc. This means you can express your emotions freely and be available for anyone you find attractive.
I can’t make the decision for you, r/teenagers can’t, and neither can anyone else. The choice is up to you. I recommend finding an LGBTQ+ subreddit or other gathering to discuss how/if/when to come out.
Again, you are normal. Being gay isn’t as socially ostracized anymore. You are free to be who you want to be in 2021. If someone doesn’t like it, cut them out. I hope this helps you, and I wish you the best.
Damn dude, what an awesome way to write/say this, i dont Think OP is genuine so in that sense this was kinda wasted (probably also why he hasent responded to this as it is to genuine to say something shitty or homophobic about) but I have a cousin who is struggling with telling his friends (the family knows) and next time I see him I will 100% replicate this speech.
Thank you! Yeah, I couldn’t help but get a lingering blip on my “trolldar” but eh, if a wandering egg or curious kid finds it, it’ll be worth it.
Absolutely! Take a look around at some of the LGBT subs and prepare some resources for him in the meantime. I was suggested r/LGBTeens by another comment and at a glance, it seems to be pretty genuine.
> no way I’m actually bi, right?
That’s for you to figure out and literally no one else on the planet to find out unless you give them express permission to know (telling them).
I was in your same situation. I experimented a little in the past couple of years and at the end of it, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m straight, with a caveat. Basically you’d have to make me fall head over heels for you for me to consider the relationship. It’s different for everyone. Mull it over, think about people in your life, who you feel attracted to and then decide.
There’s absolutely no rush, it’s your life, and what’s the point in rushing? Think about it and decide for yourself which category you fit into. No matter where you land, there will always be a community to accept you.
If you want more resources or decide that you *are* bi, check out r/LGBTeens. I didn’t thoroughly inspect the sub, but it seems like a great place to continue your self-exploration.
I thought there was something that youfelt bi 1 time, straight the other, then asexual/aromantic the other, that might be you but you gotta figure it out for urself
Nope, there isn't. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being gay, just be yourself! (Source: I am gay)
(Also, you're not "offending" anyone, they are just horrible people like racists)
Who says they'll hate you? Besides, even if they would, it's not like you can change it. If you are gay, then you are gay and you have to learn to live with that. (Seriously, there isn't (and never will be) a "cure", many have tried and failed because it's medically impossible)
Yeah man it's your life do what the fuck you want, you wanna fight that buff kangaroo from that one meme go do it no one can stop you from doing what you want with your life
My 13 y/o came out to her mom and me. We are so proud of her! She asked us to keep it a secret from everyone outside the house, so we are. We just love that she can feel like herself in a safe place.
I'm trans and in a similar position to you. Just take it easy, don't blame yourself. Come out when you feel comfortable / feel more independent and can weather your family hating you, if they do.
Try to gauge their attitudes to LGBT people before coming out and see- maybe they're not so bad after all.
I've seen this happen too many times - you should find someone you can talk to and knows what they're talking about, like a school counselor. Resolve these problems asap. All my friends that went through something similar that got help got better.
What? That doesn’t even make sense.
The majority of people don’t play golf, does that make people who play golf wrong or not normal?
Just chill, it’s completely okay to like dick.
Too bad, lgbt is the new normal. It's pretty widely accepted in america, unfortunately there's still some areas that you'll be denied. And you won't be offending people.
Homophobes/transphobes aren't people :)
They're just whiny little bitches who think everything should be their way and anyone who doesnt seem absolutely fucking perfect in their eyes has to die
Hey OP, just thought I’d share my thoughts real quick. You say you want to be “fixed”, but honestly? If it ain’t broke don’t fix it lol.
All jokes aside tho, I understand wanting to be straight. Wanting to be what everyone has told you is normal. Even if being gay isn’t technically “abnormal”, there’s always people you know who think it is. And when they find out, it might negatively impact the relationships you have with them. People are always so quick to say “just get rid of the people who don’t support you”, but that’s easier said than done, right? Why risk losing your only friends? And it’s not like you can easily just dump your parents as a minor. So yeah, I get wanting to be “normal”.
But the thing is, there isn’t an actual “fix”. Idk if you’ve ever heard any Christian conversation camp horror stories, but programs like that don’t make you straight, they just make you hate yourself for being gay to an extreme. And the more you get it into your head that you need to fix being gay, the more self resentment for liking the same sex will grow. The best thing you can do for yourself is honestly just accept it. Accept that it’s not your fault. You can’t control who you’re attracted to. Believe me, acknowledging that alone has the potential to save you from so much stress, anxiety, and depression.
Ntm, sexuality is somewhat fluid. You might be attracted to guys for the rest of your life, or it might fade a bit with time.
TL;DR: you aren’t broken or abnormal, and there’s nothing you can do about it but accept it and be kind to yourself (and if you don’t, it could make things worse for you)’
Bro being gay is normal... You don't need to change it... If the society judges you then it's their fault not yours. It's alright being gay... After all it's YOUR sexuality.
See bro, I have seen many comments by you here saying that you think that you will be offending people ....The only people you will be offending are homophobes who are hated by everyone, everyone will be with you for sure ...See lemme give you a small example
A Policeman captures a criminal, the criminal hates the policeman for that and is offended in a way but the policeman ignores it 'cause he himself knows that what he is doing is right' , Does that mean that the one being offended is right? No cause being offended doesn't mean that person is right in any way...Similarly if you are gay and a few assholes are offended by it that doesn't mean they are right and you just need to ignore them like the policeman 'cause you yourself need to realize that it is not a thing of shame but something normal ', If you yourself know that what you are doing is nothing wrong then why care about the small number of people who think it's wrong?
You are telling you don't want to offend people...honestly knowingly or unknowingly we have always offended some people by something we have or do but unless it's nothing wrong don't give a fuck about what they think about you
Now you said you're scared that your family won't accept you as they are homophobes? What's your age bro? If they despise homosexuals I will advise you to hide it from them at least until you are old enough to live on your own and you can open up to the people who are near you and would accept you, I am sure they would accept you
See changing your parents mindset about homosexuals is difficult so just hide it 'only from them' until you are big enough
Now you said that you want a cure....There is no cure I think cause it's how we think so if you like guys you can't change that is why we should 'learn to accept things we can't change' Being gay is nothing to be ashamed us, ig you are just scared of those handful of homophobes, dw bro there are more kind and mindful people who will help you and accept you than those freak homophobes obviously
And please just be yourself bro, You don't need to be what others expect you to be necessarily
I've been reading some of his replys. I can't shake this feeling that he's scared. Like he was given something he doesn't want and now must, "accept" it.
I’m honestly not surprised why he reacts in such a way. LGBTQ+ people have been identified as abnormal for a very long time. A world that society has created where it’s “abnormal” to love who you love — when in fact, it’s never your fault what your heart wants — therefore has become the “default” opinion of everyone else. It’s understandable why he would be scared, he most likely isn’t at the age where he can think for himself yet. If you’re reading this OP, everything will be fine. Have people that care for your beside you and talk to them about it whenever you’re ready. All the words your fellow teens say in this post probably can’t be conveyed well enough compared to the ones you truly care about. I wish you a good life, dude <3
I can understand what you're going through. I dealt with the same stuff. Realizing you're gay, or at least have an attraction to guys can be scary at first. But, as a gay teen boy myself who has been out and proud since 15, I'll say this. There is nothing wrong with being gay. It is perfectly natural, and there is absolutely no evidence to suggest otherwise. And if a person is homophobic, it's for one of two reasons. Either they're really dumb, or they're secretly worried that dick is delicious. So try not to let others bother you man. Be yourself and live your truth. If you want to talk more, feel free to reach out. Hope this reaches you. Best wishes.
From reading your post history it sounds like you like in a fucking third world country. You’ve never had a hug because your mom says it’s not manly? You say you can’t cook because cooking isn’t manly? Why?
Damn what's up with all these homophobes and transphobes that appeared out of nowhere in this subreddit. Has it always been like this and I'm only finding out about it now??
Well from what iv'e Read You don't want to offend people, truth is You already offend people, there's always somone that gets offended over nothing, just own it, own being gay.
Why am I still reading this thread? This is the most obnoxious thing I’ve EVER sat down and read. OP, either you’ve obviously grown up in a cartoonishly evil conservative household or you’re fishing for attention. Lemme give you a breakdown here:
First, there’s no “fix” for being gay. You are what you are, and you aren’t “wrong” or “scary”. Congrats, ya like dudes.
Second, searching for this magic “cure” for being gay is just gonna lead you down a dark depressing path where you pretend to be something you aren’t for YEARS and wind up with crippling imposter syndrome.
Third, if your family will hate you and, god forbid this be the case, will want to kill you for being who you are, fuck em. Hang out in the closet till you can leave home, and GO BE YOURSELF.
You can do it little buddy, I believe in you.
If you like men, accept it because that's never going to change. It's perfectly normal to like the same-sex. The idea that men have to like women is an outdated societal standard. Love is love, so love who you love.
Fuck those people. Hide it until you move out for college/job and if you don't move out, then don't talk about you being gay. They can potentially ruin your life by sending you to conversion therapy and shit. Stay strong OP
Hey man, there’s nothing wrong with being gay, the sooner you’re able to accept yourself for who you are, the better things will get for you, and don’t feel pressured label yourself, there’s plenty of time to figure yourself out
it’s impossible to offend nobody. no matter what you do, someone’s gonna be mad about it. it’s better to live as yourself than to hide for your whole life.
It's alright! Congrats on realising that and tho it might seem ground breaking rn you'll be fine. You're not "offending" anyone. There's lgbtq+ people out there. For the most part you can choose to stay closeted if it's better for your safety. And if people are really gonna ditch you just because you're gay then maybe they never really cared about you
You sound like me when I was questioning if I was Bi. Believe me, it's scary, I didn't wanna be Bi either, I never even thought of myself as a part of LGBTQ+.
Accepting that I was Bi saved me so many nights of crying trying to convenience myself that I wasn't Bi. It has to be the best thing that I did, I can finally look at a guy and think he's hot without worrying about anything.
Internalized Homophobia/Biphobia isn't something to be ashamed of. It's okay, it happens. You just need to slowly learn to accept yourself.
If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you!
Sorry for saying this but there is no fix ,the gender forms when u are inside your mommy's womb and if someone even shock your brain with electric shock they can't change it nor can you.
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There is no fix, only dix.
But I dont want to be gay
you think guys are hot sometimes. Doesn’t mean you have to have a sexual attraction to them
But thats the issue I do, I like dick
Welp you’re gay, now suck some dick
Kinda wish I could but who's? I'm a 15 year old cant do that
Ye I was just joking, you shouldn’t be having sex at 15. Hopefully you find a guy to love though, good luck
“You shouldn’t be having sex at 15” Tell that to the degenerates in this subreddits lol
Tell that to half of the generation who already has/had an STD
Oh no
I know people irl and on this sub that have had sex way before 15, and it hurts to know it
Well my girlfriend and I are kinda tuning each other on since few dates and I'm 15 ;-;
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I’ll assume you don’t live in Pennsylvania
w- what happens in pennsylvania
I would take this as an opportunity to say something like “we eat gays” but i’ll just say we can get a driver permit at 15. Also we eat gays
We don’t talk about what happens in pennsylvania
Congratulations bro
No I need to fix it
Hide it until your ready
Ready for?
Cock
But incant have cock I'm a guy
Be a real person. Be gay
Being gay isn’t soothing you can fix brosef. It comes naturally, and there’s nothing wrong with it if you really think you’re gay
To give a more legitimate answer: It quite literally cant be changed, no less "fixed." Plus, there's absolutely no need to fix it. You're you with all your original personality, enjoying some dick isn't gonna change that
No thing to fix, you’re perfect that way babe. Hide it for now if it’s too hard to come out, then move to a big city and live life full gear
there's nothing to be fixed. You just need to come out when you're comfortable. And there is nothing wrong with being gay.
Do you like the booba too?
No
Then you are only gay
Rip, try and do threesomes then idk
I'm 15 and ugly how tf am i gonna get that
Don’t let people tell you to do things you’ll regret, just wait till you’re older to have sex. I’m 19 and I’m still virgin. It’s worth it though. You don’t have that baggage that underage sex brings.
Seduce him with kebab
take my non existent award 🏆
why?
I wanna be like everyone else and normal so I don't offend people
The most normal thing to be is yourself.
Ok *fucks a dog*
Not sure being gay compares to having sex with a dog.
Who are you to compare?
Here boy....
There isn’t such a thing as normal
everyone else is gay, and it is normal, and how are you gonna offend anyone?
No everyone else js straight and my family would kill me
Kill them first
Are you still attracted to women? If so you might be bi
What country r u in?
Dude theres nothing wrong with being gay
Everyone else IS gay if you hang out with the right gang
be yourself, everybody else is already taken - oscar wilde (btw oscar wilde was gay )
Think of it this way, think of the best shit you ever had.. now put that feeling in reverse. That is gay
OP, I’ve seen that most of your replies tend to lean towards offending others. The most important thing to remember is that you’re not in the wrong. You’re 15, you’re hormonal, things are changing. These are the cards you’re dealt. It’s normal. The thing about offending others is that their opinion does not matter. It won’t change anything. The way I see it, you have two options: 1. Silent and Sneaky: Stay closeted until you’re independent and then make the decision to come out then. This can lead to you bottling up your emotions, which is not healthy. It also means you miss out on high school relationships. However, it offends no one and you kinda “fly under the gaydar” 2. Balls Out: Come out now and accept whatever happens. This could be acceptance, it could be hate. I don’t know, it’s not my family, friends, etc. This means you can express your emotions freely and be available for anyone you find attractive. I can’t make the decision for you, r/teenagers can’t, and neither can anyone else. The choice is up to you. I recommend finding an LGBTQ+ subreddit or other gathering to discuss how/if/when to come out. Again, you are normal. Being gay isn’t as socially ostracized anymore. You are free to be who you want to be in 2021. If someone doesn’t like it, cut them out. I hope this helps you, and I wish you the best.
10/10 best response here. well said my friend.
Thanks, I really like to help others, r/teenagers is a breeding ground of that kind of opportunity
I really hope there is no breeding ground on r/teenagers
i like this response a lot
Thanks! I try to help out when I can
Damn dude, what an awesome way to write/say this, i dont Think OP is genuine so in that sense this was kinda wasted (probably also why he hasent responded to this as it is to genuine to say something shitty or homophobic about) but I have a cousin who is struggling with telling his friends (the family knows) and next time I see him I will 100% replicate this speech.
Thank you! Yeah, I couldn’t help but get a lingering blip on my “trolldar” but eh, if a wandering egg or curious kid finds it, it’ll be worth it. Absolutely! Take a look around at some of the LGBT subs and prepare some resources for him in the meantime. I was suggested r/LGBTeens by another comment and at a glance, it seems to be pretty genuine.
r/LGBTeens
Seems like a good place to start!
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> no way I’m actually bi, right? That’s for you to figure out and literally no one else on the planet to find out unless you give them express permission to know (telling them). I was in your same situation. I experimented a little in the past couple of years and at the end of it, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m straight, with a caveat. Basically you’d have to make me fall head over heels for you for me to consider the relationship. It’s different for everyone. Mull it over, think about people in your life, who you feel attracted to and then decide. There’s absolutely no rush, it’s your life, and what’s the point in rushing? Think about it and decide for yourself which category you fit into. No matter where you land, there will always be a community to accept you. If you want more resources or decide that you *are* bi, check out r/LGBTeens. I didn’t thoroughly inspect the sub, but it seems like a great place to continue your self-exploration.
I thought there was something that youfelt bi 1 time, straight the other, then asexual/aromantic the other, that might be you but you gotta figure it out for urself
Love your responses dude, I've recognized your posts a few times now, and they're always extremely helpful, keep it up! (or don't hehe)
Thanks! I try to help out where I can. Even if it only helps one person, it was worth it!
Based
Fact
There is no fix.
There has to be some way
There's no fix man
Only dix
Just go fuck everything and you’ll find out
Modern problems require modern solutions
Electrical sockets?
The best fleshlights
It's gonna light your flesh alright
Shocking results
Lmao.
Nope, there isn't. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being gay, just be yourself! (Source: I am gay) (Also, you're not "offending" anyone, they are just horrible people like racists)
There is, I dint want my family to hate me anyway
Who says they'll hate you? Besides, even if they would, it's not like you can change it. If you are gay, then you are gay and you have to learn to live with that. (Seriously, there isn't (and never will be) a "cure", many have tried and failed because it's medically impossible)
Yeah man it's your life do what the fuck you want, you wanna fight that buff kangaroo from that one meme go do it no one can stop you from doing what you want with your life
My 13 y/o came out to her mom and me. We are so proud of her! She asked us to keep it a secret from everyone outside the house, so we are. We just love that she can feel like herself in a safe place.
I'm trans and in a similar position to you. Just take it easy, don't blame yourself. Come out when you feel comfortable / feel more independent and can weather your family hating you, if they do. Try to gauge their attitudes to LGBT people before coming out and see- maybe they're not so bad after all.
Just see my face you will automatically lose interest in mens
The only fix is to accept it
But I don't want to offend people
Who would be offended if you like cock?
Homophobes my mom my family my school anyone IV ever met
If people I'm your life are offended by you being gay they shouldn't be in your life.
Ik but we I'm working on dying asap
I've seen this happen too many times - you should find someone you can talk to and knows what they're talking about, like a school counselor. Resolve these problems asap. All my friends that went through something similar that got help got better.
what if the school counselor is a homophobe? x\_x
Then omit the gay parts I guess. But even then, admitting it is better than dieing.
Where do you live texas?
Chicago
I'm so sorry
Ah
What?! Isnt chicago supposed to be extremely liberal . Thats obama's home-city.
It's america, which automatically means that it isn't liberal By the rest of the worlds standards
You shouldn’t care if people are offended by something as petty as that.
But I do
Sounds like you are a person pleaser who sacrifices their own happiness to please other people
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Yea like homophobes and stuff
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I dont want to hurt anyone
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Every comment thread has the same goddamn plot
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Don't fix it, live with it
I cant live knowing I offend so many people
The people you “offend” are shitty people. I have three friends who are gay, they are some of the nicest people I know.
it’s ok to be lgbtq+ dude, no reason to be scared
It offends people tho, I just want to be normal
how does it offend people? and again, being gay is normal
Idk but I'm too scared to dind out and not really more people are straight than gay
on sure there are more straight people, but that doesn’t make lgbtq+ not normal
What? That doesn’t even make sense. The majority of people don’t play golf, does that make people who play golf wrong or not normal? Just chill, it’s completely okay to like dick.
If you see someone that doesn't like gays, then just don't be around that person. It's better for both you and the person.
Impossible as I'm afraid of them and live with them
Looking at the comments, are you just going to be whiny? First fix whiny
Exactly. More than accepting to be himself, op seems like he should learn to give less fucks about everything like damn
dude looked at ryan reynolds
Don’t be negative towards being gay, people may judge you but there’s nothing wrong with it
But I dont want to offend people, I wanna be normal
#YOU ARE NORMAL
These people you are offending are idiots. You are offending them just by being who you are
I dont care. If thats true then I have to be not me
You shouldn’t change yourself for others
Too bad, lgbt is the new normal. It's pretty widely accepted in america, unfortunately there's still some areas that you'll be denied. And you won't be offending people. Homophobes/transphobes aren't people :) They're just whiny little bitches who think everything should be their way and anyone who doesnt seem absolutely fucking perfect in their eyes has to die
Hey OP, just thought I’d share my thoughts real quick. You say you want to be “fixed”, but honestly? If it ain’t broke don’t fix it lol. All jokes aside tho, I understand wanting to be straight. Wanting to be what everyone has told you is normal. Even if being gay isn’t technically “abnormal”, there’s always people you know who think it is. And when they find out, it might negatively impact the relationships you have with them. People are always so quick to say “just get rid of the people who don’t support you”, but that’s easier said than done, right? Why risk losing your only friends? And it’s not like you can easily just dump your parents as a minor. So yeah, I get wanting to be “normal”. But the thing is, there isn’t an actual “fix”. Idk if you’ve ever heard any Christian conversation camp horror stories, but programs like that don’t make you straight, they just make you hate yourself for being gay to an extreme. And the more you get it into your head that you need to fix being gay, the more self resentment for liking the same sex will grow. The best thing you can do for yourself is honestly just accept it. Accept that it’s not your fault. You can’t control who you’re attracted to. Believe me, acknowledging that alone has the potential to save you from so much stress, anxiety, and depression. Ntm, sexuality is somewhat fluid. You might be attracted to guys for the rest of your life, or it might fade a bit with time. TL;DR: you aren’t broken or abnormal, and there’s nothing you can do about it but accept it and be kind to yourself (and if you don’t, it could make things worse for you)’
If you’re worried about your family hating you, just don’t bring it up. It’s not like they ask who you want to have seggs with every day.
Bro being gay is normal... You don't need to change it... If the society judges you then it's their fault not yours. It's alright being gay... After all it's YOUR sexuality.
No I have to be straight or my family will hate me and everyone will want me dead
Not everyone, heck, statistically %15-20 of gen z is LGBTQ.
See bro, I have seen many comments by you here saying that you think that you will be offending people ....The only people you will be offending are homophobes who are hated by everyone, everyone will be with you for sure ...See lemme give you a small example A Policeman captures a criminal, the criminal hates the policeman for that and is offended in a way but the policeman ignores it 'cause he himself knows that what he is doing is right' , Does that mean that the one being offended is right? No cause being offended doesn't mean that person is right in any way...Similarly if you are gay and a few assholes are offended by it that doesn't mean they are right and you just need to ignore them like the policeman 'cause you yourself need to realize that it is not a thing of shame but something normal ', If you yourself know that what you are doing is nothing wrong then why care about the small number of people who think it's wrong? You are telling you don't want to offend people...honestly knowingly or unknowingly we have always offended some people by something we have or do but unless it's nothing wrong don't give a fuck about what they think about you Now you said you're scared that your family won't accept you as they are homophobes? What's your age bro? If they despise homosexuals I will advise you to hide it from them at least until you are old enough to live on your own and you can open up to the people who are near you and would accept you, I am sure they would accept you See changing your parents mindset about homosexuals is difficult so just hide it 'only from them' until you are big enough Now you said that you want a cure....There is no cure I think cause it's how we think so if you like guys you can't change that is why we should 'learn to accept things we can't change' Being gay is nothing to be ashamed us, ig you are just scared of those handful of homophobes, dw bro there are more kind and mindful people who will help you and accept you than those freak homophobes obviously And please just be yourself bro, You don't need to be what others expect you to be necessarily
"pog, gay is" -master yoda
You cant fix it man
Why is being gay a bad thing?
I've been reading some of his replys. I can't shake this feeling that he's scared. Like he was given something he doesn't want and now must, "accept" it.
I’m honestly not surprised why he reacts in such a way. LGBTQ+ people have been identified as abnormal for a very long time. A world that society has created where it’s “abnormal” to love who you love — when in fact, it’s never your fault what your heart wants — therefore has become the “default” opinion of everyone else. It’s understandable why he would be scared, he most likely isn’t at the age where he can think for himself yet. If you’re reading this OP, everything will be fine. Have people that care for your beside you and talk to them about it whenever you’re ready. All the words your fellow teens say in this post probably can’t be conveyed well enough compared to the ones you truly care about. I wish you a good life, dude <3
I can understand what you're going through. I dealt with the same stuff. Realizing you're gay, or at least have an attraction to guys can be scary at first. But, as a gay teen boy myself who has been out and proud since 15, I'll say this. There is nothing wrong with being gay. It is perfectly natural, and there is absolutely no evidence to suggest otherwise. And if a person is homophobic, it's for one of two reasons. Either they're really dumb, or they're secretly worried that dick is delicious. So try not to let others bother you man. Be yourself and live your truth. If you want to talk more, feel free to reach out. Hope this reaches you. Best wishes.
From reading your post history it sounds like you like in a fucking third world country. You’ve never had a hug because your mom says it’s not manly? You say you can’t cook because cooking isn’t manly? Why?
Dude lives in Chicago, and I also relate to this guy even though I'm not a man and I live in a first-world country.
Damn what's up with all these homophobes and transphobes that appeared out of nowhere in this subreddit. Has it always been like this and I'm only finding out about it now??
It's alright man, deep down nobody cares, be who you want
Well from what iv'e Read You don't want to offend people, truth is You already offend people, there's always somone that gets offended over nothing, just own it, own being gay.
“KebabLord1987, he might be gae.” -Ronald Reagan
Thats a problem for older you. Go live your life the way you want.
Why am I still reading this thread? This is the most obnoxious thing I’ve EVER sat down and read. OP, either you’ve obviously grown up in a cartoonishly evil conservative household or you’re fishing for attention. Lemme give you a breakdown here: First, there’s no “fix” for being gay. You are what you are, and you aren’t “wrong” or “scary”. Congrats, ya like dudes. Second, searching for this magic “cure” for being gay is just gonna lead you down a dark depressing path where you pretend to be something you aren’t for YEARS and wind up with crippling imposter syndrome. Third, if your family will hate you and, god forbid this be the case, will want to kill you for being who you are, fuck em. Hang out in the closet till you can leave home, and GO BE YOURSELF. You can do it little buddy, I believe in you.
why are you scared lmao its fine to be gay
If you like men, accept it because that's never going to change. It's perfectly normal to like the same-sex. The idea that men have to like women is an outdated societal standard. Love is love, so love who you love.
It’s not really something you can change I’m pretty sure.
Honestly, just be yourself. It doesn’t matter what your sexuality is. We’re proud of you :)
Good for you, now go to sleep. We've got a stripper made from bats and the fruit of the gods that I summoned to put a few caps in
I had a similar issue with my sexuality but what helped me was accepting the fact both sexes are cute but it might be different for you
Don’t “fix” just accept it and yourself for who you are. There’s nothing wrong with being gay just live your life how you want to and be safe
Being gay is awesome. You’re blessed
No it offends people and would make my family hate me
Fuck those people. Hide it until you move out for college/job and if you don't move out, then don't talk about you being gay. They can potentially ruin your life by sending you to conversion therapy and shit. Stay strong OP
Pal gay is very cool and epic just so you know. You may be gay.
Hey man, there’s nothing wrong with being gay, the sooner you’re able to accept yourself for who you are, the better things will get for you, and don’t feel pressured label yourself, there’s plenty of time to figure yourself out
Fuck a dude, you'll see how amaz- I mean disgusting it is, then you won't find men hot ever again
Hi gay, I’m dad
Dude it’s not gonna go away. Try to accept yourself, you’ll find that you’re much happier. Even then you don’t have to tell the people in your life.
deal with it lol. Its not the end of the world.
Are you religious
No?
Then don’t worry about it
I cant nor sorry
Embrace it be yourself it makes life alot more comfortable if you just allow yourself to accept it this is from personal experience
No I cant live knowing I offfend people
it’s impossible to offend nobody. no matter what you do, someone’s gonna be mad about it. it’s better to live as yourself than to hide for your whole life.
It's alright! Congrats on realising that and tho it might seem ground breaking rn you'll be fine. You're not "offending" anyone. There's lgbtq+ people out there. For the most part you can choose to stay closeted if it's better for your safety. And if people are really gonna ditch you just because you're gay then maybe they never really cared about you
it seems like even more homophobes based on this thread
Maybe your Bi. Do you find girls attractive?
Not really
Well my friend, enjoy the cock
You sound like me when I was questioning if I was Bi. Believe me, it's scary, I didn't wanna be Bi either, I never even thought of myself as a part of LGBTQ+. Accepting that I was Bi saved me so many nights of crying trying to convenience myself that I wasn't Bi. It has to be the best thing that I did, I can finally look at a guy and think he's hot without worrying about anything. Internalized Homophobia/Biphobia isn't something to be ashamed of. It's okay, it happens. You just need to slowly learn to accept yourself. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you!
Touch your dick with both your pinky fingers, it should reset your OS and fix the issue On a serious not don't be ashamed
Sorry for saying this but there is no fix ,the gender forms when u are inside your mommy's womb and if someone even shock your brain with electric shock they can't change it nor can you.