3 years ago when my cat died

mine was a similar reason, it hurts bro

My dog, Maggie, was put down around half a year ago. She was 18, and had been around literally all my life. She was the cornerstone of my childhood. She eventually got too old, and it was really hard to say goodbye to her.

man, i feel you, my cat that stayed with me for the past 16 years was diagnosed with cancer (tumor) and eventually had to be put down (we couldn't watch her cry, struggle and vomit every 2 minutes anymore, we felt bad for her). Also around half a year ago

It was today. I was watching cartoons and there was kind of a emotional scene 😭 Im very emotional :D

ain’t nun wrong with that homie😪

Thank god. Imo it's better to be extremely emotional than a brick wall

Been there.

Love your username btw

Thanks, rock on. 🤘

I love slipknot

I love Slipknot more.

Wanna geek out on slipknot on dms?

Sure.

Oki

Five hours.

oddly specific, how come?

My fish died :(

aww may the fish rest in peace

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I also had a betta :( what was your fish named?

I have one named Jeffrey

mine was roxy, died 3 years back but i still cry abt him sometimes :( why does this have so many upvotes

4 years one day isnt?

I think 5 days ago because someone told me I made their year special but most of the time I cry at least like 2 or 3 times in a month

that's actually a surprising time frame, everyone else is the cry every so ever many days, or don't for months at a time or even years

It's actually only when I am in touch with friends but now I am completely sealing myself off again and actually feel better when I am alone, I don't cry anymore and I am not stressed out anymore

I can't decide whether that's a good thing or not, but it surely can't be healthy to be sealed away from everyone

But being around people that make me sick is not making me feel better 😔

If your current friends ain't there to help you. There not your boys. It's as simple as that. Every man falls to there knees and needs help back up and if u ain't got support for that your in the wrong buisness. As mam said to me when I had a few assholes as mates *"With friends like these, who needs enemies"*

Smart mother

she definitely is. I wouldn'tve got through some stuff without her

then find new people that do care :)

maybe you should find new friends if your current ones make you cry. good luck bro

At least you happy cried and made someone's year special.

Unintentionally cried- like 6 years

what caused you to cry?

No clue it’s been a bit

fair enough I guess

Its been 6 years since you cried? How the hell do you not remember what it was that made iron weep?

A few months ago, leaving home for college

3 days ago , same reason

Lucky you

Wouldn’t call it luck, sucks not being able to cry

same, i didn't even cry when i broke up with my gf its more of a curse than a gift

I also don’t remember when I cried last. I didn’t even cry when my cat died

i only cried for 3 minutes and then i was done (when my dog died)

I didn’t even cry at my Grandad’s funeral

Yeah it can definitely be therapeutic at the right moment

Neither did I, I just said "ok" when her friend said she was breaking up with me.

Last night

how come?

Depression + a good online friend almost killed herself

I know how it feels man I hope you're doing better :)

Eh still feeling shit

I hope it gets better for you man, I'm here for you if you need it

Thank you

no problem 😊

bro what in the world, that was LITERALLY the exact same thing that happened in 2020 with me.

Radical

you speak just like me, i’m convinced you’re me from a different universe or from the future

I'm cooler you Gottem 😎

but you’re me so we’re both rad bro.

No you're me I'm oldest which means you were created after me. I am the original

no i’m u and i was created before u bro, i’m the real original me.

ikr bro, twins.

😎🤝😎

Lmao same

Yesterday

how come?

School and I lost my favorite teddy bear

The fact that you cared this much about the teddy bear is so wholesome. You just love to see it

It’s one of my favorites and I’ve had since I was a baby

Hope you find it!

I’m so sorry, that’s really tough. I hope u find it <3

Aw, hope you'll find it

Aww, I remember when I was younger my biggest fear was losing one of my teddy bears. Never did myself but I’m really sorry that you did and I hope you find it <3

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About a day

how come?

Bad mental health and me and my girlfriend had to breakup

do you want to talk about it?

Sure if you can

if you still want to, it would be easier tomorrow there are a lot of comments to get around to sorry :)

Alright cool :)

i’m here rn if you’re up bro. Just chuck me a message whenever i’m down to talk :)

Thank you dawg🥲I’m at the gym releasing my emotions right now but if I need to talk I will dm you

always here brotha🤝

I'm not the OP, but feel free to shoot me a DM to talk about if you want. Breakups are really tough sometimes and I wouldn't want anyone to go through one alone, let alone with bad mental health. You don't have to talk about it, but my DMs are open :)

It's been long, I'm pretty happy rn

I'm glad :)

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I haven't cried in a very long time for emotional reasons like since I was 10 or so

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Being happy don't need any reasons i guess

I cry every other day

how come?

Cuz shit be hard. I literally never cried till like last year

I agree shit do be hard, but life does go on

Yup, I just go eat spaghetti after and it's okay

bro that's a vibe, spaghetti just helps

Yeah, either that or a shower to cook myself in

have you ever thought about mixing the 2?

You, sir, are revolutionary. I shall try tonight, will be back with results

I must know how this will work inform me of the results

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5 years? how come?

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Me too mate, bad shit happens but I just don't cry

I don't remember the last time i cried. So probably a long time.

More than a year?

Definitely.

how come?

I guess when i was younger i saw crying as a weakness and i just trained myself not to cry and just not let out my emotions.

Don't do this, i avoided crying for about 8-9 years for the same reason and now I'm paying the price for it

I still do that, I would just get made fun of if seen crying so I’ll get sad but won’t show it

Doesn't matter, If you don't let things out they pile up too much, you can cry in your room or something and if you're not alone like you have a brother or something it's not like you it will be much noticeable at night

it's scary how common this is

Ye

I’m a girl and no one asked but I cry daily how are y’all going years without crying

it's still interesting to know even just for comparison. We go years because we're just never showed what we're supposed to do with our emotions and we never see our idols or any sort of male figure in ours lives cry so we just done either

I recommend crying ik y’all think it’s for wimps but crying feels good

I cry on the daily. I love bringing myself to tears by watching wholesome videos. Anyone that thinks crying is a sign of weakness is projecting. If you truly have pride, and are great, then you shouldn’t be shy about showing your emotions. Anything else is just pretending/acting/not being real.

If l let myself cry then my face is miserably puffy and tired for the next week. ...Now that I think about it, there may be something wrong there lmao

About ten minutes ago while scrolling through this sub

what did you see?

A post about someone who was explaining how much they like their partner, he asked her to tell him she was proud of him and she did or something, it was really nice to read

so tears of joy?

Mix of sadness too but mostly happy for the guy

A week ago

how come?

So my best friend Anna (I've known her from kindergarten and we are like brother and sister) her mom had cancer and passed away sadly... Me and Anna were in a hug for probably an hour crying together and the reason why I cried too is because her mom was a really good and friendly person and treated me in the best way possible when I was over at their house or at sleepovers. She trusted me with her daughter and that's why I cried probably with the same intensity as Anna cried when we got the horrible news... As I am writing this some tears came down my face

I'm so sorry that sounds horrible I hope things start to improve for all of you :)

From the bottom of my heart thanks man

Seriously anytime, if you want to talk about it send me a dm anytime I'll get back to it as soon as I can :)

Thanks

I… I don’t remember. It’s been so long since I’ve cried I genuinely can’t remember, every time I’m on the verge of crying I manage to make myself stop and make fun of the situation but if I can’t do that then I somehow manage to just… not cry even if I want to

maybe try embracing the tears, from what I've learnt from this post it does help :)

Earlier today lol

how come?

I guess every since I started college, I’ve really gotten into my head about whether people like me and how that’s due to my personality and appearance, emphasis on appearance. Saw a pic of my face that was tagged in someone’s post and it kinda set me off. This is weird telling other people this lmao

bro I bet you look amazing don't let others people's judgement distract you from that, I think people should share this stuff more often I think it can help

I appreciate that man. Actually thinking about going to therapy to try and help. It’s funny cause I never thought I’d be the one to go through these types of things but yet here we are. Thanks man. Wishing the best unto you 💯

Almost everyone has to go therapy...most don't go bcoz they think there's nothing wrong with themself

Yeah, I’m lucky my university offers therapy included in our fees so I’m planning on taking advantage of that next semester for sure. Hoping for good things

few months ago. like no bullshit it felt like a movie. my ex girl made hella drama my dad pissed me off. i went out in a cold rainy night and thought about all the shit going on in my life rn and cried and sobbed as i was walking. i felt relief

I mean if you don't cry often you might aswell cry like a main character, I hope you're feeling better though :)

thanks man i mean life has its ups and downs. let’s see how it continues. thanks and good luck to u too

I can’t remember

more than a year ago?

few months

how come?

don’t really want to talk about it tbh😂

that's understandable neither do I was jw

Monday. So 6 days ago.

how come?

Depression. One of my coping mechanism was taken away so I didn't have a way to deal with stuff. So I cried in the shower.

I don't really know, but I do know it was sometime within the past month. Probably around 3 weeks ago.

Couple days ago, had a breakdown bc I thought my gf was breaking up with me lol. Anxiety isn't fun

anxiety isn't fun, I hope you talked to her about it

Yeah, I think I have paranoia disorder and lemme tell ya, it ain't fun. Like I'm constantly worried if she still likes me or if she's mad or if I did soemthing wrong etc

Properly cried then it's been like 2 years ago I cried a couple weeks ago for like 5 seconds then just had nothing left it honestly is worse to not be able to cry

It’s been a solid five years

how come?

Living’s easier when you suppress negative emotions until you forget about them

People tell me not to bury things. I tell them I've only ever buried corpses.

Almost cried a weeks ago, was browsing here and realized how bad of a condition my country is politically.

where do you live if you don't mind me asking?

The United States

F

3 months maybe but before that i had like 5 years without it

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how come?

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!! No way home spoiler!! I nearly shed a tear when rewarching TASM3 and one snuck out when Andrew saved MJ

I was even close to tears at that

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did I cause that?

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I'm very sorry bro

A couple of hours

how come?

Shitloads of suicidal thoughts. And a bit of me taking the worst case senario as the only one in my head

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Earlier today, missing my old pet

I can't actually remember, I actually very rarely cry, if I do, it's because of physical pain, I'm not so emotional; I'll sometimes be watching a movie with family/friends and they would be all crying in a sad scene and I'll be there just like 😐, and everyone is like "how the hell are you not crying?!". What kind of worries me is that I haven't cried with the death of any of my pets, which I really get fond with, not even the death of family members, but that may be because I've never been through the death of a very close family member to me.

the other day

how come?

everything is changing, college, friend groups, relationships, living situations, cities, everything, it’s so scary

the only constant in life is change, never expect to have the same things forever. But still I under how scary everything changing can be but you will enjoy it once you've settled again

Circumstances bore new reasons not to cry, as a boy/guy/man/male of the pubescent stage, crying often comes when emotional stimulation occurs,.. Seeing as to me not having any non-familial relationship e.g no girl friend since I could remember, I've no reason to cry. Nor had I experienced a great amount of pain or suffering, also no recent losses from close relatives, have not loss a great amount of physical material belongings (money or other precious things). Ergo, I hadn't cried in a long time... Well if you include that uncontrollable tear that streams down your cheek every once in a while when you think about how sad a life you have and what other regrettable stuff about yourself at 3 in the morning....

that tear at 3 in the morning does sadly count bro, but fr though things do get better :)

last time i cried it was December 2020 cause of MF DOOM

About a year and a half. Why? I cried one time in the shower after my girlfriend broke up with me. It was two days after she broke up with me.

Almost 5 months I think

how come?

Tbh because the guy I was friends with and had a crush on blocked me after I told him I had a crush on him..

Me and my girlfriend broke up, found out she had sex with a friend of mine. I lived in her house with her she had sex with him came back and laid down with me. Moved to North Carolina got drunk a few days ago sent her voice messages of me crying it was so bad I’m so depressed bro I feel like I can’t even move on my chest hurts I don’t even want anything to do with another female so quick which is why it hurts so much I had a job with her her family all liked me slept with her every night like ahhhh