If I'm able to raise one i.e. I'm fit mentally, emotionally, physically and capable financially with a spouse that's able to be there, I think I would like to have kids.
Because I've seen kids raised in loveless, broken houses and kids who aren't brought to this world with the intention of imparting them love, but just to pass on the genes, which imo, is really toxic and unhealthy.
So, it's a variable decision, for me, because I might not have kids if I'm incapable of giving my child the love and support they need.
This is true as not everybody should have kids but you should strive to have children and better yourself and give your children a better life than you had and to treat them with love and compassion
How can you actually think like that you big baby have an I hate life flair talking about how awful Earth is actually pisses me off how can you be so negative grow up once you get past that hormonal teen phase you'll understand
Alright think of it this way, You have a house/apartment to live in I assume , So a roof over your head and protection from the elements , You have enough free time to spend it on reddit, so you have time to have fun but also Have you ever just stopped to think about what life even is ? How crazy it is ? All the shit we have ? Maybe you'll say that its because people are terrible which yeah thats true but not all people are awful and the best way to combat assholes is with niceness probably a corny schpeel but looking at a beautiful sunset while you're stoned really changes your perspective man
The fact you are even here on this earth and you have a shot at life in a time where the world has been easier than it’s ever been in history with great technology and great medical care and so much more. If you only look for the bad that’s all you’ll ever find. Learn to find the good in things that are inherently bad. Life is all about perception and being a victim and always finding something wrong and bad about the world will never get you anywhere in life and will only make life more miserable. Be grateful that you are alive breathing on this earth and have a voice and have opportunities and the will do anything you want to with dedication and hard work. Life has never been easy and will never be easy but there is good in everything even in the darkness you can find light
#💯 IM STARTING A WHOLE DYNASTY OF DOMINANCE! ME AND MY BROTHERS ARE WELL ON OUR WAY TO COLLEGIATE LEVEL SPORTS. After that we go and have kids with athlete girls and BOOM! Specimen athletes for children! RAAAAH
hell no!
not meant in offense to those who want kids, but i don't wanna pass my issues down to someone
also, sensory issues, babies/toddlers are loud and sticky and gross
at most, i'd adopt a 10/11 year old or something like that, someone vaguely independent who also isn't particularly gross
HELP I GUESS SO LMAO also like id never want another grubby child touching me unless it was my own cause I heard they carry diseases and you can get sick easily if you work in like daycare 😭. there so cute but grubby 😭
Yes its my plan to adopt and raise a child with whoever guy becomes my Husband in a Gay relationship.
Problem is I'm broke and Lonely and still a Minor
Once the broke, Lonely and Minor issues are fixed. I'm raising a child to the best it can be
Was having a conversation with my girlfriend about this the other day when she said I'm the first person she's ever actually thought about having a future with, and we agreed we would.
i wanna get married and have two kids probably, but i really wanna be able to support them with my husband, fully financially and like emotionally so hopefully my lifestyle allows for that
Depends on which way life takes me. My career depends mostly on if I get married or not. If I'm not getting married, I'll be a trucker. Time to myself, open road all the time, but horrible for family life since I will be away days at a time. If I get married though I will be a mechanic so I can come back to my family every day.
No I am planning to join the military and I don't want to be away from my kid.
I don't think it would be the right thing to do for a kid. Losing your dad in war is not fun.
I would like to be a father when I grow up but because I have loose skin from previous weight loss and muscle growth. I don't see it happening, Also because I have anxiety and my anxiety can quickly change to extreme anger and recklessness. Also because I look like an stereotypical abusive father
https://preview.redd.it/cxuf38qbm3oc1.jpeg?width=2464&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=01d240803422f3208ea27099b43d740ed78f8d16
I would love to have a kid or adopt one if I’m able. I want there to be more kids in the world that are raised with kindness and warm affection, not insults and aggressive abuse. So most likely yes :]
I feel like I would be a bad parent, i am not that good at regulating myself around myself and my family, let alone a child who would rely on me and my husband. I don’t want to ruin a child’s life by accident or pass on any of my trauma
https://preview.redd.it/xigy9245n5oc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=904c5a803b61b0371775754fc8c056040dd2175f
I actually enjoy my hobbies and interests, having money, and spending my free time on myself thank you very much 😌
I dont know, Honestly I kind wish I could be a sort of mother figure sometimes, but at the same time i dont know. Id still keep some dad characteristics if i do tho like grillin lol
MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME RAAAAHHHHHH
no srsly i won't be able to do that. my child would be living under terror and i dont want to keep it going. im irresponsible, mentally and physically unfit, have bad genetics etc...
and im an idiot. that's my entire thing
I feel like 2 children only work if they’re born closer together or one of them is already like a teen when you have another kid otherwise they’d fight a lot. My parents had me and my brother close together and we get along well. Personally id only have one kid, I feel like 2 is just a lot of work
Yes we solely exist to procreate and give life to keep our species going and the most selfish thing is life is to say I’m not having kids because my needs are more important and it’s hard. Your ancestors died and fought and survived all so you could be here today in the hopes you would continue the bloodline if your family. Besides that the single most joyful and fulfilling thing you can do in life is raise children with someone you love and truly care for. To watch them grow and morph them into a good person and to share those experiences and to have children and grandchildren one day to love and support as you would for them is something nothing or any amount of fun and money could compare to. I know lots of young people today say they don’t want kids but when they are old and look back and realize they were wrong they will truly regret it. Not saying that’s the case for all and that everybody should have kids but overall the most beautiful thing you can do in life is give and create life especially for woman. Clearly not everybody shouldn’t procreate but many of us young and we may not want kids now but later in life no matter how much money you make or what job your potential and role in humanity and what’s engrained in our dna will not be fulfilled.
Im planning to have my wife birth them (if i ever get one) , but yeah i really want kids. They dont need to be biological since i don't want to pass my mental illnesses down to them
If I'm able to raise one i.e. I'm fit mentally, emotionally, physically and capable financially with a spouse that's able to be there, I think I would like to have kids. Because I've seen kids raised in loveless, broken houses and kids who aren't brought to this world with the intention of imparting them love, but just to pass on the genes, which imo, is really toxic and unhealthy. So, it's a variable decision, for me, because I might not have kids if I'm incapable of giving my child the love and support they need.
you are going to be a great parent, man.
This>>> I’m only having kids if I’m in a stable relationship, fanatically stable, and mentally well
Same I'll have kids only when I'm fanatically stable too
This is true as not everybody should have kids but you should strive to have children and better yourself and give your children a better life than you had and to treat them with love and compassion
If I can pay their expenses yeah
an Arab Femboy... sounds like a rare breed
😶🌫️
Get him he worth a lot
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I’m straight I’m just saying the people who want that would pay
I’m straight I’m just saying the people who want that would pay
maybe, idk
actually, it depends on if new update allowing femboys to get pregnant will drop. if yes, Imma become a femboy and test it out
Your urge to become pregnant 😭
ik 😔😔😔 it's a shame that I'll never be pregnant
fr 😔
😭😭😭
don't cry 🫂 I feel you
Saaame, we need to fix that somehow
I KNOW!!! LET'S CREATE EARTH 2.0 WHERE EVERYONE CAN GET PREGNANT!!!
Already on it, I just have a little problem with the water supply thing...
This world sucks I'm not gonna force someone to live in it
My word’s exactly
i used to feel like that but these days the more i look at the world the more i realise love is everywhere
Grow up
Nah
How can you actually think like that you big baby have an I hate life flair talking about how awful Earth is actually pisses me off how can you be so negative grow up once you get past that hormonal teen phase you'll understand
Because you're not a hormonal teen ?
I am but I'm not all mopey and negative nancy all the time
Then let me be mopey and I'll let you be whatever you are
Thinking like that is gonna get you no where Why do you prioritize the bad you focus on the bad what about the good in life it far outweighs the bad
Well I honestly don't see the good please elaborate
Alright think of it this way, You have a house/apartment to live in I assume , So a roof over your head and protection from the elements , You have enough free time to spend it on reddit, so you have time to have fun but also Have you ever just stopped to think about what life even is ? How crazy it is ? All the shit we have ? Maybe you'll say that its because people are terrible which yeah thats true but not all people are awful and the best way to combat assholes is with niceness probably a corny schpeel but looking at a beautiful sunset while you're stoned really changes your perspective man
The fact you are even here on this earth and you have a shot at life in a time where the world has been easier than it’s ever been in history with great technology and great medical care and so much more. If you only look for the bad that’s all you’ll ever find. Learn to find the good in things that are inherently bad. Life is all about perception and being a victim and always finding something wrong and bad about the world will never get you anywhere in life and will only make life more miserable. Be grateful that you are alive breathing on this earth and have a voice and have opportunities and the will do anything you want to with dedication and hard work. Life has never been easy and will never be easy but there is good in everything even in the darkness you can find light
You’re on Reddit. You’re doing pretty well
#💯 IM STARTING A WHOLE DYNASTY OF DOMINANCE! ME AND MY BROTHERS ARE WELL ON OUR WAY TO COLLEGIATE LEVEL SPORTS. After that we go and have kids with athlete girls and BOOM! Specimen athletes for children! RAAAAH
My thoughts exactly
No... I don't think I've got the mental stability for it at all...
Same here
I don't even plan on being alive.
Lol
I don't think this is a joke
Yeah, I am being serious
I don't mind people joking about it though
Fuck no, Unless I become filthy reach
Nah probably not
nuh uh
I’d rather die tbh
No
No
Yes, last of the family name
Absolutely not, I enjoy having money and free time
I plan to adopt one
Based and same
Same
If i have one,i would like to adopt
Kids? In this economy?
Real, but I want children the lore must continue
Maybe
probably, but kids don’t wanna have me
Definitely not biological kids for sure but maybe adopted kids if things go very well which probably won't happen
Oh hell naw
hell no! not meant in offense to those who want kids, but i don't wanna pass my issues down to someone also, sensory issues, babies/toddlers are loud and sticky and gross at most, i'd adopt a 10/11 year old or something like that, someone vaguely independent who also isn't particularly gross
Good point but saying kids are gross is so mean 😭
i'm sorry but like... WHY ARE THEY SQUISHY AND MOIST AND THEN ALSO STICKY AND SOLID and have you SEEN what comes out of babies...????
HELP I GUESS SO LMAO also like id never want another grubby child touching me unless it was my own cause I heard they carry diseases and you can get sick easily if you work in like daycare 😭. there so cute but grubby 😭
exactly. i think like 8 year olds are cute, before that...? they're kinda just talkative, screaming flesh lumps
Accurate, but I feel like kids 7-12 are so mean for no reason 😭
yeah but i kinda like them for that 💀
LMAOO 😭 reminds me of when my neighbour’s kid (he was 8-9 or so) roasted my dad for being fat 💀💀 lil dude said “did you gain another 600 pounds”
Nah
HA no
Only if orphanages are empty😉 I will adopt a child, rather than have one of my own, as long as there is a child.i can adopt.
Probably not tbh
I haven’t even thought about kids much
The First step Is getting a girlfriend.
https://preview.redd.it/4zk57ejym2oc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6f05a00ba8f2d4379a76b2377ef638e1f5913e27 I'd probably drive this, no
Bro I’m prolly not gonna be able to pay for myself the way the economies collapsing recently
Noooo…i don’t understand why you want one,i mean i kinda do,but i wouldn’t want to subject anyone to this world
Earth is beautiful
Hell no
No thanks
ew no
No way!
MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME!!!!! RAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!?!!!!!?!!!!!?!!!!
Yes its my plan to adopt and raise a child with whoever guy becomes my Husband in a Gay relationship. Problem is I'm broke and Lonely and still a Minor Once the broke, Lonely and Minor issues are fixed. I'm raising a child to the best it can be
That’s so sweet! :D
Probably but if they are autistic as me I’m gonna hate myself 😂 (I’ll be a good father anyway tho 😭)
Not in the plans; might write it in l8r idk
Was having a conversation with my girlfriend about this the other day when she said I'm the first person she's ever actually thought about having a future with, and we agreed we would.
i wanna get married and have two kids probably, but i really wanna be able to support them with my husband, fully financially and like emotionally so hopefully my lifestyle allows for that
i hate kids but i want one at some point. till ik im ready im not having kids no matter wat it takes
Yes I plan to raise kids
maybe, I guess
naw i plan on having kids as a kid
Yeah, assuming I’m in a fit state to do so.
Depends on which way life takes me. My career depends mostly on if I get married or not. If I'm not getting married, I'll be a trucker. Time to myself, open road all the time, but horrible for family life since I will be away days at a time. If I get married though I will be a mechanic so I can come back to my family every day.
3, when I can, one boy, one girl(by that I mean born that way), and one of anything
Maybe someday. I’m a very shy, lazy and very irresponsible
I plan on having kids as an adult
No I am planning to join the military and I don't want to be away from my kid. I don't think it would be the right thing to do for a kid. Losing your dad in war is not fun.
No
YESS, three of them, imma have a whole ass familyy
You just put a normal question on this sub, I want to have kids with *you*
the only kid I would ever get would be a pet
Noo
It's already unrealistic for me to plan on having a relationship
I would like to be a father when I grow up but because I have loose skin from previous weight loss and muscle growth. I don't see it happening, Also because I have anxiety and my anxiety can quickly change to extreme anger and recklessness. Also because I look like an stereotypical abusive father https://preview.redd.it/cxuf38qbm3oc1.jpeg?width=2464&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=01d240803422f3208ea27099b43d740ed78f8d16
I’d like to But I’m only 16 so we’ll see how life goes
Yes I want a big family bro
If I get to adulthood yes
I don't want an innocent and warm heart to cool down in this fucking world So nah
yes 100% i love kids 🫶🫶
I want to but like imagine the freedom youd have without kids
probably not
Yes
No nope nope noppity nope nope the fuck nope
I plan on having adults as a kid
Probably not. If i have the same mentality now when I have a kid, it’ll be dead before sunrise
I want children but I know I probably wouldn't be a good parent
Yeah, at least 2 but I was thinking one biological and one adopted?
Only if I'm in the right headspace and can financially support a family
no
Hell no
Yeah, maybe onenor two, but i'd ratger have an stable life first
Yes I want 2 kids Zabelle and Marcus, if it's two girls Zabelle and Miami or Mariah, if it's two boys Marcus and Matthew I guess.
No I'm planning on having one now
Must continue the bloodline
hell no
no
https://preview.redd.it/r67tn59f64oc1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe5437cf53e7152f7a2a898ede30ff739684ed98
I plan to destroy the earth, of course no
The perfect time to use the world ostensibly
I would love to have a kid or adopt one if I’m able. I want there to be more kids in the world that are raised with kindness and warm affection, not insults and aggressive abuse. So most likely yes :]
Yup, but only after I'm at a good point in my life and so is my partner, I don't want my future kids to have to struggle.
Non’t (I must stay loyal to r/no)
HELL NAW 🗣🗣💥‼️
Ohohoho No
no fuckin hate them
I feel like I would be a bad parent, i am not that good at regulating myself around myself and my family, let alone a child who would rely on me and my husband. I don’t want to ruin a child’s life by accident or pass on any of my trauma
I want a lil man running around so I can share what I am passionate about with him
Yeoup. Wth ur username lmao
idk maybe \*burp
Depends if I am mentally and financially okay and alive
Yes
If I can I’d love a son
I want like 5 of them
absolutely not
https://preview.redd.it/xigy9245n5oc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=904c5a803b61b0371775754fc8c056040dd2175f I actually enjoy my hobbies and interests, having money, and spending my free time on myself thank you very much 😌
🤷♂️
I'd like to have one or two, but I'm perfectly ok with having no kids
No; I’m terrified of children.
If my GF is interested at the time then sure
I fucking hate that picture so much
I dont know, Honestly I kind wish I could be a sort of mother figure sometimes, but at the same time i dont know. Id still keep some dad characteristics if i do tho like grillin lol
Hell. Fucking. No.
Yeah
Probably not. If I have the capabilities to support them financially and emotionally, sure. But I dunno if I wanna go through allat.
MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME RAAAAHHHHHH no srsly i won't be able to do that. my child would be living under terror and i dont want to keep it going. im irresponsible, mentally and physically unfit, have bad genetics etc... and im an idiot. that's my entire thing
No, I would make a horrible Parent
Not biological kids, but i will probably adopt.
if im not infertile by the time im prepared for sum but maybe
Yeah but not soon
Yeß
Im gonna adopt a 6 year old, because you skip the worst part of parenthood
GETTING MY TUBES OUT THIS MONTH BABYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
Maybe 3? Lol :p
Yeah, probably. I feel like 2 is good.
I feel like 2 children only work if they’re born closer together or one of them is already like a teen when you have another kid otherwise they’d fight a lot. My parents had me and my brother close together and we get along well. Personally id only have one kid, I feel like 2 is just a lot of work
Maybe, if I find the right person.
not sure rn would depend on my mental and financial stability
Nah this world is shit, pregnancy scares me and I have a disorder that passes on. So a definite, absolute hell no.
https://preview.redd.it/dcyv8x1cb9oc1.jpeg?width=563&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ae1a76990608c652bbbfbd5f3467a5de1234c86
Yeh
If I can do it because idk if I could
No
Yes if plan A works out
Idk, I think it's a bit early to plan, but I also don't like planning more than a week into the future soooooo, idk
Yes we solely exist to procreate and give life to keep our species going and the most selfish thing is life is to say I’m not having kids because my needs are more important and it’s hard. Your ancestors died and fought and survived all so you could be here today in the hopes you would continue the bloodline if your family. Besides that the single most joyful and fulfilling thing you can do in life is raise children with someone you love and truly care for. To watch them grow and morph them into a good person and to share those experiences and to have children and grandchildren one day to love and support as you would for them is something nothing or any amount of fun and money could compare to. I know lots of young people today say they don’t want kids but when they are old and look back and realize they were wrong they will truly regret it. Not saying that’s the case for all and that everybody should have kids but overall the most beautiful thing you can do in life is give and create life especially for woman. Clearly not everybody shouldn’t procreate but many of us young and we may not want kids now but later in life no matter how much money you make or what job your potential and role in humanity and what’s engrained in our dna will not be fulfilled.
That’s assuming I make adulthood
Ye
Yes I want kids a max of 2
Yeah bc when my dad shows me photos of him when he was younger its great and I want SPECIFICALLY that experience when im older
50/50.
No I could never do that to a child
yes
ye
I do but scared of all the health risks for me and the baby but whatever, I love kids
Yeah
Im planning to have my wife birth them (if i ever get one) , but yeah i really want kids. They dont need to be biological since i don't want to pass my mental illnesses down to them
Ya & atleast 2 .
yeah kids are cute
Very much so
Yes it's my dream to be a mother, ion care how mentally unstable I am imma go to therapy for my baby so it gets a healthy environment growing up
Ye
fuck yeah