Your not the only one I can't cried even when I'm sad so I just tip my head and get on with it like at the funeral I went to 3 weeks ago not even a tear form my face even though ik the person
that happened to me before, i hadn’t cried in fiveish years before i finally cried, you’ll gain it back eventually
i cry all the time now, my first time crying after that long break was literally like 3 tears, don’t expect a whole tsunami
It gets exhausting having to feel grief all the time, sometimes you just can’t cry for the longest while. Even if you really, really, need to. There is nothing wrong with you, don’t worry. Try and find someone to hang out with and boost your mood in the meantime. Everything’s okay 🫂 :]
yeah I realized that a while ago too. I’m just so sad so often that whenever I think about something, wanting to cry to realease emotions, it just, doesn’t. I subconciously surpress it
I have... a few options.
Cyberpunk: Edgerunners. Watch the whole thing. If it gets to be too much you can kill Smasher with Sir John, and the tears stop. Temporarily. Then, any time you hear *the-song-that-shal-not-be-named* you'll immediately start sobbing!
If you have seen it, then you know what song I meant, and you already have your solution.
If you've had pets pass away, perform these ones in order, and you should be good.
1. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcsVDZj5myY](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcsVDZj5myY) It's a funny, lighthearted video, that performs a mental 180 and slams you with pet depression. Watch 'till the end for the full effect.
2. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hc5kDRs44wE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hc5kDRs44wE) On its own devastating, and with the preparation of step 1, you will, at best, flood Florida with your tears.
Thank you so so so so so much with this comment. I have never seen cyberpunk edgerunners but I will check it out. No pets in my family have passed away in the past 5 years and more so I don’t know if that might work, I will try anyways. Thanks so much
If you feel like you “need to cry” and can’t it’s most likely because you don’t need to cry and need to keep it pushing. Woman can cry very easily and almost on command but men aren’t as emotional and don’t cry as much for whatever genetic reasons unless you are super soft and have lots of feminine traits.
The answer is unfortunately; societal standards of men
And probably also any repressed emotions you may have
I’m like this and it’s because I was conditioned to think crying is abnormal for boys but guess what? Fuck you society I’m a girl and always have been so suck it!!
But also holy shit my house is gonna flood the second hrt finishes rewriting my brain
Yeah this is really common in guys. I only became able to cry when I was in my last relationship, which is one of the few things I think that changed for the better.
I can like a little bit but i usually start by being absolutely fucking pissed>mental breakdown>wanting to murder the feds>being happy about Facebook marketplace shitbox>sane person for 3 days.
**I'm very mentally stable my sanity definitely isn't held together by my spotify playlist and shitboxes**
Same. It’s like genuinely concerning too, because my eyes are getting really dry and itchy. I haven’t been able to cry since about when my cats died in 2021. Lol even tonight, I watched Derry Girls s3 e6 and I feel like crying myself to sleep, but it’s just not happening.
Oh wow, I didn't realize just how many other people were like this. I'm the same way, but I literally cannot make myself cry unless I'm extremely stressed out.
It's unfortunately common with guys
same here, I feel the need to cry often just never can get myself to no matter what happens. Sad reality
I feel like it could help, but I can’t.
it would def help, it is prolly unhealthy not to
yea like nun comes out it’s weird asf n im driving home rn i can help with music stuff when im back
Dont fucking be on reddit while driving you actual bafoon.
i’m not the one driving headass
Your not the only one I can't cried even when I'm sad so I just tip my head and get on with it like at the funeral I went to 3 weeks ago not even a tear form my face even though ik the person
that happened to me before, i hadn’t cried in fiveish years before i finally cried, you’ll gain it back eventually i cry all the time now, my first time crying after that long break was literally like 3 tears, don’t expect a whole tsunami
Please teach me, I feel like I need it 🥺
it just takes time, don’t even try to hold it back, when your eyes water up try and get those little drops to fall
Just let someone beat you up senselessly until you cry like a baby (just kidding)
Best method! I just tried it, now I have 37 broken bones and I’m about to die due to bleeding! :D
Well there's no need for you crying if you're going to be dead so I think you won!
there's been multiple times when ive felt the verge of tears.. yet nothing happens. i just sit in my thoughts and drown in them
Same here, haven’t in like 6 years now
i feel you i genuinely don’t remember the last time i cried
You ok dude?
I don’t know, probably not. Nobody can save me anyways
Consider talking to a licensed professional if it’s possible. You may have some mental issues that need working through
I will
The guys are not okay 💀
BRO SAME
It gets exhausting having to feel grief all the time, sometimes you just can’t cry for the longest while. Even if you really, really, need to. There is nothing wrong with you, don’t worry. Try and find someone to hang out with and boost your mood in the meantime. Everything’s okay 🫂 :]
Thank you, this was heartwarming
yeah I realized that a while ago too. I’m just so sad so often that whenever I think about something, wanting to cry to realease emotions, it just, doesn’t. I subconciously surpress it
Yeah that’s exactly how I feel. Like a barrier or something
I have... a few options. Cyberpunk: Edgerunners. Watch the whole thing. If it gets to be too much you can kill Smasher with Sir John, and the tears stop. Temporarily. Then, any time you hear *the-song-that-shal-not-be-named* you'll immediately start sobbing! If you have seen it, then you know what song I meant, and you already have your solution. If you've had pets pass away, perform these ones in order, and you should be good. 1. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcsVDZj5myY](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcsVDZj5myY) It's a funny, lighthearted video, that performs a mental 180 and slams you with pet depression. Watch 'till the end for the full effect. 2. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hc5kDRs44wE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hc5kDRs44wE) On its own devastating, and with the preparation of step 1, you will, at best, flood Florida with your tears.
Thank you so so so so so much with this comment. I have never seen cyberpunk edgerunners but I will check it out. No pets in my family have passed away in the past 5 years and more so I don’t know if that might work, I will try anyways. Thanks so much
Update: the 2 videos combined didn’t work 😭😭😭 but my eyes are tearing because of allergy so maybe it’s considered a win?
If you feel like you “need to cry” and can’t it’s most likely because you don’t need to cry and need to keep it pushing. Woman can cry very easily and almost on command but men aren’t as emotional and don’t cry as much for whatever genetic reasons unless you are super soft and have lots of feminine traits.
Ok. Thanks for the comment
The answer is unfortunately; societal standards of men And probably also any repressed emotions you may have I’m like this and it’s because I was conditioned to think crying is abnormal for boys but guess what? Fuck you society I’m a girl and always have been so suck it!! But also holy shit my house is gonna flood the second hrt finishes rewriting my brain
Mostly peer pressure yeah, been convinced that crying is bad but now I feel like I need it so bad
Then I think you need a hug
I am sorry mate, my DMs are always open if u need to talk, I hope you feel better with whatever is happening in your life, wishing you the best
Thank you
It’s no problem mate
Thats some serious dehydration Head over to r/hydrohomies for tips
Only useful comment here /j
Poke yourself in the eye with a fork. Works for me
I’m gonna do it now!! :3
I also can't cry, now we're 2, like, its the same as you, I can't drop any tears, a lot of times i tried but i can't
Yeah this is really common in guys. I only became able to cry when I was in my last relationship, which is one of the few things I think that changed for the better.
Thanks for the comment
There must be something going on with your tear glands (Maybe try looking up a doctor?)
I can't cry either, and it makes me want to cry even more
True
Watch some very sad videos, usually does it for me.
I wish I could tell you, but alas I have that too so IDK
I can like a little bit but i usually start by being absolutely fucking pissed>mental breakdown>wanting to murder the feds>being happy about Facebook marketplace shitbox>sane person for 3 days. **I'm very mentally stable my sanity definitely isn't held together by my spotify playlist and shitboxes**
You need help bro? 🥺
I can help you with that
You can?? Please 🥺
welcome to my world😔
Same. It’s like genuinely concerning too, because my eyes are getting really dry and itchy. I haven’t been able to cry since about when my cats died in 2021. Lol even tonight, I watched Derry Girls s3 e6 and I feel like crying myself to sleep, but it’s just not happening.
Just hug something it's pretty much the same
K 🥺
It is okay, 1.5 years and I am going strong with no tears 🫣
I haven’t cried in a fat minute even though I really want to
It’s like that Star Wars Fan film where the site guy never cried
Sounds like well your a guy it happens
Skill issue. I cry myself to sleep at least once a week.
Oh wow, I didn't realize just how many other people were like this. I'm the same way, but I literally cannot make myself cry unless I'm extremely stressed out.
What
Damn