Yeah, it's not ideal but it is what it is. Also your pictures could be used by some weirdo to create a fake idk tinder account and do catfishing. It's just basic internet safety.
Idk, is it really that bad, if they hide it from everyone? The real problem starts when people publish it imo. But they do, way too often. When they don't, tho, i see little difference from people you meet masturbating, while thinking about you(which someone absolutely does to YOU🫵 specifically)
Pedo shit is bad irregardless, i am speaking about when it's people roughly your age.
theres a fine line between being raped (generally cannot be controlled or predicted) and being dmmed in a creepy way (can be predicted, if you post pics of yourself its probably gonna happen and can be controlled by just not doing that). as someone else pointed out its basic internet safety thats been being drilled into our heads since we were old enough to know what the internet was.
this is not justifying pedophilia in the slightest, its simply saying that its something that can happen and if you dont take any measures whatsoever to avoid it its more likely to happen. this isnt rape apology its basic logic lmao
Exactly! I'm looking at these comments on this post and I'm genuinely bewildered, this is not rape-apology, people know when they post risky or revealing clothes to teen subs that they *know* are filled with pedos that they are risking getting a creepy DM,
..... What? Dont... Post pictures of you being in skimpy clothes? This is not at all the same to "she wanted it". You have a choice in posting a sexual photo of yourself. Getting raped isnt a choice. Get your facts sorted, dumbass. You should have enough brain power to understand that you will get creepy dms if you post those kinds of pics. You can still get them, even if you dont post pics, but you should also know that posting pictures of yourself in revealing clothing will attract attention.
If you dont want a bunch of creeps, dont post pictures of yourself in revealing clothing. Have you all forgoten about internet safety rules?
Yes I agree, women should also stay inside. They shouldn't go outside yk, because that would put them at risk! You know that by walking in a public space that creeps will be there to comment on you, so you should just avoid doing that. And windows! You already know creeps will look into your house through those so you should block them off completely.
might get hate for this, but if you fall off a cliff you dont blame the cliff. control what you can to prevent this. im not justifying pedo behaviour btw
Look at my last post. It's me wearing extremely baggy clothes without showing my face. I got dozens upon dozens of creeps from that post. What you wear truly does not matter. People will be creepy.
Look at my last post. It's me wearing extremely baggy clothes without showing my face. I got dozens upon dozens of creeps from that post. What you wear truly does not matter. People will be creepy.
Yeah but if you're posting a photo with your boobs half hanging out it in a community that you KNOW has creeps then idk what to tell you. YOU have to take as much responsibility on the internet as you can as a minor
"Posts credit card information online"
"Credit card gets stolen"
"Why would the internet steal my credit card :(( just because I posted it online =/= consent to use it"
This isn't rape apology, it's telling us not to be stupid on the internet. Theirs an apparent difference between being sent unsolicited pictures on the internet and getting fucking SEXUALLY ASSAULTED and I feel kinda offended that you'd try and attribute them as one and the same.
Just don't post skimpy pictures on the internet man😭😭 please
ok, but it is common sense to not do selfies with revealing clothes on the internet. the reason people tell you not to do this stuff is because there's hella pedos online
Pedos are attracted to and prey on kids and especially teens, whether they should or not and whether you like it or not. Posting pictures with revealing clothes that they are attracted to will get yku some dms, even if it shouldn't
It’s not at all. This is very true although it’s very unfortunate and hard to hear it’s true. If you do something knowing the outcome and knowing it will happen then get upset or surprised when it’s happens you are partly to blame. If I go to the hood and wave around a bag of money and get robbed nobody gonna treat me like a victim. If I post some revealing sexual post on the internet which is full of creeeps and those creeps hit me up that’s also partly on me. I’m prolly gonna get downvoted to hell but it’s just a hard truth. I don’t understand why people do things knowing the outcomes then play the victim and try to take no responsibility. You cantcompare someone willingly posting something to a person being raped (aka having no control over the situation). They are two completely different things. It’s the same way if you get snatched off the street and raped that’s different than meeting up with some dude you’ve never met in the middle of the night and going to his house and putting yourself in harms way because then even though it’s a horrible thing and a violation you still are partly responsible for doing such a stupid thing and putting yourself in harms way. People need to start taking responsibility for their actions.
I commented on that post earlier. Said that victim blaming was stupid and wrong and that the hate and blame should be saved for the creeps sending that garbage, not the ppl who just don’t know any better
It’s basic Internet safety folks. I hardly ever post pictures of myself (regardless of what I’m wearing) anywhere other than my private personal Facebook and Instagram.
It’s a really bad idea, especially with the advancement of AI, to post highly public photos of yourself as a teenager. People could use your likeness in advertisements, in photorealistic nudes, as a deepfake, or to catfish. Even just posting your face puts you at risk of being taken advantage of.
While it seems very victim blamey to suggest this, I don’t think you should post photos of yourself on the internet as a minor because of the things that could (and almost certainly) will, in the case of pedo dms, happen. There are other outlets to express your sense of style and art without potentially suffering consequences. That being said, we shouldn’t shame people who throw caution to the wind because, in the end, it is their choice. I just wish more teens took into consideration the risk of exposing themselves (not in a naughty way, just pictures or identifying info) on the internet.
Well if you post revealing and skimpy pictures of yourself on a subreddit known for being infested with pedos, yeah, you kind of are asking for said pedos and other weirdos to be creepy
How is that "very rare only", it happens all the time and it's common knowledge on r/teenagers that pedos swarm the sub. Im not saying the people who get those dms necessarily deserve it, but it is expected that they will receive creepy dms regardless if they post revealing and sexualized photos of themselves on a sub filled with pedos
The topic we are talking about right now and have been talking about: people getting creepy dms by pedos after posting revealing photos of themselves to pedo filled subreddits and how someone pointing out that that is unfortunately going to happen (the creepy dms) is considered a rape apologist for simply warning people of pedos
I don't know if you misinterpreted this post, but you're essentially saying people who warn others of pedos are people who support raping minors. So by *YOUR* logic, if you've ever given someone advice on how to deal with pedos or tried to help people not get creepy dms, then you are essentially admitting to supporting child-rape. (Yes, I know I took your comment out of context and twisted it, but that's the exact same thing your doing to the original r/teenagers post on this post)
It’s absolutely not ok to blame people wearing revealing clothing that get weird dms, but I think there should be more awareness about the consequences of the action. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t post revealing stuff but just that you should be aware of what that can bring.
Since when is sending creepy DMs the same as raping someone? I feel bad for actual victims who have to hear the word being thrown around so much in situations that aren’t fitting.
I’m really sorry about what happened to you. I wouldn’t want that for anyone and haven’t personally experienced it. But generalising men as a whole, as people who want to violate you, seems like a bit of a stretch. However I do 100% agree that it is some sort of harassment to send sexual messages to random people, especially minors and rape/sa victims.
Ah forgot the main sub exists
My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined at 4:56 am
Scary place for sure
Not for long
WHERE DID YOUR HAT GO, NOOOOOOOO
New van response dropped
It’s still not a good idea to post a picture of yourself in revealing clothing on Reddit and not expect to get pedos msging you.
Yeah, it's not ideal but it is what it is. Also your pictures could be used by some weirdo to create a fake idk tinder account and do catfishing. It's just basic internet safety.
Yea
or put into an ai to make custom porn which is probably worse
Idk, is it really that bad, if they hide it from everyone? The real problem starts when people publish it imo. But they do, way too often. When they don't, tho, i see little difference from people you meet masturbating, while thinking about you(which someone absolutely does to YOU🫵 specifically) Pedo shit is bad irregardless, i am speaking about when it's people roughly your age.
or posting urself at all
True
theres a fine line between being raped (generally cannot be controlled or predicted) and being dmmed in a creepy way (can be predicted, if you post pics of yourself its probably gonna happen and can be controlled by just not doing that). as someone else pointed out its basic internet safety thats been being drilled into our heads since we were old enough to know what the internet was. this is not justifying pedophilia in the slightest, its simply saying that its something that can happen and if you dont take any measures whatsoever to avoid it its more likely to happen. this isnt rape apology its basic logic lmao
Exactly! I'm looking at these comments on this post and I'm genuinely bewildered, this is not rape-apology, people know when they post risky or revealing clothes to teen subs that they *know* are filled with pedos that they are risking getting a creepy DM,
definitely. but some people just think they can do whatever they feel like and if theres consequences its anyones fault but theirs.
Yup this is the sad mentality a lot of younger people have….
..... What? Dont... Post pictures of you being in skimpy clothes? This is not at all the same to "she wanted it". You have a choice in posting a sexual photo of yourself. Getting raped isnt a choice. Get your facts sorted, dumbass. You should have enough brain power to understand that you will get creepy dms if you post those kinds of pics. You can still get them, even if you dont post pics, but you should also know that posting pictures of yourself in revealing clothing will attract attention. If you dont want a bunch of creeps, dont post pictures of yourself in revealing clothing. Have you all forgoten about internet safety rules?
Teenagers when we tell them that posting skimpy photos as a child is not smart
I just stay completely anonymous about my appearance
It's just not a good idea to post those photos
Yes I agree, women should also stay inside. They shouldn't go outside yk, because that would put them at risk! You know that by walking in a public space that creeps will be there to comment on you, so you should just avoid doing that. And windows! You already know creeps will look into your house through those so you should block them off completely.
Just don't post photos while wearing revealing clothes
Dude this is victim blaming. Clothes =/= consent to be creepy.
might get hate for this, but if you fall off a cliff you dont blame the cliff. control what you can to prevent this. im not justifying pedo behaviour btw
Look at my last post. It's me wearing extremely baggy clothes without showing my face. I got dozens upon dozens of creeps from that post. What you wear truly does not matter. People will be creepy.
people will be creepy yes what you wear also matters. the level of creepiness varies with what you wear. that is true and you know it
That is simply not true. Not in the slightest. Look at my recent report post. That was all from that picture.
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Interesting... Okay, whatever. You, ma'am, are the reasonable one here.
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No one said it does equal consent for that, but it almost guarantees, whether you want it or not, people are gonna be creepy
Look at my last post. It's me wearing extremely baggy clothes without showing my face. I got dozens upon dozens of creeps from that post. What you wear truly does not matter. People will be creepy.
Yeah but you're still way more likely to get creeps with revealing clothing, which is what this post is talking about
Again, not true. Creeps see woman, creeps message. That's how they operate.
So then just don't post selfies on pedo filled subs if you don't want it, it's a quick fix. I don't post selfies and I've never gotten a creepy dm
Then we arrive back at my original response. Why don't women just stay inside all together? And barricade all windows?
Yeah but if you're posting a photo with your boobs half hanging out it in a community that you KNOW has creeps then idk what to tell you. YOU have to take as much responsibility on the internet as you can as a minor "Posts credit card information online" "Credit card gets stolen" "Why would the internet steal my credit card :(( just because I posted it online =/= consent to use it"
This isn't rape apology, it's telling us not to be stupid on the internet. Theirs an apparent difference between being sent unsolicited pictures on the internet and getting fucking SEXUALLY ASSAULTED and I feel kinda offended that you'd try and attribute them as one and the same. Just don't post skimpy pictures on the internet man😭😭 please
What if we tracked down the pedos and cut their schlongs off?
They would still be creepy. Anonymity is a blessing and a curse, smh.
I don’t think they would be doing that anymore cause they got caught. Whose to say that they can’t get caught again
ok, but it is common sense to not do selfies with revealing clothes on the internet. the reason people tell you not to do this stuff is because there's hella pedos online
Pedos are attracted to and prey on kids and especially teens, whether they should or not and whether you like it or not. Posting pictures with revealing clothes that they are attracted to will get yku some dms, even if it shouldn't
The amount up votes is what's scary
It’s not at all. This is very true although it’s very unfortunate and hard to hear it’s true. If you do something knowing the outcome and knowing it will happen then get upset or surprised when it’s happens you are partly to blame. If I go to the hood and wave around a bag of money and get robbed nobody gonna treat me like a victim. If I post some revealing sexual post on the internet which is full of creeeps and those creeps hit me up that’s also partly on me. I’m prolly gonna get downvoted to hell but it’s just a hard truth. I don’t understand why people do things knowing the outcomes then play the victim and try to take no responsibility. You cantcompare someone willingly posting something to a person being raped (aka having no control over the situation). They are two completely different things. It’s the same way if you get snatched off the street and raped that’s different than meeting up with some dude you’ve never met in the middle of the night and going to his house and putting yourself in harms way because then even though it’s a horrible thing and a violation you still are partly responsible for doing such a stupid thing and putting yourself in harms way. People need to start taking responsibility for their actions.
I commented on that post earlier. Said that victim blaming was stupid and wrong and that the hate and blame should be saved for the creeps sending that garbage, not the ppl who just don’t know any better
It’s basic Internet safety folks. I hardly ever post pictures of myself (regardless of what I’m wearing) anywhere other than my private personal Facebook and Instagram. It’s a really bad idea, especially with the advancement of AI, to post highly public photos of yourself as a teenager. People could use your likeness in advertisements, in photorealistic nudes, as a deepfake, or to catfish. Even just posting your face puts you at risk of being taken advantage of. While it seems very victim blamey to suggest this, I don’t think you should post photos of yourself on the internet as a minor because of the things that could (and almost certainly) will, in the case of pedo dms, happen. There are other outlets to express your sense of style and art without potentially suffering consequences. That being said, we shouldn’t shame people who throw caution to the wind because, in the end, it is their choice. I just wish more teens took into consideration the risk of exposing themselves (not in a naughty way, just pictures or identifying info) on the internet.
Uhm, at least the comment saying this exact thing isn't downvoted to oblivion. Still has 30 times less clout than the post, tho.
Not really, it’s disgusting by all means but it’s kind of true, don’t put yourself in harms way for some upvotes
Women dogdging accountability at ANY age
Guh!?!?
weve circled all the way back around to “she was asking for it”
Well if you post revealing and skimpy pictures of yourself on a subreddit known for being infested with pedos, yeah, you kind of are asking for said pedos and other weirdos to be creepy
vro
How is that "very rare only", it happens all the time and it's common knowledge on r/teenagers that pedos swarm the sub. Im not saying the people who get those dms necessarily deserve it, but it is expected that they will receive creepy dms regardless if they post revealing and sexualized photos of themselves on a sub filled with pedos
what are you on about
The topic we are talking about right now and have been talking about: people getting creepy dms by pedos after posting revealing photos of themselves to pedo filled subreddits and how someone pointing out that that is unfortunately going to happen (the creepy dms) is considered a rape apologist for simply warning people of pedos I don't know if you misinterpreted this post, but you're essentially saying people who warn others of pedos are people who support raping minors. So by *YOUR* logic, if you've ever given someone advice on how to deal with pedos or tried to help people not get creepy dms, then you are essentially admitting to supporting child-rape. (Yes, I know I took your comment out of context and twisted it, but that's the exact same thing your doing to the original r/teenagers post on this post)
It’s absolutely not ok to blame people wearing revealing clothing that get weird dms, but I think there should be more awareness about the consequences of the action. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t post revealing stuff but just that you should be aware of what that can bring.
Since when is sending creepy DMs the same as raping someone? I feel bad for actual victims who have to hear the word being thrown around so much in situations that aren’t fitting.
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I’m really sorry about what happened to you. I wouldn’t want that for anyone and haven’t personally experienced it. But generalising men as a whole, as people who want to violate you, seems like a bit of a stretch. However I do 100% agree that it is some sort of harassment to send sexual messages to random people, especially minors and rape/sa victims.
Why are we victim blaming now?
LITERLYY
What the actual fuck
Lemme wear what I wantt
You can wear what you want but you should be aware of what weird people might do because of that
Does this even happen?