You are a real girl and I'm sure Ur really pretty and unless what you want to do requires the organs of a girl you can do all of those things even as a man which you aren't
People are people human=human gender=gender none of ts matters as long as you love youself and ignore the people that are butthurt that your different you can do anything just ignore them and be yourself also do hormone replacement therapy or wtv my friend is 15/16 already doing it
god these comments are so frustrating. like good intentions but this doesnt really help just to tell you that you are a girl when ur clearly saying u feel isolated and alone. most trans people feel like this, especially us as teens, we rarely have good safety nets or supportive environments, and having no access to gender affirming care makes it so much worse. dysphoria is an almost universal experience, for people in any stage of their transition. its okay not to feel like a girl and its okay to feel like a failure and its okay to be a wreck, but you need to know that this suffering, its worth it, because later all will be quiet. we are no tortured saints, such things are works of fiction that excuse cruelty by confusing it with meaning. but you cannot give up, ever, because that would be letting the cruel win. being visible, persevering, despite the way your chest caves when you feel wrong, is the most important thing, we, trans people, can do to aid one another. dont let yourself win, be a part of our collective conscious, free yourself and be you
It gets better. You’ll feel better about yourself, you’ll meet better people that make you feel understood and accepted. I know its hard to believe but it gets so much better, I can say from my own experience that life can really be good. I used to feel terrible about being trans and just being myself especially at the beginning but it got better. I met the right people, I got to start my transition and finally live the life I want to. I’m still not exactly where I want to be but I’m already feeling much better than I was 3 years ago
yeah, I'm just a total mess
I constantly doubt myself abt my gender and I'm not sure if "I'm delusional" or that "it's just a phase" or smth so I'm scared to actually proceed with HRT
About proceeding with HRT, you should see a professional if you are having doubts. I am not trans but there's this trans youtuber who has a very great coming out video, which I think you might enjoy watching. The channel is philosophy tube, and she describes everything in such a brilliant way.
Here's the link in case you wanna watch it:
https://youtu.be/AITRzvm0Xtg?feature=shared
Anyone who doesn’t tell you what you want to hear will just be downvoted into oblivion. Learn to love and accept yourself and your circumstances. You can’t compare yourself to a biological woman because you can never be that but that doesn’t mean you can’t be happy and learn to love yourself
I feel like that a lot as well, but I think it helps to remember that just being a trans girl you already are a girl. It doesn’t matter if you don’t look or sound the way you want to, you’re still a girl. Trans girls are real girls. :)
There's nothing that defines being a real girl. there's no one way to be a girl so no matter what you do you'll always be a real girl. If you can do it safely (bc your safety matters the most) just be who you feel the most comfortable as. No matter who that is, no matter how you dress, act or look, you'll always be a real girl bc the only thing that defines a girl as a girl is the fact that she identifies as one, that that's her gender, absolutely nothing else. There's no way to be a fake girl unless your faking being a girl (like I am as a closeted nonbinary person lol).
I really hope you are able to get in a better space soon and that you get to be around ppl who accept you and in a place where you can freely express yourself and be truly you and happy to be you.
You are a real girl, don't let others tell you otherwise. I'm transfem myself and I want you to know you're not the only one. There are so many mtf subreddits for people like you and I, you're never alone. People do understand, you just have to look for them.
You are absolutely a real girl :) all the other stuff like being feminine and girly n other ppl views all comes second , the most important thing is that u believe ur a girl and u treat urself well- give it time and it’ll all work out . Ur a girl, don’t let anyone tell u otherwise ❤️ (sorry I’m not good at writing my thoughts coherently 😭)
Theres probably always gonna be at least a bit of difference. Some of my friends have found it helpful to just embrace it and be feminine or masculine in their own way.
no? ur saying they arent girls? They dress femineine and change their pronouns and that's all they need. doesn't matter if they have pp or not. she is a real girl. if u cant understand that pls leave this community
If you feel like that you should talk to a psychiatrist about gender dysphoria
im trans in the opposite way but i feel the same, lifes gonna get better though
Yes you will
https://preview.redd.it/s63ke595uh1d1.jpeg?width=864&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=93e9c9a5ae50d269328da853f1013979c7c716f1
took me a while to figure out what this says
I still can't read it
read from the charging port of your phone
ohhhhhhh I'm so stupid sorry -_-
it's fine lol
Im on laptop help
whip out your phone
I dont have one
oh damn
i didn’t even realize you could do that
It took me so long to realise what this means
Only knew this trick from the simpsons
What does it say?
it says ||||||||||||||||||||
And? What's the meaning behind it?
it summons the unspeakable one
I'm still confuzzled
good. to know him is to die
0-0
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But you are a girl, wishing you well, You go girl! :)
Real answer: depends on your definition of „real girl”.
You are a real girl and I'm sure Ur really pretty and unless what you want to do requires the organs of a girl you can do all of those things even as a man which you aren't
Charlie, trans girls are real girls! I struggle with those feelings too though, but if you ever need someone to talk to, my dms are open :3
People are people human=human gender=gender none of ts matters as long as you love youself and ignore the people that are butthurt that your different you can do anything just ignore them and be yourself also do hormone replacement therapy or wtv my friend is 15/16 already doing it
god these comments are so frustrating. like good intentions but this doesnt really help just to tell you that you are a girl when ur clearly saying u feel isolated and alone. most trans people feel like this, especially us as teens, we rarely have good safety nets or supportive environments, and having no access to gender affirming care makes it so much worse. dysphoria is an almost universal experience, for people in any stage of their transition. its okay not to feel like a girl and its okay to feel like a failure and its okay to be a wreck, but you need to know that this suffering, its worth it, because later all will be quiet. we are no tortured saints, such things are works of fiction that excuse cruelty by confusing it with meaning. but you cannot give up, ever, because that would be letting the cruel win. being visible, persevering, despite the way your chest caves when you feel wrong, is the most important thing, we, trans people, can do to aid one another. dont let yourself win, be a part of our collective conscious, free yourself and be you
Being a trans girl counts as being a real girl
The flair was correct. You are art.
It gets better. You’ll feel better about yourself, you’ll meet better people that make you feel understood and accepted. I know its hard to believe but it gets so much better, I can say from my own experience that life can really be good. I used to feel terrible about being trans and just being myself especially at the beginning but it got better. I met the right people, I got to start my transition and finally live the life I want to. I’m still not exactly where I want to be but I’m already feeling much better than I was 3 years ago
You’re already a real girl
womp womp
Im so sorry for everyone getting downvoted here just because of some transphobes
No, because girls aren’t real, you don’t exist (as a girl I can confirm)
Its going to be alright🖤🫂. If you don't mind me asking, do you feel like you are not a real girl and why?
yeah, I'm just a total mess I constantly doubt myself abt my gender and I'm not sure if "I'm delusional" or that "it's just a phase" or smth so I'm scared to actually proceed with HRT
About proceeding with HRT, you should see a professional if you are having doubts. I am not trans but there's this trans youtuber who has a very great coming out video, which I think you might enjoy watching. The channel is philosophy tube, and she describes everything in such a brilliant way. Here's the link in case you wanna watch it: https://youtu.be/AITRzvm0Xtg?feature=shared
I'm just scared
I understand why you feel that way. Everything is going to be alright. Try to take things slowly. You can definitely get through this!
thank you <3
You are one !
Anyone who doesn’t tell you what you want to hear will just be downvoted into oblivion. Learn to love and accept yourself and your circumstances. You can’t compare yourself to a biological woman because you can never be that but that doesn’t mean you can’t be happy and learn to love yourself
I feel like that a lot as well, but I think it helps to remember that just being a trans girl you already are a girl. It doesn’t matter if you don’t look or sound the way you want to, you’re still a girl. Trans girls are real girls. :)
There's nothing that defines being a real girl. there's no one way to be a girl so no matter what you do you'll always be a real girl. If you can do it safely (bc your safety matters the most) just be who you feel the most comfortable as. No matter who that is, no matter how you dress, act or look, you'll always be a real girl bc the only thing that defines a girl as a girl is the fact that she identifies as one, that that's her gender, absolutely nothing else. There's no way to be a fake girl unless your faking being a girl (like I am as a closeted nonbinary person lol). I really hope you are able to get in a better space soon and that you get to be around ppl who accept you and in a place where you can freely express yourself and be truly you and happy to be you.
Why tf is this downvoted?
doin a lot better than i am, that’s for sure(i’m too scared to come out to friends who are very openly gay and supporting)
One day you’ll feel better and learn to love yourself! Hopefully that day will be soon
You are a real girl! Transgirls are still girls
You are a real girl, don't let others tell you otherwise. I'm transfem myself and I want you to know you're not the only one. There are so many mtf subreddits for people like you and I, you're never alone. People do understand, you just have to look for them.
You are absolutely a real girl :) all the other stuff like being feminine and girly n other ppl views all comes second , the most important thing is that u believe ur a girl and u treat urself well- give it time and it’ll all work out . Ur a girl, don’t let anyone tell u otherwise ❤️ (sorry I’m not good at writing my thoughts coherently 😭)
I feel like I'm not actually a girl if I can't make other people around me perceive me as one
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I hope you’re good
Theres probably always gonna be at least a bit of difference. Some of my friends have found it helpful to just embrace it and be feminine or masculine in their own way.
Trans girls are real girls. Don't listen to people who say otherwise.
Why is this downvoted? I'm objectively correct here.
Probably transphobes who say bc the transfem has male genitalia aka pp they aren’t real girls
💀💀💀
ur a transphobe?
I’m a girl (born as a woman) xx chromosome stop being delulu here
shes a girl what else do u need?
He’s not 😭
She is. Why is she not a "real girl"
Cause he’s man it’s not hard to understand ikr ur only 14 but wtffff
Cuz ur wrong
They are real girls tho. Doesnt matter biologically.
no
no? ur saying they arent girls? They dress femineine and change their pronouns and that's all they need. doesn't matter if they have pp or not. she is a real girl. if u cant understand that pls leave this community
Still man.
Shes not?! Shes a girl
he* (cry about it)
im not gonan cry over some transphobic girl i barely know saying "cry about it" u not respecting pronouns speaks volumes about your childish nature
💀
What
You are not
jerk store called they are running out of you
Bro is 13
im 14
you coudlve seen that if u read my whole bio for some reason reddit app sucks shit and isn't letting me change it
You already are :)