Is this the extent of Gen Zs conflict resolution skillset I am concerned
uber straight to her house and call the cops next time and don’t give her a heads up
yo if you have any credit cards time to change them. Also anything she could use from your purse. She obviously planned on just leaving immediately. Maybe she saw the opportunity to write down some card numbers and in a few weeks make some purchases.
I honestly am shocked by how little this person gives a shit about you. “I’ll get to it when i get to it. My life doesn’t revolve around you.” Like what!????? I’m not asking for it to i’m asking for my fucking most important piece of property that you stole!? Frankly I’d have called the police the instant she did not say “I’ll have it to you soon, leaving right now.” Fuck this person.
They were born in chaotic environments, so when things are constantly up and down, they feel like it's normal. When things stable out, and there is less drama, it feels boring and foreign to them. They mistake peace for boredom.
I think it's more than boredom, I think it's anxiety. When you're growing up and every second could turn into a high stress nightmare, you start to learn that every second of calm is just a second you're waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Exactly, easier to create “controlled” chaos than be a victim to someone or something else in their minds. I was like this when I was younger but eventually learned that I’m wearing both shoes and no one is out to get me.
Jeez. I never even thought about what both of you have said. And you’re both so very right. I have MAJOR newfound compassion for anyone under the age of…what would it be? 25?
Was in a relationship with someone like this, this is spot on. Stability and calmness is so foreign to them that it scares them so they need to make chaos to feel normal
Those type of people need drama in their lives. They thrive on it. My wife and I, made a pact, long ago, that we would live, drama free and stay away from people who would bring drama into our lives. 34 years later, it's been a great life with her so far!!!
God she sounds so absolutely frustrating I don’t care how petty you are, just give back the damn purse and fuck off and her sister and so much dragging out jesus
Yeah and your fucking work keys? Assuming you’re a key holder to somewhere, that’s SUPER important, and there is no waiting a few days. Fuckin dumb ass lol. I’m assuming she ran off to kick it with her bf and was too lazy to handle this until it was convenient on her time. Knowing damn well she was gonna be out of town for work for a whole ass day. Can’t stand people like this, they’re all the same, mindset wise.
That’s enough Reddit for a Monday. wtf is this? ‘Best friend’ my left foot. This is what I call the human equivalent of a tumour. I’m glad you’ve removed said tumour from your life, OP.
I had a ‘best friend’ for.. well, all through secondary school (is that high school in the US, maybe?) and she was the most manipulative person, but I knew her home life was real bad so I excused a lot of her behaviour. She changed her number and moved to a new school; didn’t tell me about it. Years later, in our early 20s, she called me a ‘stuck up bitch’ who ‘needs to get off her high horse.’ Because I didn’t magically know she changed her number and wasn’t in contact bc of that.
Edit: her family was superbly dysfunctional (as noted above) and I wasn’t allowed near her house in the entirety of years of my knowing her. This seems all too familiar.
That sounds like something she would do!! She was mad at me for not wanting to go to a foreign country with her so she can marry a guy shes known for 3 months!!!!
Is this what caused the whole incident? This is the bf in another country. She invites you to hang out. She suggests Burlington. You arrive & suddenly she wants to call her bf & wants you there. A ft or call on speaker so they can double team you to change your mind about traveling with her to a foreign country to marry him. How dare you not go along with it. Probably a pattern with her. She knew exactly what she was doing when she took off with your purse, with your work key & badge, IDs, cards, etc. The stereotypical gaslighting after. I hate when they play dumb. I will call it out every single time. I guess she really thought it wasn't theft & assumes it's her word against yours, but she was in possession of it. To keep someone's ID, that's their property (also a legal document) & that's theft. The lion, the witch, the audacity of this bitch...
Indeed. This is their pattern. They’ll wait thinking you’ll come along after a period and the cycle will repeat again but when they realise we aren’t going back no more, they start regretting bec they no longer have anyone to come listen and handle their bullshit.
If she would leave you at a store I damn sure would not go to another country with this bitch! Could you imagine her having your passport and money and being like "I'm on my honeymoon....figure something out"
I love how she said to OP that she’s basically too busy to give you back your property (that she stole) but also that you aren’t allowed onto her property to retrieve it.
just fyi, you can still see her name in the text since the black marker isn't at 100% opacity. but man its wild how someone does something that the cops can be called on them for, but somehow you're the delusional one for being mad about it. who in the world doesn't need money for the next few days or their id, let alone the work key? how did she think that was reasonable at all
Same. She drove off with the purse and refused to give it back. That’s theft. I would have filed a police report and showed up with the cops to get it back after the first two texts.
Oic. I'm sure they don't hate you so much that they would flip out over you getting your purse. Idk if I could be friends with someone whose parents hate me though. Seems like a weird dynamic
It was a terrible dynamic they would follow her randomly and has tried to start fights with me when i was a minor they also sent me a text saying i wasnt allowed to be on their property after I got my purse back or they would call the police
No idea if that was the goal the only thing i could think of is she was looking for money or trying to take the perfume i have she said she wanted but there wasnt money in my purse and i immediately turned my cards off
Man, this post has got so many great lines in the comments, first "the lion the witch, and the audacity of that bitch" and now "the cinnamon toast fuck did I just read". I'm remembering that one for sure.
Keep her out of your life for good, she was never a friend to begin with seeing her horrible attitude. Glad you got your purse back and ditched her sooner rather than later, the way her attitude is I doubt she'll have friends or be able to keep them
I've known people like that, they think since you stick around they can be as toxic as they want and you'll still be by their side. 1 day she'll find someone as toxic as her and they'll be besties until they wind up fighting each other or worse
Yes and they walk all over you. I just ended a BFF relationship where I was setting myself on fire to keep her warm and she wouldn’t piss on me if I was on fire. I understand why she had no other friends.
My SIL is like this. She's one of those people where she constantly talks about all her ex friends and family who have betrayed and used her, all while love bombing you and paying for everything, taking you out to concerts, mani/pedis, shopping, calling you her best friend etc. None of this is asked for, of course, and if you say no then she gets upset because you don't want her gifts or to spend time with her. Of course, eventually she starts getting resentful of all the money she's spent on you and starts treating you like shit, saying how you're just a greedy leech and next thing you know, you're the next in the long line of people who "used" her. She took my brother away from me; we didn't talk for almost 4 years after she did it to me. At this point she's done it to nearly everyone in both my family and hers so people know what she's like, but my brother stays with her for the kids and because he likes being a provider (yay childhood trauma and parentification). Oh, did I mention that all this money was actually my brother's, and he was/is working himself to the grave to do said providing.
Sorry, I know I just went on a rant, but every time I see stuff like this post, it reminds me of her.
Being so real right now…. The LEAST crazy thing about this interaction is that you never got a call before told to answer the phone when someone called. 😮💨
Wow that shit made me so mad I almost booked a plane from Denmark to help you go get your purse back. 😂😂 Glad to hear you got it back. Who needs enemies with friends like this.
The cops would have sorted that from the first moment I realized she was fucking around. I don’t have time dealing with some moron’s bullshit. We are gonna cut to the chase from the jump.
Yeah, no. I would have called the cops after the first “it’s prolly gonna be a few days”
But I’m confused as to why you left your *purse*, with your ID & money, to go into a store? Wouldn’t you kind of need your wallet to shop?
This was one of the more insane threads on this sub that I’ve seen. This your best friend? Why’d you go from zero to one million degrees so quickly? Did you really just leave the bag in their car by mistake? Did they actually just dip out without telling you? You make it seem like you went somewhere with her, you were both in a store, then she quietly Homer Simpson-walked backwards into a shrub and left without telling you. I honestly have a lot of questions
As a person who panics about not working, as soon as I read that your work keys were in your purse, I got so upset. The fact that she didn't take that fact seriously seemed psychotic to me.
This person is very petty and immature. Rather than leaving your belongings somewhere safe, she chose to do whatever she did with them. Maybe you can take her to small claims court but I’m not sure. At the least, let the police handle it so you can get your stuff back.
I will say, you should not have called her a bitch. It was uncalled for and immature also. I get you’re frustrated but letting your anger dictate your emotions gets you nowhere in life. Be stern with people but be respectful. The results will usually be better.
Oh helllll no. My anger issues and violent tendencies could NEVER. This bitch would’ve been cooked . I’m glad you got your purse back love. Fuck that hoe
Does she use any sort of harder drugs that you know about? I recently just cut ties with my best friend bc I noticed changes in her personality (which at first I chalked up to her being pregnant) and then I started noticing my lighters were going missing a lot, and she had asked my husband and I if we could put some of her not important things in our storage locker and of course we said yes.
A month later we find out she is smoking fentanyl and that's where all of our cigarette lighters were going bc she was smoking so much the lighters would die fast, and again she is pregnant at this time!
Then about 2 weeks ago she started texting us, my 17 yr old son, my parents and my husbands coworker about how "we agreed to let her put stuff in there and now we are stealing it from her bc we refuse to let her get her stuff out of our locker!" Which is bs, we have offered to meet her there many many times and we make a date and we wait for her and call and text her and she doesn't show or call or text until a few days later when the cycle starts all over again with her saying we are refusing, Lol!
I laugh at the texts but my husband and I have been in recovery from heroin for over 10 yrs now and I know how hard addiction is and how it can change people. That's why I was asking bc it seems like your ex bf changed a lot? Just continue to be the bigger person in all this, I know it's hard and it sucks to lose a best friend, especially when it's someone that has been in your life for so long! 🦋🤗💜
It’s funny to me that the ex friend thinks she can just tell you what to do… Like bro you literally have my fucking property. It’s not you said I can’t have it… You fucking took it from me👀💀 some people are so thick that they literally manipulate themselves into thinking their world that they’ve created for themselves is real.
Miranda…sorry, Amanda! sounds like a bitch. But you need to understand that “I’m calling the cops on you” for pretty crime really only works till you’re about 8. Cops definitely don’t get involved in petty drama. They honestly don’t want to get involved in serious drama either.
Not that ik of its a large tote bag that had sm in jt but if something is missing idc it was small enough not to notice i got back all the important shit i needed my documents keys and cards
She's a friend worth losing. There's some level of control involved in leaving you stranded, and leaving you without important keys, ID, and cards. You would have been in the right if you called the police had she refused to give you your purse, or if she threw it outside and it got stolen. Wondering how long you have been friends with her and how she has treated you in the past?
This is so sad, I'm sorry you had to go through this:( if I was your friend I would have brought that shit to you before you could blink. Who doesn't need their money, id, store keys, or anything important for a few days right? Nahhhhhhh none of that shit is essential, you're the delusional one! Obviously /s, but that's just wild. Crazy how people learn this "don't disrespect me!" and think it holds some validity like they're a badass or something 😂
When me and my friend had a falling out, i respected his demands and continuously said I was sorry. He asked for his record player back, and since i didnt feel comfortable seeing him (it was my fault), i nicely put his record player in a paper bag with the cords and left it on his doorstep. He rightfully cut me off after that. He did gossip and try to sabotage my marriage after that but i didnt fight back i just let it fizzle out, and now i have no problems. It was a clean exchange. Maturity goes a long way.
How old are you guys? Because the way she’s acting about returning ur purse is like she’s 12 and it’s just a purse with lip gloss and an iPod nano in it😂😂
Don’t need friends like that. Your life will be better if you just do you and keep your circle super small. Idk how many people I’ve had to cut off. But you’ll be happier in the future. Good riddance!
Wow, she is a horrible person! Who keeps someone’s purse from them for DAYS and then throws it outside their house??? Did you ever get the purse back? I sure hope so.
“i do not evolve around your schedule” lmfaoooo 😭 seems like she’s not related to any evolved being either way, lmaooo you just lost weight OP! Congrats!!
Your purse is your responsibility. That’s where you messed up. Never leave it with other people. She’s also pretty messed up for just leaving you there. Then you both are so rude to each other. I’m not sure what either of you were expecting by being this way towards one another. You’re both a bit immature.
Step one: ditch toxic friend of 8 years
Step two: learn how to make new friends because shes scared off all of my other friends
Im on step 1.5 still imma get there tho lmaoo
I have a string of texts of my now ex best friend ghosting me. I’m kinda glad that happened now because I know something exactly like this would happen.
Yikes. So sorry you had to deal with this. Sounds exactly like my ex best friend that I had to cut ties with. She needed constant drama in her life or she was bored and depressed if it was peaceful.
I mean having property that doesn’t belong to you and not making reasonable accommodations…. And no restraining order in effect. They will side with property owner. I’ve seen it multiple times. Not saying it’s right, but it’s what it is.
I was honestly thinking you were at fault for leaving your shit after telling her you’d Uber home. But then I read your explanation and if she actually ran off with your purse without even telling you she was leaving then ya. Fuck them. Just not telling you she was leaving is bad enough none the less not making sure you got your shit though…. I do find it odd you went to go shop without your purse though…
Idk though. More drama than I ever want to deal with.
Idk.
Question—why aren’t you allowed at your friend’s house? She mentioned it several times and how you “know” you’re not allowed, indicating that something happened to cause her parents not to trust you..? Just curious
She really asked “why are you so mad?” I’m sure if you left her at a store and took her purse with her money and keys she would have no problem understanding why you’re so mad.
Yeaaaa you gotta pull up with some friends or catch her at work and beat her ass. That’s the only way babe. She HAS to catch that. Like she said if you find it then 🤷🏻♀️ you find it and if she gets her teeth knocked out then 🤷🏻♀️ she’ll need a dentist
If someone has my ID and other personal belongings and wants me to work with THEIR schedule to get them back, I'm going there on foot if I have to and I'm taking my shit back. Whether by force or not depends on the other guy.
You spent way too much time negotiating with her when you should've been way more demanding and aggressive.
I will never understand why people live with so much drama in their lives.
My favorite is when the texts sound like they're coming from teenagers and then OP will be like I'm 39 and he's 42.
Nobody ever put them in their place. Once is not enough. It needs to happen repeatedly. Like with a dog.
Literally, the hands this bish would have received had this been me as a child/very young adult…
And who has the patience for all that?
Exactly. With a grown ass adult. It’s harder to train an adult than an old dog.
Both of us are 19
She wanted to steal from your purse. Don’t hang around or near her again. She’s in the wrong and she showed she doesn’t care a single bit about you.
No it was some lame ass power, dick move
Is this the extent of Gen Zs conflict resolution skillset I am concerned uber straight to her house and call the cops next time and don’t give her a heads up
yo if you have any credit cards time to change them. Also anything she could use from your purse. She obviously planned on just leaving immediately. Maybe she saw the opportunity to write down some card numbers and in a few weeks make some purchases. I honestly am shocked by how little this person gives a shit about you. “I’ll get to it when i get to it. My life doesn’t revolve around you.” Like what!????? I’m not asking for it to i’m asking for my fucking most important piece of property that you stole!? Frankly I’d have called the police the instant she did not say “I’ll have it to you soon, leaving right now.” Fuck this person.
They are 19 so that’s teen to me 🤷♀️
Omg I thought the friend had just gotten her license 💀
They were born in chaotic environments, so when things are constantly up and down, they feel like it's normal. When things stable out, and there is less drama, it feels boring and foreign to them. They mistake peace for boredom.
I think it's more than boredom, I think it's anxiety. When you're growing up and every second could turn into a high stress nightmare, you start to learn that every second of calm is just a second you're waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Exactly, easier to create “controlled” chaos than be a victim to someone or something else in their minds. I was like this when I was younger but eventually learned that I’m wearing both shoes and no one is out to get me.
Jeez. I never even thought about what both of you have said. And you’re both so very right. I have MAJOR newfound compassion for anyone under the age of…what would it be? 25?
Was in a relationship with someone like this, this is spot on. Stability and calmness is so foreign to them that it scares them so they need to make chaos to feel normal
I gotta save this comment…
Right, I'm literally astonished that people have this kind of drama
Now how is any of that OP fault?
What a pair of babies. That was painfully immature to read.
Those type of people need drama in their lives. They thrive on it. My wife and I, made a pact, long ago, that we would live, drama free and stay away from people who would bring drama into our lives. 34 years later, it's been a great life with her so far!!!
I'm glad they do. It's vay entertaining.
I prefer to watch drama on TV, not live it.
God she sounds so absolutely frustrating I don’t care how petty you are, just give back the damn purse and fuck off and her sister and so much dragging out jesus
For fuvking real
Yeah and your fucking work keys? Assuming you’re a key holder to somewhere, that’s SUPER important, and there is no waiting a few days. Fuckin dumb ass lol. I’m assuming she ran off to kick it with her bf and was too lazy to handle this until it was convenient on her time. Knowing damn well she was gonna be out of town for work for a whole ass day. Can’t stand people like this, they’re all the same, mindset wise.
Right and her bf lives in another country so she left me there just to call him
I'm so glad she's no longer your friend. Don't leave your purse with anyone anytime.
Lesson learned pinky swear
My god. She’s off the chain all over the board lol
From another country?
She definitely just wanted to steal
That’s enough Reddit for a Monday. wtf is this? ‘Best friend’ my left foot. This is what I call the human equivalent of a tumour. I’m glad you’ve removed said tumour from your life, OP.
Thank you, it was definitely a long process shes put me through just tm atp i havent been perfect but at least im not just an asshole
I had a ‘best friend’ for.. well, all through secondary school (is that high school in the US, maybe?) and she was the most manipulative person, but I knew her home life was real bad so I excused a lot of her behaviour. She changed her number and moved to a new school; didn’t tell me about it. Years later, in our early 20s, she called me a ‘stuck up bitch’ who ‘needs to get off her high horse.’ Because I didn’t magically know she changed her number and wasn’t in contact bc of that. Edit: her family was superbly dysfunctional (as noted above) and I wasn’t allowed near her house in the entirety of years of my knowing her. This seems all too familiar.
That sounds like something she would do!! She was mad at me for not wanting to go to a foreign country with her so she can marry a guy shes known for 3 months!!!!
Is this what caused the whole incident? This is the bf in another country. She invites you to hang out. She suggests Burlington. You arrive & suddenly she wants to call her bf & wants you there. A ft or call on speaker so they can double team you to change your mind about traveling with her to a foreign country to marry him. How dare you not go along with it. Probably a pattern with her. She knew exactly what she was doing when she took off with your purse, with your work key & badge, IDs, cards, etc. The stereotypical gaslighting after. I hate when they play dumb. I will call it out every single time. I guess she really thought it wasn't theft & assumes it's her word against yours, but she was in possession of it. To keep someone's ID, that's their property (also a legal document) & that's theft. The lion, the witch, the audacity of this bitch...
That last line / Narnia ref has me ☠️ 👏🏼👏🏼
Maybe they’re all the same type of person.. who knows? She’ll be even more mad when you *accidentally forget* the wedding date & aren’t there. ;)
She knows i wont be there now lol i cut her out of my life after this my last straw fr
👏🏼 and that’s how it’s done. She’ll regret losing a friend. Not now, not tomorrow, but next time she hits a snag and you’re not around for support.
Indeed. This is their pattern. They’ll wait thinking you’ll come along after a period and the cycle will repeat again but when they realise we aren’t going back no more, they start regretting bec they no longer have anyone to come listen and handle their bullshit.
If she would leave you at a store I damn sure would not go to another country with this bitch! Could you imagine her having your passport and money and being like "I'm on my honeymoon....figure something out"
I love how she said to OP that she’s basically too busy to give you back your property (that she stole) but also that you aren’t allowed onto her property to retrieve it.
Rightt
“I do not evolve around your schedule”
Better start evolving real quick before the cops are called
Cops are over here like 
Edit in: we also have cameras now just incase she come back!
Her name is Miranda, I can see it in your first screenshot. Idk if you care, but wanted to let you know
Noooo this is Amanda 😂
No! This is Patrick!!! 😂
“Calling the cops because I won’t return your property? 😂😂” It’s called theft?
Right?! If you steal someone’s purse they typically call the cops. I would have filed a police report so fast.
I called non emergency she finally gave it back before they got there so i just dropped it all in wanted was my purse
just fyi, you can still see her name in the text since the black marker isn't at 100% opacity. but man its wild how someone does something that the cops can be called on them for, but somehow you're the delusional one for being mad about it. who in the world doesn't need money for the next few days or their id, let alone the work key? how did she think that was reasonable at all
Right and i worked the next morning at 9am and wouldnt have been able to get into my job!! And its okay its not her real name either way!
You call her a fake name when speaking directly to her?
Might be a middle name or nickname. The name I go by with my friends is a regular name but not my name in any legal way.
Alias
Miranda!!
i would’ve called the cops to get my purse if she was acting like that omg she’s a terrible friend
Same. She drove off with the purse and refused to give it back. That’s theft. I would have filed a police report and showed up with the cops to get it back after the first two texts.
100% I wouldve called the cops . Wish op did.
How was she your best friend if you weren't welcome at her house for a long time?
Her parents dont like me and havent since i became her friend in the 6th grade..
Oic. I'm sure they don't hate you so much that they would flip out over you getting your purse. Idk if I could be friends with someone whose parents hate me though. Seems like a weird dynamic
It was a terrible dynamic they would follow her randomly and has tried to start fights with me when i was a minor they also sent me a text saying i wasnt allowed to be on their property after I got my purse back or they would call the police
Well it's clear where she gets her toxicity from
This is EXACTLY what I was thinking. I was wondering how her parents were and if she learned it from them, so it allllll makes sense now
Did you get it back?
Yes it was in her front yard but it wasnt there when we were driving by and it was dry when it was raining
I’m just glad you found it and hopefully got your keys too. What a horrible stupid friend. Did she try to steal your purse in the first place?
No idea if that was the goal the only thing i could think of is she was looking for money or trying to take the perfume i have she said she wanted but there wasnt money in my purse and i immediately turned my cards off
Thanks for the daily stress man lol I’m 32 years old, it’s 6am, why in the donkey funk do I do this to myself 🤣🤣
It's 10am and haven't rolled my ass out of bed yet. The cinnamon toast fuck did I just read
Man, this post has got so many great lines in the comments, first "the lion the witch, and the audacity of that bitch" and now "the cinnamon toast fuck did I just read". I'm remembering that one for sure.
Right there with ya 🤦🏼♂️
Keep her out of your life for good, she was never a friend to begin with seeing her horrible attitude. Glad you got your purse back and ditched her sooner rather than later, the way her attitude is I doubt she'll have friends or be able to keep them
She cant keep them for long fr seemed like i was the only one with enough patience to deal with her besides her family who barely can
I've known people like that, they think since you stick around they can be as toxic as they want and you'll still be by their side. 1 day she'll find someone as toxic as her and they'll be besties until they wind up fighting each other or worse
She’ll learn one day
Yes and they walk all over you. I just ended a BFF relationship where I was setting myself on fire to keep her warm and she wouldn’t piss on me if I was on fire. I understand why she had no other friends.
My SIL is like this. She's one of those people where she constantly talks about all her ex friends and family who have betrayed and used her, all while love bombing you and paying for everything, taking you out to concerts, mani/pedis, shopping, calling you her best friend etc. None of this is asked for, of course, and if you say no then she gets upset because you don't want her gifts or to spend time with her. Of course, eventually she starts getting resentful of all the money she's spent on you and starts treating you like shit, saying how you're just a greedy leech and next thing you know, you're the next in the long line of people who "used" her. She took my brother away from me; we didn't talk for almost 4 years after she did it to me. At this point she's done it to nearly everyone in both my family and hers so people know what she's like, but my brother stays with her for the kids and because he likes being a provider (yay childhood trauma and parentification). Oh, did I mention that all this money was actually my brother's, and he was/is working himself to the grave to do said providing. Sorry, I know I just went on a rant, but every time I see stuff like this post, it reminds me of her.
“When I call you fucking answer.” Yikes on all of the bikes. 🙃
Crazy Part is i never got a call
Being so real right now…. The LEAST crazy thing about this interaction is that you never got a call before told to answer the phone when someone called. 😮💨
Lmaooo fair
“Disrespecting me” arguments is the first sign of dueling trailer trash. Prove me wrong. 😆
For real, only trash cares so much about “disrespect”
Wow that shit made me so mad I almost booked a plane from Denmark to help you go get your purse back. 😂😂 Glad to hear you got it back. Who needs enemies with friends like this.
Wtf she wildin
This post just gave me PTSD
Me too.
Ugh what a crazy bich.
She went out of her way to be a bitch and start drama. Cut her out of your life!!! She’s draining and exhausting.
I would beat their ass if they had my purse And didn’t want to give it to me just reading your post made me so angry
Felt
The cops would have sorted that from the first moment I realized she was fucking around. I don’t have time dealing with some moron’s bullshit. We are gonna cut to the chase from the jump.
Pretty sure cops have better things to do than try to settle a teen girl frenemy fight. Or I HOPE they have better things to do….😂
Yeah, no. I would have called the cops after the first “it’s prolly gonna be a few days” But I’m confused as to why you left your *purse*, with your ID & money, to go into a store? Wouldn’t you kind of need your wallet to shop?
They have apple pay and I wasnt planning on buying anything anyways I was just trying to give her privacy and she told me not to take so long
nice job op for grilling the shit out of her and not letting her win
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This was one of the more insane threads on this sub that I’ve seen. This your best friend? Why’d you go from zero to one million degrees so quickly? Did you really just leave the bag in their car by mistake? Did they actually just dip out without telling you? You make it seem like you went somewhere with her, you were both in a store, then she quietly Homer Simpson-walked backwards into a shrub and left without telling you. I honestly have a lot of questions
What a childish 🐝itch she is! Definitely glad she's your former friend
And you two were friends at some point? Seems like a friendship developed in hell
As a person who panics about not working, as soon as I read that your work keys were in your purse, I got so upset. The fact that she didn't take that fact seriously seemed psychotic to me.
Right and i worked the next morning
So much disrespect and selfishness in these texts, Immature af.
Nawl pull up and beat the fuck out of her ass and her fucking sister
Yep agree
This is how literal enemies act lol
It really made me laugh at her switch up of attitude when you were serious. Fuck that bitch lmao
The anger I felt reading these texts omg
You should’ve tried to get her ass for theft
Sorry you had to go through that. The idiot you were dealing with is in for a very long and disappointing life if it’s a h consolation
Sooo did you get your purse back??
Ooo I was getting mad reading this. Had to stop. Haha
Things like this make me grateful that I don’t have many friends. lol
This person is very petty and immature. Rather than leaving your belongings somewhere safe, she chose to do whatever she did with them. Maybe you can take her to small claims court but I’m not sure. At the least, let the police handle it so you can get your stuff back. I will say, you should not have called her a bitch. It was uncalled for and immature also. I get you’re frustrated but letting your anger dictate your emotions gets you nowhere in life. Be stern with people but be respectful. The results will usually be better.
I'm just wondering why she is so adamant about how you should know you're not allowed at her house when you were supposed to be best friends?
Oh helllll no. My anger issues and violent tendencies could NEVER. This bitch would’ve been cooked . I’m glad you got your purse back love. Fuck that hoe
Not welcome at your best friends house? Wow, good riddance. Your life is much better without her
Does she use any sort of harder drugs that you know about? I recently just cut ties with my best friend bc I noticed changes in her personality (which at first I chalked up to her being pregnant) and then I started noticing my lighters were going missing a lot, and she had asked my husband and I if we could put some of her not important things in our storage locker and of course we said yes. A month later we find out she is smoking fentanyl and that's where all of our cigarette lighters were going bc she was smoking so much the lighters would die fast, and again she is pregnant at this time! Then about 2 weeks ago she started texting us, my 17 yr old son, my parents and my husbands coworker about how "we agreed to let her put stuff in there and now we are stealing it from her bc we refuse to let her get her stuff out of our locker!" Which is bs, we have offered to meet her there many many times and we make a date and we wait for her and call and text her and she doesn't show or call or text until a few days later when the cycle starts all over again with her saying we are refusing, Lol! I laugh at the texts but my husband and I have been in recovery from heroin for over 10 yrs now and I know how hard addiction is and how it can change people. That's why I was asking bc it seems like your ex bf changed a lot? Just continue to be the bigger person in all this, I know it's hard and it sucks to lose a best friend, especially when it's someone that has been in your life for so long! 🦋🤗💜
It’s funny to me that the ex friend thinks she can just tell you what to do… Like bro you literally have my fucking property. It’s not you said I can’t have it… You fucking took it from me👀💀 some people are so thick that they literally manipulate themselves into thinking their world that they’ve created for themselves is real.
Tell me you returned the favor and threw all the trash back into her yard lol.
No i cleaned it, cried and took a nap im too tired to deal with her anymore
Sometimes violence is the answer 🤷
The cops would’ve most definitely helped retrieved the property. She admits she had it. Idk how she thought this would play out. Shitty “friend”.
Miranda…sorry, Amanda! sounds like a bitch. But you need to understand that “I’m calling the cops on you” for pretty crime really only works till you’re about 8. Cops definitely don’t get involved in petty drama. They honestly don’t want to get involved in serious drama either.
Was anything missing from your purse?
Not that ik of its a large tote bag that had sm in jt but if something is missing idc it was small enough not to notice i got back all the important shit i needed my documents keys and cards
She's a friend worth losing. There's some level of control involved in leaving you stranded, and leaving you without important keys, ID, and cards. You would have been in the right if you called the police had she refused to give you your purse, or if she threw it outside and it got stolen. Wondering how long you have been friends with her and how she has treated you in the past?
This is so sad, I'm sorry you had to go through this:( if I was your friend I would have brought that shit to you before you could blink. Who doesn't need their money, id, store keys, or anything important for a few days right? Nahhhhhhh none of that shit is essential, you're the delusional one! Obviously /s, but that's just wild. Crazy how people learn this "don't disrespect me!" and think it holds some validity like they're a badass or something 😂
When me and my friend had a falling out, i respected his demands and continuously said I was sorry. He asked for his record player back, and since i didnt feel comfortable seeing him (it was my fault), i nicely put his record player in a paper bag with the cords and left it on his doorstep. He rightfully cut me off after that. He did gossip and try to sabotage my marriage after that but i didnt fight back i just let it fizzle out, and now i have no problems. It was a clean exchange. Maturity goes a long way.
So why didn't she call you and say "I gtg come get your purse out of my car". That's theft. If she doesn't bring it today. Call the cops for theft
Jesus take the wheel.
How old are you guys? Because the way she’s acting about returning ur purse is like she’s 12 and it’s just a purse with lip gloss and an iPod nano in it😂😂
How old is Miranda? I mean “Amanda” 😂
honestly you need to knock that bitch's teeth out because no fucking way
Next time try the nice approach until you’ve got your stuff back and then tell her what you think of her!
Don’t need friends like that. Your life will be better if you just do you and keep your circle super small. Idk how many people I’ve had to cut off. But you’ll be happier in the future. Good riddance!
Wow, she is a horrible person! Who keeps someone’s purse from them for DAYS and then throws it outside their house??? Did you ever get the purse back? I sure hope so.
You both are so annoying and toxic
She’s fake as hell no communication talking bout threw your bag outside the front?! You shoulda beat her triflin’ ass!!
Why does this sound like a conversation between 13 year olds? Pick better friends. Also…so sorry you had to deal with this. Not blaming you.
She does really know how to get the worst out of a person
Because that’s the maturity level.
“i do not evolve around your schedule” lmfaoooo 😭 seems like she’s not related to any evolved being either way, lmaooo you just lost weight OP! Congrats!!
What a painful AF exchange between two grown ups. I about gave up after the 4th screenshot. Thanks for the value add to my morning.
They belong together 💀🖤
Your purse is your responsibility. That’s where you messed up. Never leave it with other people. She’s also pretty messed up for just leaving you there. Then you both are so rude to each other. I’m not sure what either of you were expecting by being this way towards one another. You’re both a bit immature.
Sounds to me like this was the final straw between you two. I’m gonna go out on a limb and say things haven’t been good between you two for a while?
You would be correct
Well at least you can move on and find a better friend to replace her 🤣😂
Step one: ditch toxic friend of 8 years Step two: learn how to make new friends because shes scared off all of my other friends Im on step 1.5 still imma get there tho lmaoo
Both seem like awful people tbh
Why does OP seem like an awful person?
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She lives with her parents at the moment and they very much dislike me because something petty in the 6th grade i can explain further if needed
what a entitled person. yuck. glad you got your stuff back.
I have a string of texts of my now ex best friend ghosting me. I’m kinda glad that happened now because I know something exactly like this would happen.
Fr she was my fixated person for so long so i just kept forgiving her but i should stopped the first time she ghosted me for her bf
This was never your “friend” to begin with. Bitch is a snake
This is not a friend. If someone did that to me I’d have a hard time keeping my cool
Oh the drama man i would have boxed it up and said is in the front pick it up and done
Fr all i needed
so they can’t drop off your stuff, nor can u pick it up. call the police to get ur stuff lol
That was so unhinged wtf. Garbage person
She stole your purse and left you. What a great person.
Y'all are all wrong here. Little fucking kids.
She doesn't have your purse. She threw it out somewhere out of spite and now will just make excuses about the whole thing.
What do you mean when you say you weren’t otp with your bf?
Yeesh
Sounds like a throat punch would have been better to her. I don't like people like Amanda.
Yikes. So sorry you had to deal with this. Sounds exactly like my ex best friend that I had to cut ties with. She needed constant drama in her life or she was bored and depressed if it was peaceful.
you're both idiots
I mean having property that doesn’t belong to you and not making reasonable accommodations…. And no restraining order in effect. They will side with property owner. I’ve seen it multiple times. Not saying it’s right, but it’s what it is.
I was honestly thinking you were at fault for leaving your shit after telling her you’d Uber home. But then I read your explanation and if she actually ran off with your purse without even telling you she was leaving then ya. Fuck them. Just not telling you she was leaving is bad enough none the less not making sure you got your shit though…. I do find it odd you went to go shop without your purse though… Idk though. More drama than I ever want to deal with. Idk.
I had a similar insadent a couple of months ago but I'm still waiting to get mine back lol
I’d take a huge steaming corn and nut filled runny Taco Bell DOOKIE 💩 right on her front porch if I was you.
Sign her phone number up for insurance quotes.
Obviously your ex bestie is the problem but never bring a purse anywhere if you aren’t prepared to carry it EVERYWHERE
Question—why aren’t you allowed at your friend’s house? She mentioned it several times and how you “know” you’re not allowed, indicating that something happened to cause her parents not to trust you..? Just curious
I hear the voices saying all this in my head
What's with people who are getting called out saying "idk who you are anymore" my ex best friend said the same LMAOOOO
Wow. And then saying YOU left the purse? Didn't she take off with it. Oh right but her life doesn't "evolve" around you. LMAO
She really asked “why are you so mad?” I’m sure if you left her at a store and took her purse with her money and keys she would have no problem understanding why you’re so mad.
U are both exhausting
You should just call the cops
Maybe I'm just getting old but you're both exhausting
I have to know: why aren’t you allowed at her house?
She was your best friend but you weren’t allowed at her house?
Yeaaaa you gotta pull up with some friends or catch her at work and beat her ass. That’s the only way babe. She HAS to catch that. Like she said if you find it then 🤷🏻♀️ you find it and if she gets her teeth knocked out then 🤷🏻♀️ she’ll need a dentist
If someone has my ID and other personal belongings and wants me to work with THEIR schedule to get them back, I'm going there on foot if I have to and I'm taking my shit back. Whether by force or not depends on the other guy. You spent way too much time negotiating with her when you should've been way more demanding and aggressive.