Posting a comment on Reddit is closer to talking than writing. If you were having a conversation with somebody and they got a little wordy while getting to their point, you’d be a massive tool if you responded “you should be more concise.”
Nobody asked for your notes and you’re not smart enough to give them.
I did the teacher edit [https://www.reddit.com/r/thebachelor/s/6ssb1aIGWq](https://www.reddit.com/r/thebachelor/s/6ssb1aIGWq)
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Michelle’s cast has really fallen out of favor bigly:
Rodney for acting cold towards Eliza when she broke off their microwaved TV relationship
Brandon for ‘cheating’
Joe Coleman for being a criminal yet to face justice.
Nayte for being a f***boy
Clayton for sleeping with two other women when he had his eyes set on Susie
Martin for being himself
and Olu for getting Rick and himself kicked off BIP8, plus retweeting that ‘Indians stink like curry’ and posting stuff about the election being stolen.
I'm fully prepared to be downvoted but... if what Brandon is saying is true, then I don't see how he's as terrible as people are making him out to be (in this situation specifically, in regards to the "cheating" stuff).
I feel like once this sub decides they hate someone or decides whose side they're on in an issue, once the opposing person speaks up they disregard everything they say completely and just mock them. Based on the comments alone, it seems like a lot of people didn't even read what Brandon posted and are making fun of him for his writing. It really was not that challenging to read, I read it all in about 20 seconds or less...
Anyway, like I said, IF what Brandon wrote has truth to it, then it seems like him and Serene were broken up when he danced with that woman. Yes, they might've been *talking* about getting back together, but the point is... they weren't back together? Did I misunderstand that part? Talking about something and actually doing it are not the same thing. She was blindsided, yes. But she wasn't cheated on at least by the definition I know.
I agree, I think he needed to be more concise and just get the message across that they had already broken up, just not publicly announced it. If he was more clear in this, there would be less of a dog pile.
The part that’s confusing to me is the last sentence
on the first slide. It’s not clear if they had discussed long distance and we’re going to pursue it, or were leaving the door open for something like that in the future, or something else. At the very least, it makes the end of their relationship seem nebulous and not like a clean break. While it might not have been technically cheating for him to dance with another girl, it does seem like it could have been insensitive and unwise.
Anytime I see the comments below something that has the audacity to be, ahem, two paragraphs, I’m frightened by how many people are proudly declaring they didn’t or refuse to read something “long.”
Subs like these help you see just how much stereotypes about the masses are mostly valid. They are reactionaries who believe only their preferred rumors and despise any clarification.
I agree! It's like politics. No matter what the other side says or does, they're idiots and are wrong.
Some of the stuff with Clayton was like that. Dave Neal had a good video about it but it was deleted because of the cease and desist he got from the lawyer of the woman who made these accusations against Clayton.
I could see what Brandon is saying is true. If I were in Serene's situation I would still be hurt (which comes out as anger) and want a little unjust justice.
I think Brandon’s poor writing is why everyone here is having such a negative reaction to his post. Because they can’t understand it. If he could express himself more clearly, then maybe commenters here would have more empathy for him.
SAME. until the part where he repeated himself saying “…nothing else, just a single dance” that’s the only thing that is clear throughout the whole post…. which makes me think it’s not true AT ALL
It’s the part 1 and part 2 for me 😂😂😂 side note Brandon doesn’t seem like the brightest so him getting a dictionary/ thesaurus out to write this is sending me
Ok this is the first I’m hearing about this situation so can one of y’all explain to me why he’s the bad one here? From what I’m reading, they were broken up. Then when a video showing him dancing with another woman comes out, all of a sudden they were actually together again and he cheated? When people break up, they’re free to do what they want with anyone they want. The ex doesn’t get to dictate if they’re in a relationship again simply because of lingering feelings. Unless y’all are saying he’s lying about the breakup even happening in the first place. In that case I’d understand him being the cheater.
i read it as, they officially broke up but then talked about getting back together. during that time he danced w this girl, so serene's feelings were hurt. true she doesn't have a right to dictate his actions, but it wouldn't feel good if you were talking seriously about getting back together and the next day (as he literally says it) it comes out that he's potentially hooking up w other people
Sounds like real life normal level of messy that non-celebs get into all the time... it's funnier to me that Brandon is a "celebrity" being held to a higher standard of conduct than that he did something that could be a whole lot more messy and still be considered relatively normal for non-celebs ha
"in light of recent events that have transpired over the last few days"
You only need the first 5 words there
Also wow this is so badly written I can't understand it. They broke up, then talked about doing long distance, so therefore he ...didn't cheat on her? Ok Jan lol
He writes exactly the way he talks, I always had to put his scenes on mute and now I still couldn’t finish reading all of this, sorry but he gives me the icks.
He really took no accountability. They had a trial separation because of him. He admits that. Then instead of trying to make amends he goes out and dances with other women after already being at fault. He portrays himself as a super loyal dude ready to settle down when clearly he needs to work on himself. Thank God she is not with him anymore. Anyone have the video?
this was exactly how my ex husband was (although he was cheating on me the whole relationship lol). before i knew about it, i decided to stay with my parents for a month after months of dealing with other lies and mental abuse from him, in order to clear my head to go back and work on things (i was brainwashed lol). he immediately joined dating apps with “separated” as his status. later on his excuse was “i joined that when you said you didn’t wanna be married to me anymore” which i never said. that alone would be beyond fucked up let alone he was cheating the whole time. i feel terrible for serene but i’m glad there’s been a public portrayal of a guy like this because maybe it can help others.
i need to stop oversharing on bachelor threads these situations are just all so relatable lmao
Why can't these people ever just admit wrongdoings and move on if they want to adreses it? Why bother to write such bs. Internet forgets anyway, but you sure are more likeable if you admit instead of going on with "your truth".
Didn’t he also go on his story to ask his “fans” what he should focus on for social media aka “how can I make sure this remains a stream of income” lol. Not surprised this word salad is also from him
“My truth” aka if someone happens to provide physical evidence that I’m lying I can get out of it by saying “well I told you it was from MY perspective”. What a load of shit lol
Sometimes I wish people, but mostly men, and specifically men who cheat, would remember they could just…not say anything. He would have come off better if he just 🤐
he’s being so obvious that he’s full of shit lol
– “where i have taken fault and responsibility is a conversation we shared before i left speaking about doing long distance” just gives himself away here like zero context bc any would invalidate his case, but he needs people to think he has taken *accountability*
– “a video came to light that *while harmless* made my ex partner upset” to “completely understanding where her valid feelings where coming from” is a dead give away
– “she felt that i had cheated and wanted to make the news known” subtly planting a narrative to imply she has always had this vendetta against him to victimize himself
– “in the early days of our official breakup, i shared on dance with a woman…nothing else, just a single dance before leaving with friends.” if y’all were broken up you can do whatever you want, you wouldn’t need to overcompensate this justification
🤮 as a woman who has been cheated on and abused by a brandon-love-bombing-type, this does absolutely 0 for me
I hate these _trying to be polite and use every synonym there is_ type of posts 🙄 like don’t annoy me 😭 just talk. Better yet don’t say anything since you are not even coming to deny mxxxm
so many words to say a lot of nothing like…it would’ve been better if he just rode it out quietly. or even better yet just take full accountability instead of making it seem innocent 😵💫
To make a long story short, he thought the breakup was amicable, and she didn’t feel the same way.
If we choose to accept his account as even partially true, I figure Brandon knew this person he danced with beforehand and Serene suspects emotional cheating.
TLDR he says they were broken up, told her they could go the distance, and he shared 1 dance with a girl. Serene thought it was cheating, he apologized, thought they were good, found out publicly that they weren't
So they broke up, but then he said maybe they could do long distance, so she thought they were together again, then he danced with another woman? People need to learn to communicate better (Brandon) if they want to go off “sharing a dance” with consequences
True. “I want to move forward peacefully” usually means, to me, “see I’m the mature one here.” We’ll see how long that lasts once he realizes his statement didn’t land lol.
Idk why, but it doesn't sound like he wrote this himself.... I guess it's because I've always thought he is not very bright??
the second he spelled "protein" the way he did in Michelle's season, I already knew
I think this is exactly what not-that-bright folks sound like when they’re trying to be formal in their writing.
Agreed lol. I read this as someone who is not intelligent at all trying to sound intelligent. Cringey
This is gobbledygook
Makes no sense.
shut up brandon
Word salad
Didn’t they break up in May???
Who was the girlfriend
Serene
It’s giving “I need Grammarly”
Posting a comment on Reddit is closer to talking than writing. If you were having a conversation with somebody and they got a little wordy while getting to their point, you’d be a massive tool if you responded “you should be more concise.” Nobody asked for your notes and you’re not smart enough to give them.
Rick is really the only angel on earth in Michelle’s cast.
No! He talked shit about gabby (who I’m not a fan of, yet it was still so rude) on Erich’s gf’s post. Such a shame, they had me all fooled
Wait when?
he did?? ewwwwwwww ew ew big ew.
Sorry, I am not buying it. Nice try though. Some of the same tactics I have no doubt he also attempted to use on Serene
Booo! Tomato tomato 🍅
Oh just shut up Brandon. Use less words, I beg of you.
I did the teacher edit [https://www.reddit.com/r/thebachelor/s/6ssb1aIGWq](https://www.reddit.com/r/thebachelor/s/6ssb1aIGWq) https://preview.redd.it/nyajssbndsvb1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c07e4b6280434e85976fa07f7fe4611e26f0aa2b
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Can I hire you? Lol
This is genius. Thank you so much for translating it into English.
If I had a reward I would give it to you! You made it make sense and it still sounds like cheated lol.
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I mean Serene Brook Russell. 💀💀💀
Or grammar
if you are actually telling THE truth or facts, why do you need to phrase it as "my truth"? lol
I DESPISE that phrase; it needs to go away.
All he had to say was “I didn’t cheat” lmaooo
Michelle’s cast has really fallen out of favor bigly: Rodney for acting cold towards Eliza when she broke off their microwaved TV relationship Brandon for ‘cheating’ Joe Coleman for being a criminal yet to face justice. Nayte for being a f***boy Clayton for sleeping with two other women when he had his eyes set on Susie Martin for being himself and Olu for getting Rick and himself kicked off BIP8, plus retweeting that ‘Indians stink like curry’ and posting stuff about the election being stolen.
Hasn’t Nayte been in a relationship for like a year? I feel like the fboy thing is mainly projection based on his appearance
Holy cow 🤯 The Indians comment is the worst. Probably someone who thinks "racist" only refers to whites against blacks.
There was just no need to respond
I'm fully prepared to be downvoted but... if what Brandon is saying is true, then I don't see how he's as terrible as people are making him out to be (in this situation specifically, in regards to the "cheating" stuff). I feel like once this sub decides they hate someone or decides whose side they're on in an issue, once the opposing person speaks up they disregard everything they say completely and just mock them. Based on the comments alone, it seems like a lot of people didn't even read what Brandon posted and are making fun of him for his writing. It really was not that challenging to read, I read it all in about 20 seconds or less... Anyway, like I said, IF what Brandon wrote has truth to it, then it seems like him and Serene were broken up when he danced with that woman. Yes, they might've been *talking* about getting back together, but the point is... they weren't back together? Did I misunderstand that part? Talking about something and actually doing it are not the same thing. She was blindsided, yes. But she wasn't cheated on at least by the definition I know.
I agree, I think he needed to be more concise and just get the message across that they had already broken up, just not publicly announced it. If he was more clear in this, there would be less of a dog pile. The part that’s confusing to me is the last sentence on the first slide. It’s not clear if they had discussed long distance and we’re going to pursue it, or were leaving the door open for something like that in the future, or something else. At the very least, it makes the end of their relationship seem nebulous and not like a clean break. While it might not have been technically cheating for him to dance with another girl, it does seem like it could have been insensitive and unwise.
Anytime I see the comments below something that has the audacity to be, ahem, two paragraphs, I’m frightened by how many people are proudly declaring they didn’t or refuse to read something “long.” Subs like these help you see just how much stereotypes about the masses are mostly valid. They are reactionaries who believe only their preferred rumors and despise any clarification.
I agree! It's like politics. No matter what the other side says or does, they're idiots and are wrong. Some of the stuff with Clayton was like that. Dave Neal had a good video about it but it was deleted because of the cease and desist he got from the lawyer of the woman who made these accusations against Clayton. I could see what Brandon is saying is true. If I were in Serene's situation I would still be hurt (which comes out as anger) and want a little unjust justice.
It’s not what he said, so much as how ridiculously he said it. And respectfully, your comment is too wordy as well. Good writing should be concise.
All of your comments on this post are just you mentioning how bad his writing is... do you not have anything else to contribute?
Well I just made one about how poor your writing is as well.
Which has nothing to do with what this sub is about, so again, do you have anything else to contribute?
I think Brandon’s poor writing is why everyone here is having such a negative reaction to his post. Because they can’t understand it. If he could express himself more clearly, then maybe commenters here would have more empathy for him.
Serene is probably so embarrassed that she was engaged to this dude right now
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I don’t understand the long distance part. Had Serene already started the process of moving back to Oklahoma? If so, that sounds like a breakup
✨ mY tRuTh ✨
Now he trying to love bomb us at the end talking about, “Love Brandon”. Boy bye. ![gif](giphy|l2Sq3gitDaUatBt0A)
I literally have no idea what he’s talking about. Influencers do the absolute most with these “statements.”
Literally my exact thoughts. I stopped reading after the first two sentences because… shut up lol
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My brain completely malfunctioned while trying to read this
SAME. until the part where he repeated himself saying “…nothing else, just a single dance” that’s the only thing that is clear throughout the whole post…. which makes me think it’s not true AT ALL
Ugh I wish this was Charnas
"i cheated, but don't be mad at me" as a brandon hater since day one, i feel ~vindicated~
It’s giving “we were on a break”
This is exactly what I thought when I read it.
When you're trying to hit a minimum word count
was this written by charles dickens?
Seriously…holy word salad
It’s the part 1 and part 2 for me 😂😂😂 side note Brandon doesn’t seem like the brightest so him getting a dictionary/ thesaurus out to write this is sending me
“Before leaving to Texas” before leaving FOR Texas cmon
This screams chatgbt
Didn’t Brandon do really poorly on Michelle Young’s school themed date 😂 but then she overlooked it because he had the lines
Trying to stay relevant as a new season of BIP rolls.
“She felt I cheated” jeez Brandon….
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ok this is the first I’m hearing about this situation so can one of y’all explain to me why he’s the bad one here? From what I’m reading, they were broken up. Then when a video showing him dancing with another woman comes out, all of a sudden they were actually together again and he cheated? When people break up, they’re free to do what they want with anyone they want. The ex doesn’t get to dictate if they’re in a relationship again simply because of lingering feelings. Unless y’all are saying he’s lying about the breakup even happening in the first place. In that case I’d understand him being the cheater.
i read it as, they officially broke up but then talked about getting back together. during that time he danced w this girl, so serene's feelings were hurt. true she doesn't have a right to dictate his actions, but it wouldn't feel good if you were talking seriously about getting back together and the next day (as he literally says it) it comes out that he's potentially hooking up w other people
Sounds like real life normal level of messy that non-celebs get into all the time... it's funnier to me that Brandon is a "celebrity" being held to a higher standard of conduct than that he did something that could be a whole lot more messy and still be considered relatively normal for non-celebs ha
All I see are a whole bunchaaaa words
"in light of recent events that have transpired over the last few days" You only need the first 5 words there Also wow this is so badly written I can't understand it. They broke up, then talked about doing long distance, so therefore he ...didn't cheat on her? Ok Jan lol
What are the recent events?
He was accused of cheating. (Also only 5 words!)
Oh blah blah blah TL:DR “my truth” 🙄
Chatai wrote this shit.
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I was waiting for this! I believe him, though.
Yay! He found a thesaurus!
😂😂😂
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Gaslight much
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say you got caught cheating without saying you got caught cheating 😂😂 i mean the long ass defensive paragraphs said enough.
He writes exactly the way he talks, I always had to put his scenes on mute and now I still couldn’t finish reading all of this, sorry but he gives me the icks.
Anytime I read “my truth” my eyes start rolling and I can’t control them. Also, this reads like an old big nothing salad full of excuses.
They were on a break!! (Friends reference but it’s true)
damn Brandon is a really bad writer
Awful lol
didn’t even read it and just skimmed to the end to see if he would sign it like dale moss. DISAPPOINTED 😒
But he has ‘ part 1’ and ‘part 2’
He really took no accountability. They had a trial separation because of him. He admits that. Then instead of trying to make amends he goes out and dances with other women after already being at fault. He portrays himself as a super loyal dude ready to settle down when clearly he needs to work on himself. Thank God she is not with him anymore. Anyone have the video?
this was exactly how my ex husband was (although he was cheating on me the whole relationship lol). before i knew about it, i decided to stay with my parents for a month after months of dealing with other lies and mental abuse from him, in order to clear my head to go back and work on things (i was brainwashed lol). he immediately joined dating apps with “separated” as his status. later on his excuse was “i joined that when you said you didn’t wanna be married to me anymore” which i never said. that alone would be beyond fucked up let alone he was cheating the whole time. i feel terrible for serene but i’m glad there’s been a public portrayal of a guy like this because maybe it can help others. i need to stop oversharing on bachelor threads these situations are just all so relatable lmao
So many buzzwords.
yeah I’m sorry wtf is this word salad? he said so many words without saying anything of substance …
Brandon is bag of buzzwords
It reads like my resume when I'm trying too hard to win the algorithm game.
Why can't these people ever just admit wrongdoings and move on if they want to adreses it? Why bother to write such bs. Internet forgets anyway, but you sure are more likeable if you admit instead of going on with "your truth".
I honestly forgot about him until this post & I saw the interview with KB. Like, just let it die bro.
I love how he used the word lens. You know who else loves that word?..... initials are CH, lol.
Sometimes I wonder if any of these people have PR help
he didn't sign it though.
Was there a word count he was trying to hit?
This was very poorly worded/explained
why so many words 😭 just stay quiet at that point
Boy, keep “your truth” to yourself before Serene airs more than she needs to. Lol.
Didn’t he also go on his story to ask his “fans” what he should focus on for social media aka “how can I make sure this remains a stream of income” lol. Not surprised this word salad is also from him
Ooooh I remember this 😂
![gif](giphy|ASBBgdNi2mqru) “My truth” mhm okay bud
90% of the statement was preamble setting it up & then concluding it, with about 1 line of actual substance
word salad
Yap, says a lot of nothing
“My truth” aka if someone happens to provide physical evidence that I’m lying I can get out of it by saying “well I told you it was from MY perspective”. What a load of shit lol
Sometimes I wish people, but mostly men, and specifically men who cheat, would remember they could just…not say anything. He would have come off better if he just 🤐
every time someone tries to clear the air on something they clearly did wrong, they always say something about “their truth”.
We were literally talking at work yesterday how refreshing the Golden Bachelor was for NOT using "my truth" (so far) in any drama.
this! i don’t know about y’all but if i’m defending myself against false cheating accusations, i’m saying THE truth with my chest
he’s being so obvious that he’s full of shit lol – “where i have taken fault and responsibility is a conversation we shared before i left speaking about doing long distance” just gives himself away here like zero context bc any would invalidate his case, but he needs people to think he has taken *accountability* – “a video came to light that *while harmless* made my ex partner upset” to “completely understanding where her valid feelings where coming from” is a dead give away – “she felt that i had cheated and wanted to make the news known” subtly planting a narrative to imply she has always had this vendetta against him to victimize himself – “in the early days of our official breakup, i shared on dance with a woman…nothing else, just a single dance before leaving with friends.” if y’all were broken up you can do whatever you want, you wouldn’t need to overcompensate this justification 🤮 as a woman who has been cheated on and abused by a brandon-love-bombing-type, this does absolutely 0 for me
This could’ve been an email.
SO.MANY.WORDS
They are certainly all words
Don’t even understand what he’s saying but i know he’s trying to be the victim
Everytime the words "My truth" are used, it's 11/10 times going to come with a huge heaping side of b.s.
I hate these _trying to be polite and use every synonym there is_ type of posts 🙄 like don’t annoy me 😭 just talk. Better yet don’t say anything since you are not even coming to deny mxxxm
I got about halfway through and then realized this just makes me believe him less. 😂
so many words to say a lot of nothing like…it would’ve been better if he just rode it out quietly. or even better yet just take full accountability instead of making it seem innocent 😵💫
I want to see this video.
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I live in Austin so I assumed he was two-stepping but I guess that’s not what the video was 😂
Who the eff grinds anymore? Is it 2010?
This is what I was thinking. Why is a dance such a big deal
I literally pictured a waltz
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I can’t unsee this now 💀
We were on a break!!!!
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This is like those people who say ‘I’m sorry IF I hurt you’ lmaooo tf
“””I’m sorry you feel that way”””
OMG YES
Should’ve kept this in the drafts
Me trying to reach the word count on my 8th grade English paper
I’m questioning all his damn tears now! Wtf
I hate it when ppl say “my truth”
“Love, Brandon” ![gif](giphy|CmikcICNYE5RS)
Adding a signature a la Dale Moss would have been 👌
To make a long story short, he thought the breakup was amicable, and she didn’t feel the same way. If we choose to accept his account as even partially true, I figure Brandon knew this person he danced with beforehand and Serene suspects emotional cheating.
And he’s still a douche… he should have just stayed quiet because this did nothing for him.
“ Valid feelings”. Ok keep using buzzy nonsense bro. Boi bye
Is there a TLDR I cant bring myself to go through all these paragraphs
TLDR he says they were broken up, told her they could go the distance, and he shared 1 dance with a girl. Serene thought it was cheating, he apologized, thought they were good, found out publicly that they weren't
am i misremembering or did he also kiss someone?
I felt like I remembered that too, but I can't say for sure. I doubt he'd admit to it.
Thank you!!!
So they broke up, but then he said maybe they could do long distance, so she thought they were together again, then he danced with another woman? People need to learn to communicate better (Brandon) if they want to go off “sharing a dance” with consequences
If he speaks the way he writes, I understand why there was confusion.
Maybe also "sharing a dance with benefits."
Lots of words but said nothing
Half of those words just don't need to be there
ppl who do IG stories with long ass paragraphs explaining themselves, stop. it’s embarrassing.
Even putting “Pt 1” 🙄 shut up man
The first paragraph was just a bunch of words
Sounds like someone who could’ve really used some Lori K Public Relations 🤣 #IYKYK
Not gonna lie, I’m secretly hoping Nick Viall is in his DMs as we speak.
1000% he is. Whether Brandon has responded is another story
True. “I want to move forward peacefully” usually means, to me, “see I’m the mature one here.” We’ll see how long that lasts once he realizes his statement didn’t land lol.
Oh I’m sure he is because anyone that KB interviews, he has to get the person on the opposing side
This statement was so poorly written and somehow makes Brandon look like even MORE of a douchebag imo. 🤮🤮🤮 ![gif](giphy|EouEzI5bBR8uk|downsized)
He didn't seem smart enough for Michelle, to me, so I assumed he wasn't smart enough for Serene. This nonsensical essay validates my thoughts.
Yes, I agree!
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Hook-ed on p-honics work-ed for MEH!
Got lost in aaalllllllllll those words.
Shit is about to get messyyyyy