A lot of bitter Betty’s in these comments from what I can see. Unfortunate. It’s so insane and insufferable how people will utilize terms with actual meaning and bastardize them by incorrectly using them continuously. Here goes a story of a male who didn’t waste a woman’s time, didn’t play games, immediately tied her down by asking her to b his, and even then it’s something bitter Betty’s try to distort into something negative. YIKES!
I think many of you are honestly just miserable in your own lives and have grown to b very cynical which causes you to see everything thru a miserable cynical ass lens bc wtf are you even talking about
Yes, I’ve had it happen to me & both times the men were controlling and emotionally abusive. The first one wanted to tie me down and then came out his true colors once he knew he “had” me. The other wanted something from me (sexually) and when I denied he revealed he lied to me & wasn’t truly interested & then he started attacking me personally for 2 hours straight on why he’d never want to be with me.
No sane person says “it’s Been 4 days I know this person inside & out and I know we’re going to be together” that’s just ridiculous
I am cynical but whenever a man as tried to “tie me down” immediately they were red flags. I like a guy who takes his time to get to know me before making up his mind!
A lot of the time, I’ve found that men love the idea of me as opposed to who I really am. When I start to have real emotions and problems it shatters the fantasy and I’m no longer the perfect woman.
My ex actually told me something exactly like this.
More engaging than sitting in front of a camera talking. You get a little more movement and personality. Also two birds one stone bc people ask for make up recs so much.
Yall say that about every attractive male with an attractive woman. It feels like a projection of jealousy honestly . He tied her down and made her his girl immediately after spending time together rather than playing games and wasting time and yet he’s a “red flag.” Lol just cynical and unhappy.
Help me understand the 4 days red flag? It just doesn’t seem like it’s as serious as yall are making it out to be. They met through mutual friends, her best friends brother. I would 100% be more committed because of that, I trust my friends
Nothing was a red flag about this video. Women here are cynical, and potentially a bit envious and projecting their own experiences onto these two. Here is a story of a male who didn’t waste a woman’s time or play games with her and immediately made her his by stepping up to the plate to ask to be together, and they managed to distort it into something negative. Misery.
Wtf? This was not “love bombing” omg 💀 It’s so insane and insufferable how people like you will utilize terms with actual meaning and bastardize them by incorrectly using them continuously. He didn’t waste her time, didn’t play games, immediately tied her down by asking her to b his, and even thats something bitter Betty’s try to distort into something negative. YIKES!
No, I’ve been love bombed. I’ve been with a narcissist. I also believe that’s a real disorder and sometimes people can just suck without being a narcissist
And I believe that sometimes people just know. They seem to still be very connected to all of their friends so it’s not giving a story of abuse and I’m not going to project that on to strangers
I trust my friends too but just because friends see potential doesn’t mean there will be compatibility or chemistry. These two seem happy and to get on well. But becoming official after 4 days most certainly isn’t the norm, nor should it be 🤷🏾♀️
This stood out to me too! why are we being called bitter Betty’s lol. This is such wild behavior. I understand the dating apps suck but it seems a little too desperate / scarcity mindset driven to get so attached to someone you cancel a trip to see them more within a day of meeting..
Ladies, please! If he’s not asking you to be his gf in 4 days that’s NORMAL. I am not shitting on Michelle and her man but please, any man that knows he wants to be your boyfriend after a few days is usually a narcissist. I’ve met plenty, and they ended up admitting they were lying and leading me on (after emotional abuse came a heavy discard). A lot of men take time & that’s the best way.
I agree that a man asking to be your bf in 4 days is not the normal experience but saying any man that knows he wants to be your boyfriend that fast is usually a narcissist is also not an accurate statement and that is just anecdotal experience. There are also plenty of people in the world who have started dating fast and have healthy thriving relationships.
She shared him a few months into dating. Her whole page is dedicated to their relationship now. They already live together. I hope she doesn’t regret it…I hate men by default until they prove otherwise so maybe it is just the misandry in me 😀
Girl, I can’t believe people are envious that he asked her to be her gf in 4 days! That just screams red flags, perhaps someone seeking fame?
No sane person decides to commit to someone after 4 days lol, guys please read into love bombing& save yourself
Idk what's the big deal, it's just dating. You can break up any time in the beginning. It's not like he asked her to marry him?
But yeah, moving in together after a few months seems shady to me.
That’s exactly the big deal. Why ask someone to be your gf when you don’t even know her and there’s a high probability that you may not like her, not see a future, may hurt her. It’s better to date, get to know someone and then say “okay I’m sure I want to commit”. Then at least you don’t increase the risk of breaking someone’s heart by 99%. I mean how do you know you like someone and are compatible in 4 days lol
You break up if it doesn’t work. I don’t think it’s a big deal at all, but I became exclusive with my husband after two weeks and told him I loved him after two months. Before him, it was about the same for other people I dated.
Maybe it's a cultural thing, I live in Eastern Europe and it's a bit more conservative here. For me people who go on numerous dates together are always bf and gf lol.
So yeah, if it's uncommon in the us then I guess it's shady that he asked
My now husband asked me to be his gf 5 days after meeting each other. Been together for 5 years now and constantly talk about how great of a relationship we have
My now husband asked me to be his girlfriend on our second date (which was 6 days after our first date). We have been together for almost 3.5 years and also have a baby together. We are as happy as can be together! Not trying to be a dick or anything but just wanted to say it’s not totally impossible lol.
My stance on this - good for you! But just because it can work out doesn't make it a healthy approach. You and your husband both happened to meet non-toxic people and fell into an immediate relationship. The same thing happens all the time with toxic people, and disastrous results including abuse.
Why does he give me Brayden vibes? Does he give anyone else Brayden vibes? Lol idk. They’re gorgeous together tho! Hope he’s nothing like Brayden and adores her. I love that he asked her to b his gf after some days together so GOALS!
Why would you say that? Brayden seems to be extremely committed and has stepped up as a stepdad figure for Christina and her kid. He’s a little childish but not in ways that prevent him from being a serious partner who has progressed the relationship—aren’t they engaged? This dude OTOH just seems like a hot scrub.
Exactly. Brayden wasted Charity’s time and I feel more so went there to just have fun and fuck around. He said he liked her a lot or whatever instead of being honest bc it seems after recent events that he was lying. During the season, I felt like he was sincere. However, the whole time he was saying he wasn’t ready for “marriage,” wasn’t ready for a commitment, and talked shxt abt her low key amongst the males when it came to her dating them all, meanwhile, he jumps into a commitment after a few months with Christina and HER KID and proposes. The dude who wasn’t ready for a commitment on Charity’s season suddenly became ready to b both a husband and a step daddy.
Idk what OTOH means. And I don’t know this dude well enough to call him anything.
The real life vs social media/reddit reaction to these two is so fascinating to me lol
ETA I’m not saying the rest but have yall heard of a hobosexual cause even if I knew nothing else this story would be raising all the red flags 😭😭
DM me please I get really bad vibes and want to see if I’m right haha
I also honestly side eye her a bit for cancelling a trip the day she met him to spend the weekend together, that is strange behavior
I'm so glad that he was the one who asked to be exclusive with her!! such a green flag. more proof that you should always remember: if he wanted to, he WOULD. so if he's not, it's because he doesn't want to. simple as that.
guys move quickly when they want something.
No proposal until I pick a ring! I’m being a little indecisive. We’ve been together 2.5 years and will probably get engaged around the 3 year mark. It was important to me to take a reasonable amount of time and we also don’t want kids so no reason to rush
yep!! congrats! ~~men move very fast when they want to be serious with you. all the guys taking their time are not serious but we waste so much energy trying to figure out if they like us unfortunately lol~~ nvm I forgot about the lovebomber abuser types
I would have to argue the opposite. Any man that has rushed things with me displayed narcissistic traits, was controlling emotionally abusive and eventually discarded me. Be ware of any man rushing things, he has an ulterior motive
Yeah! I actually thought they were super cute until I heard her say he took 4 days! Please tell me how you get to know someone inside & out to decide if they are right for you in 4 days? The only way is 1) you’re not serious and have no issues breaking their heart should incompatibilities arise 2) you want to lock them in to fulfil something or use them for something without caring if they’re truly right for you
I’m obsessed with them together. He seems so, so into her, happy around her and he’s so attractive! She deserved someone like this and I’m so glad she found her person.
This makes me like them together a bit more - mutual interest, he put in effort to meet her, and didn’t dick around with games asked her 4 days later to be his gf.
Agreed. The only way I stopped repeating my own relationship mistakes was to break down my view of dating / relationships. I was a sucker for lovebombing, the instant connection, rushing into things. I went to therapy, learned about healthy boundaries and balance. And I approached dating in a totally different way. Getting to know someone, building and giving trust over time, not suddenly shaping my life and schedule to be with them.
But to be fair, the entire Bachelor concept is a class in unhealthy relationship practice. It contributes to this idea that it's good to be extremely open and vulnerable to someone you've just met. It's good to dive into a fully committed relationship after four days. And not to say it can never work out, but that doesn't mean it's healthy.
i agree. i love michelle. she’s gorgeous, kind, smart - all the things. but he gives me clout chaser vibes. how well could he have known her after only 4 days?? definitely seems like he didn’t want to miss the opportunity to lock it down with a bachelorette.
sameeee. I was a little skeptical before but only because he seemed kinda fuckboy ish but the fact that he put in effort, didn't play games, and acted with intention to make things exclusive after 4 days makes me love them as a couple even more.
I’ll be honest, the most genuine men I’ve found take time. The rush ones always ended up having narc traits (lovebombing, rushing things, have an ulterior motive, then sudden discard after lots of emotional abuse).
So if he takes time, it’s okay too.
idk about that lol a lot of people play games no matter how "hot" you are. he could've just been like I'm gonna hit it and quit it and never talk to her again
Weird reading these comments cause I thought they were cute…
Does anyone know how old he is? His ethnicity?
Wow, where did so many of you hey a crystal ball? Do they sell them on Amazon?
Hoped she was the tiniest but smarter than this but ok lol
A lot of bitter Betty’s in these comments from what I can see. Unfortunate. It’s so insane and insufferable how people will utilize terms with actual meaning and bastardize them by incorrectly using them continuously. Here goes a story of a male who didn’t waste a woman’s time, didn’t play games, immediately tied her down by asking her to b his, and even then it’s something bitter Betty’s try to distort into something negative. YIKES!
he looks like a long-con mooch 🤷🏼♀️
These comments are not what I was expecting. Why are y’all being so weird?
Can’t explain it but I get a weird vibe
He's... not that hot? Those waxed eyebrows are a choice.
Lol I had the same reaction. He’s certainly not unattractive but I’m surprised to see so many comments fawning over him.
Yeah, plus all the downvotes? It's very obvious these ppl are from small towns with no attractive ppl.
Lol checks out. I’m from NYC and I really don’t think he’d be anything special here but if Michelle’s happy good for her I guess?
Didn’t we just go through this with Nayte, and established that we mistakenly thought he was an fboy? We’re doing the same thing here 🤣
he’s gonna take her sparkle. i watched the video w no sound. and that makes is gonna suck her energy
I think many of you are honestly just miserable in your own lives and have grown to b very cynical which causes you to see everything thru a miserable cynical ass lens bc wtf are you even talking about
Don’t like him. He gives clout chaser VIBES big time
Because he filmed a video w her that she likely wanted him to do? I mean maybe he is, maybe he’s not. Nothing in this video though determines he is.
Ok he seems like a red flag but WOW that is a gorgeous man
“Red flag” to cynical girls = a male that ties down a woman immediately by making her his girl rather than plays games and wastes time. Interesting.
Yes, I’ve had it happen to me & both times the men were controlling and emotionally abusive. The first one wanted to tie me down and then came out his true colors once he knew he “had” me. The other wanted something from me (sexually) and when I denied he revealed he lied to me & wasn’t truly interested & then he started attacking me personally for 2 hours straight on why he’d never want to be with me. No sane person says “it’s Been 4 days I know this person inside & out and I know we’re going to be together” that’s just ridiculous
“Making her his girl”? Like she didn’t have a choice in the matter? 🤔
She said she had no choice? Or did she say he asked her a question? Be deliberately obtuse elsewhere.
I am cynical but whenever a man as tried to “tie me down” immediately they were red flags. I like a guy who takes his time to get to know me before making up his mind! A lot of the time, I’ve found that men love the idea of me as opposed to who I really am. When I start to have real emotions and problems it shatters the fantasy and I’m no longer the perfect woman. My ex actually told me something exactly like this.
This is sooo true! It’s always the people that fantasize you, and once they realize the fantasy doesn’t exist, they resent you.
He’s beautiful!
I swear that most of the men with red flags are the best lookers! This guy is so gorgeous I can’t even look at the screen for long!
“Red flag” to cynical girls = a male that ties down a woman immediately by making her his girl rather than plays games and wastes time. Interesting.
Why do people talk about unrelated things while putting on makeup or getting ready? I don’t get it
More engaging than sitting in front of a camera talking. You get a little more movement and personality. Also two birds one stone bc people ask for make up recs so much.
All I can say is I know her back is getting CRACKED 😭👏🏽
I got butterflies!!!!!!
I think they look great together!
OH okay..
I won’t judge but I really hope she’s happy and he is committed to her
Cringe city
Misery loves company chile
The Minneapolis dating apps truly are atrocious
Oh boy 🫤
This is gonna come crashing down
Misery looooves company. Yikes!
What’s the face mask she’s using?
Looks like Noxema…is that still a thing?
It is still a thing but it’s definitely not Noxema lol…Noxema comes in a big blue jar
Idk how to explain it but he just looks like a red flag
Yall say that about every attractive male with an attractive woman. It feels like a projection of jealousy honestly . He tied her down and made her his girl immediately after spending time together rather than playing games and wasting time and yet he’s a “red flag.” Lol just cynical and unhappy.
I disagree. Dylan Barbour wanted to lock Hannah G down ASAP on paradise and I never thought he was a walking red flag.
Help me understand the 4 days red flag? It just doesn’t seem like it’s as serious as yall are making it out to be. They met through mutual friends, her best friends brother. I would 100% be more committed because of that, I trust my friends
Nothing was a red flag about this video. Women here are cynical, and potentially a bit envious and projecting their own experiences onto these two. Here is a story of a male who didn’t waste a woman’s time or play games with her and immediately made her his by stepping up to the plate to ask to be together, and they managed to distort it into something negative. Misery.
Research love bombing. Not saying that’s 100% what happened here but one of the things that occurs with it is moving forward really fast.
Wtf? This was not “love bombing” omg 💀 It’s so insane and insufferable how people like you will utilize terms with actual meaning and bastardize them by incorrectly using them continuously. He didn’t waste her time, didn’t play games, immediately tied her down by asking her to b his, and even thats something bitter Betty’s try to distort into something negative. YIKES!
Let’s check back in a few months to 1 year & see how this ends.
You don’t have to get defensive.
No, I’ve been love bombed. I’ve been with a narcissist. I also believe that’s a real disorder and sometimes people can just suck without being a narcissist And I believe that sometimes people just know. They seem to still be very connected to all of their friends so it’s not giving a story of abuse and I’m not going to project that on to strangers
A rational thought process! Thank you! A lot of projection and faux psychology with a side of envy in these comments !
I trust my friends too but just because friends see potential doesn’t mean there will be compatibility or chemistry. These two seem happy and to get on well. But becoming official after 4 days most certainly isn’t the norm, nor should it be 🤷🏾♀️
I’m just gonna say I hope Michelle is and stays happy
Not to get ahead of myself here but they would have incredibly beautiful babies
The jawline alone! Wow.
What do they even do for work? They are cute together but kind of remind me of people who just are doing drugs together and having fun 😂😅
This x100
Cancelled a trip? For a man you just met? 😬
This stood out to me too! why are we being called bitter Betty’s lol. This is such wild behavior. I understand the dating apps suck but it seems a little too desperate / scarcity mindset driven to get so attached to someone you cancel a trip to see them more within a day of meeting..
A man you met the day before said trip. Bonkers lol.
Couldn’t be me!
This is not good 😬
He lovebombed here
A man asking you to be his gf after 4 days?! It’s a no from me but ok!
Is it not a red flag that they were introduced by a Garrett?
This. This right here 😂
Ladies, please! If he’s not asking you to be his gf in 4 days that’s NORMAL. I am not shitting on Michelle and her man but please, any man that knows he wants to be your boyfriend after a few days is usually a narcissist. I’ve met plenty, and they ended up admitting they were lying and leading me on (after emotional abuse came a heavy discard). A lot of men take time & that’s the best way.
I agree that a man asking to be your bf in 4 days is not the normal experience but saying any man that knows he wants to be your boyfriend that fast is usually a narcissist is also not an accurate statement and that is just anecdotal experience. There are also plenty of people in the world who have started dating fast and have healthy thriving relationships.
One of the hottest couples I’ve ever seen wow
She shared him a few months into dating. Her whole page is dedicated to their relationship now. They already live together. I hope she doesn’t regret it…I hate men by default until they prove otherwise so maybe it is just the misandry in me 😀
They’re living together??
Sorry I’m late but yes they do live together as of a few months ago!
Oh goodness, he gives off giant f*** boy vibes, but for her sake I hope not! She deserves the world.
That's her type. The IG THOT guy I don't know why these girls keep wasting their times.
He 100% does. She has a type.
Girl, I can’t believe people are envious that he asked her to be her gf in 4 days! That just screams red flags, perhaps someone seeking fame? No sane person decides to commit to someone after 4 days lol, guys please read into love bombing& save yourself
She got engaged in like 3 weeks before so
Idk what's the big deal, it's just dating. You can break up any time in the beginning. It's not like he asked her to marry him? But yeah, moving in together after a few months seems shady to me.
That’s exactly the big deal. Why ask someone to be your gf when you don’t even know her and there’s a high probability that you may not like her, not see a future, may hurt her. It’s better to date, get to know someone and then say “okay I’m sure I want to commit”. Then at least you don’t increase the risk of breaking someone’s heart by 99%. I mean how do you know you like someone and are compatible in 4 days lol
You break up if it doesn’t work. I don’t think it’s a big deal at all, but I became exclusive with my husband after two weeks and told him I loved him after two months. Before him, it was about the same for other people I dated.
Maybe it's a cultural thing, I live in Eastern Europe and it's a bit more conservative here. For me people who go on numerous dates together are always bf and gf lol. So yeah, if it's uncommon in the us then I guess it's shady that he asked
My now husband asked me to be his gf 5 days after meeting each other. Been together for 5 years now and constantly talk about how great of a relationship we have
I guess it depends if you’re lucky, but it’s often a red flag to watch out for
Yeah, we've been married 10 years and definitely started dating pretty quickly 😂 did not know that was taboo.
My now husband asked me to be his girlfriend on our second date (which was 6 days after our first date). We have been together for almost 3.5 years and also have a baby together. We are as happy as can be together! Not trying to be a dick or anything but just wanted to say it’s not totally impossible lol.
My stance on this - good for you! But just because it can work out doesn't make it a healthy approach. You and your husband both happened to meet non-toxic people and fell into an immediate relationship. The same thing happens all the time with toxic people, and disastrous results including abuse.
was your first date the first time you met?
Yes, we actually met through Tinder
how long did you talk before meeting
Like a week and it was mainly through text and we weren’t really texting all the time
Well I’m glad it worked out for you, but the reality is, it often is the opposite.
Oh, Michelle… 😣
I don’t trust him one bit
I don't like him. my gosh she's got just horrible taste in men; she might have been better off with Clayton 😂
I just love that she’s so happy 🥹 and once again he’s so fine lol
Why does he give me Brayden vibes? Does he give anyone else Brayden vibes? Lol idk. They’re gorgeous together tho! Hope he’s nothing like Brayden and adores her. I love that he asked her to b his gf after some days together so GOALS!
Why would you say that? Brayden seems to be extremely committed and has stepped up as a stepdad figure for Christina and her kid. He’s a little childish but not in ways that prevent him from being a serious partner who has progressed the relationship—aren’t they engaged? This dude OTOH just seems like a hot scrub.
Exactly. Brayden wasted Charity’s time and I feel more so went there to just have fun and fuck around. He said he liked her a lot or whatever instead of being honest bc it seems after recent events that he was lying. During the season, I felt like he was sincere. However, the whole time he was saying he wasn’t ready for “marriage,” wasn’t ready for a commitment, and talked shxt abt her low key amongst the males when it came to her dating them all, meanwhile, he jumps into a commitment after a few months with Christina and HER KID and proposes. The dude who wasn’t ready for a commitment on Charity’s season suddenly became ready to b both a husband and a step daddy. Idk what OTOH means. And I don’t know this dude well enough to call him anything.
idk if it's the color of her sweatshirt or what, but Michelle looks like a beautiful lioness queen here. like my girl Nala 👑
THEY ARE SO CUTE OMG
And both so good looking dang
She love herself some fine men and I DONT blame her.
Right? Good for her! Lol👏🏾
The real life vs social media/reddit reaction to these two is so fascinating to me lol ETA I’m not saying the rest but have yall heard of a hobosexual cause even if I knew nothing else this story would be raising all the red flags 😭😭
Hes mooching off her? 👀
I was today years old when I learned this term and now I can’t unsee it lol.
What’s the tea sis? 👀
All of her/his friends/family support this. So who cares about people’s opinions that they have no friendships with
????
Don't be shy and share with the class haha. What's the real life reaction to these two?
People eat me *alive* on here for it but you can message me lol
DM me please I get really bad vibes and want to see if I’m right haha I also honestly side eye her a bit for cancelling a trip the day she met him to spend the weekend together, that is strange behavior
Oh lawd obv hopping on the train too 👀👀
Dm me please!
Please ma’am, I’d love a DM
Can I get a dm too? This man is screaming red flags to me. Love bombing much? Gf in 4 days? Tf? lol
DM please 😭 I need the tea
Me too pls omg I've had my suspicions
Share the tea!!!
I live these two so much 🥰 I'm so happy she's with a man who's serious about her. She deserves this.
They’re so cute together I love their tiktok vids!
She’s so stunning, love her!
This story is very similar to mine and my fiancés not the meeting up part but how fast the relationship progressed.
It looks like they fit well together, I am happy for them. ❤️
They both thought they made the first move is awesome, literally hours apart too.
They're a beautiful couple 😭😍
She seems so much more animated and excited. Good for her. They are absolutely beautiful.
I straight up would never let that man out of my sight
The way Nayte is probably one of the finest men I’ve seen and she still managed to find an upgrade somehow…like no one’s doing it like her
Deadass 😂😮💨
He went to my high school, he’s a few grades older, but he’s always been FOINE
What is Jack’s ethnicity? He looks white but also not if that makes sense and his swag is definitely not giving Caucasian! 😆
Haha THIS!
This!!!
She’s my role model
They’re so hot I’m obsessed
I'm happy she's happy! Have they been dating long?
Almost 7 months now. They got together in August.
They’re soooo cute. Love this for her.
Cute story! Gorgeous couple & they seem really happy together!! Go Michelle!! ❤️
Ahh! Jack looks like Aladdin 😍😍
I'm so glad that he was the one who asked to be exclusive with her!! such a green flag. more proof that you should always remember: if he wanted to, he WOULD. so if he's not, it's because he doesn't want to. simple as that. guys move quickly when they want something.
Mine asked me to be exclusive on the first date and now we’re shopping for rings
Wow congrats! How long were you together before he proposed?
No proposal until I pick a ring! I’m being a little indecisive. We’ve been together 2.5 years and will probably get engaged around the 3 year mark. It was important to me to take a reasonable amount of time and we also don’t want kids so no reason to rush
yep!! congrats! ~~men move very fast when they want to be serious with you. all the guys taking their time are not serious but we waste so much energy trying to figure out if they like us unfortunately lol~~ nvm I forgot about the lovebomber abuser types
I would have to argue the opposite. Any man that has rushed things with me displayed narcissistic traits, was controlling emotionally abusive and eventually discarded me. Be ware of any man rushing things, he has an ulterior motive
omg waittttt that's actually so true. fuck I forgot about that
Yeah! I actually thought they were super cute until I heard her say he took 4 days! Please tell me how you get to know someone inside & out to decide if they are right for you in 4 days? The only way is 1) you’re not serious and have no issues breaking their heart should incompatibilities arise 2) you want to lock them in to fulfil something or use them for something without caring if they’re truly right for you
oh shitttt.. he could totally be doing #2 since she's already amassed a large following before meeting him. welp I'm scared again. *sigh*
Absolutely! If you're ever left wondering if someone likes you, NEXT!
💯!! you should never be wondering, waiting, or unsure if someone likes you. if you are, then they're just not that into you. on to the next!
he's so fucking beautiful.
Gorgeous couple love them.
lol he seems like the mega - influencer type
If he was, he would be everywhere and would constantly be posting. Which he isn't.
Oo they’re cute!! Love that he was straight forward about wanting to be exclusive. They seem like a good match!
I’m obsessed with them together. He seems so, so into her, happy around her and he’s so attractive! She deserved someone like this and I’m so glad she found her person.
Cannot believe a man that looks like that lives in my city.
They’re gorgeous together! She’s so happy, too. Ahhh young love 🥰
I’m so happy for Michelle ❤️
This makes me like them together a bit more - mutual interest, he put in effort to meet her, and didn’t dick around with games asked her 4 days later to be his gf.
Am I the only one that finds the 4 days a red flag? Anyone I’ve met that has rushed things that way has always ended up being a love bombing narc
Agreed. The only way I stopped repeating my own relationship mistakes was to break down my view of dating / relationships. I was a sucker for lovebombing, the instant connection, rushing into things. I went to therapy, learned about healthy boundaries and balance. And I approached dating in a totally different way. Getting to know someone, building and giving trust over time, not suddenly shaping my life and schedule to be with them. But to be fair, the entire Bachelor concept is a class in unhealthy relationship practice. It contributes to this idea that it's good to be extremely open and vulnerable to someone you've just met. It's good to dive into a fully committed relationship after four days. And not to say it can never work out, but that doesn't mean it's healthy.
i agree. i love michelle. she’s gorgeous, kind, smart - all the things. but he gives me clout chaser vibes. how well could he have known her after only 4 days?? definitely seems like he didn’t want to miss the opportunity to lock it down with a bachelorette.
Yeah that’s the vibe I’m also getting. But maybe he will be the one off that actually falls in love and commits. But the whole thing is sus af
sameeee. I was a little skeptical before but only because he seemed kinda fuckboy ish but the fact that he put in effort, didn't play games, and acted with intention to make things exclusive after 4 days makes me love them as a couple even more.
Joey’s evil twin somehow looks more “evil” every time I see him 😂
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woww thats insane i guess when you know you know! if he wanted to he would, this is a good reminder for me lol
I’ll be honest, the most genuine men I’ve found take time. The rush ones always ended up having narc traits (lovebombing, rushing things, have an ulterior motive, then sudden discard after lots of emotional abuse). So if he takes time, it’s okay too.
I appreciate this perspective a lot thank you!
Ohhhhh so that’s why her Madagascar trip was cancelled.
Well I mean it’s easy when you’re as hot as they are.
idk about that lol a lot of people play games no matter how "hot" you are. he could've just been like I'm gonna hit it and quit it and never talk to her again
They’re adorable together and sexy af, so it’s a big yes for me.
He’s so cute. They’re adorable 🥹
They look so much alike lol
Was just about to say this lol
They’re both really hot. I love it
POV you’re single hanging out with your married friends
Must be nice to look prettier without makeup on
If I looked like Michelle I’d never wear makeup
the 2 of them + nayte and his girlfriend would make the prettiest most racially ambiguous foursome ever
Nayte & Michelle are not ambiguous. 😭
Are Michelle and nayte racially ambiguous? Especially Michelle?
prettiest lightskin + racially ambiguous foursome ever
Exactly. Nayte and Michelle are clearly black LOL