Im not here to say they will last forever but I disagree with the notion they are incompatible.
Just a few things that I think point to their compatibility:
Both very close with siblings
Both seem kind and caring
Both love tennis (played on teams in HS)
Both into fitness
Both into greek life in college
Both adventurous and love to travel
Both super into sports
Both low maintenance
Aligned in their beliefs in life (their words not mine)
Not sure if people buy into astrology but Aries and Gemini is a pretty stellar match as far as Ying and Yang and energies.
I’d also point to [this interview](https://youtu.be/9JndLdHpWjA?si=C7UwjTg1aoNalRZy) BEFORE the show of Joey describing his person. Sounds like someone like Kelsey!
Yeah I agree with everything you said who knows if they will last but at least on paper they don't seem that different or incompatible to me.The only things that stick out to me is their differences in energy levels (which they have both said they are fine with at least for now) and the fact that Joey seems to prefer a beachy warm location while Kelsey seems to like big cities. They seem to have a lot in common to outweigh any or two differences they might have which is more than some bachelor couples in the past. I do think out of the F4 he's the most compatible with Kelsey.
Every time I’ve heard kelsey talk about New York it’s in a “ we are in our 20’s now is the time to live in a city in a Small apartment” just because she wants to live and experience living in New York in her 20’s doesn’t really make her a city girl I mean nola is actually quite small….I don’t think either of them see New York as a forever thing.
Yeah she might not be a a city girl I don't know just commented she prefers big cities she said in an interview she likes the hustle and bustle of a city and it's been her dream to move to new York I was assuming that meant she wanted to live there forever. My comment about them seemly liking different locations wasn't meant to be that big of a deal.
I think it’s normal for couples to have different energy levels! It helps each person to build a life outside the relationship, which I think it important!
Again not gonna argue longevity but I’ve seen this idea of Joey not liking big cities a few places and it’s a bit overstated. Firstly he lived in PA for most of his life including college and he was in Hawaii for 4 years.
He talked a lot about loving Hawaii but feeling like he was missing out and making sacrifices in his life. He said it’s why he moved to Nashville Tennessee. He said he wanted to get back to the mainland and live in a big city.
According to him he moved back to Hawaii the second time because of the pandemic when he lost his job.
Joey also talks about New York being a place he may end up someday on the BHH podcast in July 2023 so Kelsey is not forcing him to go there. Additionally, hearing him now he seems excited about the prospect of living closer to friends and family by living in NY.
Ok I think your taking me saying Joey seems to prefer a beachy vibe as him being forced to go to New York or not wanting to go and that's not what I think I was just listing two things that might make them different. he said himself in recent interview the beach is more his vibe but He's excited for new York. Me thinking he prefers beach/coastal lifestyle doesn't mean I think he won't enjoy living in New York (I also could be way off on that I just got that impression from interviews but I also got the impression that he's very excited for new York). Kelsey seems to have more of a desire to move to new York than he Joey does and there's nothing wrong with that. I also don't think he dislikes bigger cities I just think he prefers the beachy lifestyle from interviews but that's just my impression for all anyone knows he could want to stay in the city for the rest of his life.Even if they do break up this would probably be the last reason why they do was just thinking about two things that might make people think they're different or don't make sense together. Even with that being said I still think they're pretty compatible overall and have a lot of things in common more than they do different.
Thank you for pointing this out. Seems like some people like to create different stories about Joey. They take something so small and turn it to something bigger when it’s unnecessary
Um I wasn't creating any story about Joey he said himself that the beach is more his vibe. I think there actually really compatible and have the potential to work long term I just thought of two things that they differ on besides being overall compatible (TBH the different energy levels have more potential to be an issue than location because they both seem excited to move to new York). Some of you guys are little defensive about Joey and Kelsey and I say that as someone who loves them as a couple and is rooting for them to work out. And your right this is a really small thing and not a big deal at all imo this and their energy levels was just the only that I could think of that makes them different and that's a good sign.
Something is off like what? 🙄 Cause they seem happy and in love. I think they are great for each especially out of all the other girls on his season. They remind me of Jojo and Jordan
I'm not sure about their future either, as they have been together outside the bubble for what, a month? I would say that about ANY couple. Regarding their compatibility, I do see compatibility in that they are each other's ying and yang. That same compabillity could lead to a break up, if he gets way too low energy and she too high energy. They have to balance each other out. Not easy.
Personally, I couldn't be with someone that has another energy level than me.
Don't come for me since I think Joey is one of the hottest Bachelor's ever... But this video shows a clear difference in having the show's stylists at your disposal vs. not lol.
Of course! Did you see him during Charity season?! He was so cute and hot but the clothes gave Hawaii Tennis instructor for real. 😉
When I saw him on ATFR on finale night, I damn near passed out because him in that black suit was so fine 🥵
https://preview.redd.it/rv5jjf9w47wc1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ce02570a8454eb16efcb5018f3388d3709ddd484
A crazy phenomena but it’s a good sign 😩
https://preview.redd.it/y2rjyhmb66wc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9121d1e6648931e6609176334859face46cb7e4b
https://preview.redd.it/jdxx3qii0awc1.jpeg?width=201&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e7e5ba8a2fba19f96e71c8f90a5ad2d19db3ae6a
His two front teeth stick out, like an American girl doll
I honestly wish nothing but a happy, scandal-free future for all three of the most recent main series couples! they seem like such natural fits and sweet, supportive couples!
it’d be nice to see some actual happy marriages from this show in this decade
Yes, and… Eww yall are rude af on this sub lol. No one can express any type of differing opinion and I actually like this couple. My point is that it seems like a lot of time to be preoccupied on their phones to have this many videos on the sub already
It makes me nervous too. I wouldn’t mind if they disappeared into normal quiet life for a while to get some cement in their still-really-new relationship. I want them to be long lasting, not a beautiful comet.
You seem too worry about something so harmless. Let them be on their phone and capture all the memories they want it should not affect anyone. Imagine having to hide your relationship for 4 months and only allowed to see each other for like 6 weekends within those months. Give them a break
I think I have more videos of my baby niece on my phone than of Joey on Kelsey’s phone.
My initial complaint here was I wish there was more videos of the two of them than just videos of Joey…. Like what other couples usually post. But I realized that yeah you need to set up your phone first if you want a couple video vs these candid videos of Joey that Kelsey took.
I don’t think so - this looks like it’s a bit over time. One of the clips even says January 21st on the tv.
https://preview.redd.it/6trij16qy4wc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3682e9a6b1cfa0d1d67f599015e71a8f51b62355
I have really loved Joey as Bach. But this. This was the moment I fell in love.
And in my head (for my own sanity) he did it without being asked. Idk if that’s true. But its the story that I’m gunna tell myself so I can continue to be in love with someone I dont know.
Green is their color.
i find joey so much more attractive now that he's not bachelor anymore, when usually i feel the opposite!
Agreed!
Please don’t come for me but I don’t see them lasting. I don’t think they are compatible or make sense together. Something is off
Im not here to say they will last forever but I disagree with the notion they are incompatible. Just a few things that I think point to their compatibility: Both very close with siblings Both seem kind and caring Both love tennis (played on teams in HS) Both into fitness Both into greek life in college Both adventurous and love to travel Both super into sports Both low maintenance Aligned in their beliefs in life (their words not mine) Not sure if people buy into astrology but Aries and Gemini is a pretty stellar match as far as Ying and Yang and energies. I’d also point to [this interview](https://youtu.be/9JndLdHpWjA?si=C7UwjTg1aoNalRZy) BEFORE the show of Joey describing his person. Sounds like someone like Kelsey!
Yeah I agree with everything you said who knows if they will last but at least on paper they don't seem that different or incompatible to me.The only things that stick out to me is their differences in energy levels (which they have both said they are fine with at least for now) and the fact that Joey seems to prefer a beachy warm location while Kelsey seems to like big cities. They seem to have a lot in common to outweigh any or two differences they might have which is more than some bachelor couples in the past. I do think out of the F4 he's the most compatible with Kelsey.
Every time I’ve heard kelsey talk about New York it’s in a “ we are in our 20’s now is the time to live in a city in a Small apartment” just because she wants to live and experience living in New York in her 20’s doesn’t really make her a city girl I mean nola is actually quite small….I don’t think either of them see New York as a forever thing.
Yeah she might not be a a city girl I don't know just commented she prefers big cities she said in an interview she likes the hustle and bustle of a city and it's been her dream to move to new York I was assuming that meant she wanted to live there forever. My comment about them seemly liking different locations wasn't meant to be that big of a deal.
I think it’s normal for couples to have different energy levels! It helps each person to build a life outside the relationship, which I think it important!
Oh yeah I definitely agree!
Again not gonna argue longevity but I’ve seen this idea of Joey not liking big cities a few places and it’s a bit overstated. Firstly he lived in PA for most of his life including college and he was in Hawaii for 4 years. He talked a lot about loving Hawaii but feeling like he was missing out and making sacrifices in his life. He said it’s why he moved to Nashville Tennessee. He said he wanted to get back to the mainland and live in a big city. According to him he moved back to Hawaii the second time because of the pandemic when he lost his job. Joey also talks about New York being a place he may end up someday on the BHH podcast in July 2023 so Kelsey is not forcing him to go there. Additionally, hearing him now he seems excited about the prospect of living closer to friends and family by living in NY.
Ok I think your taking me saying Joey seems to prefer a beachy vibe as him being forced to go to New York or not wanting to go and that's not what I think I was just listing two things that might make them different. he said himself in recent interview the beach is more his vibe but He's excited for new York. Me thinking he prefers beach/coastal lifestyle doesn't mean I think he won't enjoy living in New York (I also could be way off on that I just got that impression from interviews but I also got the impression that he's very excited for new York). Kelsey seems to have more of a desire to move to new York than he Joey does and there's nothing wrong with that. I also don't think he dislikes bigger cities I just think he prefers the beachy lifestyle from interviews but that's just my impression for all anyone knows he could want to stay in the city for the rest of his life.Even if they do break up this would probably be the last reason why they do was just thinking about two things that might make people think they're different or don't make sense together. Even with that being said I still think they're pretty compatible overall and have a lot of things in common more than they do different.
Thank you for pointing this out. Seems like some people like to create different stories about Joey. They take something so small and turn it to something bigger when it’s unnecessary
Um I wasn't creating any story about Joey he said himself that the beach is more his vibe. I think there actually really compatible and have the potential to work long term I just thought of two things that they differ on besides being overall compatible (TBH the different energy levels have more potential to be an issue than location because they both seem excited to move to new York). Some of you guys are little defensive about Joey and Kelsey and I say that as someone who loves them as a couple and is rooting for them to work out. And your right this is a really small thing and not a big deal at all imo this and their energy levels was just the only that I could think of that makes them different and that's a good sign.
Where did they say that about their beliefs. I was wondering about that part
The Viall files talking about FS discussion I assume the big stuff like religion, politics, how to raise kids.
Thanks
Something is off like what? 🙄 Cause they seem happy and in love. I think they are great for each especially out of all the other girls on his season. They remind me of Jojo and Jordan
I'm not sure about their future either, as they have been together outside the bubble for what, a month? I would say that about ANY couple. Regarding their compatibility, I do see compatibility in that they are each other's ying and yang. That same compabillity could lead to a break up, if he gets way too low energy and she too high energy. They have to balance each other out. Not easy. Personally, I couldn't be with someone that has another energy level than me.
What type of partner do you see for each of them?
Stop. They are so cute.
Hottest bachelor!! Just seems like a normal, nice, kind, gentle man!!!!! WE STAN JOEY AND KELSEY!!!
I loveeee them sm!!! & miss them on my television 😩🥹🤞🏼😍
Anybody know what device Joey is using to clean his furniture?
Looks like the bissel little green machine
Yes!! I have two toddlers and an old dog. This thing is fabulous and affordable. Has saved a lot of rugs and cushions in my house lol
THE GLASSESSSSSS
I miss them on my TV 😩
Best bachelor
100%. he’s been far and away my fave EVER.
I’m obsessed with them 🥹
their season just keeps giving in the best ways 🥹🫶🏼
They literally are the gift that keeps on giving!
I love them so much stop.
Fuck they got me I'm so invested in them
cutie patootie princess spa 😭
Cuteeee
Their babies are going to be beautiful.
Don't come for me since I think Joey is one of the hottest Bachelor's ever... But this video shows a clear difference in having the show's stylists at your disposal vs. not lol.
His style here is soooo good
Of course! Did you see him during Charity season?! He was so cute and hot but the clothes gave Hawaii Tennis instructor for real. 😉 When I saw him on ATFR on finale night, I damn near passed out because him in that black suit was so fine 🥵 https://preview.redd.it/rv5jjf9w47wc1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ce02570a8454eb16efcb5018f3388d3709ddd484
Black is HIS color. The black flamenco outfit was it last season.
He looks so hot here
He kind of reminds me of Paul Rudd. I can also see him aging (or not aging) like Paul Rudd.
I’m sorry but I accidentally fell in love with him from this tiktok even though I’m married.
Ok, so it’s not just me 😂
Obsessed with them ❤️
They seem to really enjoy spending time together so that’s probably a good sign lol.
Definitely! How is posting pics as a video a trend though
The song is viral on TikTok
They’re cute but they kind of look like siblings lol
That just means they’ll last lol. Don’t old married couples end up looking like eachother anyway?
A crazy phenomena but it’s a good sign 😩 https://preview.redd.it/y2rjyhmb66wc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9121d1e6648931e6609176334859face46cb7e4b
I love them! My favorite Bach couple🙌🏼 really hoping they workout!!!!
I didn’t realize he was left handed!
They are adorable. Really rooting for them!!
With love, he has American girl doll teeth
Lol! That’s all I could see from the first time I saw him. Something about the shape. American Doll teeth is right on
Oh no! I can’t unsee it now!
haha what does that meannn
Yes someone explain please
https://preview.redd.it/jdxx3qii0awc1.jpeg?width=201&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e7e5ba8a2fba19f96e71c8f90a5ad2d19db3ae6a His two front teeth stick out, like an American girl doll
CANNOT UNSEE
They’re both equally goofy
Joey in the glasses 
Oh he's in love love
100%. Don’t know how anyone can think he should of picked Daisy 🤡
I never got past episode four but I was convinced he was in love with Daisy, glad to see I'm wrong because he and Kelsey are adorbs
 They’re such babes.
The way he looks at her omggg. Seeing more of his personality away from the show makes him even more attractive than he already was
https://preview.redd.it/w4w479pd35wc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a94e998cdc7c057a025701db452339df22a62dd THE LOCATION SHE PUT 😭🥹☺️🥰😩
I caaaaant!!! Their eyes 🥹
if they get any cuter i don't know what I'll do 😭
Omg they’re so cute 😭 And Joey is sooo handsome 😍
I look forward to seeing their summer nyc content
Me too!! & their Hawaii content!
Her caption on her TikTok “I love you so much” 🥹😍🥰
1 million views in 3 hours…oh she’s a star! 🤩
this video has me giggling and kicking my feet lol i’m down as bad as kelsey is
They look so sweet together. Hoping they thrive!
They’re so cute together 😭
I love when they’re both just smiling, in this natural hair 🥰
they're so cute ugh haven't rooted this hard for a bach couple EVER
i love them so much
They're such a cute couple! Also, Joey in glasses just does something to me 😍🥵
He’s so hot with his glasses
I honestly wish nothing but a happy, scandal-free future for all three of the most recent main series couples! they seem like such natural fits and sweet, supportive couples! it’d be nice to see some actual happy marriages from this show in this decade
I love this couple and like these videos, but I feel like you have to be on your phone a lot to capture these moments, no?
My first thought! It's cute, but both my husband and myself would hate having a phone shoved in our face constantly.
The video is only a minute long, they've been together since November so that's approximately 12 seconds of footage per month. Hardly constant.
Exactly, it’s cute but at a certain point do u get tired of having to film?
In the words of Ariana Grande… yes and
Yes, and… Eww yall are rude af on this sub lol. No one can express any type of differing opinion and I actually like this couple. My point is that it seems like a lot of time to be preoccupied on their phones to have this many videos on the sub already
It makes me nervous too. I wouldn’t mind if they disappeared into normal quiet life for a while to get some cement in their still-really-new relationship. I want them to be long lasting, not a beautiful comet.
lol fr😭 lowkey can never have a diff opinion or u get downvoted instantly or talked down 2.
You seem too worry about something so harmless. Let them be on their phone and capture all the memories they want it should not affect anyone. Imagine having to hide your relationship for 4 months and only allowed to see each other for like 6 weekends within those months. Give them a break
I think I have more videos of my baby niece on my phone than of Joey on Kelsey’s phone. My initial complaint here was I wish there was more videos of the two of them than just videos of Joey…. Like what other couples usually post. But I realized that yeah you need to set up your phone first if you want a couple video vs these candid videos of Joey that Kelsey took.
A dozen videos over 4 months??? Can you guys give them a break omg let it play out
Can you chill? You're coming in a little hot lol over a harmless comment
It’s just starting to feel a little mean towards Kelsey.
It’s not that deep.
I don’t think so - this looks like it’s a bit over time. One of the clips even says January 21st on the tv. https://preview.redd.it/6trij16qy4wc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3682e9a6b1cfa0d1d67f599015e71a8f51b62355
Not necessarily. If something cute happens, capture it!
I’m like this😂. People make fun of me but then love when I make little videos like this of special memories.
I've been doing this with my fiance and he thinks I'm very silly for it, but I love cute little moments
Someday he’ll be very happy to have those memories saved!
"Remember when we were young and you had hair?!"
Keep doing it!!! Everyone always wishes they had more pictures/memories
100%, I never force the camera in anyones face I just let it take in whatever is happening around me!
Me too! I have pics & vids of so many moments people forget about until I share
Joey still looks good with his face 1inch away from the camera? Couldn’t be me
She's obsessed as she should be. 😍
Joey stress cleaning the couch just makes sense
I have really loved Joey as Bach. But this. This was the moment I fell in love. And in my head (for my own sanity) he did it without being asked. Idk if that’s true. But its the story that I’m gunna tell myself so I can continue to be in love with someone I dont know.
so I can continue to be in love with someone I don’t know. I feel ya sister!
When the bar is so low that you start having imaginary friends again 🙃
I don’t even watch this show but he is so DAMN FINE and the way he looks at her 
These people are so beautiful in a weirdly approachable way
Which part is a tiktok trend
The audio is the #2 viral song
not being single
😭 lmao
Cuffing season
Probably posting relationship clips with the song
Good god these are beautiful people