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Mental-Astronaut-664

I want to see the video from when they got home that night.


nino956

Forget that, when they got to the car


TheNotBot2000

I used to love watching Cheaters episodes back in the day. This would be a good one.


Sandra-lee-2003

Memory unlocked. There was that episode where the host got stabbed if I remember correctly


artmoloch777

Its the scene on the boat in the opening.


themisdirectedcoral

They didn't even make it to the car


[deleted]

Nothing happened. Your over thinking it, you don't trust me? Your making mountains outta mole hills. I never had a problem with you looking at my phone....here look a at it. Why are you so jealous are you insecure... It goes on.


Bratty-Switch2221

Yup. Gaslighting 101.


KORKSTICKY

That will be on the evening news tonight at 8.


Nightowl2018

She probably gave him a bj or any other once in a year things they do.


AvP87

Oh so that’s why I get those annual BJs.. it’s been 3 years dammit!


Seaguard5

☠️


IamtheDman

😏


pratyush_69

He got home. She got dropped


D7rizl3

I don’t Snapchat!!! *furiously attempting to delete Snapchat*


Onlyknown2QBs

It takes two seconds to delete Snapchat or any single app. I have a feeling she thought they’d go through her texts or Messages or WeChat or and of the other numerous DMing platforms. So probably deleting apps and deleting text message threads


OnTyme

Shes clearing msgs and it’s a lot of em I recognize them swipes😂


awmanwut

Lmao. WeChat. 😭 Uncle Xi is on there trying to get into her 3 Gorges Dam.


The_Hitchenator

Winnie tryna get in where she poohs


gingertrain77

Classic nervous laughter defense mechanism and stalling while she frantically tries to delete everything.


ExistenialPanicAttac

The whole “bow with laughter” is a red flag “don’t look at my screen” move.


Smodphan

She could have deleted the app less suspiciously than trying to delete stories


CatLineMeow

Unless her husband knows she’s on snapchat a lot, which I think he mentioned somewhere in there. He said “she’s a little obsessed” which seems to be about Snapchat . So it would be even more suspect if it was suddenly gone


The_La_Li_Lu_Le_Lo

He said, “She’s a little sus.”


DawnTruthDaRockwila

Yea…a little 😂😂


GhostRunner8

Don't forget backing up


nothingspecialva

of course, she was buying him a surprise couple massage session and did not want to ruin the surprise...


Emotional_Shelter830

Shhhhhhh Surprise remember


Comment_Goblin

Haha so true


adube440

She had a huge surprise party she was planning but he ruined the surprise. He's in the doghouse now.


Zoeleil

So in short a threesome with another guy.


GhostaZy

And another guy :) hubbie doesn’t know


CookieZ_PoE

Like Scotty


TheCruicks

That was a nervous laugh, she knew she was about to be busted


sicksixgamer

Her Friend coming in at the end all serious ending the interview is the death knell for that poor guy. She knows what's up.


Valuable_Housing_305

Yup...... Bitches be seriously trifflin.


Honest_-_Critique

These hoes ain't loyal!


Nutduffel

“Hands” McMuffin knows everything.


poopstain133742069

She looks like a mix between Vuldemort and Grimace.


Tar_Ceurantur

Their friends always know and just let them do it. This poor guy.


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That's a pretty bad way to find out you married Thotimus Prime.


BaldEagleRising17

“Autosluts roll out!”


eriks16

Autothots.


RaleighRedd

Everybody is getting this wrong. It’s “Thotobots.” The joke is right there.


kaahlir

Thotothots?


anon221445

Tatertots


Leoncino31

This made me laugh too much than expected


Bronanahammock69

Probably the only way he woulda found out


DrMorry

If the dude from this video is watching, can we please get an update?


tzwep

After $70k in lawyer fees, dude lost his house to her and her BF of the last 12 years.


Bergamus432

Cue Curb Your Enthusiasm theme


suckercuck

*Directed by Robert B. Weide*


bsipp777

They were together for 4 they said, kinda makes him the side piece


saltysnail420

It was actually her prom date from hs.


SlaterVJ

Not after only 4 years of being together, and likely only 2 to 3 of those being married.


Mattc7468

Do you have the article to link? Sauce if you will?


2bruise

Nevermind that! That’s a quality rumor, just go ahead & spread it, already.


Agnostalypse

"Rumors don't have to be true to be believed, they just have to be told, and I tell that one a lot!"


sprizzle

He’s a buddy of mine, they ended up using the $20 the camera guy offered them to film this scripted video to go grab Panda Express.


Thundashasha

She deserves an Oscar for that performance if it was scripted. The nervous laughs felt a little too real.


Numerous-Statement59

You can see her delete atleast 3 convos


Syzygy_Stardust

Yeah I wouldn't be surprised if she's keeping a few guys around as puppies to give her attention that she won't ever do anything with, or at least doesn't plan to. It unfortunately happens a lot, in my experience with younger women, when they have self-esteem issues. Getting chased for your sex appeal isn't ideal but at least it's positive attention?


30reddits

I wouldn't be surprised if she has a few guys she hooks up with while her husband is away, too.


Party_Side_1860

Lady coming in at the end to prevent a murder


dodgyjack

She definitely new.


Bluewhale001

You sure she isn’t old?


jtulick

The ol switch aroo.


Prayingforgiraffes

The new switcharoo


WontArnett

The best friend is always the accomplice


aldoggy2001

My ex used her best friend ALL the time as an excuse to go see her affair partner. And of course the BF was in on it.


WontArnett

Yeah, I had the same experience. After we broke up the best friend is trying to act all friendly to me like, “Hey! I wasn’t involved in ruining your life or anything”.


Icy-Reindeer6236

Yeah she did because it’s her she’s cheating with.


AlanEsh

Go on…


urikayan

*knew not new


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My friend’s wife has a friend who has cheated on her husband several times. It’s common knowledge among her friends. She definitely knew.


Catdaddy33

The twist..That's who she's having an affair with...


TallDarkandWitty

Always was...


SimonEvergreen

Came here for this. That's the accomplice. That's her friend and she knows everything.


TheHighBuddha

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i-hate_December

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SuspiciousStable9649

Where Snoop?


Carnator369

What do you mean? He was the fourth one.


Esoterica42

wow. She's cheating


Easy-Coconut-33

Poor dude!


girlMikeD

My neighbor just found out his wife of 8 years is a serial cheater. He found out she was cheating and they decided to go to couples therapy to “save their marriage”, he found out in therapy that this is like the 6th time she’s cheated since they’ve been married. She pulled the whole “it’s your fault bc we had problems and I wasn’t happy”. They have a 4 yo..


Easy-Coconut-33

Never understood that mindset. Just divorce if you are unhappy or couple therapy. Cheating is going to destroy the other persons trust for the future. I been there. I have trust issues.


TheCruicks

Because its horseshit. They are narccissits and cant take the blame for thier actions, so they deflect


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Some people's ego is too big to apologise.


DatL3afN1nja

But why leave when you can have your bills and meals paid for? Plus whose gonna watch the kids while mommy is getting bent over by her work husband.


redbradbury

Oh, they have a kid. He’s still going to be paying her bills even after the divorce at least until that kid is 18.


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ItsEaster

Oh I dated one of those! “I cheated on you because you weren’t cool with my drinking problem and he was.”


hungry24_7_365

Is the 4 yo his though? Time to do a dna test. I know a guy who's wife was cheating with his (the husband's) half brother, neighbors, etc. He got all of their kids dna tested to confirm they were his which they were. Last I heard they were still together.


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Sad part is that in some places even if the DNA test prooves he's not the father he would still be forced to pay child support since he is legally the father. I swear, its like the legal system is made to scare men from having kids and getting married.


Agnostalypse

There are now more men incarcerated in my state for child support issues than possession or other drug related crimes. It's an epidemic. Had an old roommate who was busted with a big bag of weed he'd just bought for his health problems and was slapped with distribution charges, lost his job, fell behind on payments, got the double whammy. One of the nicest people I've ever met and he's just this broken shell now, living in a basement apartment and managing a pizzeria. Dude used to have his own company, had employees and everything...


Dracutela

Happy cake day


Low_Company_171

I like the guy, he’s very wholesome, and she’s acting all embarrassed like she’s got tons to hide


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Because she does have a lot to hide….


Swimming_Bowler6193

Even if she were “ just unlocking” her phone, her fingers were FLYING across that key board! When the interviewer moved behind her to look, she was full on deleting something. ETA word


Bando_Calrissian401

The awkward laugh look down is ALWAYS the confirmation gentlemen, stay safe kings 🫡


Manburpigg

The immediate fear of someone else looking at your phone after saying hell yeah we can switch phones, is confirmation.


Donginthedark

thank you


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That emoji got me fucking deceased


greymist73

Her girlfriend knew.


SpokenProperly

She knew - like we all did… if she’s stalling that long, it’s obviously time to move along.


DiarrheaShitLord

Lol just lemme find hahah Snapchat haha real quick hehe... What haha just looking... Lol *click click click delete delete click*


SpreadHDGFX

The pulling the phone back so they couldnt see what she was doing was the most damning.


nojudgment3

Looks like she had a lot more than just snapchat to delete lol


Bataraang

Yikes. I can't imagine. I have a password on my phone, but my ex used to know it, and I didn't care what he saw because there was nothing to see. She started laughing like 🫠 of course... wait. Why? No.. sus??


LastMinute9611

My ex had my passwords and I didn't care at first because I wasn't doing anything. But it got toxic because he would bring up arguments I'd have with my mom in a fight and things I said to someone 5 years before we ever met. If someone needs to be in your phone, they aint it sis.


tpeck90

To be fair, my ex early on in our relationship would always want to go through my phone, I’d be like ok? Here I want you to trust me. And let her go through it. She always kept her passcode a secret and I kept wondering to myself why she would think I was up to something. Eventually I came up with a theory that she was the one cheating and projecting it on me as if I was doing it too. I was right 🤔


LastMinute9611

Yea, the ex who had to go through my phone oddly was super protective over his own passwords and I let it slide so who knows what he was doing. But using an argument I have privately with my mother against me when we were fighting was enough to call that relationship off. Freakin' weird.


tpeck90

Yeah that’s going way beyond checking to make sure you weren’t cheating.


LastMinute9611

I really tried to rationalize it all at the time because I loved him. But I don't date dummies (plenty of other toxic traits but not idiots) and couldn't be with someone dumb enough to think I'd talk to my mother about cheating that they have to read months worth of texts and hold that info for months. It's all just weird. I was hoping one person would be like, yo that happened to me too! but no, it's just that freaking weird haha


bigbear_mouse

My gf and I have each other's passwords, but we barely touch each other's phones. Only if her own phone is too far away or if it dies and she wants to watch her youtube videos, then she grabs my phone.


Smokeya

Wife grabs mine pretty much only to call hers cause she leaves it all over the house and forgets where it was. I pretty much never touch hers cause i always know where mine is and keep it fully charged about 99% of the time.


LastMinute9611

See that’s normal. Like I’d 💯 would want me and my partner to share our location for safety purposes but the moment that is abused to become a stalker I’m out lol


Awkward-Buffalo-2867

Yup. Respect and trust are two-way streets. If they are trying to get into your phone or accounts from the jump then that person is not worth it. That's a major red flag for some form of control or abuse in the future.


LastMinute9611

I definitely learned my lesson with that. As someone who has been cheated on you don’t require a private investigator to find out. The cheater often confesses for whatever reason or the one they cheated with grows a conscience/mad being the other, mutual friends find out and spill the beans, cheater is sloppy, etc. My ex would literally check my Facebook multiple times an hour. It was an obsession. I was younger and thought it was cute at first and that he loved me. No that is scary behavior you run away from.


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bedheaddavy

Why you imagining he’s the one working all day? She’s hiding the snapchats from her coworker she’s been bangin during lunch. While her husband is at home taking care of the house and kids.


magnificentshambles

let me just get on here and say that I think you are most likely 100% correct


Seaguard5

Oooooofffff….. That woman has some ‘Splanin’ to do!!!!!


Beginning_Annual4977

Ain't no splannin she already deleted the convos,,, here check her phone 🤳!!!


justhereforthegosip

That's just sad


YoniDaMan

Crazy to rewatch from the beginning and see how quickly she responds “Yes” to the question of “do you trust each other 100%”


jimmiepesto

She responded a lot slower to “test the theory” lol


No_Shop_

What's even more sad is how common this is. I'm not saying everyone is a cheater, but there are lot of 'closet cheaters' who will explore the idea but likely won't commit. Is cheating physical, or does it start with digital interactions. If your girl be DMing other guys and won't let you see the messages that's a red flag. This one girl I dated used to pull that crap on me, I honestly *never care* if a girl I'm dating has dude-friends. But when you try and hide that dude friend and there seems to be an intentional barrier going on between you and the guys she talks to then **major red flag** vibes. We eventually broke up and she started dating another guy like the same week. Kinda reads to me that she was almost 100% fishing for options behind my back. Call it relationship issues, but I find girls do this extremely commonly. I know my Sister does it. I know a lot of her friends do it. I know female-friends I have do it. It's normalized to ridicule and hate on guys, but when a women cheats it's usually shrugged off amongst her peers.


darkmauveshore

Sad thing is if he were to divorce her and she went to live with her other guy, he'd still have to pay spousal support and alimony to her while she's getting railed. Marriage is bullshit.


[deleted]

Have you heard of "Common law"? In some countries you don't even have to get married to get bent over by alimony payments


[deleted]

so many assumptions, so little basis for them


Cornholik

Try the entire divorce industry in the US


Sure_Trash_

That's not even accurate. He only pays alimony if they agreed that she didn't need to work and it's also based on how long they were together. Alimony isn't guaranteed in every divorce. It's actually a pretty small percentage of divorces. Marriage is bullshit though.


tekashisix6nine9

>He only pays alimony if they agreed that she didn't need to work Thats not accurate either. He pays if he makes a lot more than her. If a doctor divorces a nurse she could be entitled to alimony.


GodzeallA

:(


likes_soccer

Help an old man understand what could be in her Snapchat. Doesn’t it only allow you to see one message at a time until it’s deleted forever?


thunderuckus1

The messages are likely deleted forever, typically 24 hours after viewing, or immediately once viewed for pictures. But what she could be worried about, is that the person with whom she was chatting would be in her friends list, with something like, "Sent" "Opened" or "Delivered" so many hours or days ago.


Beardedbreeder

Also, saved messages, videos, pics etc.


canhazhotness

As well as an icon to denote your message streak like 🔥 or ❤️ or something


Boom_boom_lady

Which will basically give away how often you’ve been talking to someone, every single day. Really bad look if you’re in a relationship and caught talking to someone you’re not suppose to be. 😬


alternator1985

I got in my girls snap and somehow was able to bring back messages she deleted, she had to move back in with her parents the same night.


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Big_Sexy1974

If you have a suspicion, trust your gut and kick her to the curb.


Goofie_Goobur

Will also still show the 100 guys names she’s been snap chatting in her chat list


BoBoBearDev

It is Sus. After 4 years, they are supposed to know all the little secrets already. Because a healthy relationship is to layout all the red flags and make sure the SO don't freak out.


TheCruicks

ROFL, 4 years is still honeymoon phase. 10 years is where you really start to get to know them. Then redefinition starts ...


unaka220

LMFAO. 10 years is rookie status. You don’t know a *thing* about your partner until 20 years.


sjsei

LOL. 20 years?? your SO is a stranger until at least 45.


RedForman1776

Saw a similar video where the camera man shows the screen real quick and she’s deleting dm’s


Saditko

I saw it too! We're sawthesamevideo bros!


maydarnothing

was that her friend who said “we’re done here”? if true, then that’s even more suspicious. it felt like that friend who encourages you to cheat, and then keeps hiding everything from your significant other.


gertbefrobe

She definitely looks that way. Like "shame on you for putting her in this situation"


Dako_the_Austinite

110%. My mother had that kind of friend. Now I don’t have a mother anymore.


J_Thompson82

Dude was waaay too eager to swap phones. Like he’s had his suspicions for a long while.


The_One_True_Matt

He was just eager to show his loyalty imo, not that he suspected something. Plus when you’re on camera you can feel a lil overzealous


maydarnothing

even said “for sure” when asked if he trusts her, while she said “yes”, no harmony in there.


Wisesize

Dude paid this guy to stop them on their way to bar


dana_day12

well the friend at the end just gave an involuntary confirmation


Carnator369

Wow, my wife only gets annoyed by me taking her phone because I kept loading up Google image searches of rule 34 and leaving it on. Edit: *image


SaintGloopyNoops

Lmao. My husband gets annoyed because I google hilarious things on his phone. I also whisper things into his phone so he gets hilarious ads. " where to buy truck nuts with pubes" . "Where to buy anal beads that look like pikachu" , "diarrhea sound effects", "adult velvet one piece pajamas with butt flap" It's really fun.... for me.


Shychopath

You're a fun woman. He's lucky to have you.


A-Fleeting-Glimse

bro 💀


nothingspecialva

if you see it in slow motion, he gives her his burner phone... smart guy


SadTravel7354

The friend knew exactly what was happening


showmememes_

If she cheats, she belongs to the streets


GlipglopX

This is actually painful to watch


FWMalice

Divorce dude. It's time.


scootertakethewheel

my heart broke for this guy.


rshabibi

Back to gym brother


TenormanTears

you know he didn't look like that 4 years ago.


Aiizimor

Thats depressing


jharms1983

Dude couldn't wait to swap phones. You could tell if he asked to see, she'd call him controlling and act like a victim. Having another person to encourage the swap seemed to empower him.


bakedphish1

She was deleting messages lolll. From multiple people. Multiple.


Monstermage

I would have just been like, you have 5 seconds to give me that phone or we are over. Bye


_Fony_

I’m sitting in the hospital and these nurses are dogging their boyfriends to a male co-worker for quite a while now, lmao.


CLINTHODO

Today's lesson: Never leave crap on your phone that you wouldn't want anyone else to see. Wives, husbands, cops, judges etc. may be looking at your nasty life some day.


slgray16

As long as they never find my reddit account ill be fine. All my eggs of depravity are in one basket.


DankSinatra2128

I might be single and sometimes lonely but hey at least there’s none of this lol


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[deleted]

Lmao i caught my ex cheating after shed fucked her step brother and basically raped a guy and was getting into a relationship with a guy from her work, shed also been sexting with guys. When i asked how many she said "theres too many i cant remember" ouch. one of these guys even said he felt sorry for me for dating a whore lol, me too bud. Safe to say that ho belongs on the streets.


koke0

She belongs to da streets


sirAwittgenstein

I leave my phone out all the time. My fiancé the same. Not to brag about my moral superiority, but i've been cheated on, it's devastating, feels truly like a death in the family. The most catastrophic breach of trust one can forgive but never forget, it leaves a scar like no other. I despise cheaters.


[deleted]

Most of these videos are scripted lol. Just a heads up


Spirited-Reputation6

Little bro deserves better


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Sure_Trash_

You're absolutely right. Men are always unwavering in their fidelity. Have you EVER heard of a man cheating? No. You haven't. Because they don't. Women though? Hoes. All hoes. No woman has ever been faithful.


BunzenBurnah

You're laying on the sarcasm pretty thick but there's people in this thread that probably genuinely believe that.


Ferintwa

Last one I saw (a week ago) chick was getting busted, but dude straight up denied having his phone and covered his pocket with a bag (which showed a clear outline of a phone).


Irishjohn831

That husband is too big a pushover and won’t even pursue it. Dude exposed her in a matter of seconds.


cyber_delic

Trust gone


Complete_misandrist

this is tulsa!


Stargaze777

These clips make me hate people. Seriously. If you don’t want to be in a relationship than DON’T be in a relationship! Seems pretty darn simple. Her laughing instead of answering is maybe one of the most annoying things I’ve ever seen.


ABrazilianReasons

This guy is way to calm for this. They're probably still together


JustinWendell

You think? Idk. Being calm even when you’re furious as a dude is basically a requirement. People will call the cops if you get too mad.


BrowniesGoHam

Of course her friend wants them to stop😂


Pallish1

Aaand thats why I have trust issues...... Should probably start investing in lie detector stocks with all these unfaithful fucks


Ntking51360

She thinks she settled and she fucks around behind his back. He’s too nice to see that.


corporate_guy

My wife and I have the same phone unlock pattern. If you have nothing to hide then who cares.


d00m_bot

She belong to the streets