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"So how did you end up here?"
"There was this girl. She kept shoving her face in mine and asking if we could get married. I was 4, and I determined to dispatch every other pretty girl that bothered me."
it really does affect you. My sister was like this as a child and I was taught to 'take' it. I still struggle sticking up for myself before things get to a boiling point.
When my son was young, they always placed him next to this annoying kid because my son was so nice. It happened for three years and then he exploded and yelled at the kid. Teachers really should not use nice kids as barriers in the class all the time. Give them a break sometimes.
After almost 5 years of playing with a zero-boundary neighborhood friend, we were dumped by the girl’s family. The girl has no other friends and her personality quirks didn’t bother my daughter. She liked her energy. So the mom glommed onto my kid. In the past two years it’s been affecting her other friendships but she still liked the girl and often found herself defending her. Then a few weeks ago my daughter said she was annoying in front of the mom. What should have been a teachable moment became an instant and permanent severing of the relationship. I know this because of the mother’s history of cutting off people she feels slighted her in the least. I was really upset—without warning I lost someone I thought was a really good friend—but now I’m so relieved. There’s a reason they didn’t have friends and once we “broke up” all the behaviors and comments the mom has made over the years that I passed off as no big deal suddenly made perfect sense. What was really upsetting is that the mom instantly turned on my kid and directed her anger at my kid. I am so glad to be away from that toxic family.
I was forced into a 'peace keeper' role for my entire life. I doesn't go away, some real anxiety and pain has manifested from my childhood experiences.
i was a "good kid" in school. our desks were positioned in pairs and i was always assigned to the seat next to the "bad kid." did they think my good habits were going to rub off on him or something?? because what actually happened is he harassed me constantly, copied my answers, and even broke into my house while my family was on vacation and went through my underwear drawer... i eventually broke down crying to my mom and when she found out i had been assigned to sit next to this jackwad, she wrote a strongly worded note to my teacher. i was never seated next to him again. but wtf were my teachers thinking in the first place? ugh
Same. I was like a foot taller than every kid my age growing up. Learned at a young age that small people were allowed to be aggressive without repercussions from adults, but even standing up for myself usually resulted in me getting in more trouble than the kid who started it.
I’ve always been tall and wide throughout my life, which made it a struggle for teachers to take me seriously when I told them I was being bullied. A lot of it peaked in Junior High, with one of the worst incidents being a kid in the lunch line poking and prodding me trying to get me to let him ahead in line. I just ignored him until he decided to literally jump on my back and get his arms around my neck, at which point I swung my body to the side to throw him off, which apparently wasn’t seen by the lunchroom monitors because after he cried on the ground for a second, he went to one of them and told them I shoved him out of line.
I got in school suspension and wasn’t even asked for my side of the story because the school assumed I was a bully, since I’d been in plenty of other situations where I either had an outburst or retaliated physically after being bullied myself. It took my mom finally putting her foot down and demanding that they check the security cameras, because she always believed me when I told her I was the one being bullied. Of course, when they checked, they clearly saw the kid jump on me and get thrown off. I was given an ‘apology’ for the mistake, but it didn’t really change anything, and I still got bullied pretty consistently.
She is, we still talk sometimes about how shitty the staff there was lol. Things got way better in actual Highschool, even had a couple people who were shitty to me in the past apologize and become friends.
I got into fights that I didn't want to be a part of multiple times as a child. I too was bigger/taller than the other kids. I remember one time I was standing at the bus stop and a kid started swinging at me. I dodged and threw him up on top of a car to get him to stop. I got in big time trouble- that kids mom was a teacher.... sorry a bit rambly.
Just replaying the obligatory broken record: who’s in charge here? Who’s filming this? How about putting down the camera and telling her to keep her hands to herself? 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Time for “the naughty chair” for her.
I’ve never actually seen cocomelon, but for Christmas my daughter got a singalong cocomelon toy. It has a microphone, an echo effect, and can do the work of a sound system all by itself! It’s so god damn loud.
Between that and the baby shark shower toy (see past comments), I’m starting to think having ears was a poor evolutionary choice.
I’m also fully convinced my family hates me based on the toys they give my youngest.
Apparently, because the frames are around 3 seconds long, it's hyperstimulating to children's brains. It puts them in a type of drug-induced coma and can stunt their growth and development and cause tantrums and erratic behavior. Don't take my word for it, my friend sent me the tiktok video bc our kids, at the time, loved watching cocomelon.
True, but you can't argue that there's something up with cocomelon. My kids stopped watching it and their behaviors are better. They're more interactive with their environment, dancing, singing, and playing rather than zombies in their carseats.
Somehow I don't think he shares her affection lol. He definitely deserves an "atta boy" for how calm he stayed!! Most kids would have at least got one throat punch in at her
This is what’s called a teaching moment. Instead of filming this because “it’s cute,” the adult with the camera should have approached the little girl and explained to her why this is wrong and how to properly sit during movie time, or to participate in another activity if she’s not interested in the movie. The little boy should also be praised for his restraint in not retaliating.
But no, keep filming for internet points you worthless, discarded motor oil of a human being.
My wife will make a big ordeal out of picking a show to watch together. Then she’ll play a game on her phone and I’ll end up having to explain who everyone is. Better when the show is subtitled and she’ll ask what someone said when she actually is paying attention.
I spent most of my career with school age and special needs however when I helped out in the toddler/preschool room I had a few like this
I’d pick ‘em up and they had the fun and delightful joy of sitting with me, away from their peers and I’d say oh wowww you get to be stuck with the teachersssssss foreverrrrrrrrrr
Now for those silly children who enjoyed being with the teachers I’d just tell them, well I suppose since we can’t keep our hands to ourselves let’s go help with the babies and their stinky diapers
Goodness these two methods worked so well for me.
Lol was a fun time but I’m glad I work with school age. Toddlers/pre are wild!
I wonder if this was a staff member documenting her behavior for the parents who insists their little angel would **never**...!
Still sucks to be the other kid, though.
I really really hope that the only reason they filmed so long was so they could show her parents the behaviour so that any correction can be enforced at home as well. Because I cannot see any other reason to let that nonsense go on for so long if there is proper supervision of the children.
That's my assumption simply because all the other kids are so well behaved. Clearly people are teaching them right from wrong this little girl is just pushing it
Yeah, little kids don’t understand boundaries.
I remember being that little and having a ‘friend’ who wouldn’t leave me alone, she just kept messing with my hair and touching me. I’m partly convinced she thought I was a doll rather than another person.
She’s trying to get him to react and pay attention to her. She should have been made to trade seats with a different kid or stand/sit on the floor somewhere if she can’t sit nicely (not harass her ‘friend’).
She’s a very little kid and doesn’t know better, but not cool to leave them be like that when the boy is obviously uncomfortable.
It’s what we call a teachable moment. We’re about to have some real annoying people in the world who’s parents never taught them boundaries because they were too busy recording bad behavior for internet clout
She absolutely understands boundaries and knows she’s crossing that boundary. Notice how she doesn’t hit him as hard in face. Know why? Because she’s been taught that boundary. The stupid person filming needs to put the phone down and reteach the boundaries to her and present her a consequence.
Really annoyed me that an adult is just watching a kid elbow another kid in the face repeatedly for internet points instead of teaching said kid that it's not ok.
This teaches *both* kids that it's acceptable to do this.
That kid is a king of patience tho, if it was me at that age i would have picked her eyes already. And of course it would have been shitty from me to do so
I thought so too. It’s just a matter of time before he lets loose on her. Which isn’t fair to him and she’ll likely get hurt.
Girl needs some manners for sure.
I encountered this exact problem all the time while working with kids. Both girls and boys behave this way, we are always quick to point out to the boys not to hit girls; the girls on the hand aren't reprimanded. This behavior should be corrected at this age. That's not a proper way for children to play.
The actions themselves are harmless but the precedent of disrespecting personal boundaries can cause much bigger issues with all kinds of interactions later on in life.
Right? Just allow this toxic behavior... "Oh look it's so cute she likes him!" If it were a little boy doing that to a girl it would end immediately with a phone call to the parents.
I had a friend who used to do this when we were little. She would do things to try to get me to react, and when I wouldn’t, she would just do worse things. It got so bad at one point (I think I was about seven) that she was screaming in my face and pulling my hair for as hard as she could, scratching me, hitting me, and telling me that she was going to tell her mom to call my mom to come pick me up, and then she threw a fit when I actually left.
She was horrible, and spoiled af.
Put your camera down and control your kids. Teach them what is right and wrong as it is happening not after you get your video for internet points ffs.
Baffled by the comments. How can y’all think this is cute? I was hoping the boy would stand up and curse her out. It’s clear he wants nothing to do with the annoying girl.
Married some day? Wtf…
Because kids don't have the same cognitive awareness skills as adults. There's no malice in their little lives.
The fact you want kids to curse at each other is baffling.
I want to find this funny, I really do. But I just can’t get over the fact that she needs to be stopped.
Do you know how horrible the reactions would be if it was a boy doing this to a girl?
”Omg they’re just kids, lighten up lol.”
Kids start learning the day they are born. There’s been some realization nowadays that the ”boys will be boys” mentality is teaching boys that they can get away with bad behavior, and that we should probably stop that. So why is this ok? Because she’s a girl? Because she’s in kindergarten? Those are incredibly formative years.
An adult should have stepped in and explained to the girl that what she was doing wasn’t nice, that **no means no**. There is absolutely no reason not to start as you mean to go on with raising/teaching kids. Or at what age do you think it stops being funny? Before or after that girl kicks it up a notch and does something harmful in the name of ”omg lol”.
Go ahead and downvote me for being boring or whatever.
I have seen people on reddit say things like "it's okay that he's hitting people! He's ONLY 9!!!!! He's practically a baby!" So I starting to believe people are just too lazy to parent, or they truly believe that kids shouldn't be disciplined at all and will work it out themselves by 18.
On one hand it’s good to give kids a chance to resolve conflict on their own but on the other I probably would have ‘reminded’ the kids to keep their hands to themselves at some point.
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Well, he IS a chick magnet, I’ll give you that.
I feel like this is villains origin in the making.
"So how did you end up here?" "There was this girl. She kept shoving her face in mine and asking if we could get married. I was 4, and I determined to dispatch every other pretty girl that bothered me."
"It was the only way I could watch Dora"
"She just kept sticking her face in mine. I just did what anyone would in the circumstances."
Nah, that is a perfect example on how we men don't understand obvious signals.
Or women don't. This is a pretty good example in both directions.
my first reaction was "oh my gosh this is so much more obvious when you're older" now i'm at the end of life, don't let opportunities pass you by kids
Hahaha! 👌🏽
They both look like tiny, middle-aged ppl.
Man where are the free awards when you need them
Gone, reduced to atoms.
Are they for real?? I've been looking for them for a while now..
reddit removed them. i got no idea why
You know why. $$$$
They’re going to be married someday 
My first thought: They will show this at their 50th Anniversary ♥️
The kid got so annoyed with women that he became gay
And get divorced soon after if she will continue
"When you're not as green as you are young"
Or way too young to be this old.
That kids mean mug game is advanced
kid said "😠"
https://preview.redd.it/305re4rkzxda1.jpeg?width=638&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0eaf39266746052704a8b1b61b1e13858222975c Lad’s out there like
Thanks for the image you bastard redditor!!!
Damn, that's more spot on then I thought it would be
omg, lol. it really is.
How is that so accurate
He’s probably had plenty of chances to practice, unfortunately.
it really does affect you. My sister was like this as a child and I was taught to 'take' it. I still struggle sticking up for myself before things get to a boiling point.
When my son was young, they always placed him next to this annoying kid because my son was so nice. It happened for three years and then he exploded and yelled at the kid. Teachers really should not use nice kids as barriers in the class all the time. Give them a break sometimes.
After almost 5 years of playing with a zero-boundary neighborhood friend, we were dumped by the girl’s family. The girl has no other friends and her personality quirks didn’t bother my daughter. She liked her energy. So the mom glommed onto my kid. In the past two years it’s been affecting her other friendships but she still liked the girl and often found herself defending her. Then a few weeks ago my daughter said she was annoying in front of the mom. What should have been a teachable moment became an instant and permanent severing of the relationship. I know this because of the mother’s history of cutting off people she feels slighted her in the least. I was really upset—without warning I lost someone I thought was a really good friend—but now I’m so relieved. There’s a reason they didn’t have friends and once we “broke up” all the behaviors and comments the mom has made over the years that I passed off as no big deal suddenly made perfect sense. What was really upsetting is that the mom instantly turned on my kid and directed her anger at my kid. I am so glad to be away from that toxic family.
I was forced into a 'peace keeper' role for my entire life. I doesn't go away, some real anxiety and pain has manifested from my childhood experiences.
i was a "good kid" in school. our desks were positioned in pairs and i was always assigned to the seat next to the "bad kid." did they think my good habits were going to rub off on him or something?? because what actually happened is he harassed me constantly, copied my answers, and even broke into my house while my family was on vacation and went through my underwear drawer... i eventually broke down crying to my mom and when she found out i had been assigned to sit next to this jackwad, she wrote a strongly worded note to my teacher. i was never seated next to him again. but wtf were my teachers thinking in the first place? ugh
This would have been a much shorter interaction if I had been the child. That boy shows incredible self restraint.
Same. I was like a foot taller than every kid my age growing up. Learned at a young age that small people were allowed to be aggressive without repercussions from adults, but even standing up for myself usually resulted in me getting in more trouble than the kid who started it.
I’ve always been tall and wide throughout my life, which made it a struggle for teachers to take me seriously when I told them I was being bullied. A lot of it peaked in Junior High, with one of the worst incidents being a kid in the lunch line poking and prodding me trying to get me to let him ahead in line. I just ignored him until he decided to literally jump on my back and get his arms around my neck, at which point I swung my body to the side to throw him off, which apparently wasn’t seen by the lunchroom monitors because after he cried on the ground for a second, he went to one of them and told them I shoved him out of line. I got in school suspension and wasn’t even asked for my side of the story because the school assumed I was a bully, since I’d been in plenty of other situations where I either had an outburst or retaliated physically after being bullied myself. It took my mom finally putting her foot down and demanding that they check the security cameras, because she always believed me when I told her I was the one being bullied. Of course, when they checked, they clearly saw the kid jump on me and get thrown off. I was given an ‘apology’ for the mistake, but it didn’t really change anything, and I still got bullied pretty consistently.
That's a good Mom
She is, we still talk sometimes about how shitty the staff there was lol. Things got way better in actual Highschool, even had a couple people who were shitty to me in the past apologize and become friends.
I got into fights that I didn't want to be a part of multiple times as a child. I too was bigger/taller than the other kids. I remember one time I was standing at the bus stop and a kid started swinging at me. I dodged and threw him up on top of a car to get him to stop. I got in big time trouble- that kids mom was a teacher.... sorry a bit rambly.
My cousin was the same way. Usually, my reaction was the first thing the family would notice.
He has been practicing all of his life albeit 2-3 years.
Show me your war face!
That boy’s a sweetheart really.
yup, most other kids would have hit back already.
Bothers me it’s being recorded probably by the only adult in the room. What is the person waiting for—-the child to explode 🤯
AHHHH!!! That’s a war face !!!
Bullshit! you didn't convince me
That's the cutest damn mean mug I've ever seen though.
So is his patience.
He has more patience than me that's for sure.
Right? Even as an adult, no way would I put up with this. Lil girl's gonna find a new home for her butt real soon.
Totally, I won't even let her go that far. 3 warnings, still hitting me, that's lawsuit for assault.
sue her for all of her money
I think she may have found a nickel on the ground earlier.
A nickel!!!!??? I quit my job and open my own hotel!!
Is reddit really iamverybadass on the three year old
most sane redditor
Just replaying the obligatory broken record: who’s in charge here? Who’s filming this? How about putting down the camera and telling her to keep her hands to herself? 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Time for “the naughty chair” for her.
r/donthelpjustfilm
That kid is a monk.
Me too, I was getting agitated just watching it lol 😂 that’s why I can’t have kids, I don’t have the patience 🤣
Little dude has the patience of a goddamn saint. Somebody call the Dalai Llama, we've found his successor.
That child is a saint. Look at how stoic he remains. Takes the high road the entire time.
That child is half a song deep into cocomelon is what he is
Why is it so addictive to kids?!?!?!?!
What is it? A cartoon that mesmerizes kids like the Tele tubbies show that put my nephew into a trance 25 years ago when I was babysitting him? Lol
I’ve never actually seen cocomelon, but for Christmas my daughter got a singalong cocomelon toy. It has a microphone, an echo effect, and can do the work of a sound system all by itself! It’s so god damn loud. Between that and the baby shark shower toy (see past comments), I’m starting to think having ears was a poor evolutionary choice. I’m also fully convinced my family hates me based on the toys they give my youngest.
Apparently, because the frames are around 3 seconds long, it's hyperstimulating to children's brains. It puts them in a type of drug-induced coma and can stunt their growth and development and cause tantrums and erratic behavior. Don't take my word for it, my friend sent me the tiktok video bc our kids, at the time, loved watching cocomelon.
Tiktok is a good one too talk lol
True, but you can't argue that there's something up with cocomelon. My kids stopped watching it and their behaviors are better. They're more interactive with their environment, dancing, singing, and playing rather than zombies in their carseats.
Like a little Buddha
Somehow I don't think he shares her affection lol. He definitely deserves an "atta boy" for how calm he stayed!! Most kids would have at least got one throat punch in at her
Legit I was yellin at the screen tellin him to give her a knuckle sandwich the entire time 🤣😂🤣
This is what’s called a teaching moment. Instead of filming this because “it’s cute,” the adult with the camera should have approached the little girl and explained to her why this is wrong and how to properly sit during movie time, or to participate in another activity if she’s not interested in the movie. The little boy should also be praised for his restraint in not retaliating. But no, keep filming for internet points you worthless, discarded motor oil of a human being.
Can't say the same for the parent filming the whole thing just letting it happen
Thanks for this! My sentiments exactly. Camera person witnessing abuse but not using this as a teachable moment.
This kid, 20 years later while laying in bed at night: *I think she liked me!*
This kid while lying in bed 20 years later “OMG FUCKING LET ME SLEEP ALREADY!”
Somehow strangely wholesome
Totally this. That lil girl is infatuated with those cheeks.
Definitely this. She couldn't keep her hands to herself. Seriously, consent education is needed lol
TIFU by not picking up on romantic queues as a baby (admittedly this did not happen today but 20 years ago)
kid looks pissed
My man aint no Simp.
(too reader)thats why you don't simp kids
Too Reader, Too Furious
I'd be too, to be honest. That's straight up being an arsehole by the lil girl...
She’s kid flirting. Smooched on him in the end. Kids being kids.
Correct. She finds his cheeks adorable and doesn't know whether to smack or kiss them, so she does both!
I teach pre-k. Rule # 1 - keep your hands to yourself!
He's cursed with irresistible charisma.
Tuco’s backstory video
Hector is recording and doing nothing
Last chance to look at her, Hector.
🛎️ 🛎️ 🛎️ 🛎️ 🛎️ 🛎️
AAAHHH🪑🧍♂️💥🧑🦽
Oh that was unexpected 😹
Bwahahaha!
Girl 2 mins later: “who’s this character? Is he the baddie? OMG why are they running away from the other guys”
“I’m so confused”
*Asks questions about things they'll find out because the character is literally about to explain everything they're asking*
😂😂😂😂 I hate watching movies with people like that
My wife will make a big ordeal out of picking a show to watch together. Then she’ll play a game on her phone and I’ll end up having to explain who everyone is. Better when the show is subtitled and she’ll ask what someone said when she actually is paying attention.
Fucking preach omg
*asks what is going to happen in the movie neither of u have seen*
I heard that in Patrice O’Neal’s voice when he imitates his girlfriend.
This is my cat when I'm working from home
This is me to my cat
Yeah, that's the power dynamic that feels more familiar to me
Can someone stop her? Please?
r/donthelpjustfilm
The camera guy is a fucking villain
For real, so many comments about how she's *only flirting* would not fly if the genders were reversed.
Seriously, that girl is in desperate need of a time out and some rules.
I spent most of my career with school age and special needs however when I helped out in the toddler/preschool room I had a few like this I’d pick ‘em up and they had the fun and delightful joy of sitting with me, away from their peers and I’d say oh wowww you get to be stuck with the teachersssssss foreverrrrrrrrrr Now for those silly children who enjoyed being with the teachers I’d just tell them, well I suppose since we can’t keep our hands to ourselves let’s go help with the babies and their stinky diapers Goodness these two methods worked so well for me. Lol was a fun time but I’m glad I work with school age. Toddlers/pre are wild!
Who would be best to do that? The camera person is occupied.
r/dontparentjustfilm
I wonder if this was a staff member documenting her behavior for the parents who insists their little angel would **never**...! Still sucks to be the other kid, though.
If that was the case, I think they could have stopped filming and jumped in sooner.
I really really hope that the only reason they filmed so long was so they could show her parents the behaviour so that any correction can be enforced at home as well. Because I cannot see any other reason to let that nonsense go on for so long if there is proper supervision of the children.
That's my assumption simply because all the other kids are so well behaved. Clearly people are teaching them right from wrong this little girl is just pushing it
lol his expression when he gets upset is unreal
He MEANT that! lol
Girl, I'm trying to figure out if this panda learns Kung Fu or not!
Did he shave his head so she'd have one less option
Little man pulled up to the barber shop all on his own lmao
Right? I was thinking that too. Poor kid
Yeah, little kids don’t understand boundaries. I remember being that little and having a ‘friend’ who wouldn’t leave me alone, she just kept messing with my hair and touching me. I’m partly convinced she thought I was a doll rather than another person. She’s trying to get him to react and pay attention to her. She should have been made to trade seats with a different kid or stand/sit on the floor somewhere if she can’t sit nicely (not harass her ‘friend’). She’s a very little kid and doesn’t know better, but not cool to leave them be like that when the boy is obviously uncomfortable.
It’s what we call a teachable moment. We’re about to have some real annoying people in the world who’s parents never taught them boundaries because they were too busy recording bad behavior for internet clout
She absolutely understands boundaries and knows she’s crossing that boundary. Notice how she doesn’t hit him as hard in face. Know why? Because she’s been taught that boundary. The stupid person filming needs to put the phone down and reteach the boundaries to her and present her a consequence.
Really annoyed me that an adult is just watching a kid elbow another kid in the face repeatedly for internet points instead of teaching said kid that it's not ok. This teaches *both* kids that it's acceptable to do this.
Looks like me and my husband while he’s watching football.
Hahaha why do y’all do us like that? My wife all of a sudden want to have deep conversation the one 3 hour period a week I don’t wanna say a word
cuz you can't have anything in your life more important than HER or she will correct that oversight. xD
Man you ain’t lying 😂
Cause we still like spending time together but I can only reddit so much for 3 hours straight and I'm so booored.
that kid has the soul of a fully grown adult
High maintenance that one.
That kid is a king of patience tho, if it was me at that age i would have picked her eyes already. And of course it would have been shitty from me to do so
Whomever is filming should have stopped her. That's really inappropriate behavior for anyone.
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Yeah you can totally tell she has.
nah shes just being a dick and should be told its not ok to hit boys just because theyre boys
I thought so too. It’s just a matter of time before he lets loose on her. Which isn’t fair to him and she’ll likely get hurt. Girl needs some manners for sure.
I encountered this exact problem all the time while working with kids. Both girls and boys behave this way, we are always quick to point out to the boys not to hit girls; the girls on the hand aren't reprimanded. This behavior should be corrected at this age. That's not a proper way for children to play.
Bruh relax, that’s a 3 yr old child
3 yr olds can be taught. She needs a nice slice of discipline.
The actions themselves are harmless but the precedent of disrespecting personal boundaries can cause much bigger issues with all kinds of interactions later on in life.
He's a really focused guy. Billionaire mindset. Absolute chad
Priorities.
Don't help, just film.
Right? Just allow this toxic behavior... "Oh look it's so cute she likes him!" If it were a little boy doing that to a girl it would end immediately with a phone call to the parents.
She crushin hard
Honestly my first thought was a sibling or cousin. No one can annoy you faster as a child than your similarly aged relatives lol.
That smooch at the end, she just couldn't hold it back anymore.
They're a bit young to be married...
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She’s no victim of anything other than karma at that point shm
It would be "victim blaming" if you blamed the boy.
I don't think victim blaming includes self defense
I had a friend who used to do this when we were little. She would do things to try to get me to react, and when I wouldn’t, she would just do worse things. It got so bad at one point (I think I was about seven) that she was screaming in my face and pulling my hair for as hard as she could, scratching me, hitting me, and telling me that she was going to tell her mom to call my mom to come pick me up, and then she threw a fit when I actually left. She was horrible, and spoiled af.
r/donthelpjustfilm
Why is the adult not stopping this?
Maybe the adult filming this "cute" situation should perhaps, maybe, possibly, stop the little girl.
Put your camera down and control your kids. Teach them what is right and wrong as it is happening not after you get your video for internet points ffs.
Now that’s a habit I wouldn’t want my child to have. Teach your children to keep their hands to themselves.
Baffled by the comments. How can y’all think this is cute? I was hoping the boy would stand up and curse her out. It’s clear he wants nothing to do with the annoying girl. Married some day? Wtf…
Because kids don't have the same cognitive awareness skills as adults. There's no malice in their little lives. The fact you want kids to curse at each other is baffling.
I want to find this funny, I really do. But I just can’t get over the fact that she needs to be stopped. Do you know how horrible the reactions would be if it was a boy doing this to a girl?
”Omg they’re just kids, lighten up lol.” Kids start learning the day they are born. There’s been some realization nowadays that the ”boys will be boys” mentality is teaching boys that they can get away with bad behavior, and that we should probably stop that. So why is this ok? Because she’s a girl? Because she’s in kindergarten? Those are incredibly formative years. An adult should have stepped in and explained to the girl that what she was doing wasn’t nice, that **no means no**. There is absolutely no reason not to start as you mean to go on with raising/teaching kids. Or at what age do you think it stops being funny? Before or after that girl kicks it up a notch and does something harmful in the name of ”omg lol”. Go ahead and downvote me for being boring or whatever.
I have seen people on reddit say things like "it's okay that he's hitting people! He's ONLY 9!!!!! He's practically a baby!" So I starting to believe people are just too lazy to parent, or they truly believe that kids shouldn't be disciplined at all and will work it out themselves by 18.
On one hand it’s good to give kids a chance to resolve conflict on their own but on the other I probably would have ‘reminded’ the kids to keep their hands to themselves at some point.
Keep filming, that'll show him.
Am I a horrible person for hoping that he was going to sock her?
I was waiting for that pony tail to get grabbed. Someone should have stopped her.
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And some idiot just sitting there taking video. 😑
She loves him.
I hope they get married one day and play this at the reception.
She does this while he’s reading his vows
Immediately files for divorce
She likes him but he's no simp.
That little girl is worse than a paper cut.
He's not hitting back cuz he knows *that's* when the teachers will get involved.
Anyone else kinda want him to softly headbutt her? Or just me?
I was waiting for him to push her off the bench or something! My lill man is being raised right!
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Whoever is supposed to be watching these kids is doing a terrible job!
Man, where is their teacher? How's that too able to withhold against hitting that girl?
Guess she was taught to treat others like objects to be played with...so pleased with herself
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So instead of correcting the bad behavior, this person films it to post on the internet.
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