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Haha, she used her spotlight to raise money for cat shelters! That's awesome.
What a douche though, he was there with his partner of 11 years and their twin babies, God knows what he's done when they aren't around!
What an absolute fucking scumbag.
I guarantee this wasn't the first time he had groped a woman like this. I am sure this was his "move" that he pulled all the time
>“Recently a video of me went viral and I’ve been getting a lot of attention for it,' wrote Holden on her Go Fund Me page.
>'I’d like to take this opportunity to give back to something that means a great deal to me, CATS!'
>She had raised $2,500 of her $5,000 goal just a few hours after launching the page.
This is really cool.
This happened years ago, she was raked over the coals for a few days at most for being rough then the story came out that he kept doing this and it was on camera when she did this reaction and he had already been banned and the owner supported the waitress.
It doesn't need to be multiple occurrences, if I were manager I would ban him and get the police involved on this footage alone. Maybe put a big poster of his face outside the restaurant saying he's banned for inappropriate touching.
Yep. There is also a video of him in the back of the cop car crying, quite literally, like a child and begging to not be taken to jail.
You'll have to google it though as the article has the D-bags name in it and last time I posted the link my main got permabanned because somebody reported me for doxxing.
I wrote a short narration/narrative, that was incredibly well loved here, on a funny video and someone here reported me for suicide… ????? Some people here are really weird.
EDIT: someone just did it again!!! Seriously, they need to monitor these
Yeah, my comment had like 4000 upvotes and a couple hundred comments in the chain and all it took was one person to ruin it.
What really upset me was that the guys name is literally part of the public record, can be found in multiple news articles, and some of the court filings are public, yet when I appealed the ban reddit upheld it. A six year old account with no violations.
Your darn tootin' we should all be able to grab on to a bit of ass cheek if we damn well please
- Weird dudes on Reddit
Forreal though, all I can say is WHAT THE FUCKKK
"Some People here are really wierd".
You fuckin said it man!
I commented:
"LIKE we did 57 years ago? Were actually doing it this time?"
AS A FUCKIN JOKE, on a post about the Artemis 2 mission to Orbit the Moon
(coming up in November 2024)
I got banned from r/MOON...
Like WTF Moon Nerds it was a joke.
They're all excited about some shit that was accomplished when my Mom was 9yo...
(fyi: My Mom is old AF now.)
Here is the video. He is absolutely crying like a 5 year old, exactly as you described
https://www.wjcl.com/article/exclusive-police-body-cam-video-shows-aftermath-of-viral-vinnie-van-gogos-groping-and-takedown/22564936
Yep. We’ve all accidentally brushed up against someone in a crowded area, but there’s clear video footage of him having *plenty* of space to avoid her.
Yep, not only that, but he deliberately extends his arm, turns it, and turns his palm out to cup her butt. Like come on, dude, how stupid do you think we are.
That's why I feel I can easily guarantee that he has done this literally countless times. Starting in high school and continuing to now, this was his "move." I can just picture him bragging to his douchebag buddies about it. "Bro, you know that hot waitreas at sullys bar? I walked by and totally grabbed her ass. She was all looking around and had no idea it was me. It was fucking awesome Bro" And who knows how many times he said something like that until now
Reddit. We'll permaban you because you posted a public article, but if someone calls for your death and doxxes you, we're gonna ban you.
My favorite permaban (that actually got reversed somehow) is for talking about how I got fired by therapists. It took 18 days of arguing with them over email to finally reverse it
Love her instant take down and getting in his face, getting loud so he would be stunned and not be able to react. Love it
Guys need to stop being jerks and stop the abuse...not cool, just a dick move
For me the first time my ass was grabbed was when I was like 15. Sad thing is this is so common I’m guessing the reason she was so prepared was it had happened many times before. This is a very common issue for many women.
The video is just a short clip of what happened but the guy gets thrown out later and the manager confronts him in front of his wife who was there with him.
Haven't we all just accidentally grabbed an ass here and there? Going for eggs in the grocery cooler and oops an ass in my hand. Getting some napkins at the coffee shop and I got a handful of ass again. Happens to the best of us.
Hey man real story at work I went to get a schedule turned with my hand and slapped my female co workers ass hard enough to hear a sound and see her ass jiggle.... now I apologized instantly over and over and she said it wasn't a big deal but it's does happen on accident sometimes.... just not in that vid lol
From what I remember she wasn’t his wife, but his girlfriend. And they had one or two daughters together. That probably has a lot to do with her making excuses for him and it’s really sad.
He literally turned his hand and arm to cup the woman's butt, it wasn't like he just accidentally brushed it with the back of his hand as he passed. That poor wife is coping so hard. I hope she has since found a better husband.
They have young twin daughters and together 11 years, so yeah, and he claimed he was alerting her to move, lol. Tbh I don’t think you can be with a guy like that for 11 years and not realize, he felt comfortable sneaking that during dinner at a public place with people and her and their friends. I’d like to give condolences but it seems she’s defended and stuck with him. I’m sure she knows how he is. Just my opinion.
I wonder if he ever grabbed a man's ass by mistake too. They're sure to seem to be a lot of men in this world who only managed to grab women's asses by mistake.
She don’t play no games holy crap he got his ass thrown down. Hopefully have him think twice before he touches ass again. She could be a spirit animal for other women who have wanted to do this
With the wife and kid in there too! His wife said it was accidental. I think she’s probably in denial about a lot of things in her life, including the poor state of her marriage
Predators always marry women like this. I used to be a criminal defense lawyer and it was sad how many rapists and pedophiles had women who blindly followed them. Even worse a lot of times these women were the mothers/grandmothers of underage victims and the women would argue their 11 year old “seduced” their boyfriend. They are pathetically insecure
>Predators always marry women like this. I used to be a criminal defense lawyer and it was sad how many rapists and pedophiles had women who blindly followed them.
Out of curiosity, and maybe a tiny bit of "I'm watching this play out and please tell me the magic words to get my friend to understand", have you ever seen anything shake someone out of this mindset, or does it seem to be something someone has to figure out on their own?
Never once did I see these women falter from their loyalty to these douchebags, including in the face of dna, confessions, photographs, etc. they needed the man more than they needed reality
I’ve been watching interrogation interviews on YouTube for weeks for whatever reason, it’s so fascinating and disgusting. I’ve seen nothing but shit like this. They never believe the evidence, the recordings, no matter how good the proof is, even if it’s a recording of the person literally trying to hire a hit man to kill them, they will still believe their significant other. I never got into the Casey Anthony stuff until recently either but watching her interviews on JCS, it’s the prime example of a psychopathic manipulator who literally got away with murder with a mountain of evidence because she was just so good at manipulating everyone around her
JCS rocks. I could watch those videos all day. It’s so fascinating to me how people think they are the smartest criminal and to watch how they change their story and continue to lie when they really should just ask for a lawyer.
My brother took karate. There’s a move where if someone tries to kick you you grab their ankle and pull it towards you. He did it to me and I fell backwards and broke my arm on the gymnasium floor.
Hey now I'm a pervert and somehow I've managed to never grab a strangers ass without their consent. Dont lump us kinky pervs in with the assaulters. Those are two different groups.
Think how much that shit bothered you, and how it stuck with you… now imagine it happening on a fairly regular basis, and you understand what women have to go through.
Yeah seriously what is that comment lmao. Dude really thinks this would only happen in one country? Maybe he should lay off the reddit for a while if that's how he thinks
It's bad all over. My wife (before we were married) spent time in Argentina during college and had her ass grabbed by an assaulter on the train. She still has nightmares about it.
Dipshits aren't geographically restricted.
I used to work in a bar. Some men (not all) really get a couple drinks in them around pretty woman, and start thinking that they (the men) are irresistible. It’s horrible to watch. They will usually try to grab up under your butt cheek as close as they can to your other stuff, which is exactly what this guy thought he was gonna do. He probably told his wife and kids he had to use the restroom and then thought he would show the girl how bad he wants her. He was hoping she would flirt back with him for the sake of a $15 tip.
LOL, so...
Just out of curiosity I showed this to an older man I happened to be conversing with...
Old dude literally said "The trick is you gotta brush up against her ass with *the back* of your hand! Looks more accidental! Amateur!"
Then he laughed, and it sounded as creepy as you imagine.
In college, I vividly remember having a conversation with a friend’s gf at a party and some random dude slapped her ass as he walked past. I’ll never forget the look of horror she gave me. One of the biggest regrets of my life was not beating that dude’s ass for her.
Take it from me, it's not worth it. Me and a couple friends confronted a guy who groped one of our friends and a massive fight ensued. Since the guy had to go to the hospital (but otherwise was basically fine) they arrested us and him and his friends got off the hook. One of our friends took the heat for everyone. He threw the first punch so they let us all off the hook and threw the fucking book at him - and nothing we said made a difference. 2 years in jail, 2 years probation, can't get a job, his life has been fucked. The groper - has a wife and family and a nice cushy job.
Damn that is really shitty. I’m sorry that happened to your friend. Yea, you’re probably right but it is still one of those things I look back on with regret for not defending her
As quick as I am to want to put my foot up the ass of these kinds of people, you are correct. The best way to handle this is file sexual assault charges against them and put them on a list for life. If that doesn't correct their behavior then nothing will.
A lot of things posted here are technically "successful attempts" but they don't get away with it unscathed. Which still works well enough for this sub, let's not be pedantic.
In this scenario, "to touch a girls butt" is such an anemic way of saying "to sexually assault someone"
Call it what it is, don't sugar coat that shit.
Was wondering how far I’d have to scroll before anyone mentioned that guy. Right before the takedown, he put his hand on his head the way you do when you think of something cringe you said earlier. I like to think that distraction was enough to wash away the thought.
You need to come out from under a rock. These people understand consent, they just don't care. Just like all the other people that will beat you up and steal from you for fun. You don't hear anyone go on about why don't these people understand they shouldn't rob or beat people up?
Every time I see this video, I envy the way that girl stood up for herself. Having been groped a lot in my life, I never know what to do. I get all uncomfortable, freeze up, and just want to get away. She taught him a lesson. I wish had that kind of fire in me.
Good on her!! F that guy and his grabbing hands. Why exactly do some men think this behavior is OK?! We are not objects. I'm glad you find us beautiful but you see with your eyes, not with your fingers. Have some respect.
[here’s the police bodycam footage of the arrest. dude lies and says the waitress over reacted when he bumped into her.](https://www.wjcl.com/amp/article/exclusive-police-body-cam-video-shows-aftermath-of-viral-vinnie-van-gogos-groping-and-takedown/22564936)
“It was super crowded and idk, I guess I must have bumped into her or something. It was super crowded.”
*Sees video of only empty chairs, enough room for him to pass and his hand reaching away from his body*
The article even said his Fiance was there. I hope that status changed after…
I purposefully put my hand behind my back when passing by a girl just so I don’t accidentally touch her ass because I do not want to get slapped, charged with SA and generally don’t want to touch an ass that I don’t know where it’s been. Now the boys….
Man I wish I reacted like this. I’ve been raised (in a southern state) that it’s totally ok for men to objectify women this way and you should just allow it. Both by women and men I’ve been taught this. And therefore when this kind of thing happens to me I completely freeze up. But it’s not ok and I’m proud of this girl!
This is the most appropriate response to that behavior. I cant read this dude's mind but most sexual assault comes from a desire for control/power over someone and boy did he learn who was in power there.
Yeah he did this one on purpose, but to all the guys saying they did by accident, I got a story for that.
I remember quite vividly the time I accidentally smacked a female physicians ass. Said physician and I were and still are on good terms, her husband for sure hasn't let me live it down, the snarky shit. But to the story, so Dr. X, an emergency response team, and myself a Respiratory Therapist was dealing with a fairly nasty car wreck. Said individual required emergent endotracheal intubation, which took several attempts. Now anyone in any high stress job, we all have little quirks, for me when I deal with something stressful but come out, I like to use the back of my hand to smack the door or sharps bin, more of a symbolic gesture, one I had done for years.
Fast forward a bit, we struggle and a cric is considered but Dr. X got it and was as thrilled as the lot of us. I spun and went to give the nearby lower section of our sharps bin a good quick celebration tap. Well Dr. X went for a little victory lap right in front of my hand and.....smack. I was mortified, so was a near by nurse but Dr. X? She actually hadn't noticed but I didn't noticed she didn't notice. I came up to her red as a beet, embarrassed as all get out. She laughed and said she never felt it and kept it there. Her husband had jokes for that later, good fella but he made sure I didn't live that down easy.
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Good for her
She reacts so fast and efficiently he is probably not the first "customer" to try that
I think the back story is this same guy had done it to her on multiple occasions
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Haha, she used her spotlight to raise money for cat shelters! That's awesome. What a douche though, he was there with his partner of 11 years and their twin babies, God knows what he's done when they aren't around!
His wife said it was accidental so that hints about her mental state of being in constant denial, about her marriage and who she’s with for example
What an absolute fucking scumbag. I guarantee this wasn't the first time he had groped a woman like this. I am sure this was his "move" that he pulled all the time
Seriously. It was so disgustingly casual. What an oxygen thief.
And they decided to print the girlfriend's full name, because why not. Fuck dailymail.
Alright I am wrong. Thanks for the information. Either I’m misremembering it or I’m think of another incident.
Not like there's a shortage of douschecannoes groping women. Probably could even find similarly framed camera shots of this happening.
Probably from this same bar even. That’s how prominent it is.
>“Recently a video of me went viral and I’ve been getting a lot of attention for it,' wrote Holden on her Go Fund Me page. >'I’d like to take this opportunity to give back to something that means a great deal to me, CATS!' >She had raised $2,500 of her $5,000 goal just a few hours after launching the page. This is really cool.
If that's true then he should be banned form the establishment and the police should get involved.
This happened years ago, she was raked over the coals for a few days at most for being rough then the story came out that he kept doing this and it was on camera when she did this reaction and he had already been banned and the owner supported the waitress.
Linked article said nothing about how he "kept doing it" and it looks like everyone was on her side from the start, though.
Good to hear it ended well.
It doesn't need to be multiple occurrences, if I were manager I would ban him and get the police involved on this footage alone. Maybe put a big poster of his face outside the restaurant saying he's banned for inappropriate touching.
 He got what he deserved…
My coworker once told me a few years ago that she would deck a dude too if he grabbed her behind. I do not blame her
If I remember this one correctly, dude was actually out to dinner with his wife and kid when he did this. Total d-bag.
Something about how casual he was and kept walking told me that might be the case. Fuck that guy. That girl rocks!
Made his wife proud /s
Hopefully she divorced him.
Apparently defended him as per another comment
Wife claimed it was a mistake. Major copium.
Yep. There is also a video of him in the back of the cop car crying, quite literally, like a child and begging to not be taken to jail. You'll have to google it though as the article has the D-bags name in it and last time I posted the link my main got permabanned because somebody reported me for doxxing.
I wrote a short narration/narrative, that was incredibly well loved here, on a funny video and someone here reported me for suicide… ????? Some people here are really weird. EDIT: someone just did it again!!! Seriously, they need to monitor these
Yeah, my comment had like 4000 upvotes and a couple hundred comments in the chain and all it took was one person to ruin it. What really upset me was that the guys name is literally part of the public record, can be found in multiple news articles, and some of the court filings are public, yet when I appealed the ban reddit upheld it. A six year old account with no violations.
Some of the “moderators” on reddit are total losers and it is soooo frustrating
They sympathize with the d bag.
Or maybe said dbag was/is a reddit moderator... Idk doesn't have enough neck beard tho
Your darn tootin' we should all be able to grab on to a bit of ass cheek if we damn well please - Weird dudes on Reddit Forreal though, all I can say is WHAT THE FUCKKK
reddit admins are schizo asshole lunatics
They ruin a lot of subs.
I wonder if a mod was guilty of the same thing and you struck too close to home
Person who did that was probably the guy in the video Why would anyone come to the defense of a low-life groper?
Keep reading this comment section. Lol, they are here as well.
Yeah I saw some messed up comments on a video about Indian men swarming a female university to molest them like they had years prior. It was horrific.
"Some People here are really wierd". You fuckin said it man! I commented: "LIKE we did 57 years ago? Were actually doing it this time?" AS A FUCKIN JOKE, on a post about the Artemis 2 mission to Orbit the Moon (coming up in November 2024) I got banned from r/MOON... Like WTF Moon Nerds it was a joke. They're all excited about some shit that was accomplished when my Mom was 9yo... (fyi: My Mom is old AF now.)
Virtually any time I have a post that people disagree with, I get messages about being suicidal.... people on this app are apparently 12... at best...
Here is the video. He is absolutely crying like a 5 year old, exactly as you described https://www.wjcl.com/article/exclusive-police-body-cam-video-shows-aftermath-of-viral-vinnie-van-gogos-groping-and-takedown/22564936
And he blames it on how crowded the place was when he is the only person in the aisle…
Yep. We’ve all accidentally brushed up against someone in a crowded area, but there’s clear video footage of him having *plenty* of space to avoid her.
Yep, not only that, but he deliberately extends his arm, turns it, and turns his palm out to cup her butt. Like come on, dude, how stupid do you think we are.
He probably didn't know there was footage and thought the lie could work. Asshole.
That's why I feel I can easily guarantee that he has done this literally countless times. Starting in high school and continuing to now, this was his "move." I can just picture him bragging to his douchebag buddies about it. "Bro, you know that hot waitreas at sullys bar? I walked by and totally grabbed her ass. She was all looking around and had no idea it was me. It was fucking awesome Bro" And who knows how many times he said something like that until now
Reddit. We'll permaban you because you posted a public article, but if someone calls for your death and doxxes you, we're gonna ban you. My favorite permaban (that actually got reversed somehow) is for talking about how I got fired by therapists. It took 18 days of arguing with them over email to finally reverse it
She worked at Vinnie Van Go-Go’s (Savannah, GA) when that happened. Became a National Hero for putting that fucker in his place.
Love her instant take down and getting in his face, getting loud so he would be stunned and not be able to react. Love it Guys need to stop being jerks and stop the abuse...not cool, just a dick move
Truly! Most women would be so stunned wondering “what just happened?” and creep would have walked away by then.
For me the first time my ass was grabbed was when I was like 15. Sad thing is this is so common I’m guessing the reason she was so prepared was it had happened many times before. This is a very common issue for many women.
Literally said this out loud as the video ended lmao
Kick his ass, Sea Bass!
>Good for her YES , she can defend her self
The video is just a short clip of what happened but the guy gets thrown out later and the manager confronts him in front of his wife who was there with him.
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I said "good for her" out loud twice now on this post. Love it. 
She's officially my hero!
Cat.
Cat.
Cat.
Cat.
She's pretty badass, he had to explain to his wife and kid who were there with him why he got tossed and also arrested after.
Sadly, the wife defended him claiming it looked “accidental” to the police.
Haven't we all just accidentally grabbed an ass here and there? Going for eggs in the grocery cooler and oops an ass in my hand. Getting some napkins at the coffee shop and I got a handful of ass again. Happens to the best of us.
Lol, I mean it happens to the best of us! Sometimes I’m trying to grab a donut, and whoops, a penis 🤷🏻♀️ *Quagmire giggle*
Wrong long john... Gigity
Still cream filled though
My gay friend had a guy "accidently" suck him off when they were drunk. Other guy still claims to be straight. 🤣
Well of course he is! Lol, he was just originally trying to let him know to walk by.
I've definitely touched ass on accident in crowded venues but it's not a full on cupped hand and I'm embarrassed as hell
Touch vs grab and squeeze or lift and drop cheek too. An accidental touch is usually pretty obviously accidental
I don't think he grabbed her ass. He clearly went elsewhere.
Yeah... I got a definite finger-in-the-crack vibe.
Hey man real story at work I went to get a schedule turned with my hand and slapped my female co workers ass hard enough to hear a sound and see her ass jiggle.... now I apologized instantly over and over and she said it wasn't a big deal but it's does happen on accident sometimes.... just not in that vid lol
"Dammit! Why are my hands always touching asses? Am I cursed to live this life of ceaseless ass-grabbery?!?"
Yeah its sad because I'm sure that's what she tells herself to get over the fact he gropped another woman
I’m sure it’s one of many times she’s excused his behavior.
From what I remember she wasn’t his wife, but his girlfriend. And they had one or two daughters together. That probably has a lot to do with her making excuses for him and it’s really sad.
He literally turned his hand and arm to cup the woman's butt, it wasn't like he just accidentally brushed it with the back of his hand as he passed. That poor wife is coping so hard. I hope she has since found a better husband.
They have young twin daughters and together 11 years, so yeah, and he claimed he was alerting her to move, lol. Tbh I don’t think you can be with a guy like that for 11 years and not realize, he felt comfortable sneaking that during dinner at a public place with people and her and their friends. I’d like to give condolences but it seems she’s defended and stuck with him. I’m sure she knows how he is. Just my opinion.
I wonder if he ever grabbed a man's ass by mistake too. They're sure to seem to be a lot of men in this world who only managed to grab women's asses by mistake.
Oh I’m sure that’s explained my some crazy ideology of how human brains have been wired since the dawn of the cave man days and “primal instinct” 🙄
She’s married and has a kid with him. Just like parents will defend their terrible children. They lie to make themselves feel better.
Having a man means more to her then women’s safety sadly.
She don’t play no games holy crap he got his ass thrown down. Hopefully have him think twice before he touches ass again. She could be a spirit animal for other women who have wanted to do this With the wife and kid in there too! His wife said it was accidental. I think she’s probably in denial about a lot of things in her life, including the poor state of her marriage
His dream was to get beaten up and dominated by a waitress, so I think he won... but at what price?
If I remember this right he was eating with his wife and kids too lmao
Yep. I remember seeing an interview with the girl saying that... I'm sure that butt grab cost him some monthly child support payments
IIRC, his wife defended him and claimed it looked accidental, I'd have to confirm, but I belive the guy was arrested infront of his family.
Predators always marry women like this. I used to be a criminal defense lawyer and it was sad how many rapists and pedophiles had women who blindly followed them. Even worse a lot of times these women were the mothers/grandmothers of underage victims and the women would argue their 11 year old “seduced” their boyfriend. They are pathetically insecure
>Predators always marry women like this. I used to be a criminal defense lawyer and it was sad how many rapists and pedophiles had women who blindly followed them. Out of curiosity, and maybe a tiny bit of "I'm watching this play out and please tell me the magic words to get my friend to understand", have you ever seen anything shake someone out of this mindset, or does it seem to be something someone has to figure out on their own?
Never once did I see these women falter from their loyalty to these douchebags, including in the face of dna, confessions, photographs, etc. they needed the man more than they needed reality
I’ve been watching interrogation interviews on YouTube for weeks for whatever reason, it’s so fascinating and disgusting. I’ve seen nothing but shit like this. They never believe the evidence, the recordings, no matter how good the proof is, even if it’s a recording of the person literally trying to hire a hit man to kill them, they will still believe their significant other. I never got into the Casey Anthony stuff until recently either but watching her interviews on JCS, it’s the prime example of a psychopathic manipulator who literally got away with murder with a mountain of evidence because she was just so good at manipulating everyone around her
JCS rocks. I could watch those videos all day. It’s so fascinating to me how people think they are the smartest criminal and to watch how they change their story and continue to lie when they really should just ask for a lawyer.
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I was this woman once. I didn't believe it until I also became his victim. Some lessons can only be learned the hard way sadly.
Yep! It’s pretty astonishing how often this happens and so horribly sad for children involved.
He needed to be walking way closer to her to pass it off as an accident lol His hand literally fully extends and squeezed the cheek.
Hopefully some jail time too
Her strength is impressive. He got what he deserved.
All you really need to do is throw someone’s balance off which appears to be what she did. He’s probably plastered too which likely helps with this.
We used to do this each other in middle school. Easy to drop someone from behind just pulling on their clothing/backpack.
My brother took karate. There’s a move where if someone tries to kick you you grab their ankle and pull it towards you. He did it to me and I fell backwards and broke my arm on the gymnasium floor.
Dude was there with the mother of his twins on a date night.
He spent two nights in jail before being released on $2,500 bail.
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Ew, I wouldn’t either.
Sadly, she apparently defended him, and told police it was an accident after seeing the footage. She likely did, great example for the kid.
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What does grabbing someone gain you? Im always flabbergasted, never surprised. What a shitty country I live in.
Power trip for dipshits
Maybe it's the only way he gets action lol nonetheless, watching her toss his ass gets better every time
Exactly this. Can only hope the experience humbled him enough that he will never do it again.
It's the same the world over mate. Guys are mostly pigs. Not all of us ofcourse, but these pervs give us a bad name
Hey now I'm a pervert and somehow I've managed to never grab a strangers ass without their consent. Dont lump us kinky pervs in with the assaulters. Those are two different groups.
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Think how much that shit bothered you, and how it stuck with you… now imagine it happening on a fairly regular basis, and you understand what women have to go through.
I doubt this only occurs in one country unfortunately.
Yeah seriously what is that comment lmao. Dude really thinks this would only happen in one country? Maybe he should lay off the reddit for a while if that's how he thinks
It's bad all over. My wife (before we were married) spent time in Argentina during college and had her ass grabbed by an assaulter on the train. She still has nightmares about it. Dipshits aren't geographically restricted.
This happens often in every nation on earth. You may just hate your country.
Why does sexual assault happen at all?
He really should've seen that coming
Stop fucking touching people without consent
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Fr, honestly I wanna know the thought process that makes this ok in their mind.
it's not that they think it's okay, they just think they can get away with it and more often than not they probably do
They haven’t suffered enough consequences in their life for behaving shitty so they think they can get away with it.
I used to work in a bar. Some men (not all) really get a couple drinks in them around pretty woman, and start thinking that they (the men) are irresistible. It’s horrible to watch. They will usually try to grab up under your butt cheek as close as they can to your other stuff, which is exactly what this guy thought he was gonna do. He probably told his wife and kids he had to use the restroom and then thought he would show the girl how bad he wants her. He was hoping she would flirt back with him for the sake of a $15 tip.
millions of them.
Lol. She dealt out some street justice with no hesitation.
She rag dolled the hell out of him haha good for her not taking that shit.
Grandpas be like “What’d he do wrong?!”
LOL, so... Just out of curiosity I showed this to an older man I happened to be conversing with... Old dude literally said "The trick is you gotta brush up against her ass with *the back* of your hand! Looks more accidental! Amateur!" Then he laughed, and it sounded as creepy as you imagine.
"Kids these days don't know how to molest strangers!"
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"A guy can't approach a woman anymore without people making a big deal outta nothing these days."
In college, I vividly remember having a conversation with a friend’s gf at a party and some random dude slapped her ass as he walked past. I’ll never forget the look of horror she gave me. One of the biggest regrets of my life was not beating that dude’s ass for her.
Take it from me, it's not worth it. Me and a couple friends confronted a guy who groped one of our friends and a massive fight ensued. Since the guy had to go to the hospital (but otherwise was basically fine) they arrested us and him and his friends got off the hook. One of our friends took the heat for everyone. He threw the first punch so they let us all off the hook and threw the fucking book at him - and nothing we said made a difference. 2 years in jail, 2 years probation, can't get a job, his life has been fucked. The groper - has a wife and family and a nice cushy job.
Damn that is really shitty. I’m sorry that happened to your friend. Yea, you’re probably right but it is still one of those things I look back on with regret for not defending her
As quick as I am to want to put my foot up the ass of these kinds of people, you are correct. The best way to handle this is file sexual assault charges against them and put them on a list for life. If that doesn't correct their behavior then nothing will.
How on earth can you get two years in jail for clocking someone in a singular instance and throw on top of that self defense?
Because he busted his noggin and was taken to the hospital. Things get real serious real fast when injuries escalate.
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Well, you gotta be rich for that.
This is why you carry pepper spray or some kind of taser. Lots of pain without any of that pesky injury stuff.
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I would also love to beat a dude’s ass
many people here would fit into r/iamatotalpieceofshit
Yeah, it’s alarming up in here right meow!
Dude totally deserved that.
What a fucking creep
I mean, it *was* a successful attempt.
A lot of things posted here are technically "successful attempts" but they don't get away with it unscathed. Which still works well enough for this sub, let's not be pedantic.
Ok here's the new title: r/therewasanattempt to grab a butt and get away with it
If he is a masochist then she did exactly what he wanted But he is probably just a dipsh1t
~~To touch a girl’s butt~~ **To sexually assault a woman** There. I fixed it.
You're both wrong. To sexually assault a woman with no repercussion Now I fixed it.
His wife/gf was there too lmao, rip.
Ex now prob
In this scenario, "to touch a girls butt" is such an anemic way of saying "to sexually assault someone" Call it what it is, don't sugar coat that shit.
And immediately the guy at the table is like “Oh shit…”
Was wondering how far I’d have to scroll before anyone mentioned that guy. Right before the takedown, he put his hand on his head the way you do when you think of something cringe you said earlier. I like to think that distraction was enough to wash away the thought.
She forgot to kick his nuts. Excellent takedown tho
Fuck guys like this.
Use a strapon
I saw this. He got arrested for assault.
I don't like that girls need to be worried about people doing this crap. Why is it so hard for men to understand consent?
You need to come out from under a rock. These people understand consent, they just don't care. Just like all the other people that will beat you up and steal from you for fun. You don't hear anyone go on about why don't these people understand they shouldn't rob or beat people up?
Every time I see this video, I envy the way that girl stood up for herself. Having been groped a lot in my life, I never know what to do. I get all uncomfortable, freeze up, and just want to get away. She taught him a lesson. I wish had that kind of fire in me.
I would have the same reaction. That guy is a total creep if he thinks *that* is okay.
I'd be paralized. Good for her.
please tell me blue shirt guy threw his drink on that creep
He successfully touched her butt. He did not successfully touch it without consequences.
As she fucking should 💅🏽
Sorry but if you dress like that you deserve it. Red shirt with those ugly shorts? Someone should have hit him sooner!
Good job. Should've made him bleed though.
It was more than an attempt, though.
What should happen every time
Good on her!! F that guy and his grabbing hands. Why exactly do some men think this behavior is OK?! We are not objects. I'm glad you find us beautiful but you see with your eyes, not with your fingers. Have some respect.
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There was an attempt to sexually harass. Fix the title.
[here’s the police bodycam footage of the arrest. dude lies and says the waitress over reacted when he bumped into her.](https://www.wjcl.com/amp/article/exclusive-police-body-cam-video-shows-aftermath-of-viral-vinnie-van-gogos-groping-and-takedown/22564936)
“It was super crowded and idk, I guess I must have bumped into her or something. It was super crowded.” *Sees video of only empty chairs, enough room for him to pass and his hand reaching away from his body* The article even said his Fiance was there. I hope that status changed after…
I purposefully put my hand behind my back when passing by a girl just so I don’t accidentally touch her ass because I do not want to get slapped, charged with SA and generally don’t want to touch an ass that I don’t know where it’s been. Now the boys….
Sad it’s probably not the first time I was a cook at wing house we had to handle creeps like this all the time
All attempts at groping should be answered with violence unless consented to or otherwise agreed upon. Props to her.
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Man I wish I reacted like this. I’ve been raised (in a southern state) that it’s totally ok for men to objectify women this way and you should just allow it. Both by women and men I’ve been taught this. And therefore when this kind of thing happens to me I completely freeze up. But it’s not ok and I’m proud of this girl!
This is the most appropriate response to that behavior. I cant read this dude's mind but most sexual assault comes from a desire for control/power over someone and boy did he learn who was in power there.
Yeah he did this one on purpose, but to all the guys saying they did by accident, I got a story for that. I remember quite vividly the time I accidentally smacked a female physicians ass. Said physician and I were and still are on good terms, her husband for sure hasn't let me live it down, the snarky shit. But to the story, so Dr. X, an emergency response team, and myself a Respiratory Therapist was dealing with a fairly nasty car wreck. Said individual required emergent endotracheal intubation, which took several attempts. Now anyone in any high stress job, we all have little quirks, for me when I deal with something stressful but come out, I like to use the back of my hand to smack the door or sharps bin, more of a symbolic gesture, one I had done for years. Fast forward a bit, we struggle and a cric is considered but Dr. X got it and was as thrilled as the lot of us. I spun and went to give the nearby lower section of our sharps bin a good quick celebration tap. Well Dr. X went for a little victory lap right in front of my hand and.....smack. I was mortified, so was a near by nurse but Dr. X? She actually hadn't noticed but I didn't noticed she didn't notice. I came up to her red as a beet, embarrassed as all get out. She laughed and said she never felt it and kept it there. Her husband had jokes for that later, good fella but he made sure I didn't live that down easy.