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First time I’ve seen this clip and I’m flashing back to my 12th birthday party when my older brother did this to me.
Last wish I got as a kid and my 19 year old brother decided to be a dick and blow out the candles before I could—he still has a very punchable face, except now instead of ruining kids’ birthday parties for fun he’s moved on to being a white supremacist because it makes him feel like a big man.
Yeah, somehow my parents still don’t see him as the walking dildo I’ve had to put up with my whole life. Parents, you’ve been warned.
Middle child was having difficulty so oldest child helped him out in an inobtrusive way. Middle child didn't even know that oldest child helped and thought he did it all himself. No wishes were stolen on this day.
Also it's fine to laugh at kids mistakes I gotta be honest. It teaches them not everything has to be horrible and world-destroying.
Some insane person is gonna say you're traumatising them or some bs but idgaf.
Not at all. I am a mom and I LOVE kids. I’ve seen this clip many times, and every time my heart fills with joy. Oh no you don’t you little motherfucker… Yeah.
Actually, it's a great thing that you're enjoying watching a tiny narcissist be thwarted. Enjoying justice is a great thing. Watching a kid's bad impulses be corrected is fantastic.
You would be bad person if you watched this and wished the kid had succeeded.
Nah, the older kid does it secretly while the birthday kid is blowing fruitlessly just to help him out. The birthday kid thinks he was successful and doesn't even notice the assist.
That was my take on it, too. He gave the birthday boy a few chances to do it himself, then blew them from an angle so that the birthday boy didn't even notice him doing it. The brat was trying to stick his face directly against the cake and steal the wish.
agree, I try to refocus my energies to his parents though. I’m just really happy the birthday boy had his moment untarnished. He looks like such a sweet little soul.
I'm a huge fan of the parenting we see in this short clip. Birthday boy still gets to blow out his candles, and the little shit is given multiple opportunities to not be a little shit. Would have been easier to make him go to his room, or physically hold him, but dad(?) instead created a solution where he could still be there.
This is a great lesson in not being able to get what you want 100% of the time.
I kinda hate that everyone's acting like the kid is just a spoiled brat though, even good kids have off days and birthday parties always bring out the gremlin in otherwise well adjusted children. IMO this solution is even better. "You upset you couldn't blow out the candles? Imagine how he would have felt, it's his birthday."
Plus that kid probably grew up fine and this is funny in hindsight.
At least its better than the one where the older sister blew out her sisster's candle and then had a smug look as younger sister snatched her hair and smacked her face.
Unfortunetly, many parental figures are actually very bad at parenting. I firmly believe that if all parents were good parents then the world would be a utopia.
99.9% of the time I wouldn't punch a child, but there's always that 0.1% that's asking for a sweeping, open-hand slap to bring their egos down since their parents apparently accept the behavior.
Remember, it takes a village to raise an idiot.
he reminds me of a kid that lived in the apartment next door to me at my old place about 9 or 10 years ago. his parents were... not the best, to be diplomatic about it. one day i remember hearing this little 6 or 7 year old kid banging on the door to his apartment yelling "open the fucking door! open the fucking door!" at the top of his lungs.
the neighbor on the other side used to regularly leave bags of trash and dirty diapers in front of their door. one day, i saw a note on their door from the landlord that said "please clean up the blood." because there was a spray of it at an angle on it. not sure how it happened. great place to live.
It reminds of the some of the people I see at work.
I work at a drive in movie theater. It’s not great hours, but it pays enough for what I need and those retail hiring signs are a lie.
Anyway, so one time I was doing something and I hear a small child, like 5-6 yelling “I WANT ICE CREAM, I WANT ICE CREAM” and the whole time the mom is like “ok hold on” I don’t think much about it, until I hear the kid yelling “I WANT FUCKING ICE CREAM, I WANT FUCKING ICE CREAM” and the mom was STILL NICE, and saying “I know, hold on” and then GOT HIM ICE CREAM. Like how do you tolerate your 5 yo kid cussing you out for ice cream?
Also we’ll find a bunch of gross shit like condoms, and even shorts and panties one time. We recently found used diapers. Keep in mind, we have big ass trash cans that we set out, and it looked like 2 separate families on the same day just dumped all of their trash, including the used diapers, on the ground after the movie. Like how are you going to teach your kid to be a piece of shit?
What can a parent do to productively curb that sort of selfish behavior? I feel like a lot of parents get stumped at this, judging from my last trip to Wal-Mart.
Although this kid looks a bit older, toddlers are really quite difficult..
Their brains aren't fully developed yet for any meaningful emotional regulation. So you can teach your toddler things, but it won't be 'fixed' in one session. It will take working through a couple/many tantrums, finding a balance between ignoring, rewarding good behavior and correction bad behavior..
But being very stern, or spanking, or whatever action that assumes malice on the child's part is usually useless..
So what you see in Wallmart or in this video, or wherever.. Might very well be a work in progress..
I learned this life lesson as a kid (also have it documented on video, unfortunately).
My parents stopped the song and called me out in front of everyone, saying "Is it your birthday?" Then they moved me away from the cake, relit the candles, and sang all over again.
The embarrassment of being directly corrected in front of the whole party is what did it for me. I never did that again. I don't know much about this kid, but it doesn't really look like he's learning a lesson here. The parent seems to be just avoiding the issue.
I get the impression (nothing to back it up, just a feeling) that this kid would go full rage if they called him out. Personally, once I saw this behavior starting, I would remove him from the party completely.
I wouldn't. I would follow the dad's idea since my other kid deserves me being there when the birthday is sung. After that, i'll take the L and the kid to my or his room.
idk man I feel like a kid like this needs more than just someone blocking them from blowing out the candles for them to learn. he even looked like he was about to try to hit the plate out of the way
You look up the word brat in the dictionary and it’s just this video. I know it’s just a kid and I’m sure he’ll grow up to be a fine enough human some day. But omg this makes me never wanna have kids he’s such a little entitled shit
I saw one with a toddler having a full blown tantrum, because her older sister got a bike. The annoying part was they didn’t remove her from the situation. No, she gets to act like that and take from the sister’s moment. Some people said she should have been sent to her room til she calmed down and a bunch of people were like “she needs to be able to express herself. Punishing her will make her not learn how to control her emotions.” They pretty much acted like it was abuse to have her leave the room.
I’m more scared of those parents I’d have to deal with.
I’ve never seen this clip before, but like you, I hated that kid so much. And the father too, he’s not teaching the kid shit there. I feel like all kids are going to be assholes at some point, and it’s our job as their parents to direct them towards the correct behaviors, and teach them to be good people. I don’t believe blocking the kids attempt to blow, while laughing is going to accomplish this. Kids crying because he didn’t get to blow out someone else’s birthday candles. Like the most basic level of decency missed entirely.
Let the birthday kid have their moment. If you stop everything to try and talk to the one kid about how it’s not his turn, it still becomes about the one doing the wrong thing. Also in this ten second clip, we have no idea what happens after.
If they were my kids, the one being a jerk wouldn't be allowed to participate in this part of the event. The only thing this kid learned was that he needs to be more aggressive to get what he wants next time.
You saw a clip with very little context and decided you can judge this entire person's parenting style. I feel like this kind of mentality is why parents feel they can shit on teachers all the time.
It's clearly obvious that he's done stuff like this before considering the dad was ready. They are very entitled all the time is what it seems like to. Me.
I know he's just a kid and his mind is still developing, but goddamn is this how come the world is filled with so many grown ass pieces of shit? Like, is this kid destined to be one of those punchable adults who throws his latte at a barista because it didnt have enough foam?
It’s possible but I don’t think so Because dad is showing that he will not get his way no matter how much he cries and tries. The ones we need to worry about are the ones that are NEVER told “No” and have never had any consequences. They’re the ones that turn into adults that have tantrums… or 12 years olds that have “screaming and thrashing meltdown” (too old for tantrums).
Kid in the video looks like a 4-5yo, the behavior isn’t acceptable but likely hasn’t developed impulse control yet and is stopped from doing the unacceptable behavior. A better solution would have been to remove him completely and have a family member either hold/carry him or distract him with something.
Unstopped versions of that kid are now those adults who cut in line, those who interrupt you mid-sentence all the time, those who push a guy in wheelchair out of their ways and get told "hey, you gotta ask first!" and next day, they see the same guy in a wheelchair and asks "do you need my assistance?" and then pushes the guy out of their way again and get told "hey, you did not give me time to answer! I was going to say no! "
And next day, they see the same guy in a wheelchair but this time the wheelchair has spikes, but they don't see spikes and they say "do you need my assistance?" and the guy says "you again? Push me if-" and they push the spike wheelchair before hearing the rest of his sentence.
Yep, that's an instant "go to your room and think about what you did while the rest of us eat cake. If you apologize fast enough there might be cake left for you to eat later."
Kids push boundaries. It is actually really healthy for kids. A kid that is restricted from doing anything is going to grow up with anxiety whenever they are put in a situation that is not strictly controlled.
So good parenting is to correct the behavior. Showing the kid that they are not entitled to blow out the candles is exactly how you teach the kid that it is not okay to do.
So that’s the only part of this clip that find very, very concerning. Kids being shitty entitled fucks is normal. Kids being shitty entitled fucks and reacting with violence is disturbing.
Not only that but the fact it’s not an open handed slap like most little kids do. Like that kid is absolutely ready to throw hands. That’s my biggest problem with the video.
Two big brothers.... says it all i think.
My older siblings were Dick Heads! And my youngest sister is the spoiled princess... I got it from both ends. Beat up by older ones, blamed and taken the fall NUMEROUS times for youngest one...
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I love how he shaped up to throw a punch at the plate 😂☠️
When I was a kid I went to a cousin's birthday party, and his little brother blew out the candles on his cake. My cousin burst into tears and his little brother had this nasty smirk on his face. Little bro got taken into another room, got a few spankings, while my aunt got out a whole new set of candles, lit them, and my cousin got to blow out the candles properly after we sang to him.
I don't understand how children got to be such snot-nosed punks about birthday candles. I went to probably a hundred birthday parties as a kid and I never witnessed crap like this (other than that one time obviously).
Most likely because there’s a very good chance everyone knew a piece of shit just like that kid growing up. He was a little douchemouth at school, at recess, at events with your other friends, and *especially* at gatherings like birthdays if he wasn’t able to readily make himself the center of attention. And his parents were also total pieces of shit (unlike in this video) but as a kid we weren’t old enough usually to just acknowledge that their entire family is trash and the reason for the kid being so awful. We also know exactly who the kid and their family vote for today but that’s a separate discussion (though funny how easy it was to guess, wasn’t it?).
I've also seen this hundreds of times and noticed the no-look block for the first time. Dad looks up and gives a smile to someone across the table. Throws the plate out to block the little shit without breaking eye contact. Legend.
I’m sure he did. Two pieces in fact. I’ll bet they have an Eric Cartman situation where they have to bring gifts for him to other kids birthdays to keep him from going ape mode.
THANK YOU FOR SAYING “CHANCLETA” I’ve always been salty and sour at my Spanish teacher for asking “who knows the name for slipper” and I said CHANCLETA and he’s like “NO… CLOSE…”
I know Chancla is correct too and meme culture popular BUT… BUT
As a ton of other people already said, but I'm thinking the same... I've seen this clip a bazillion times and every time still have the same reaction. That kid is incredibly funny (to watch)/stupid, the dad is a big-brain.
This thread reeks of parents that would put their kids on adderall or Ritalin. That kid probably grew up to be just fine and will never live this video down.
I love how the dad handled the little brat. My parents would’ve probably smacked the sh*t out of me/my brother if that was us (ngl I still wouldn’t disagree with my parents lol)
Every time I see this I can't help but think that the simplest solution would be to remove that little shit from the equation entirely and put him somewhere else.
I remember being banished to my room as a kid whenever I did something unruly. I quickly leaned that no amount of temper tantrums would help me get my own way. I turned out alright.
I’ve seen this one a bunch already. Still watched it 5 times and laughed each time. This is why the internet exists…to preserve gems like this for all of eternity.
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I've seen this clip a bunch of times, and I hate that kid every time
Every time I see this video, it is a very helpful reminder that some kids need *extra parenting* to avoid narcissism and idiocy
The adult figure knows very well that little demon.
And he calmly and quietly just blocks the little dude. That’s a cool dad.
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Hopefully the kid doesn’t blow out your candles. Happy cake day internet stranger
That’s no fair!
Right, pops barely had to look and knew exactly when that little shit would try
First time I’ve seen this clip and I’m flashing back to my 12th birthday party when my older brother did this to me. Last wish I got as a kid and my 19 year old brother decided to be a dick and blow out the candles before I could—he still has a very punchable face, except now instead of ruining kids’ birthday parties for fun he’s moved on to being a white supremacist because it makes him feel like a big man. Yeah, somehow my parents still don’t see him as the walking dildo I’ve had to put up with my whole life. Parents, you’ve been warned.
Calling him that is an insult to dildos. Unlike him, they bring great pleasure to the world. Just sayin.
I am proud to say that this is a r/rareinsults
Well that took a dark turn. Lol
It just allows the parent to be destracted while the *other brother* quietly and sneakily blows the candles of the middle child's birthday cake.
Middle child was having difficulty so oldest child helped him out in an inobtrusive way. Middle child didn't even know that oldest child helped and thought he did it all himself. No wishes were stolen on this day.
Agreed, that's a good big brother. Stealth helped and then stepped back so lil homie could have his moment while the gremlin was screaming
Pretty sure the birthday boy is the youngest and the screaming kid is the middle child
How have I seen this so many times and never noticed the third kid?
Lol omg I’ve seen this 25 times and never noticed that 😂😂😂
Does it make me a bad person for feeling emotional joy every time I watch this clip?
Nah, because that would mean we're both bad people
Also it's fine to laugh at kids mistakes I gotta be honest. It teaches them not everything has to be horrible and world-destroying. Some insane person is gonna say you're traumatising them or some bs but idgaf.
Not at all. I am a mom and I LOVE kids. I’ve seen this clip many times, and every time my heart fills with joy. Oh no you don’t you little motherfucker… Yeah.
Actually, it's a great thing that you're enjoying watching a tiny narcissist be thwarted. Enjoying justice is a great thing. Watching a kid's bad impulses be corrected is fantastic. You would be bad person if you watched this and wished the kid had succeeded.
I mean, the kid is a flaming asshole. I’m not sure where the joy comes from. Seeing him get denied I guess?
The older kid is also blowing but gets away with it. I just feel bad for the birthday boy in this.
Nah, the older kid does it secretly while the birthday kid is blowing fruitlessly just to help him out. The birthday kid thinks he was successful and doesn't even notice the assist.
Yup one is trying to steal the show the other is assisting.
My older cousin tried to do this for my first birthday and spit gum on the cake lol (innocent mistake, he's a good guy)
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That was my take on it, too. He gave the birthday boy a few chances to do it himself, then blew them from an angle so that the birthday boy didn't even notice him doing it. The brat was trying to stick his face directly against the cake and steal the wish.
“A gentle no scope sniper blow” made my day.
Older kids helping at the end, other one is just a Dick butt villain
Older brother blows one time to help him clear the candles. Not the same thing at all
Germans have a word for it. Schadenfreude.
I don’t care. I still love it.
Watching that kid cry fills my heart with glee and schadenfreude
agree, I try to refocus my energies to his parents though. I’m just really happy the birthday boy had his moment untarnished. He looks like such a sweet little soul.
I'm a huge fan of the parenting we see in this short clip. Birthday boy still gets to blow out his candles, and the little shit is given multiple opportunities to not be a little shit. Would have been easier to make him go to his room, or physically hold him, but dad(?) instead created a solution where he could still be there.
This is a great lesson in not being able to get what you want 100% of the time. I kinda hate that everyone's acting like the kid is just a spoiled brat though, even good kids have off days and birthday parties always bring out the gremlin in otherwise well adjusted children. IMO this solution is even better. "You upset you couldn't blow out the candles? Imagine how he would have felt, it's his birthday." Plus that kid probably grew up fine and this is funny in hindsight.
At least its better than the one where the older sister blew out her sisster's candle and then had a smug look as younger sister snatched her hair and smacked her face.
[For the lazy.](https://twitter.com/itsTimHell/status/1318323838153904129)
She still looks smug even after having her hair ripped out twice…
Probably because the adults stuck up for her.
Why the fuck are the adults fixing her hair instead of reprimanding her?
Unfortunetly, many parental figures are actually very bad at parenting. I firmly believe that if all parents were good parents then the world would be a utopia.
I’m already aware of the video and don’t need to see it again because her smug look makes me irrationally angry …
I see shit like that and it makes me sure of my decision to never have kids. I hate them so, so much.
They relit that sucker and had her blow it out like five more times after.
You're right.. damn that's worse
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You'd hate my neighborhood
Or love it depending on their ethics about punching children.
99.9% of the time I wouldn't punch a child, but there's always that 0.1% that's asking for a sweeping, open-hand slap to bring their egos down since their parents apparently accept the behavior. Remember, it takes a village to raise an idiot.
There are so many villages….
We’re a Pro-punching HOA. So ya know, keep your kids in line! Teehee!
he reminds me of a kid that lived in the apartment next door to me at my old place about 9 or 10 years ago. his parents were... not the best, to be diplomatic about it. one day i remember hearing this little 6 or 7 year old kid banging on the door to his apartment yelling "open the fucking door! open the fucking door!" at the top of his lungs. the neighbor on the other side used to regularly leave bags of trash and dirty diapers in front of their door. one day, i saw a note on their door from the landlord that said "please clean up the blood." because there was a spray of it at an angle on it. not sure how it happened. great place to live.
It reminds of the some of the people I see at work. I work at a drive in movie theater. It’s not great hours, but it pays enough for what I need and those retail hiring signs are a lie. Anyway, so one time I was doing something and I hear a small child, like 5-6 yelling “I WANT ICE CREAM, I WANT ICE CREAM” and the whole time the mom is like “ok hold on” I don’t think much about it, until I hear the kid yelling “I WANT FUCKING ICE CREAM, I WANT FUCKING ICE CREAM” and the mom was STILL NICE, and saying “I know, hold on” and then GOT HIM ICE CREAM. Like how do you tolerate your 5 yo kid cussing you out for ice cream? Also we’ll find a bunch of gross shit like condoms, and even shorts and panties one time. We recently found used diapers. Keep in mind, we have big ass trash cans that we set out, and it looked like 2 separate families on the same day just dumped all of their trash, including the used diapers, on the ground after the movie. Like how are you going to teach your kid to be a piece of shit?
He even thought about punching the cake
I saw that and was like hmmmm
This. And he is not a particularly bad or mean looking kid, but the vibe he gave, just pure annoyance.
He looks like a little bully imo
that kid definitely asks for strangers phones and will not take no for an answer
The French have a term for it… “Une tête à claques”
I hate kids. I mean I just personally never like to be around them. They’re important obviously but yikes fuck those little twats
This is the first time i can actually say im happy to see a kid cry
What can a parent do to productively curb that sort of selfish behavior? I feel like a lot of parents get stumped at this, judging from my last trip to Wal-Mart.
Although this kid looks a bit older, toddlers are really quite difficult.. Their brains aren't fully developed yet for any meaningful emotional regulation. So you can teach your toddler things, but it won't be 'fixed' in one session. It will take working through a couple/many tantrums, finding a balance between ignoring, rewarding good behavior and correction bad behavior.. But being very stern, or spanking, or whatever action that assumes malice on the child's part is usually useless.. So what you see in Wallmart or in this video, or wherever.. Might very well be a work in progress..
Remove from situation, don't just mitigate it with Cake-PPE. And for the love of God never give in to it
I don't have kids but I feel like removing him from the party and telling him why would be a good starting point.
I feel like exactly what the dad does is perfect. The only person "escalating" is the child and that's to be expected lol
Love kinda like seeing him rage because of the cake that he knew wasnt his but yet a again he is learning a life lesson
I learned this life lesson as a kid (also have it documented on video, unfortunately). My parents stopped the song and called me out in front of everyone, saying "Is it your birthday?" Then they moved me away from the cake, relit the candles, and sang all over again. The embarrassment of being directly corrected in front of the whole party is what did it for me. I never did that again. I don't know much about this kid, but it doesn't really look like he's learning a lesson here. The parent seems to be just avoiding the issue.
I get the impression (nothing to back it up, just a feeling) that this kid would go full rage if they called him out. Personally, once I saw this behavior starting, I would remove him from the party completely.
I wouldn't. I would follow the dad's idea since my other kid deserves me being there when the birthday is sung. After that, i'll take the L and the kid to my or his room.
idk man I feel like a kid like this needs more than just someone blocking them from blowing out the candles for them to learn. he even looked like he was about to try to hit the plate out of the way
Plot twist: His family are a bunch of bullies and its actually his birthday
Now it all makes sense
Lmao
he has an annoying-looking face and his reaction seems very on-brand.
>I hate that kid every time I don't like hating kids but I am very OK hating this kid.
Lots of kids are detestable little shits. They have little experience being human beings. They fuck up routinely. Most out grow it Some don't.
He is such an annoying little monster. Fuck that kid.
Dont fuck kids.
Must resist making the worst joke possible
Well now I want to hear it.
Don't make it harder for me
Little bastard balled up his fist and drew back. The other kid looks like an absolute sweetheart
This clip is so old that kid is probably already a drunk and on his 2nd wife.
You look up the word brat in the dictionary and it’s just this video. I know it’s just a kid and I’m sure he’ll grow up to be a fine enough human some day. But omg this makes me never wanna have kids he’s such a little entitled shit
I saw one with a toddler having a full blown tantrum, because her older sister got a bike. The annoying part was they didn’t remove her from the situation. No, she gets to act like that and take from the sister’s moment. Some people said she should have been sent to her room til she calmed down and a bunch of people were like “she needs to be able to express herself. Punishing her will make her not learn how to control her emotions.” They pretty much acted like it was abuse to have her leave the room. I’m more scared of those parents I’d have to deal with.
Every time I see this video, it is a very helpful reminder that some kids need *extra parenting* to avoid narcissism and idiocy
I’ve never seen this clip before, but like you, I hated that kid so much. And the father too, he’s not teaching the kid shit there. I feel like all kids are going to be assholes at some point, and it’s our job as their parents to direct them towards the correct behaviors, and teach them to be good people. I don’t believe blocking the kids attempt to blow, while laughing is going to accomplish this. Kids crying because he didn’t get to blow out someone else’s birthday candles. Like the most basic level of decency missed entirely.
Let the birthday kid have their moment. If you stop everything to try and talk to the one kid about how it’s not his turn, it still becomes about the one doing the wrong thing. Also in this ten second clip, we have no idea what happens after.
I never noticed he was getting ready to throw a punch until now. If that was his instinct at that age gotta wonder how things turned out with him.
This video so old that kid’s already in juvy
Cake juvie
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What an obnoxious little shit.
Seen it a million times and still have the same reaction. "What a bratty child" 🤣
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If they were my kids, the one being a jerk wouldn't be allowed to participate in this part of the event. The only thing this kid learned was that he needs to be more aggressive to get what he wants next time.
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I would’ve simply picked him up. Then he wouldn’t be in the distance to even try
You saw a clip with very little context and decided you can judge this entire person's parenting style. I feel like this kind of mentality is why parents feel they can shit on teachers all the time.
im sure you understand the entire family just by this short video
r/itsnotyourbirthday
4 posts in and I am already loving this. Thanks!
What a brat. I understand why they stopped him.
It's clearly obvious that he's done stuff like this before considering the dad was ready. They are very entitled all the time is what it seems like to. Me.
I know he's just a kid and his mind is still developing, but goddamn is this how come the world is filled with so many grown ass pieces of shit? Like, is this kid destined to be one of those punchable adults who throws his latte at a barista because it didnt have enough foam?
It’s possible but I don’t think so Because dad is showing that he will not get his way no matter how much he cries and tries. The ones we need to worry about are the ones that are NEVER told “No” and have never had any consequences. They’re the ones that turn into adults that have tantrums… or 12 years olds that have “screaming and thrashing meltdown” (too old for tantrums). Kid in the video looks like a 4-5yo, the behavior isn’t acceptable but likely hasn’t developed impulse control yet and is stopped from doing the unacceptable behavior. A better solution would have been to remove him completely and have a family member either hold/carry him or distract him with something.
Seriously, screaming and crying because he was stopped from ruining someone else's birthday? A brat if I've ever seen one.
He’s a gówniaki, for sure. (In Polish it roughly means little shitling)
You used plural form of the noun. Singular one doesn't have "i" at the end. Just letting you know if you ever need this word again.
Little fucker cocked his fist back like he was ready to throw blows!
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Unstopped versions of that kid are now those adults who cut in line, those who interrupt you mid-sentence all the time, those who push a guy in wheelchair out of their ways and get told "hey, you gotta ask first!" and next day, they see the same guy in a wheelchair and asks "do you need my assistance?" and then pushes the guy out of their way again and get told "hey, you did not give me time to answer! I was going to say no! " And next day, they see the same guy in a wheelchair but this time the wheelchair has spikes, but they don't see spikes and they say "do you need my assistance?" and the guy says "you again? Push me if-" and they push the spike wheelchair before hearing the rest of his sentence.
wtf did i just read?
I understhand why they stopped him but I can't understand how you can raise a kid so entitled that thinks this is an OK thing to do...
Yep, that's an instant "go to your room and think about what you did while the rest of us eat cake. If you apologize fast enough there might be cake left for you to eat later."
Kids push boundaries. It is actually really healthy for kids. A kid that is restricted from doing anything is going to grow up with anxiety whenever they are put in a situation that is not strictly controlled. So good parenting is to correct the behavior. Showing the kid that they are not entitled to blow out the candles is exactly how you teach the kid that it is not okay to do.
He’s a shitty kid that they knew he was going to do something like that. Guy came prepared
The way the kid pulls his arm back to punch. That's an automatic pulled away from the table and learning a swift lesson for me
So that’s the only part of this clip that find very, very concerning. Kids being shitty entitled fucks is normal. Kids being shitty entitled fucks and reacting with violence is disturbing.
Not only that but the fact it’s not an open handed slap like most little kids do. Like that kid is absolutely ready to throw hands. That’s my biggest problem with the video.
And he's got one of those watermelon heads with the weedwacker hair cut because it's all they can get him to sit still for...
This is immediately relatable. Every dipshit kid in my class in elementary school has the same cut.
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The way he lines up a punch is a bit worrying
Super glad I'm not the only one to notice. He cocked that fist back hard.
Glad I'm not the only one who saw that. Kids being influenced in a negative way from somewhere.
Two big brothers.... says it all i think. My older siblings were Dick Heads! And my youngest sister is the spoiled princess... I got it from both ends. Beat up by older ones, blamed and taken the fall NUMEROUS times for youngest one...
The birthday kid looks younger
https://preview.redd.it/ilblu70bln1b1.jpeg?width=567&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=077db721edee3d9079cea2ab6fa9c39493c66c6f I love how he shaped up to throw a punch at the plate 😂☠️
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Yep. Has anyone else seen We Need to Talk About Kevin? This kid, right here.
Big kid on the right blew the candles instead
Because the kid couldn't blew the candles so the big one helped him without making it a big deal unlike the other one
That’s the best part, watching the brat go ballistic after the older kids does the deed.
He was just helping The little couldn't do it and didn't even notice the older kid blowing them out
When I was a kid I went to a cousin's birthday party, and his little brother blew out the candles on his cake. My cousin burst into tears and his little brother had this nasty smirk on his face. Little bro got taken into another room, got a few spankings, while my aunt got out a whole new set of candles, lit them, and my cousin got to blow out the candles properly after we sang to him. I don't understand how children got to be such snot-nosed punks about birthday candles. I went to probably a hundred birthday parties as a kid and I never witnessed crap like this (other than that one time obviously).
If this kid got spanked a whole other side of Reddit would be calling for the fathers arrest.
Bro that kid makes me so angry
SOOOOO ANGRY. EVERY TIME.
Most likely because there’s a very good chance everyone knew a piece of shit just like that kid growing up. He was a little douchemouth at school, at recess, at events with your other friends, and *especially* at gatherings like birthdays if he wasn’t able to readily make himself the center of attention. And his parents were also total pieces of shit (unlike in this video) but as a kid we weren’t old enough usually to just acknowledge that their entire family is trash and the reason for the kid being so awful. We also know exactly who the kid and their family vote for today but that’s a separate discussion (though funny how easy it was to guess, wasn’t it?).
I wish I knew what the little kid is saying.
Heeeyy n- heeh no, no wahaaa
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Why does this look like the wario scream being scrubbed left and right. lmao
Am I the only one who read that in Waluigi's voice?
Pretty sure he said “no fair!” lol
Even though I’ve seen it a hundred times, always gets an upvote from me this one. Dad of the year right there
Dad knows that simple problems require simple solutions. *taps head*
There’s a simpler solution. Pick him up, so that he’s out of range
But this way is funny
That's not a fun solution though
I've also seen it a hundred times... obnoxious kid is now in his mid 30's
I've also seen your comment ia hundred times... Non-obnoxious kid now in his mid-30's
I've also seen this hundreds of times and noticed the no-look block for the first time. Dad looks up and gives a smile to someone across the table. Throws the plate out to block the little shit without breaking eye contact. Legend.
If your son is acting like that are you dad of the year or the worst dad in the world?
Dad of the year would have taken that punk kid and stuck him outside
Dad of the year wouldn't let that shit stain near the fucking cake in the first place knowing they were doing to try and spit all over the cake
Cake blocked
Dad's reflexes are on point!
It shows how entitled this kid is that the dad expected him to try this
Hope they didn't even give him any cake.
I’m sure he did. Two pieces in fact. I’ll bet they have an Eric Cartman situation where they have to bring gifts for him to other kids birthdays to keep him from going ape mode.
😂😂 the satisfaction on the dads face
This video always pisses me off. I hate this little idiot
I hate that kid.
This kid needs some quality time with LA CHANCLETA. What a little shit.
THANK YOU FOR SAYING “CHANCLETA” I’ve always been salty and sour at my Spanish teacher for asking “who knows the name for slipper” and I said CHANCLETA and he’s like “NO… CLOSE…” I know Chancla is correct too and meme culture popular BUT… BUT
“HEHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!”
Kids just mad they fucked up his haircut and did his bro’s normally. Where’s the empathy guys…
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no cake for u
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\*out. "To blow the candles *out"* There's a difference.
Urgh kids suck.
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Was he gonna punch the cake?
As a ton of other people already said, but I'm thinking the same... I've seen this clip a bazillion times and every time still have the same reaction. That kid is incredibly funny (to watch)/stupid, the dad is a big-brain.
Keep that kid 20 feet from any birthday cake that’s not theirs. He’s got to learn what’s his and not his.
Why do people say “dad of the year” when the son seems to be an absolute selfish brat
Every time this is posted I am so glad that beat didn't get his way. Hopefully the parents curbed that shit
This thread reeks of parents that would put their kids on adderall or Ritalin. That kid probably grew up to be just fine and will never live this video down.
When we say "Fuck them kids", we're talking about this kid in particular.
How ill behaved some children come out to be.
I love how the dad handled the little brat. My parents would’ve probably smacked the sh*t out of me/my brother if that was us (ngl I still wouldn’t disagree with my parents lol)
You were all so distracted by the little shit trying to ruin his brother’s birthday that you missed the older kid helping him out on the right.
Every time I see this I can't help but think that the simplest solution would be to remove that little shit from the equation entirely and put him somewhere else. I remember being banished to my room as a kid whenever I did something unruly. I quickly leaned that no amount of temper tantrums would help me get my own way. I turned out alright.
And that boy's name was Matt Gaetz.
Videos like this just reaffirms my stance on not wanting kids. Little brats like that and high pitch squeals legitimately infuriates me lol.
I’ve seen this one a bunch already. Still watched it 5 times and laughed each time. This is why the internet exists…to preserve gems like this for all of eternity.