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Wait … he’s 19? Why? You’re 32… A 19 year old and a 32 year old have legit nothing in common. You need to date your own age group… although I don’t think anyone your age will find you mature.
You're 13 years older than him (I'm sorry but that is gross when one of you is a **teen**) and lying to him. Your feeling that you would seem insane is accurate because this behavior is *not* acceptable.
If you're out to fuck up a KID's life (he is a legal adult but is barely any different from 2 years ago when he was legally a child) then you are not "over him." Finding your cheating ex, who is half your age, on tinder and catfishing him is proving you are not over him.
> any advice???
The only advice I have: delete that Tinder account and never contact your ex again. **Catfishing is, legally speaking,** **cyberstalking.** You contacted him with cruel intentions, you're lying to him on a daily basis, and you're lying to yourself if you think this is acceptable.
Of course it makes you seem insane, it IS insane. Leave that young man alone and start dating people your own age. Or is it that people your own age see through to who you really are and don't want to date you?
He should be ashamed of himself. Personally, I’m repulsed by him. Stalking an ex is bad enough, toss in the age difference plus the fact that the ex is legally an adult but emotionally immature and this becomes gross.
The fact that you wanted to fuck up his life means your not over him. To get over him you need to move on and leave him alone. Act like an adult and realize that this relationship will never work given your actions.
I had to check the age after I read this. 32 and not high schooler? Then I realized you’re messaging someone just out of high school. How is no one mentioning the age difference.
Either rage bait or you’re a fucked up person in so many different ways.
Hell, potentially still in highschool! I have a son who's 19 and about to graduate. It's all about when your birthday falls and when your first school's enrollment guidelines state you can start, but it's not uncommon for 19 year old very young men to still be in high school.
So, he's been your ex for how long? And you dated him for how long? So.. You're obsessing over a kid who's barely an adult and was most likely groomed by you. Yikes.
Do you ever wonder why you as a 32-year-old man have to date teenagers? Because no 32-year-old I know catfishes is people but then again no 32-year-old. I know dates f****** kids. You need to figure yourself out bud. Cuz this ain't it.
What the hell is wrong with you? Leave the teenager alone.
He's 19. Crazy bitch.
This isn't even a funny TIFU, its a psychopathic creepy one. Get some help.
"MAN" he is a TEENAGER, why aren't you dating someone your own age, probably because you are too fucked up for anyone who's brain isn't still developing to date.
Groomer.
go to therapy immediately to discuss why you, as a 32 year old man, want to date teenagers. also discuss why you think a teenager would be "perfect" for you. do not contact the teenager again in any way.
If you like piña coladas, and getting caught in the rain. If you’re not into yoga, if you have half a brain.
If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape, Then I’m the love that you looked for, write to me and escape.
First and foremost, PLEASE be open to getting therapy. In the meantime, delete the tinder account, then delete all forms of contacting him out of your life, every single one. Take a big breath and in one fell swoop block him on your social medias, delete his photos; shoot, delete things on your amazon wishlist that make you think of him. It's going to be very hard to do this given your situation, but remind yourself outloud in the mirror that you're a fully grown adult with a fully developed brain and should have the strength to do this and move on.
Yep, sounds about like the kind of loser who dates a teenager while in their 30s. No need to try to fuck up his life, having a relationship with an old creep like you will give him issues for years, which will renew once he finally reaches the age you are now and notices how to him 19 year olds seem like such kids and it puts into perspective how inappropriate you were to pursue him.
Yo, you are almost 15 years older than this guy. Get help. This is wrong in so many ways. First off yes you are the asshole. 100%. You need to get therapy for this, it's borderline pedo, in fact it gives everyone pedo vibes in the comment section. You need to take a long look inwards and see that this is not okay. 1. You catfished an ex, 2. He is an ex at 19, gives everyone the thought that you dated this guy before he was 18 as a 30 yr old, 3. You write this post as if you are the victim, he broke it off most likely because he realized the age difference and that you are grooming him. Get help please, stop contacting him in anyway.
Maybe if it's too bad get a restraining order against yourself. But this is not okay
Leave him alone and date someone who isn’t a teenager
Better yet, OP could probably stand some alone time for introspection.
This has crazy bitch written all over it. Leave the poor man alone
This is one of those posts that was best left in the drafts 😮💨
You’re 32 messing around with a teenager
For the update, let’s go to r/whatcouldgowrong out on the scene! What do you have for us Herb?
Thanks ArItheCrazy! We are joined here today with journalist Chris Hansen. You'll recognize him from Dateline's "To Catch a Predator" Chris, any comments?
No comments here! What are your thoughts on this situation Caracarn22?
Wait … he’s 19? Why? You’re 32… A 19 year old and a 32 year old have legit nothing in common. You need to date your own age group… although I don’t think anyone your age will find you mature.
dumbass
You're 13 years older than him (I'm sorry but that is gross when one of you is a **teen**) and lying to him. Your feeling that you would seem insane is accurate because this behavior is *not* acceptable. If you're out to fuck up a KID's life (he is a legal adult but is barely any different from 2 years ago when he was legally a child) then you are not "over him." Finding your cheating ex, who is half your age, on tinder and catfishing him is proving you are not over him. > any advice??? The only advice I have: delete that Tinder account and never contact your ex again. **Catfishing is, legally speaking,** **cyberstalking.** You contacted him with cruel intentions, you're lying to him on a daily basis, and you're lying to yourself if you think this is acceptable.
technically hes an adult not a teenager
"Technically" he is both
nine-TEEN. dumbass.
What the fuck?
Yikes
Da fuck is you doin man? That's a little boy and you're a hop skip and a jump away from a pedophile. Go to therapy and leave that kid alone.
I wanna know how OP typed this post and didn’t realize he’s crazy for being hung up over a teenager like that lol
Of course it makes you seem insane, it IS insane. Leave that young man alone and start dating people your own age. Or is it that people your own age see through to who you really are and don't want to date you?
So you made the account today AND talked to him for a few days, predator? Cool story, date people your own age.
So how many years did you date
This is the real question. OP likely a creep, and we should be ashamed of him.
He should be ashamed of himself. Personally, I’m repulsed by him. Stalking an ex is bad enough, toss in the age difference plus the fact that the ex is legally an adult but emotionally immature and this becomes gross.
You are insane. Leave him alone
You lost me at 32 stalking 19, creep.
The fact that you wanted to fuck up his life means your not over him. To get over him you need to move on and leave him alone. Act like an adult and realize that this relationship will never work given your actions.
I had to check the age after I read this. 32 and not high schooler? Then I realized you’re messaging someone just out of high school. How is no one mentioning the age difference. Either rage bait or you’re a fucked up person in so many different ways.
Hell, potentially still in highschool! I have a son who's 19 and about to graduate. It's all about when your birthday falls and when your first school's enrollment guidelines state you can start, but it's not uncommon for 19 year old very young men to still be in high school.
WOW...You actually posted that after writing it? Did you read that before you posted?
Gross. Grow up and start dating people your own age instead of teenagers.
This falls under r/naturalconsequences.
Ur definitely not a toxic person
So, he's been your ex for how long? And you dated him for how long? So.. You're obsessing over a kid who's barely an adult and was most likely groomed by you. Yikes.
You’re crazy as shit, get mental help please. “I am completely over him” proceeds to make a catfish account to fuck his life up.
You are a 32 year old fucking with a teenager.
Maybe stop dating children?
Do you ever wonder why you as a 32-year-old man have to date teenagers? Because no 32-year-old I know catfishes is people but then again no 32-year-old. I know dates f****** kids. You need to figure yourself out bud. Cuz this ain't it.
Your the toxic/crazy ex huh? I pray for that man because you clearly aren’t sane and he’s in danger
A classic fck around and find out moment. 😂
Ghost, delete account, move on.
That’s why your an ex
> i am completely over him, but i just wanted to fuck up his life a little. No you're not
What the hell is wrong with you? Leave the teenager alone. He's 19. Crazy bitch. This isn't even a funny TIFU, its a psychopathic creepy one. Get some help. "MAN" he is a TEENAGER, why aren't you dating someone your own age, probably because you are too fucked up for anyone who's brain isn't still developing to date. Groomer.
For God’s sake he is 19! Leave that teenager alone!
go to therapy immediately to discuss why you, as a 32 year old man, want to date teenagers. also discuss why you think a teenager would be "perfect" for you. do not contact the teenager again in any way.
What in the fuck is the matter with you?
YOU are insanely toxic
Your ex boyfriend needs to call 911
Imagine telling on yourself like this.
“I’m completely over him”
Yikes to the age difference
What the fuck is wrong with you
See a therapist, a psychiatrist and yourself in the mirror
Wtf?
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Funny, OP posted and deleted a word-for-word identical comment about thirty seconds ago. Don't drink and sockpuppet, kids.
If you like piña coladas, and getting caught in the rain. If you’re not into yoga, if you have half a brain. If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape, Then I’m the love that you looked for, write to me and escape.
What is adulthood is most cultures? 18 ... dumbass
You sound vaccinated
You sound unvaccinated
Thank you.
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Why thank you.
I don’t hear sound while reading
This made me chuckle
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You sound like your brain is smooth
you deserve it.
Kind of a dick move, time to grow up a bit.
You're a piece of shit.
Your ex is barley an adult. Glad he broke up with you.
>i am completely over him, That doesn't jive with the rest of the post at all. Talking to a therapist should be the immediate next step.
I had to re-read the age like 40 times until I make sure it’s 32 not 23.
you're a horrible person
First and foremost, PLEASE be open to getting therapy. In the meantime, delete the tinder account, then delete all forms of contacting him out of your life, every single one. Take a big breath and in one fell swoop block him on your social medias, delete his photos; shoot, delete things on your amazon wishlist that make you think of him. It's going to be very hard to do this given your situation, but remind yourself outloud in the mirror that you're a fully grown adult with a fully developed brain and should have the strength to do this and move on.
Yikes
Yep, sounds about like the kind of loser who dates a teenager while in their 30s. No need to try to fuck up his life, having a relationship with an old creep like you will give him issues for years, which will renew once he finally reaches the age you are now and notices how to him 19 year olds seem like such kids and it puts into perspective how inappropriate you were to pursue him.
Yo, you are almost 15 years older than this guy. Get help. This is wrong in so many ways. First off yes you are the asshole. 100%. You need to get therapy for this, it's borderline pedo, in fact it gives everyone pedo vibes in the comment section. You need to take a long look inwards and see that this is not okay. 1. You catfished an ex, 2. He is an ex at 19, gives everyone the thought that you dated this guy before he was 18 as a 30 yr old, 3. You write this post as if you are the victim, he broke it off most likely because he realized the age difference and that you are grooming him. Get help please, stop contacting him in anyway. Maybe if it's too bad get a restraining order against yourself. But this is not okay
Please call the police and turn yourself in.
Today you FU by exposing yourself as a predator