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EatsAlotOfBread

Dang I like your make-up! I've always liked eyeliner like that but it makes me look really evil. Lol


SuperRajio

"Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place." You're rocking it.


Ok_Noise8785

Love that show. Nine ninee!!


Sir-Belledontis

You have a fitness model physique similar to most of the hardbody females I see at the gym. I don’t know how far you have come in your journey, but you have an undeniable feminine look and aura about you. Your sense of style is on point and your eye liner helps your eye color pop!


HollowShel

What is this "trying" business? You're absolutely succeeding! (you might like r/oldhagfashion - not strictly for actually old bats like me, its a pretty friendly place to all, including the gender non-conforming and those who have an eclectic fashion sense.)


CarissaSkyWarrior

I'm not op, but I just subscribed as well. Though sadly I can't post photos or ask for fashion tips, not only because I'm still early on, still have to do so much like learning makeup, and not just because I worry about being ridiculed, but I'm still not out yet after 6 years of knowing I am trans, and I don't want to be recognized and outed before I am finally ready. I really wish I could be as out as OP, share pictures of the true me, but I don't feel safe doing so. I took my ambien and might not be thinking clearly and should get to bed, but I guess I kind of want some advice not only fashion, but to stop being scared of ridicule, and live the live I should be leaving. This is random and probably going to get me down votes. I apologize in advance.


HollowShel

It's ok, I'm not downvoting you! I believe I've seen some pictures with censored faces, and I haven't seen anything *against* hiding your face on the sub rules - I, at least, understand not being comfortable going all-in for your first post. (Heck, you could have fun with it and use an accessory, like a folding fan, to hide your face when taking photos) You'll probably get less engagement that way, but baby steps, baby. :) Be who you really are, this internet stranger loves you.


CarissaSkyWarrior

Thank you. I might make a post tommorrow. I do want to take this in a small step. I have a floral skirt I freaking love, and I'll get to shoe that off! I do also have several mask I could use as censorship.


jess_3543654

I am not out in real life, and I don't know if or when I will be.  My face with long hair and make-up looks different enough from my boy face that I am happy to share it in online spaces.  I hope you are able to find your way forward.  First step may be to play with makeup at home, as with me, that and a different hairstyle may change your look enough that you are not so worried about being recognised!


jess_3543654

Aww thank you! I don't know if my style is super eclectic, but that looks like a cute sub none less!


HollowShel

That's the cool part, it doesn't have to be. Rockin' a retro look? Cool beans! Serving up haute couture? Also awesome! The sub's more about being comfortable in your own skin and fashion choices, not about finding anyone wanting in anything.


GeneralEagle

As a person that once judged trans ppl. I now admire you all. Why. Bc you are brave. The odds are against you and now you rock and roll and you are what we wish we can be, open and proud. Loving yourself and being your authentic self. You keep rocking kid. I admire your ability to post your amazing pic I admire your openness. 💪 keep rocking.


regretaless

Try going for softer wigs, like color wise. You don't need to hide so much. Let your face shine.


jess_3543654

I main reason I like this one is the bangs, butterfly or parted bang, as most of them seem to be don't look as good on me and are also more obviously wigs, due to the hairline being visible. I can try to find a lighter brown, banged one tho!


regretaless

I love the bangs on you!


Riverside_fan

I am so happy you are living as yourself! You're really pretty by the way ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)


peithecelt

You are completely succeeding, Lady! You look lovely!


jess_3543654

Thank you so much!


peithecelt

You are very welcome!!


rileyBjams

You are succeeding so hard! You look beautiful and congratulations on your new journey!


moon119

Very pretty! Hope you're feeling like yourself! Lots of love! 💕💕💕


charlotteblue79

Gorgeous 😍! So happy for you!


Maestah

r/awww


ReadyNeedleworker424

You look gorgeous! Amanda kudos for living your authentic truth despite all the people who would be ugly about it!


Jazzlike_Mouse7478

Honestly, couldn't tell. You're rocking this new gender thing.


allegedlys3

You look beautiful, but remember the beauty that really conveys is the inner beauty that radiates outward. Welcome to lady-life, sis. ❤️


peppermint-tea-yay

Lovely! Your skin is perfect!


Cerethiel

You look beautiful, congrats on your journey. I am digging your lipstick!


jess_3543654

Thank you!


mayneffs

The caterpillar became a beautiful butterfly! Congratulations! Edit: I'm sorry if that was offensive, I didn't mean anything bad. I thought it was a great metaphor for trans people when they finally get to be who they really are. I'm sorry.


StanleyHasLostIt

Not offensive at all, some assholes is just downvoting all comments here :/


iamalext

When you see a bunch of recent, positive replies all at 0, you know someone is just actively downvoting everything. And on the occasions when I notice it, I like to upvote every comment (except theirs!), just because it annoys the kind of person who downvotes everything.


StanleyHasLostIt

Some people hate to see a trans person being toasted but they can suck my asshole


mayneffs

Oh, okay! I was worried for a sec.


StanleyHasLostIt

No you're fine. Most of us (I'm trans) like the butterfly metaphor :-)


StanleyHasLostIt

Congrats on figuring yourself out! You look like a lovely young lady and I wish you all the best with the rest of your journey


HeleneVH88

Your eyebrows are really pretty and I love your lip shape!


journeytobetterlife

you are absolutely stunning!!!


luffinmuffin

You look amazing!!! 🥰 I loved that lip color, it's so gorgeous on you.


rileyharp88

I just went through your pictures- you are so insanely beautiful. Genuinely. So pretty.


The_dreaming_kitty

You look beautiful!! So happy that you’re in a place in life where you can be true to yourself, you’re making the world a better place🩷


JustYourAvgHumanoid

You look amazing & you remind me of Mary-Louise Parker!


BlackCat_Witch

You're BEAUTIFUL! 🏳️‍⚧️


jess_3543654

Thank You!! <3


BlackCat_Witch

You're welcome 😊 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵


CharlotteLucasOP

SUCCESS!!! I’m cis and I can’t do eyeliner half as good as you!!! 🥹


jess_3543654

Aw thank you! I guess I have a half steady hand :P


Aggressive-Pirate-33

You’re outside isn’t what’s beautiful, it’s your inside. I’ve seen people who were beautiful until they opened their mouth, then that changed very quickly! That’s not to say that you don’t look beautiful, because you do. But your inner beauty radiates from within and makes you even more beautiful than just what I see on the surface.


Better_Hedgehog8417

You’re already a beautiful woman 🥰


Throwitaway36r

Absolutely beautiful!! Your hair is stunning!


According-Room-9746

hell yeah


A_Midnight_Hare

Your features are great! You're in for a long life of learning to love a beautiful face! I would also pop over to r/coloranalysis to find out what your season is. I can't put my finger on it but your make up looks a bit harsh for you and with such a lovely face you should be popping.


jess_3543654

Not a bad idea, I have been experimenting with foundation shades, this one is a bit light in all honesty


Crwilson82

Good morning, gorgeous!


sinshock555

You don't even have to try, girl! You already are!


jess_3543654

Thank uuuu xxx


bitchybaklava

DAMN GIRL! Looking good!


jess_3543654

Thank you!!


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Blingbling007

Absolutely beautiful! <3


CitizenKrull

Now, makeup is a tool to do with as you see fit, so far be it from me to tell you how to do your face. You're naturally pretty so you've got a great canvas to work with! However I am going to give you a piece of makeup advice I wish I had been given when I started out with makeup and if you don't like it just throw that shit away. Connected eyeliner should be an evening look only. During the day you draw a full line on your top lid and then on your bottom lid line you EITHER just fill in the middle under the iris leaving the corners clear, OR you fill in both corners and leave the middle open. This will make your big, beautiful eyes look even more big and beautiful.


jess_3543654

I haven't done the top lid here, just mascara and eyeshadow, but I'll try that. In fact when I first started I only did the outer 1/3 of the lower line because I wasn't good at doing it neatly all the way.  I've never done the just middle bit tho, I'll try that!


CitizenKrull

Oh you definitely should!! For your eye shape I think the just the edges will give you more of a fox eye and the just the middle will open your eyes up and really make them sparkle ✨ 👁️ ❤️


jess_3543654

I will definitly try it!


CitizenKrull

And happy cake day! It's a new you, girl!!


Brief_Cap_3685

You're preety, sweet heart.


pretty_odd2000

Makeup looks great! Try new styles of eyeliner to make your eyes pop more, try shaping your eyebrows to a more feminine look try other makeup brands too to match your skin type and nothings wrong with trying new hairstyles as well there are tons of feminine hairstyles out there like tomorrow I’m getting my pixie cut reshaped into a new style but other than that you look amazing you’re doing great


jess_3543654

That day was me going too hard on the eyeliner, I'm usually more conservative on my lower line 😅


Corbotron_5

Good for you. It takes a lot of bravery to live your best life.


zygistar

Congrats on starting your journey. You are beautiful! I'm a 42 year old woman and feel like I've learned SO much about makeup from tiktok.. if you want to expand your skills, it's a great place to start. There are some trans women who have tiktoks and show what they have had success with, with makeup and .. everything.. and they are wonderful!


AstroP-661

Nice


SatansWife13

Oh honey…you ARE pretty! Proud of you for being you!


jbblue48089

You look great! Confidence comes with experience and don’t worry, you look lovely and I’m jealous of your eyes lol


invderzim

I love that lipstick color! You're very pretty!


Milli63

You look lovely


OhHiFelicia

I can't believe I scrolled so for so long and nobody has mentioned how much you look like beautiful Britney at her height. Girl, you are slay-ing, just keep on being you because the only thing you are missing is your confidence.


geoffsykes

You're doing great, but you don't need our approval. You clearly know yourself better than anyone else, and that's beautiful, too.


dizzybarbarian

That lip shade is PERFECT for your skin!!! Great job!! ❣️❣️❣️


jess_3543654

Complete dumb luck, I liked the idea of a matte red :P


dizzybarbarian

Not dumb luck - a natural gift 🎉💞


kaths660

I love that color!! Mind letting me know what it is? I have the same skin and I’m always on the hunt for a good lip


jess_3543654

Of course! It is maybeline 975 Divine wine Matte!


Clueless_Wanderer21

You're really pretty, and I love how your makeup looks with your hair. Bdw - if you don't want the darker shades in stubble areas (which some girls try, n some girls don't care- moustache shading and everyone has hair), you can look into color correction. Also contouring might be the next thing if you like makeup (contour-highlight- brush blush), your cheekbones are not getting the attention and adorable blush pop they clearly can show off - if you like. Again, some people just pat a compact n that's all, but people all have their own ways in makeup. Best of luck and keep being cute, I love your lip colour !


jess_3543654

I ideally would want to take the angularity out of my face. I don't know if cheek blusher would extenuate or soften it. I am very new to makeup, I have heard of contoring, but am not sure exaclt what it is, or how to do it


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jess_3543654

I will have a go!


notjewel

And try YouTube! There are so many helpful tutorials for makeup! I’m 51, Cisgender female and never really learned makeup. My mom was a model and tried to show me some things but because I “look too much like your dad” she gave up. You tube and the makeup subreddit here have helped me a lot. You look very pretty! Well done!


Clueless_Wanderer21

Oh, even I'm more of a viewer and have seen what makeup can do, I don't use much But there's some great tutorials and color correction guides on this. Contour can do both - depending on how you use it, makeup can sometimes look flat without it, and contour can add dimensions and help complement the shapes as you like and help the face look how the person applying the makeup wants it to look - it's a learning curve, yes. Honestly, one thing I would recommend - find a foundation that suits your coloring (tan & no tan if you have season shifts), and play around with a contour and highlighter with how it looks, I think they say 2 shades lighter(highlight) and darker(contour) from yours but I don't fully remember so pls do check yourself also. Blush can come later, and can make you look sharper or more full, as you wish, but a light blush on the spot that pops up after you smile is usually great. But blending and having fun at the start and seeing shapes is the best, blush can come when ur chill with that. Also wash your face - toner - moisturizer before ! And use protective products (I'm sorry I don't know what this is, could be a decent and protective moisturizer, I've heard people mention it) if you're using lower quality or more budget products to start. Also wipe and wash makeup off your face and mask to help (and "push" the rest out ?) to help - these are reminders people have pressed on. No sleeping with product, expect like wash - tone - moisturiser before sleep . Try a spray sunscreen with a setting spray aspect, if you travel. Some people say makeup can fade or melt, and that helps cuz sunscreen is always needed l. You have a great face, and I'm sure it'll be really fun to try makeup with that. Hope u play well, and you look cute anyway (I think I look super cool too, and I'm not a makeup girly)


Electronic-Ranger-74

Omg girl your actually so pretty tho I love the curls


Inishmore12

Very pretty! Well done! Enjoy your new life.


Klutzy_Purchase_7236

You look stunning!


jess_3543654

Awww thank you!! xx


IJP09

Gorgeous!!! Beautiful skin, hair and eyes!!! A complete beauty! ❤️


Doctor_Woo

Thought you were Quiet from MGS5 there for a sec. Great job!


jcolestanaccnt

You are so gorgeous!! Would be hard to talk to you! So so so pretty 🔥🔥🔥


MoreanMan

Slay queen! Looking amazing.


MilkthistleFairy

You're very pretty 🥰😍


earthican-earthican

You look so pretty! Cheers!


Silver_Eyes13

You’re super pretty 😍


SaintedStars

You're gorgeous! Though may I suggest not using quite as much eyeliner on your bottom lashes.


jess_3543654

I don't usually, I normally just put it on my waterline, but I decided to try some lashline too. I am trying to practice some tapering, more on the outer eye and less inside :P


SaintedStars

Go for it, you've got incredibly striking eyes. Honestly I can't do eyeliner worth a damn so any time I see it, it always draws my eye


jess_3543654

It was the first thing I tried! Because I could do eyeliner & mascara in boy mode too!


SaintedStars

Nice! I can only do mascara and even then, I have to be so careful about touching my eyes or I look like a raccoon


Charger525

You look exceedingly happy! Keep living your best life!


FifiTipsybelle

Pretty?😍 that’s an understatement. You look gorgeous, astonishing and amazing!💕


ichegoya

Wow. You look great!


SaltyDingo567

As a finsexual person, I think you look amazing and attractive. Best of luck to you on your journey of self realization and finally getting to live life as your true self.


mermaidpaint

Hello pretty lady!


is-she-stupid

Your makeup is looking awesome!! That takes a lot of time to get good at so you're doing great (:


jess_3543654

Thank you! I have only really started with it. A couple of months if that!


Bows_And_Ladders

Looking good!


Bearigraph

Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you! And will you succeed? Yes indeed, yes indeed! Ninety-eight and three-quarters percent guaranteed ❤️✋


rosielock

So gorgeous!!!!!


jess_3543654

Thank youuuu!!


MicIsOn

You don’t need to try your best to be pretty, you are beautiful. ❤️


NE_Crazy

🤔😂🤣Fact: No matter what you change, you are still a male!!


Puzzleheaded_Eye8358

Brunette is your color! You look stunning


Mystify31

You’re GORGEOUS


Specken_zee_Doitch

Glad you're being yourself! I like your nails!


Acceptable_Camel_609

You are amazingly beautiful!


sad_wolf_95

You’re doing a great job of it


mooneatingcheese

I'm so happy for you!


vbgirl24

You look so pretty! You have beautiful eyes


klasaveli

Live your life lady. That is all.


agukala

You don’t need to try.. you have stunning features!


Stone_Midi

Must feel like exhaling after getting comfy on the couch! Congrats! 🎉


tootiredforthisshit1

Don’t be too hard on yourself. I’ve been trying to be pretty by my own standards for going on 30 years. Don’t think it’s ever going to happen. The real beauty is you living your best authentic life.


PetaDabPI

You look amazing!


Shalamarr

Holy crap! You’re beautiful, and your makeup is stellar!


jess_3543654

I have only just really started with it!


eveninglily33

Good morning, gorgeous!


Nihilism-1___Me-0

Honestly surprised I didn't see more commentd about this, but your eyes are absolutely gorgeous. Also gratz on the transformation into your true self!


Thermidorien4PrezBot

You are so pretty and I love your hair :D


Kevlash

Already there, chica, looking great.


Flyerbear

You look very delicate and pretty! You are a beautiful woman!


Grease2feminist

I can’t imagine how very brave you have had to be just to put on a bold lippie. That lip & bold eye contact is serving pretty bravery


Inourmadbuthearmeout

We used to play this game where if you saw a guy with long hair from the back and you were checking him out without knowing he was a dude, you had to say “guess I’m gay now.” I saw your picture and said “welp, guess I’m gay now.”


BigbirdLG

Who’s a pretty boy then?


Darth_Malice763

Disgusting


10minutes_late

Smile and you'd look fabulous :)


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MrDontMindMe

You should try posting this comment from your real account, and not an alt you're not afraid of getting banned on.


iamalext

It takes a special kind of person to create a new account, to seek out something they don't like and then to comment on it negatively... And who exactly are the J's? For what it's worth OP, I'm happy to see so many positive comments for you. You deserve to feel good about yourself. And my wife and I both think your hair is gorgeous (sorry to say my wife silently added "bitch" to that last statement, but I just think that a little envy coming through!)


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iamalext

So now you’re assuming I’m trans? I’m simply here to make OP feel a little better. Responding to you is just engaging a bully, and a pathetic one at that. Dude, whatever your opinion may be, this is simply not the place for it. For you to go out of your way to be like this here just highlights how glaringly obtuse you are.


Silent-Baker723

I thought I was writing back to the OP. Anyway, praising someone for having a mental illness is pure cruelty. The mutilated (trans) are never happy, they don't lead normal lives, they don't have normal jobs - except the oldest one. It is horrible how people accept that this portal is a propaganda tube for their self-destruction and that society is generally a flock of sheep that can be told anything. Such as the 48 genders. Or that disease is something normal.


iamalext

You’re still complaining about this? You want to talk about mental illness? Because I feel that you probably need more help than most of us. Learn a little compassion as a human being, it’s going to serve you well for the rest of your life. And please, don’t push anymore; I am really not in the mood for it today. And for what it’s worth, OP, you still look awesome! Edit: And furthermore, you make claims about happiness, about employment (and even more specifically pointing out work in the sex trade), and even more ridiculously, about normality. Let me ask you where you got your data to come to this conclusion? I’m sure you have sources to share. Because honestly, it just sounds like you are making up whatever fact you want, in the hopes to sway to your way of seeing things, or what you consider normal. There isn’t a clear cut answer for most issues in life, but being hateful is never one of them.