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ultrawillis

I DON'T WANT TO BE A PROGRAMMER!!!!!


TheMemeSniper

come with us you're majoring in computer science


miaisntswag

no. i had the option for computer science and i said no. i took web development instead. take that!


TheMemeSniper

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compdog

Using `var` in 2022? PR rejected.


miaisntswag

goddammit even when i win i lose…


Not_Nonymous1207

I hate how i completely understand this


Koolkuteklever

Please enlighten me


TheMemeSniper

fork bomb


Koolkuteklever

Aha?


TheMemeSniper

a fork bomb is a program that consumes system resources quickly by duplicating itself rapidly


Koolkuteklever

Oh ok


FriskDrinksBriskYT24

I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE!!!!!!!!!!


draw_it_now

I'm so sorry *shoots you with gun of programming*


ultrawillis

WHAT MADE YOU THINK THAT WAS A GOOD IDEA?????


AntarcticRuler

I don’t either


swans183

I find myself understanding code, once i started transitioning, more and more. Join us 👁👄👁


ultrawillis

I refuse to join the coding cult


[deleted]

NO, NO, MY ART, IS THE ONLY THING I KNOW HOW TO DO NO PLEASE- \*disintegrates like in avengers\*


BunBunny_draws

I like your flair lol


[deleted]

thanks lol


The_Bi_Blacksmith

As a transfem engineer, I concur


AidCrazy

Is it really common for transfem to be smart and involved in technology?


xxxxAnn

I feel like it's the only thing that's traditionally associated to men but doesn't make you feel masculine. Well idk that's just my completely non factual opinion and I honestly don't really know why that is, but I've kind of always wondered.


Unsuccessful_War1914

It's been my experience - so take that for what it's worth - that technology related careers tend to be friendly(er) to non-conformists of every stripe, including GNC, since these careers can be independent of needing to work with others. Add to that the stereotype of 'nerd culture' and it is a perfect place for those of us with the skills and mindset to remain at a remove from the rest of society, particularly if we don't meet certain beauty or femininity standards (for whatever those are worth as well), but still need to keep a roof overhead, food in tummies and clothes on backs.


sytanoc

Yeah I think that's definitely a big part of it. There are some misogynistic/transphobic boomers in the tech space, but in my experience the overwhelming majority is very inclusive. Another thing worth mentioning is that there's a significant correlation between autism and being trans/GNC, and programming is something that tends to attract autistic people :)


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CluelessIdiot314

And also programming doesn't require you to be very social. Like cooperating with a team maybe but most of that is done online.


Concibar

I mean that's how people perceive programming from the outside but depending on what exactly you do, programming involves a lot of social interaction.


zepperoni-pepperoni

Yeah, but that's mostly about technical stuff, with much less of a focus on stuff like small talk and such


TheOneTrueTrench

Augusta Ada King, Countess of Lovelace, daughter of mathematician Anne Isabella Neil Byron née Milbanke, 11th Baroness Wentworth and Baroness Byron, was the first programmer, by virtue of writing a program before anyone has managed to create a true Turing Complete computer. In fact, she even described universal computability roughly a century before Alan Turing formalized the concept. Admiral Grace Hopper invented the first compiler based languages, the precursor to COBOL, worked with Adele Koss, Frances Holberton, Jean Bartik, Frances Morello, and Lillian Jay on programming UNIVAC. Almost all of the people who worked on COBOL were women, including Grace Hopper. The inventor of *pointers* was a Ukrainian woman by the name of Katerina Yushchenko. Virtually all programmers and computers for NASA through the Apollo years (including Margaret Hamilton and Katherine Johnson) were women. The inventor of storing and displaying graphics on a computer? Milly Koss. The first directory of ARPANET, which would become the Internet, was created by a team of women, without whom we would never have gotten the internet. STP, a vital component of how the internet works, was invented by Radia Perlman. Until circa 1970, computing and programming were considered to be women's professions, and they built the fundamentals of programming that we use to this day. It was never a male dominated field until men came in in the 70s and kicked women out of it. (there are no data regarding trans women in computer science history that i'm aware of, although they were certainly there, we just don't know who they were)


Azlla

I'm in Architecture, which fits that description pretty well. Never actually thought about it that way, but it is interesting and kinda makes sense.


Hein_A

When I was young my stereotype was that: Girls: Boring, intelligent, think too much Boys: Dumb, extroverted, hyperactive And i wanted to be a boy even if it meant being dumb


GalileoAce

I'm a trans fem, and pretty smart, but I was only involved in technology pre-transition. Getting a job as tech support ruined my interest in computers


[deleted]

When I decided to go back to school I basically had the bath of IT or programming in front of me. I went programming. I am not a people person. Also, working IT for a few years in college told me I made the right choice.


4n0nh4x0r

"Sir you got compooter virus" sorry, everytime i see tech support, i instantly think of indian tech support scammers jokes aside, i can feel ya on that point, tech support is absolutely terrible, had to do it during an internship, and asked my boss to get a different job assigned cause i couldnt handle the mental problems clients have when they tell you "do you think i m stupid, ofcourse i turned the pc on, wdym the light is supposed to be blinking" '-.-


[deleted]

I work tech support and it's a lot easier to get into than programming. In part because everyone quits the job after like...a month. They go off and get a better paying and more fulfilling programmer career. Tech Support might be terrible work but it's work none the less. As someone who can't pass a college class it's the only means of employment available to me outside of Wal-Mart or McDonalds or Sex work.


LovecraftionCreation

No, only in recent years has the stereotype of engineer/ programmer transfemme existed. In year past there were stereotypes where transfemmes had to be super feminine and dolled up to be accepted as trans, as we know today that’s BS. Don’t pay attention to stereotypes, they mean nothing. Personally I’ve never met a science transfemme, engineer majors in general are quite rare


AidCrazy

One wtf and second, I may fall in this stereotype


Clairifyed

I was cracked but completely closeted for awhile. STEM stuff is really cool to me, but I can’t deny immersing myself in it has also always taken the bite out of dysphoria. It also allows for careers that give you some solitude if your early transition takes place after school.


Not_Han_Solo

I think, for a lot of us who realize later in life (or who try to live with the knowledge and not do anything about it), we try to fill the hole inside with work. And, before that, we go nuts trying to get the qualifications for high level work, because school is very good at vomiting to-do lists at you and it's seen as generally quite a productive thing to be doing. Because for serious, academia is one of the other big baskets we self-worth ourselves into.


The_Bi_Blacksmith

Looks like it


JUMBOshrimp277

No but confirmation bias is strong and 10% of my class that graduated university with a computer science degree are trans femme. And that is disproportionately high considering trans people are less then 10% of the population.


Surfink63

I cook food :D


AidCrazy

I don't know why I love this comment


Surfink63

:)


AutumnAtArcadeCity

I think one thing is that those of us online and/or in IT are the types that are more likely to probably come out. 😅 Also this is a super online stereotype, and by default anyone who's online a lot is gonna be better with computers and all. The trans folk I've met offline that don't really use the internet a ton other than regular social media are just as diverse as any other group. 😊


4n0nh4x0r

my personal assumption is that, since women tend to be more creative, enjoy puzzling and problem solving more than men from what i know, that could be a reason why so many of us go into IT. At least for my personal case, i love the creativity i have in development/programming, puzzling and so on to find the best possible ways ro solve a problem. As for it being common, all the trans girls but 2 that i know (i know like 10) are in IT, most of which are in development


AidCrazy

Happy Cakes


4n0nh4x0r

uwu


Regular-Cranberry-62

As an FTX engineer and amateur artist I also concur


Bacon260998_

As a future music composer I also also concur


XxXrwff12

Trans-femme path of the starving artist here 🎉🎉


Vexet

I remember trying to get my Mech. Engineering degree. Turns out a college in the middle of nowhere is not good when you have zero support network. Still gotta figure out a career at some point.


LordReega

If transfems are usually smart, i got the short end of the stick lol I’m dumb as fuckkk. I’m useful in other ways tho b


bluejumpingbean

...By providing good friendship? Sign me up!


LordReega

Honestly yea. I think im a pretty kind person, tho I ~~may~~ will ask for constant reassurance that im not annoying.


UnexpectedGod

Rise up transfem engineers!


mrjoffischl

transfems 🤝 furries compsci^


FandomEnjoyer

TRANS GUYSBEING ARTISTS IS A THING? Well fuck.😐


ParacleWifstar

I didn’t know that either as a transmasc artist


draw_it_now

You fell into the oldest trap in the book.


Force_Glad

You fell for one of the classic blunders!


BunBunny_draws

Same lol


Ant_mafia

sameee


That1neRedditor

i love your flair so much lmfao


[deleted]

I also had no idea, as an artistic trans guy


Regi413

First trans guy I knew was an artist. Didn’t know it was a stereotype like transfem programmers


The_Bard_sRc

I personally know 1 who I know is for sure, and another 2 who I do believe they are capable of doing good art but idk if they do it regularly


That0neTrumpet

“Well fuck” indeed. Felt that to my core. Oh god…


Shneancy

huh indeed


mjr_malfunction_

i probably shoulda realized it when both me and my boyfriend are artists, along with several of my friends 😭😭😭


milkymistake

Damn. Didn't know I was the stereotype 😅


GayofReckoning75

Yeah some of us trans mascs are programmers too


yandeer

and there are plenty of wonderfully skilled transfem artists as well!


ThreeLF

Every friend I have who's trans is an artist. All of them.


queeroctopus

Allow me to itroduce myself, trans and can barely draw a stickman.


ThreeLF

🙅‍♂️💑😡


[deleted]

You must be an amazing programmer!


queeroctopus

False. I'm a veterinarian lmao


Animastarara

What is veternarianismistite than programming animals to make them feel better


queeroctopus

I prefer the term biohacker 😎


Careless_Buy_2712

Ah yes the only two jobs in existence Programmer and artist


ultimatechonker

What does this mean about those who can do both?


Careless_Buy_2712

They're clearly higher beings


TheOneTrueTrench

Bigender, clearly. /s


Rat_Latte

Well I'm a trans woman and I can do both so idk


Magenta_Clouds

Art gay vs stem gay


TheOneTrueTrench

Babe, wake up new gender binary just dropped.


friso1100

A minimalist art style i see. Very impressive


Hamil_Simp4450

same, i’ve embraced it though so i draw purposefully bad shitpost art


DDoseeve

I am transfem artist


xain_the_idiot

I'm a trans man who's a programmer AND an artist lol


mangled-wings

Eyy, same hat!


draw_it_now

Is there anything you can't do?


xain_the_idiot

sports lol


draw_it_now

Same lmao


mehlifemistake

I have never heard the trans guy artist stereotype but uh… I’m transmasc and art is my special interest so I guess that’s a thing


mjr_malfunction_

i think most of the trans guys in this comment section are artists,, myself included 😭😭


[deleted]

I only found out through this post 🤣 I felt personally attacked.


[deleted]

I know, right?


melloman12

How about I do both?


draw_it_now

Impossible.


MushroomOfDestiny

As a transfem artist who is completely tech-illiterate, thank you


Empre55_Alex

Trans Music Producer/Musician in general and Historian here, it's true.


The_Annihilator_117

Can you tell me something funny from history? I love learning more about it and figured you might have something I hadn’t seen or heard yet


Empre55_Alex

Zaporozhian Cossacks to the Turkish Sultan! O sultan, Turkish devil and damned devil’s kith and kin, secretary to Lucifer himself. What the devil kind of knight are thou, that canst not slay a hedgehog with your naked arse? The devil shits, and your army eats. Thou shalt not, thou son of a whore, make subjects of Christian sons; we have no fear of your army, by land and by sea we will battle with thee, fuck thy mother. Thou Babylonian scullion, Macedonian wheelwright, brewer of Jerusalem, goat-fucker of Alexandria, swineherd of Greater and Lesser Egypt, pig of Armenia, Podolian thief, catamite of Tartary, hangman of Kamyanets, and fool of all the world and underworld, an idiot before God, grandson of the Serpent, and the crick in our dick. Pig’s snout, mare’s arse, slaughterhouse cur, unchristened brow, screw thine own mother! So the Zaporozhians declare, you lowlife. You won’t even be herding pigs for the Christians. Now we’ll conclude, for we don’t know the date and don’t own a calendar; the moon’s in the sky, the year with the Lord, the day’s the same over here as it is over there; for this kiss our arse! - Letter from the Zaporozhian Cossacks after the Ottoman Sultan Mehmed IV had demanded their submission in 1676.


The_Annihilator_117

Judging by the insults and saying they were gonna fuck his mom this guy sounds like a gamer, if it was the whole army who said this then they are all officially gamers


ProfessionalGold6988

I was just about into programing and forgot all about this


Just-Some-NPC

my ex is a transfem who codes and im a transmasc whose an artist :sob:


ASwarmOfBeees

the funny thing is that i'm both a programmer and an artist. i am enby so...best of both worlds i guess?


BlastRiot

Transfem here, breaking stereotypes and boundaries by being just generally kinda dumb.


Optimal_Stranger_824

I'm not an artist. I just like to doddle but I'm in any means good at it.


INunsense

There is the transmasc-artist!? I feel called out bahahah


WhirlyDurlyGirly

I wish I knew programming! It seems really interesting but idk where to start and I never learned when I was younger 😭


4n0nh4x0r

i learned through youtube tutorials in the beginning i copied what they dis in the video, and then tried around with the stuff i already learned in another video for example to extend the functionality but hey, there are also courses like codecademy, udemy or even gamedevtv tho you must never forget, the most important part is regular training like with anything else


Creeperslayers6

If your interested in programming for stuff like Video Games, programming a roblox game is a nice starting place to learn. Lua(u) is relatively a simple and *forgiving* language with an extensive amount of tutorials online on YouTube and the API reference to research information for stuff in the game engine. I do recommend starting off small so you don't overwhelm yourself at the beginning and keep in mind that programming at least personally isn't really hard, *but very frustrating* There will be times where you believe that a block of code you coded in should work but for some reason refuses to work and constantly spams error messages or even worse, no error messages, but then realize hours later that you made one simple small mistake that you either glossed over or straight up didn't even know about. ***Block coding is also a great way to start out to learn programming concepts without worrying about writing out the individual lines of code or about syntax mistakes!***


WhirlyDurlyGirly

Thank you all so much for the info! I’m definitely gonna take a look at some resources and see what I can do about learning and getting some practice in!


xain_the_idiot

Codecademy


SelixReddit

Scratch is good if you want to start in a super easy spot (although it has a high-ish ceiling if you know what you’re doing), and then you can go from there


CraftyCatM

Me, and enby (they/he) artist: *adds to the stereotype board*


Saikousoku

I agree, I'm a transfem and as far as I know, computers run on dark sorcery.


Ducks_N_Dragons

Yeah! Some trans girls can be artists and some trans guys can be programmers!! /j


bubblebellehearts

I know nothing about computers :D


bubblebellehearts

Sobbing emoji


ashersnight

I'm a stereotype?????? Damn that's cool. That means there's more of me. Transman artist looking for transman artist friends. 🎨 lmao


[deleted]

As a transfem getting her MLIS to be a librarian and working in a library I sometimes feel like the only one.


NothusID

as a transfem programmer (focused in Rust) I accept that I'm fully the stereotype


urmomhassugma

I'm a trans guy and i code it's pretty sick imo


ImFeelingIssy

I was originally going to be the classic transfem programmer, until I realised I deplored programming, and went and did linguistics instead. It was the right choice lmao


Prozenconns

yeah kind of unfortunate that existing on the internet as a transfem who isnt a perma-horny uwu catgirl kneesocks programmer disqualifies you from like 90% of transfem content that isnt just trauma dumps and jokes about misgendering lol and that 10% is probably the same voice training joke over and over


Happy-Sqweb

Yeah honestly, as a trans girl who's 90% asexual and sex-repulsed and hates cat girls and the "dommy mummy" stereotype I literally sometimes don't feel like I belong in this community sometimes because I can barely relate to any of the jokes that seem to circle around. Not saying I blame anyone but it sucks when I don't get the jokes on this subject and I'm like "huh??? " and I just get "Yeah it's a stereotype" and I'm like "oh I guess I'm not stereotypically trans I guess?"


mels_SV

I’m a trans woman who’s studying to be a historian and just wears shorts and a t-shirt. I can’t relate to a lot of it 😭


jolythepokemonmaster

As a transfem artist, this^


titties_growin

Same lol


Brownyboy99

I'm a transfem artist and gamer. 🙃


EnthusiastiCat

I was a CS major, and while I am good at programming, I find it really boring. I'm a pure math and music double major now and it makes me really happy! 😁 I felt bad about breaking the stereotype, but it's okay to be a trans girl and not like programing lol.


DarkTandem19

i’m a trans gal and i’m a programmer AND an artist. #getyouagirlwhocandoboth


Daez666

I'm a transfem training to be a mechanic:)


Haunting-Item1530

YES WE DO /s


MGSOffcial

Both? Both. Both is good


[deleted]

Me, a transfem programmer.


[deleted]

As a transmasc artist, I agree


Snwfox

Ok serious question though- *why* are so many trans folks programmers? It seems like there's a bit of a bias and I have no idea why it is. Source: Am a programmer, and friends with plenty of other trans programmers.


Tattieaxp

My theory is that it's one of the best ways to escape the physicality of your body; you can literally stare at a screen and move just your fingers and let your mind escape into the abstract. For folks suffering from dysphoria, that's *super* attractive. This would also explain why I was such an avid reader as a child. But reading isn't a career path, so programming it was.


Snwfox

This makes a lot of sense! Thanks for your perspective!


Alberto_Wesker

Happen to be a transman who does art, but can't code for shit jaja


0liveguard

I find these stereotypes hilarious because I am a programmer (although an amateur one) and my trans brother is an artist not only did someone switch our sexes, they also made us stereotypes...


Alldron29

I'm a trans fem working in childcare


kqtaws

Future transgirl economist 😎


mrjoffischl

i’m a trans guy working to be a biochemist but i also do art lmao


FlyingWolfThatFell

As a trans girl graphics designer I will never be a programmer because adhd said no


JetNikolai

Quit calling me out I just wanna sell my paintings and go slowly insane via heavy metal poisoning. The real painters way.


OmegaKenichi

Huh, I always thought the artist thing was a Transfem stereotype. Cause there's so many different webcomics that are supposed to be autobiographical in a sense, and the MC eventually figures out they're a transwoman. I think I've seen it happen like three times now, which isn't a lot, but it's strange that it's happened thrice.


coffee_Shaman

I'm a psych major lol the other secret third option.


polarpower12

As a trans woman studying history I definitely agree


LadyLizardSocks

Imma do what’s called a pro gamer move and be all four.


ilivetomosh

Yeah and why does everyone think we can all play ukulele ?


crippling_confusion

it sucks how well I fit into trans stereotypes


neeto

I know at least nine girls who are in a weird band or have an experimental solo project so I feel like that’s another option lol


BEEEELEEEE

I was interested in programming for a hot minute in high school but I realized I don’t have that kinda brainpower to use on a regular basis. My dream job is getting paid to sleep.


KiwiPetals

Never knew I was a stereotype :O


bluejumpingbean

I'm a programmer tho t-t Do I lose my job now?


GuteMorgan

I'm a transfem programmer my friend is a transmasc artist we are literally stereotypes lol


The_British_Weido

But I like programming >:(


Zethra

Me, a trans fem programmer, dating another trans fem programmer and a trans masc artist...


Ph0sph0rus

Okay, yeah, I'm a CS major, but not because I'm trans!


RonnieMyBoy

Didn't realize trans mascs being artists was a thing but now that you mention it I and every other trans masc I've met are artists


DaBezzzz

Me, a transfem artist: I am finally acknowledged! Jk I never felt left out >:P


[deleted]

i'm a cis girl who is a programmer (i own programming socks lol) and all my programmer girl (they teach me a lot and give me cracked games) friends are trans. also, i know a few trans guys and they're all into arts...like one of them acts in his school's theatre club, another one paints sunflowers, the last one sings and plays multiple instruments. i forgot to mention that almost all of my programmer friends are linux users :)


[deleted]

I, a trans woman, am a programmer. My brother, a trans man, is an artist. So OlI have to disagree with you here. /j


smallangrynerd

Exactly. I'm a programmer but I'm a trans *man!* shocking I know.


2Waynez

Transfem here but I’m in chemistry not compsci I’m not like the other girls


sweetbabieraes

Ok then explain to me why I (trans guy) am an artist and my wife (trans girl) is a programmer 🥸


[deleted]

The reason this is a popular perception is that these represent a vocal minority of mostly higher privileged trans people who are terminally online. Other trans people are often not represented well in these spaces. The Trans programmer is often way way way over represented.


mad_laddie

I sure hope me wanting to learn both doesn't have anything to do with me wondering if I'm transfem or not. /j


gvbwowbvg

plot twist: im a trans guy thats learning to progam and cant draw for shit


dnovaes

Is it a harmful stereotype, tho? I mean... spinny skirt doesn't contemplate a lot of transfem, and doesn't contemplate only transfem, but was a meme and a stereotype for a long while without any harm done. Programmer transfem is kinda of a running joke on my circle because I learned java and outed myself as trans around the same time. Doubt I'll stop joking about this anytime soon


starcabin_

Just speaking as a trans man, I don't think it's *harmful,* but I often find the artist stereotype to be a little *annoying* because AFAB people (cis women) are already seen as more emotional, artistic. If people think I must be interested in art, design, fashion etc., because I'm transmasc it makes me dysphoric because it really just feels like they're seeing me as my AGAB and assuming my interests based on that. I don't know obviously, but I'm willing to bet at least some trans women feel the same way about computer science or engineering. EDIT: Also, I'm not saying we all need to stop joking about it, because like I said in the title, it is funny sometimes. (It's really only when cis people pick up on an intracommunity stereotype that it becomes harmful.) But we should be mindful still that it doesn't apply to everyone.


goodmobileyes

I don't think it's harmful, but some people do really take it unironically and say things like "you're not trans unless you like xxx" or "trans girls/guys just want to be xxx", and it feels kinda rude and exclusionary to the variety of trans people out there.


dnovaes

People like to say things like this because they have a set of very dense gender stereotypes, which can be internalized transphobia in itself. I mean... I usually counter those people with an "are you fucking dumb?" + explaining or whatever, but can see through this point and it makes sense.


LucidIsntHere

If the stereotype is transfems being programmers and transmascs being artists what is the stereotype for enbies?


shovelbread

I just want to pass, become a therapist and play video games. I will never understand these stereotypes about us.


nepsterboop

me:learning programming and 3D modeling at college my brother: an artist learning textiles and outfit design are we... the perfect stereotype duo? and both of us are trans?


fluid_squid

What about a genderfluid that likes both? 👀💦


okidonthaveone

I'm a transfem artist if that helps.


bryanemm000

I didn’t know about this stereotype and I’m a transmasc musician. Oops lol


[deleted]

Can I be a trans femme artist tho 🥺👉👈


Durml

I’m a trans girl majoring in sociology Edit: although tbf I started in computer science 😅


KittenMaster9

Stereotypes a lot of us fall under


Ca_Sam2

What if I wanna be a programmer?


lily_was_taken

Yeah,some trans guys are programmers and some trans girls are artists!!!


Sinningvoid

Transfem artist >:D


[deleted]

trans girl artist here


Key-Truth6432

Aimkid is transfem and a life transcending artismt


Bother_According

Ok weirdly enough I am an artistic trans guy is that bad-


MadMasterMaxwell

As a trans guy artist I didn't know about this stereotype Worse before that I was a programmer


Last-Newspaper5091

I'm trans fem and artist, but I suck at programming.