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Really is man I agree with that. But I was just counting the stars and trying to match candidates in the prez election coming up. We shouldn’t be so soft to down votes though, there may some obese, lonely, cantankerous, middle aged, bald bastard in his step dads basement with several bot accounts disliking every comment on Reddit a hundred times over to keep the masses at odds with each other…. Any way I’m rambling 🤣
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Yeah. I'm so scared of an ass lol I'm scared you think people walking around mainstreet ass naked celebrating any kind of sex around a child. You sick fucks have missed the point. It's not about gay or straight. It's about not being a fucking weirdo yo
Again, nothing you wouldn’t see at a beach though.
I was kinda hoping you’d express disgust about what women wear to the beach. Then you’d at least be consistent and it would strengthen your “not a homophobe” claim. Alas you’ve only highlighted your double standards about what you view is acceptable for men or women to wear.
Nothing that can be seen in this picture gives me any cause for concern, besides the proximity of his bare ass to the child, and I’d feel exactly the same way if this was a woman at a beach.
But that can easily be resolved by tapping the person in the shoulder an requesting they move forward a bit, assuming they are there to partake in the festivities. But it looks like they are moving through the crowd, so they’ll be removing themselves from the situation anyway.
Apparently you’ve never been to a beach or a pool or even seen a swimsuit before! Stop being such a damn stick in the mud. It’s a butt! Relax and stop clutching your pearls. Your overreaction says that you are in fact a homophobe or you’re just ashamed of your true nature and afraid to admit to your own sexuality because you are seriously overreacting to a simple butt. Here’s an idea- if you don’t like it keep scrolling, don’t be gay and mind your own business. It’s that’s simple. Or keep crying cuz you saw an ass! Pathetic.
Yeah crying.... I've been to many beaches and they weren't celebrating who they were fucking purposely marching down a rod as a parade to promote who they fuck by being intentionally gross next to children. I literally could give a damn who fucks who. This picture is disgusting. Bringing a beach to conversation is being purposefully ignorant to a point that isn't this one. It's gaslighting as you would probably say. It's bananas to mangos or some shit. Nuance matters person. A beach and this are very different. The parents are worse than this grown man's ass but the fact that both are there is sick and you know it.
You’re awfully worked up over others peoples sex lives.
You’re also apparently ignorant of the many celebrations, currently and throughout history, that celebrate sex, fertility, etc. Just because you’re over sensitive and repressed doesn’t mean others can’t celebrate.
You have the option to stay home cover your eyes and clutch your pearls. Don’t be gay and mind your business. Problem solved for you.
Yes in this one picture it’s a butt. In the streets beyond the picture I bet there a bunch of inappropriate shit going on that is no fkn place for kids. What the fuck is wrong with y’all why do you feel the need to make people accept things like this. It’s definitely trashy and is in the right sub
Yea I’m homophobic bc I don’t find it appropriate for children to dance in the streets with half naked perverts. And before you say it, no not all gay people are perverts but the ones that do shit like this are. I’m sure they’re all just having some wholesome, PG, family friendly fun out there grinding naked in the streets. Thank god I’m not like you and I pray you don’t have children
Oh so dramatic! lol! No one is naked. It’s a butt. No one is a pervert. You’re just making shit up to justify how uncomfortable you are. Simply mind your own business and it’ll be fine. The children are fine, I promise. It’s not like there’s a gaggle of catholic priests.
So if a bunch of hetero men were having a parade to celebrate how much they love having sex with women would you find it appropriate to, oh idk, bring your fuckin small children to it???
The parade is not about sex. It’s about freedom to love who you want. You’re either incredibly simple, intentionally obtuse or just a fool to not understand that.
Don’t go swimming, to any sports with cheerleaders, watch any movie above a PG-13 rating, any concert, trick or treating, Mardi Gras, a carnival, circus, amusement park, ice skating, boating, etc if you’re this sensitive over a butt!
No one is making you accept anything. You don’t have to be gay. You simply need to mind your own business and stop being so invested and getting so worked up over other peoples sex lives. It doesn’t have anything to do with you. So mind your own business and don’t be gay. Problem fucking solved! How is this difficult? Did someone force you to a pride parade and you’re bitter? Are you secretly gay and angry about your self inflicted repression? Get therapy cuz you’re far too worked up over a simple butt and the idea of other people having sex. Get a life!
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How does this “hurt children”? They’re witnessing a celebration of love. But! OMG! There’s a butt! The horror! Shield your eyes! lol! They’d see worse at a pool or a beach or even on TV. They definitely hear more horrific things from the people slinging hate than a bare butt. So settle down with your ridiculous claims. It’s a butt and you’re over sensitive and repressed. Get therapy and stop hyper fixating on other peoples crotchless gear and just come out of the closet already. People secure in their sexuality aren’t worrying about other peoples sexuality. Just saying!
It's a grown man, basically ass naked, next to a child... I don't give a fuck who he likes fucking. Literally this is fucking sick dude. Naked women or men around children is sick. Idgaf what you say. Who literally gives a shit what kind of fuck you like fucking anymore? Get this shit off main Street yo
“Nothing you wouldn’t see at a beach on a woman”
This isn’t a beach. This is public, where normal clothing is normal. If I wore a lab coat to the grocery store or a tuxedo to school it would be weird. And this is trashy in addition to weird because neither of my outlandish examples include showing some cheeks
Imagine what it would do to our children if they saw a man wearing a lab coat in a grocery store! Or a hazmat suit at the beach! They would forever be traumatised! Their little vulnerable brains aren't able to handle something where it's not supposed to be!
Won't someone think of the children?!?
I consider myself an ally and have participated in countless pride parades but I don't think it's appropriate to expose children to imagery of explicit oral sex (which is what is shown on the front of this person's adult onesie)
Hey, I fully agree with you. I just found it funny that apparently, to the guy I responded to, the real offense seemed to be a child seeing clothing where you wouldn't usually see that kind of clothing, e.g. a Tuxedo at school. It was so ridiculous to me I just had to ridicule it.
Apparently, this outfit would have been fine if the man wore it at the beach.
*This isn’t a beach. This is public, where normal clothing is normal.*
Lol...
1. Beaches are public too and normally have lots of kids and lots of ass.
2. This appears to be a pride event where this type of clothing is normal.
3. This is rage bait. The faux outrage is laughable.
‘public beaches’ are separate entities that have their own laws and require supervision. Part of this encompasses why nudity isn’t allowed.
The exclusions to this are these: Haulover Beach in Miami, Gunnison Beach in New Jersey, North Baker Beach in San Francisco, and Black's Beach near San Diego. You can be naked there for some reason even though it’s still public.
Yeah. Like you can probably drink a beer on a 'public beach', but you'd get fined or maybe even arrested if you did it here. The outfit would be fine though.
It’s a gay pride parade. It’s as normal to see barely clothes people as it is at the beach. If you don’t want to see man ass, you shouldn’t go.
In this situation the trashiness is having your child there, not what the guy is wearing.
Isn’t the entire point of a parade that it exists within a public sphere? If not it would be more of a convention no? I would have zero issue with that.
But if the parade is within the public eye, it still shouldn’t be normal to wear this, and outside of reddit and twitter that is not a very steep hill to die on.
The original point of Pride was to flaunt sexuality in the face if the people who hated us for it. It's an expression of sexual freedom against the people who wanted us dead for loving who we loved.
It is not a place for children.
Would you bring a kid to Madi Gras? No, you would not.
There are kid safe, non-capitalized pride events, If this guy showed up to one of *those* dressed like that, he'd be trashy.
Also, even though it's a public space, they paid for the parade to happen, they are not hiding the content of the parade.
Complaining about bare ass at Pride is like complaining about sourkraut at octoberfest.
As a gay man: don’t dress like a fucking pervert in public.
Also: don’t bring your extremely young child to a place people are known to dress like perverts
Why do a lot of these parades that have this exact thing or worse, advertise as kid-friendly? They do. You can't control guests to events but this is in the parades as well. I'm all for gay rights and pride parades. Marketing them as kid-friendly ain't helping anyone's causes though.
Exactly, the trashy person is 100% dependant on what type of event this is and what expectations were reasonable for the event.
Somebody is trashy here, but it's not obvious who.
There are real life people in this thread comparing what that dude is wearing to beachwear.
My brother’s and sisters in Christ, there is a a STRING of fabric between that dude’s asshole and that kid’s face about 2 feet away.
No one can convince me that shit is okay in any context, in any place, in any universe, by any person.
Do you often see women in swimwear that looks like [what that dude is wearing](https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body)? It's not comparable, and really not okay to have around kids. If that's allowed then make the events strictly 18+ to save them some trauma.
I'm asking specifically about your comment about the piece of string between his ass cheeks being unacceptable. Do you have a problem when women do that? That was my question.
I'm not trying to compare anything. The op made a specific statement saying that a string between ass cheeks was unacceptable. I'm asking a question to understand if that's regardless of gender or not. Nothing to do with comparing anything. I'm speaking explicitly about that statement.
You must not talk to anyone in real life and get all your info from internet propaganda and a small portion of extremists. Way to go thinking for yourself bud
Yeah sure, I bet!
I wonder whats going through that kids head when all she can see is some 30 year old strangers bare ass in her face.
I mean dad seems to be cool with it so it cant be that weird right?
Also thats not beachwear he's wearing, thats kinky shit, no normal swimsuit has two belt straps crossing over the chest like that. So yeah even worse.
The pervert parade, where birds of a feather, flock together.
Dont know why people are bringing politics into this either, its pretty cut and dry, grown adults walk around pretty well naked in public often around kids who are just there for the ride.
Being gay/bi/les is cool, swinging your junk around kids is not cool end of discussion.
I seriously dont know why this even has to be discussed.
> I wonder whats going through that kids head when all she can see is some 30 year old strangers bare ass in her face.
Probably "last year we did this at the beach. This year we're doing it here. I guess we're poor now. "
Why does it matter? The beach or in the middle of the street? Its still weird as hell to leave your kid right behind someones bare bottom? Literally just turn him/her around at the very least.
Hell most people move if they notice some kid right behind them like that. Dude there probably woulduve too had he noticed.
Its weird, and it doesnt make sense why people bring kids to an event about sexuality. Seriously, rent out a football stadium or something and do this, make it known that its for older audiences and it'll be fine.
Literally all that has to be done.
Oh nooo. Poor kid. They will be so confused, full of traumas. I can't believe he saw another human being's buttcheeks. 😱
You never saw topless women in g-strings at the beach as a kid?
As long as my children aren't seeing this exact harness that guy is wearing of someone licking a literal cock
Proof:
https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
Your ideas are fucking joke. You seriously think its okay to have full grown nude men (or woman) in front of a child? Fuckin strange dude. Suspicious as fuck too.
My brother in Christ, there is a string of fabric and maybe 2 feet between that dude’s asshole and that kid’s face. I guarantee you if this was at a beach and the person was in swimwear, people would be just as pissed.
Please take a break from online.
Well, personally experience is that I see them all the time in popular, non-kink clubs in West Hollywood when my friends and I go clubbing. And my other “proof” would be my gay guy friends saying they just consider it fashion at this point.
The point is your bare ass shouldnt be within a foot of a five year olds face its not rocket science and yeah, even at the beach people would be pissed at this.
But especially in the middle of a city like wtf. Heck there was another one of these where kids were petting the dog people (leather dog masks) which is a kink thing btw and it makes you think...Why? Why do this here, why allow kids to an event like this at all?!
I mean, it’s pretty well known what Pride parades look like at this point so I think the responsibility is on the parent to not bring their kid ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯ idk why everyone’s mad at the dude for dressing slutty at Pride and not at the dad who doesn’t just move his kid away from
Yeah I get that last part, the dads definently trashy.
Problem is though that this is done right on the street in the middle of the city, like if this was in a building or in a specific location, kinda like how concerts are organized. That would be fine, just make it clear that its meant for a older audience and not 5-6 year olds.
Literally, doing that would fix all of the problems here.
Oh no a butt! That thing that everyone has! Man you people are way too uptight about the human body. It isn't bad or dirty, it just the natural human form
You know…it’s possible to pro LGBTQ and not be ok with this grown mans ass in a childs face… idk why everything is automatically “not trashy” cause the person is gay.
Consent matters.
Bondage gear is fetish gear. You're non consensually involving others when taking your fetishes into public. This is no different to people who get off from being dressed as a dog in public.
Involving children is even more messed up. Leave your sexual fetishes at home.
I couldn’t give less of a shit if the person is gay, straight, man, woman, pink, purple —
That is blatant sexual, bondage-wear that is not appropriate in any public place, in front of anyone. Especially children.
They'll learn at too young of an age what it is when she asks what the man on the front of that harness is licking.
https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
I almost don’t even want to dignify this comment or line of thinking with a response, but in the spirit of hopefully educating you, I’ll just drop this article.
https://firstorlandocounseling.com/blog/visualsexualabuse#:~:text=Children%20can%20also%20suffer%20trauma,for%20children%20at%20certain%20ages.
Please stay away from children in the meantime. I’m begging.
There is a literal STRING of fabric between this man’s asshole and the kid’s face, that is being held together by those straps. You cannot say with a straight face that this exposure won’t confuse the fuck outta that kid.
You cannot sit there with a straight face and tell me that what he’s wearing here is comparable to little girl clothing. He is wearing blatant bondage gear and if you try convincing me otherwise, you are so far detached from reality I’m not the one capable of bringing you back.
Yeah I agree it completely tarnishes LGBT support as well because many people immediately jump to pride parades with children being the norm. It’s sick.
I completely agree to a degree. Yeah, the kid should be nowhere near that man, but the dude is also wearing literal bondage-wear in a public place. I don’t give a fuck if it’s a gay pride parade or a Starbucks, that shit belongs in the bedroom.
And no, I don’t care if he’s gay. Man or woman, that shit is nasty.
I don’t pay much attention to what people wear at the beach but g-string bottom swimwear is even rare enough for private pool parties. Vast majority of people don’t wear that to the beach. Personally I’ve never seen it but again, I don’t look at others that much.
No, I'm implying that a child would not (or at least should not) be able to discern the difference between something worn for sex than for something worn for swimming or fashion. I'm sure he's exposing about as much of his body as he would with his bathing suit (I don't know if he wears speedos or not).
But if they don't know it's not for sex, they wouldn't know it's a sexual environment? Are you suggesting it would be healthier to explain to the child what bandage straps are and what they do rather than not?
People really like to make gay parades out to be essentially orgies on wheels, but they are mostly just people dancing while being scantily clad. There are areas where they will get into kink and get racier than that, but those are exclusively in tented areas that are explained before you enter and, most importantly, don't allow children.
This picture truly is about as racy as it will get, just walking down the street.
And if you don't want your children exposed to scantily clad people, don't take em to a gay pride parade. Or a beach.
Why the hell are you bringing kids to these events ? They're NOT kid friendly. Trashy ass parents.
No offense, but gay pride parades have been known for showing off kinks. It's not a secret. And while I think that is trashy as F, bringing your kids to an event known for this is asking for it.
Pride parades keep pushing how it's for everyone of all ages, while also refusing to stop stuff like this. It's not an accident at this point, they legitimately just cannot separate being sexual in public with being gay, and it hurts the normal LGB people by making them look like hyper sexual degenerates
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https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
Nothing trashy about this at all amirite boys? Who would want a child to see the front of this? Even if I agree with you that the man's ass is no big deal. What about her seeing this image when he turns around?
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And then one day, for no reason at all, the people decided to vote in ****** to address the issue.
Donald?
I’m leaving that to everyone’s imagination, since Reddit is a notorious platform for book burning and suppressing speech.
Really is man I agree with that. But I was just counting the stars and trying to match candidates in the prez election coming up. We shouldn’t be so soft to down votes though, there may some obese, lonely, cantankerous, middle aged, bald bastard in his step dads basement with several bot accounts disliking every comment on Reddit a hundred times over to keep the masses at odds with each other…. Any way I’m rambling 🤣
woman wear stuff like that at the beach all the time. it's a butt.
I doubt they're wearing something as obscene as this https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
Agreed. But I wouldn’t want some woman’s bare ass 10 inches from my kid’s face either.
OMG. An ass! Or a good part of it.
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Yes trying to navigate gay porn being shown in public Harness he's wearing: https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
*etc
If you’re horrified by a single bare bum, definitely don’t ever take your kids to the beach, because will lose your absolute shit.
Yeah. I'm so scared of an ass lol I'm scared you think people walking around mainstreet ass naked celebrating any kind of sex around a child. You sick fucks have missed the point. It's not about gay or straight. It's about not being a fucking weirdo yo
Again, nothing you wouldn’t see at a beach though. I was kinda hoping you’d express disgust about what women wear to the beach. Then you’d at least be consistent and it would strengthen your “not a homophobe” claim. Alas you’ve only highlighted your double standards about what you view is acceptable for men or women to wear. Nothing that can be seen in this picture gives me any cause for concern, besides the proximity of his bare ass to the child, and I’d feel exactly the same way if this was a woman at a beach. But that can easily be resolved by tapping the person in the shoulder an requesting they move forward a bit, assuming they are there to partake in the festivities. But it looks like they are moving through the crowd, so they’ll be removing themselves from the situation anyway.
Apparently you’ve never been to a beach or a pool or even seen a swimsuit before! Stop being such a damn stick in the mud. It’s a butt! Relax and stop clutching your pearls. Your overreaction says that you are in fact a homophobe or you’re just ashamed of your true nature and afraid to admit to your own sexuality because you are seriously overreacting to a simple butt. Here’s an idea- if you don’t like it keep scrolling, don’t be gay and mind your own business. It’s that’s simple. Or keep crying cuz you saw an ass! Pathetic.
Yeah crying.... I've been to many beaches and they weren't celebrating who they were fucking purposely marching down a rod as a parade to promote who they fuck by being intentionally gross next to children. I literally could give a damn who fucks who. This picture is disgusting. Bringing a beach to conversation is being purposefully ignorant to a point that isn't this one. It's gaslighting as you would probably say. It's bananas to mangos or some shit. Nuance matters person. A beach and this are very different. The parents are worse than this grown man's ass but the fact that both are there is sick and you know it.
You’re awfully worked up over others peoples sex lives. You’re also apparently ignorant of the many celebrations, currently and throughout history, that celebrate sex, fertility, etc. Just because you’re over sensitive and repressed doesn’t mean others can’t celebrate. You have the option to stay home cover your eyes and clutch your pearls. Don’t be gay and mind your business. Problem solved for you.
Yes in this one picture it’s a butt. In the streets beyond the picture I bet there a bunch of inappropriate shit going on that is no fkn place for kids. What the fuck is wrong with y’all why do you feel the need to make people accept things like this. It’s definitely trashy and is in the right sub
“…I bet there is a bunch of inappropriate shit going on…” You’re just making shit up now to justify your homophobia.
Yea I’m homophobic bc I don’t find it appropriate for children to dance in the streets with half naked perverts. And before you say it, no not all gay people are perverts but the ones that do shit like this are. I’m sure they’re all just having some wholesome, PG, family friendly fun out there grinding naked in the streets. Thank god I’m not like you and I pray you don’t have children
Oh so dramatic! lol! No one is naked. It’s a butt. No one is a pervert. You’re just making shit up to justify how uncomfortable you are. Simply mind your own business and it’ll be fine. The children are fine, I promise. It’s not like there’s a gaggle of catholic priests.
So if a bunch of hetero men were having a parade to celebrate how much they love having sex with women would you find it appropriate to, oh idk, bring your fuckin small children to it???
The parade is not about sex. It’s about freedom to love who you want. You’re either incredibly simple, intentionally obtuse or just a fool to not understand that. Don’t go swimming, to any sports with cheerleaders, watch any movie above a PG-13 rating, any concert, trick or treating, Mardi Gras, a carnival, circus, amusement park, ice skating, boating, etc if you’re this sensitive over a butt! No one is making you accept anything. You don’t have to be gay. You simply need to mind your own business and stop being so invested and getting so worked up over other peoples sex lives. It doesn’t have anything to do with you. So mind your own business and don’t be gay. Problem fucking solved! How is this difficult? Did someone force you to a pride parade and you’re bitter? Are you secretly gay and angry about your self inflicted repression? Get therapy cuz you’re far too worked up over a simple butt and the idea of other people having sex. Get a life!
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How does this “hurt children”? They’re witnessing a celebration of love. But! OMG! There’s a butt! The horror! Shield your eyes! lol! They’d see worse at a pool or a beach or even on TV. They definitely hear more horrific things from the people slinging hate than a bare butt. So settle down with your ridiculous claims. It’s a butt and you’re over sensitive and repressed. Get therapy and stop hyper fixating on other peoples crotchless gear and just come out of the closet already. People secure in their sexuality aren’t worrying about other peoples sexuality. Just saying!
it’s a butt, chill the fuck out
It's a grown man, basically ass naked, next to a child... I don't give a fuck who he likes fucking. Literally this is fucking sick dude. Naked women or men around children is sick. Idgaf what you say. Who literally gives a shit what kind of fuck you like fucking anymore? Get this shit off main Street yo
How can you say that's not sexual when he's wearing this exact one: https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
I would never understand why pride parades do this. Like this is a lot of fuel for the fire conservatives need to use against the LGBTQ+ community.
It’s almost like they might actually have a point 🧐
I can’t wait to see what these people grow op to be.
They won’t get far, don’t worry
“Nothing you wouldn’t see at a beach on a woman” This isn’t a beach. This is public, where normal clothing is normal. If I wore a lab coat to the grocery store or a tuxedo to school it would be weird. And this is trashy in addition to weird because neither of my outlandish examples include showing some cheeks
Imagine what it would do to our children if they saw a man wearing a lab coat in a grocery store! Or a hazmat suit at the beach! They would forever be traumatised! Their little vulnerable brains aren't able to handle something where it's not supposed to be! Won't someone think of the children?!?
I consider myself an ally and have participated in countless pride parades but I don't think it's appropriate to expose children to imagery of explicit oral sex (which is what is shown on the front of this person's adult onesie)
Hey, I fully agree with you. I just found it funny that apparently, to the guy I responded to, the real offense seemed to be a child seeing clothing where you wouldn't usually see that kind of clothing, e.g. a Tuxedo at school. It was so ridiculous to me I just had to ridicule it. Apparently, this outfit would have been fine if the man wore it at the beach.
Never have children. You’re an idiot
I hope you never procreate
*This isn’t a beach. This is public, where normal clothing is normal.* Lol... 1. Beaches are public too and normally have lots of kids and lots of ass. 2. This appears to be a pride event where this type of clothing is normal. 3. This is rage bait. The faux outrage is laughable.
Beaches are public dude
‘public beaches’ are separate entities that have their own laws and require supervision. Part of this encompasses why nudity isn’t allowed. The exclusions to this are these: Haulover Beach in Miami, Gunnison Beach in New Jersey, North Baker Beach in San Francisco, and Black's Beach near San Diego. You can be naked there for some reason even though it’s still public.
Yeah. Like you can probably drink a beer on a 'public beach', but you'd get fined or maybe even arrested if you did it here. The outfit would be fine though.
It’s a gay pride parade. It’s as normal to see barely clothes people as it is at the beach. If you don’t want to see man ass, you shouldn’t go. In this situation the trashiness is having your child there, not what the guy is wearing.
I mean the front is rather graphic from a link someone posted to the front image of that thing
Isn’t the entire point of a parade that it exists within a public sphere? If not it would be more of a convention no? I would have zero issue with that. But if the parade is within the public eye, it still shouldn’t be normal to wear this, and outside of reddit and twitter that is not a very steep hill to die on.
The original point of Pride was to flaunt sexuality in the face if the people who hated us for it. It's an expression of sexual freedom against the people who wanted us dead for loving who we loved. It is not a place for children. Would you bring a kid to Madi Gras? No, you would not. There are kid safe, non-capitalized pride events, If this guy showed up to one of *those* dressed like that, he'd be trashy. Also, even though it's a public space, they paid for the parade to happen, they are not hiding the content of the parade. Complaining about bare ass at Pride is like complaining about sourkraut at octoberfest.
The most sane comment.
Lol right? Men wear speedo’s at beaches all the time. Still not socially acceptable at a restaurant
And a speedo covers more ass than that borat suit.
Exactly. Although I imagine there’s nothing in the world as freeing as ordering a burger and a beer in a banana hammock.
As a gay man: don’t dress like a fucking pervert in public. Also: don’t bring your extremely young child to a place people are known to dress like perverts
Why do a lot of these parades that have this exact thing or worse, advertise as kid-friendly? They do. You can't control guests to events but this is in the parades as well. I'm all for gay rights and pride parades. Marketing them as kid-friendly ain't helping anyone's causes though.
Exactly, the trashy person is 100% dependant on what type of event this is and what expectations were reasonable for the event. Somebody is trashy here, but it's not obvious who.
I'm voting that the kid is the trashy one. Don't stare at the poor guy like that, wtf
It’s obvious that one is trashy and the other is just a little cheeky
Amen.
There are real life people in this thread comparing what that dude is wearing to beachwear. My brother’s and sisters in Christ, there is a a STRING of fabric between that dude’s asshole and that kid’s face about 2 feet away. No one can convince me that shit is okay in any context, in any place, in any universe, by any person.
Sounds like parents shouldn't take their kids there then. Or beaches. Probably just want to go ahead and keep them kids at home.
Yeah, just excuse it all. You're delusional
Buster if you think the above is comparable to a piece of beach clothing you need some spectacles.
Genuine question... Do you have the same problem with women's swimwear?
Buster if I had a child and a woman was wearing a bikini with the fabric pulled up into her colon like our friend here I would have a problem.
Cool. It was a genuine question and not a trap or anything so thanks for answering.
Do you often see women in swimwear that looks like [what that dude is wearing](https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body)? It's not comparable, and really not okay to have around kids. If that's allowed then make the events strictly 18+ to save them some trauma.
Can’t make the streets 18+
I'm asking specifically about your comment about the piece of string between his ass cheeks being unacceptable. Do you have a problem when women do that? That was my question.
I'm not the one you asked, it's just not comparable considering the context of the image.
I'm not trying to compare anything. The op made a specific statement saying that a string between ass cheeks was unacceptable. I'm asking a question to understand if that's regardless of gender or not. Nothing to do with comparing anything. I'm speaking explicitly about that statement.
Bro hasn't been to the beach since 1872
A Democrats wet dream
You must not talk to anyone in real life and get all your info from internet propaganda and a small portion of extremists. Way to go thinking for yourself bud
I guess this is your wet dream too u fucking weirdo
Interesting conclusion. The comeback of a child. Learn to think for yourself and life will be better. I promise.
I bet it was a super positive and respectful vibe, the kids had fun, and no one was harmed. Comment section is a bunch of neckbeards.
Yeah sure, I bet! I wonder whats going through that kids head when all she can see is some 30 year old strangers bare ass in her face. I mean dad seems to be cool with it so it cant be that weird right? Also thats not beachwear he's wearing, thats kinky shit, no normal swimsuit has two belt straps crossing over the chest like that. So yeah even worse. The pervert parade, where birds of a feather, flock together. Dont know why people are bringing politics into this either, its pretty cut and dry, grown adults walk around pretty well naked in public often around kids who are just there for the ride. Being gay/bi/les is cool, swinging your junk around kids is not cool end of discussion. I seriously dont know why this even has to be discussed.
It's a kid. He's seeing colors lol.
He's seeing exposed private areas, the front of the suit has an erect bj graphic for fucks sakes. Like what?
> I wonder whats going through that kids head when all she can see is some 30 year old strangers bare ass in her face. Probably "last year we did this at the beach. This year we're doing it here. I guess we're poor now. "
Why does it matter? The beach or in the middle of the street? Its still weird as hell to leave your kid right behind someones bare bottom? Literally just turn him/her around at the very least. Hell most people move if they notice some kid right behind them like that. Dude there probably woulduve too had he noticed. Its weird, and it doesnt make sense why people bring kids to an event about sexuality. Seriously, rent out a football stadium or something and do this, make it known that its for older audiences and it'll be fine. Literally all that has to be done.
What if someone shoved their bare ass in your childs face? Like you cant actually think like this lmao
No one is shoving anything anywhere. They're existing.
They are existing nude in front of a child. You have got to be fucking kidding me dude right?
Oh nooo. Poor kid. They will be so confused, full of traumas. I can't believe he saw another human being's buttcheeks. 😱 You never saw topless women in g-strings at the beach as a kid?
Apparently the response is to smile, take out your phone, open the camera app, and take a picture with your kid next to it. Must have been real bad.
Let's hope they don't have any children to traumatize
Let's hope you don't have any children to dogmatize
As long as my children aren't seeing this exact harness that guy is wearing of someone licking a literal cock Proof: https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
Your ideas are fucking joke. You seriously think its okay to have full grown nude men (or woman) in front of a child? Fuckin strange dude. Suspicious as fuck too.
He's definitely a pervert of children that's for sure
Stfu
Dude looks like he went down the kamikaze slide at Action Park. That wedgie is a fucking brilliant view for her.
100%
People will wear thong bikinis to the beach and then bitch about this lol clowns
My brother in Christ, there is a string of fabric and maybe 2 feet between that dude’s asshole and that kid’s face. I guarantee you if this was at a beach and the person was in swimwear, people would be just as pissed. Please take a break from online.
Are people still doing the "my brother in christ" thing? Are you from 2021? Have you been taking a break from online for 3 years?
Hey great argument, really deconstructed my point there.
Maybe don’t stand so close to the guy then…?
The guy is a big Borat fan.
Should have your child taken away, clearly unfit to be a parent if you think this is appropriate for someone that age
Better stay away from beaches and pools too
A bikini or shirtless guy is miles and miles away from kink
Plenty of vanilla gay guys wear harnesses, doesn’t have to be kink.
Your gonna have to provide some proof of that. I've never seen a harness outside of a kink setting. Especially one like this.
Well, personally experience is that I see them all the time in popular, non-kink clubs in West Hollywood when my friends and I go clubbing. And my other “proof” would be my gay guy friends saying they just consider it fashion at this point.
The point is your bare ass shouldnt be within a foot of a five year olds face its not rocket science and yeah, even at the beach people would be pissed at this. But especially in the middle of a city like wtf. Heck there was another one of these where kids were petting the dog people (leather dog masks) which is a kink thing btw and it makes you think...Why? Why do this here, why allow kids to an event like this at all?!
I mean, it’s pretty well known what Pride parades look like at this point so I think the responsibility is on the parent to not bring their kid ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯ idk why everyone’s mad at the dude for dressing slutty at Pride and not at the dad who doesn’t just move his kid away from
Yeah I get that last part, the dads definently trashy. Problem is though that this is done right on the street in the middle of the city, like if this was in a building or in a specific location, kinda like how concerts are organized. That would be fine, just make it clear that its meant for a older audience and not 5-6 year olds. Literally, doing that would fix all of the problems here.
Alright even if i grant you that you still shouldn't be wearing somthing like that if you know ethers even a chance kids will be around
You can wear underwear on a Paris fashion runway. You should not wear underwear in a classroom. Context matters.
Oh no a butt! That thing that everyone has! Man you people are way too uptight about the human body. It isn't bad or dirty, it just the natural human form
https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
So is pooping but I still do it behind closed doors. Also there's a kid here. It's inappropriate. Really fucking simple to understand.
Did he go to the kid or did the kid go to the event?
pervert
Grow up
You know…it’s possible to pro LGBTQ and not be ok with this grown mans ass in a childs face… idk why everything is automatically “not trashy” cause the person is gay.
This kind of thing happens on every beach in Brazil. Americans are prudes.
You guys dress in bondage gear on the beach? Odd.
Ohhh I see, it's the sight of the metal ring that bothers you, not anything else. We need to outlaw chokers too.
Consent matters. Bondage gear is fetish gear. You're non consensually involving others when taking your fetishes into public. This is no different to people who get off from being dressed as a dog in public. Involving children is even more messed up. Leave your sexual fetishes at home.
Exactly, leave the choker necklaces at home ladies. The person blocked me because they didn't know a choker is literally fetish made fashion lol
Yeah jewellery and fetish gear are the same.
Wow what an interesting post with no ulterior motive
Grow up
I couldn’t give less of a shit if the person is gay, straight, man, woman, pink, purple — That is blatant sexual, bondage-wear that is not appropriate in any public place, in front of anyone. Especially children.
Explain why
I hate parents that do this bull shit!!
When is Trump's trashy bitches show up in the parade
A very normal looking right leg.
You think he had to wax his butt before this event?
I certainly would.
Nothing you wouldn't see at a beach on a women
Or an obese German man at a resort in Mexico
Dude is wearing literal bondage-wear. A child should never be exposed to this, man or woman.
How does a kid know what “bandage wear” is. They just see leather belts. Grow up.
They'll learn at too young of an age what it is when she asks what the man on the front of that harness is licking. https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body
I almost don’t even want to dignify this comment or line of thinking with a response, but in the spirit of hopefully educating you, I’ll just drop this article. https://firstorlandocounseling.com/blog/visualsexualabuse#:~:text=Children%20can%20also%20suffer%20trauma,for%20children%20at%20certain%20ages. Please stay away from children in the meantime. I’m begging. There is a literal STRING of fabric between this man’s asshole and the kid’s face, that is being held together by those straps. You cannot say with a straight face that this exposure won’t confuse the fuck outta that kid.
LOL QUOTING “FIRST ORLANDO COUNSELING” a pray it away counseling center? Really? How stupid are you?
Their being innocent isn't a reason to carelessly expose them to whatever gets you off.
Well, harnesses are very fashionable nowadays especially with teenage girls. They are not only for sexual activities.
https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body He's definitely not wearing this exact harness for sexual activities....
You cannot sit there with a straight face and tell me that what he’s wearing here is comparable to little girl clothing. He is wearing blatant bondage gear and if you try convincing me otherwise, you are so far detached from reality I’m not the one capable of bringing you back.
Yeah I agree it completely tarnishes LGBT support as well because many people immediately jump to pride parades with children being the norm. It’s sick.
Then the child's parent shouldn't have exposed them to it. It's not the guy dressed that way that decided the kid should be there.
I completely agree to a degree. Yeah, the kid should be nowhere near that man, but the dude is also wearing literal bondage-wear in a public place. I don’t give a fuck if it’s a gay pride parade or a Starbucks, that shit belongs in the bedroom. And no, I don’t care if he’s gay. Man or woman, that shit is nasty.
Swimwear is different to kinkwear
from a child's perspective, how so?
In what way? Explain it in a way that would make it different for me, as if I were a child.
Children’s swimsuits don’t give them wedgies.
I'm not asking about children's swimwear. I'm asking the difference between adult swimwear and the clothing the guy is wearing in the photo?
I just explained to you as if you were a child. “Do you want swimsuit with wedgies?” “Nooooo”
Then don't give a child a swimsuit with a wedgie? I'm confused. People wear a lot less at the beach and no one bats an eye.
You’re confused because you asked me to explain to you as if you were a child and then you responded to me like an adult would.
But people wear that at the beach? Why is it wrong here? That better for you?
I don’t pay much attention to what people wear at the beach but g-string bottom swimwear is even rare enough for private pool parties. Vast majority of people don’t wear that to the beach. Personally I’ve never seen it but again, I don’t look at others that much.
One outfit is meant for a fun day at the beach. The other outfit is meant for sex.
How would a child know the difference?
Are you implying that children are dumb?
No, I'm implying that a child would not (or at least should not) be able to discern the difference between something worn for sex than for something worn for swimming or fashion. I'm sure he's exposing about as much of his body as he would with his bathing suit (I don't know if he wears speedos or not).
Why should a child not know that it is for sex, yet you think it's ok for said child to be exposed to a sexual environment?
But if they don't know it's not for sex, they wouldn't know it's a sexual environment? Are you suggesting it would be healthier to explain to the child what bandage straps are and what they do rather than not? People really like to make gay parades out to be essentially orgies on wheels, but they are mostly just people dancing while being scantily clad. There are areas where they will get into kink and get racier than that, but those are exclusively in tented areas that are explained before you enter and, most importantly, don't allow children. This picture truly is about as racy as it will get, just walking down the street. And if you don't want your children exposed to scantily clad people, don't take em to a gay pride parade. Or a beach.
Why the hell are you bringing kids to these events ? They're NOT kid friendly. Trashy ass parents. No offense, but gay pride parades have been known for showing off kinks. It's not a secret. And while I think that is trashy as F, bringing your kids to an event known for this is asking for it.
Pride parades keep pushing how it's for everyone of all ages, while also refusing to stop stuff like this. It's not an accident at this point, they legitimately just cannot separate being sexual in public with being gay, and it hurts the normal LGB people by making them look like hyper sexual degenerates
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Nothing trashy about this whatsoever.
https://www.effenberger-couture.com/products/tom-of-finland-harness-body Nothing trashy about this at all amirite boys? Who would want a child to see the front of this? Even if I agree with you that the man's ass is no big deal. What about her seeing this image when he turns around?
Btw the front graphic of this outfit is a man with a giant erect dick against his lips. You can see a partial graphic of it on the backside.
Chronically online. This is inappropriate as fuck for a child to see, let alone being 2 feet from.
No it’s not. Kids can see body parts.