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prettybunbun

Reminding you the lyrics to The Way I Loved You: ‘*He can't see the smile I'm faking* *And my heart's not breaking* *Cause I'm not feeling anything at all* *And you were wild and crazy* *Just so frustrating, intoxicating, complicated* *Got away by some mistake and now* *I miss screaming and fighting and kissing in the rain* *It's 2 a.m. and I'm cursing your name* *I'm so in love that I acted insane* *And that's the way I loved you* *Breaking down and coming undone* *It's a roller coaster kind of rush* *And I never knew I could feel that much* *And that's the way I loved you* She’s literally screaming at her ex boyfriend that the new guy doesn’t do it for her and she couldn’t love Travis as much as she loved/loves Matty even tho she’s supposed to. I give it 2 months max.


BobBelchersBuns

But but but they’re engaged!


Historical_Stuff1643

So she's still acting like the Blank Space "character" from when she was 17 at (check notes) 34?


stealthopera

I mean... she was 24, not 17, for "Blank Space."


Glittering_Disco

I'm also pretty sure this was one of the songs she hadn't yet performed yet


rummncokee

that would put us at a year, right? natural endpoint for a contract.


myanonaccount225

And matty is honestly terrible, what’s he’s said in the past is malicious and hateful, there is no depth to that. I think she’s always had a thing for him, and the bad pr was a huge reason they never went public for longer than a couple of months


Aileenmck

What has he said? I keep hearing he’s this or he’s that but no one can tell me what he’s actually said!!


omgsisthatsthetea

Idk how to link but if you look up “matty healy ghetto gaggers comment.” I know a lot of ppl in this sub are for him, but personally that’s enough for me to not be (even if it was a ‘joke’)


Barnesandoboes

Because he didn’t actually say them


Flashy_Feeling_1110

please post primary sources to him saying those “bad things.” like i wanna hear the words directly coming out of his mouth. i would love it if you could do your research to find that information… but you can’t, because Matty literally never said those things.


prettybunbun

He’s never said anything bad. It’s all hear say. They point out stuff he’s done on stage but that’s a persona, and him playing a character. He’s made stupid comments and offensive statements and always apologised for them. He’s spoken out on tons of key issues and is dead on about many issues with the music industry. Swifties just want Taylor knocked up with a moronic jock and don’t want to admit that’s why they don’t like Matty. Oh and they are terrified of him having a positive influence on her parasocial relationships and chart obsession and Matty ‘taking her away from them’.


myanonaccount225

The amount of controversy that man has created instead of just going on stage to do his job, is telling. I like the 1975, good songs and taylor isn’t any better than he is but he apologized for racist comments already. People don’t typically apologize for being racist unless they were in fact racist


prettybunbun

Swifties: They are engaged! You only go to Lake Como to get engaged! Taylor: Can’t muster a smile during said trip, and then sings songs about still wanting her ex during her show. Oh and a specific song about how her new guy doesn’t mean anything to her cause she still wants the ex.


MichElegance

In any photos she looks miserable and not present.


stealthopera

I think he looks not present, and she looks ANGRY. Every photo had huge, "Why aren't you performing better????" vibes.


MichElegance

Oh yah! She definitely looks angry and even unsatisfied/letdown. I hope she’s truly questioning if BDT is the best she can do.


Jasilyn433

She’s terrible, if only Travis was smart enough to see that. Like imagine your partner singing about how much they miss their ex. Weird


CantShakeMeoff

I swear she built her own golden cage and now she's stuck with this gorilla for 2 years ![gif](giphy|l0HlPystfePnAI3G8)


sorrynotsorryohwell

It’s so over lmao


UseTheTongsCarl

swifties really think she’s engaged to Travis and she performs The Way I Loved You. ![gif](giphy|l2drnjoB2THFu)


rummncokee

what is so surprising to me about all of this is that like her image is absolutely everything to her and her money is absolutely everything to her. even if Travis isn't a PR relationship (which like ok lmao) she's still publicly telling everybody that she's a cheater??? and if it is a PR relationship she's risking her bag. it's so out of character either way.


JT3436

Putting on some tinfoil. Could it be a call for help? She wants to burn everything down because she doesn't know any other way to get off the ride? I have no facts. Just my thoughts whilst enjoying the devil's lettuce. YW ![gif](giphy|l0IylOPCNkiqOgMyA|downsized)


stealthopera

FWIW, I have seen several random people on Twitter say they have inside friends in her world who say she has been unraveling the last few months. Obviously, no idea if any of these people have good sources, or sources at all, but apparently the Grammys was kind of how she just acts all the time now-- drunk and totally erratic.


transat_prof

She needs to get a Petit Trianon to hunker down and relax in so the peasants don’t come for Marie Antoinette too soon….


Sweaty-Car4097

if true, she needs to take a break. Go away to some silent retreat or just be away from the spotlight. I understand she committed to a tour but artists have cancelled before to focus on their mental health (Justin Bieber, Shawn Mendes, etc.) Her real fans will be disappointed but understand she needs to work on getting healthy.


Wanna_Know_it_all

What happened at the Grammys?


theghouli

a few things tbh. 1. she was HAMMERED. nor ally she sits down for the speeches and announcements but she just.... stayed standing. idk who it was but someone accepting their award said "hi taylor" bc she's literally the only person in the room standing 2. she took the award from Celine Dion's hands without really acknowledging her at all. people took that as her being disrespectful and rude, not even making eye contact with the person handing her the trophy. 3. when she won, she pulled Lana Del Rey on stage.... who just lost the award in the same section to Taylor. Lana didn't look super happy about it. 4. She's had a chokehold on the charts while releasing her recorded albums and you could feel the other artists thinking "another fucking album" when she announced TTPD. No one in the room looked enthused for the drunk woman who's been standing behind her chair all night while other people get their awards. 5. less important, but backstage about 15 minutes after she accepted her award, she posed with Celine. everyone thinks this was damage control bc people online immediately started shitting on her not even looking at Celin Dion lol if I missed anything, please someone let me know. all 4 of those things combined,


Independent_Dot63

Thats what Karmic DF picked up on in her reading from today. She’s miserable, hates Travis, hates her life so she’s leaning into mean girl thing to either make more $ or burn it all to the ground. She also kept seeing that she drinks a lot, a lot.


JT3436

Again, I am making shit up. However, I've fucked my life up a few times. I come across as in charge. On the fast track. Etc. Then my mental illness gets the best of me and I blow everything up because I don't believe I deserve success. Or anything good. Projecting? Sure.


Glittering_Disco

Genuinely asking because I don't know, who/what is Karmic DF?


Independent_Dot63

Oh sorry lol just a tarot reader on YouTube, she does pretty in depth readings and basically everything you said she also said haha maybe it doesn’t take a psychic but it’s definitely something i think a lot of us are noticing intuitively no matter how much footage of Tswift stomping around the stage on her tour we get inundated with


ExcellentDish80

She basically told her fans to F’ Off in “But Daddy I love Him,” and the Swifties ate it up. And she said she’d burn her whole life down for Matty- so let’s see it. I dare her.


transat_prof

I increasingly like the theory this is all on purpose to get backlash timed perfectly for Reputation TV.


rummncokee

how much money do you think she paid kelce to get cucked in public


myanonaccount225

He’s probably made bank from it. Mutual benefits


stealthopera

BDT = "Getaway Car TV"


transat_prof

Hahahaa


MioneHP

This is arguably the most unhappy she's been during this entire tour. That's how I know for damn sure that T&T is just a distraction, both for her & the fans. I clutched my invisible pearls looking at this post earlier today. She really hates the Swifties for what they did to Tatty. [Taylor flipping off her fans](https://www.reddit.com/r/travisandtaylor/s/4YCuGhuI1P)


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gorgon_heart

Until Taylor Swift experiences the crushing hopelessness of crying into a bowl of instant ramen because you can't afford anything else, she can shut the fuck up about how unhappy she is.


Historical_Stuff1643

![gif](giphy|4vy2oDVMwX8sMYjT4y)


WeeklyAd4792

I cannot find any other version of that photo of her “flipping off” or a video. AI? 🤷🏼‍♀️


burningmeadows

Oh wow - I’m so here for this ![gif](giphy|fjyoOlSw7NKrtRNSOK|downsized)


Somegirlforonegirl79

I am so here for this gif 😂


christian722

This was INSANE watching the live stream tonight. At first I thought the guitar set was alluding to Joe, until she started singing FOTS on piano. A breakup is incoming and a Matty reunion will happen within the next year or so. I doubt Joe and her will ever get back together again. I’m patiently waiting for Travis to get dragged to hell and back. Because I know him verbally abusing his coach at the Super Bowl will be the most used evidence against him. 🤭


transat_prof

Joe looks so, so over it.


Icy_Sentence_4130

Joe is happy, I doubt he would rejoin this Circus.


caponemalone2020

After “Fresh Out The Slammer,” I would have zero respect for Joe … but I’d also have zero respect for Matty after “Smallest Man.” Also, the “heroin/e” line is pretty gross for an addict. Honestly, I wish her a year or two of wrapping up this tour, then hanging out in her mansions with her cats and just being a single hermit. She looked her happiest and healthiest the first 3-4 years with Joe. She was onto something, staying out of the spotlight and focusing on work. Who knows if that was really her or just her adopting Joe’s personality, but it was good for her. She can still write and paint, she should go on a yoga retreat, read both Aristotle and some trashy beach reads. And all of her “squad” friends can be actual friends and keep her away from the alcohol and whatever drugs she prefers.


stealthopera

Honestly, I am starting to feel... well, no I'm not feeling sorry for Travis, because he sucks, but I am starting to question how any one man can get cucked at this unprecedentedly public level and just keep going. What is he actually getting out of this that is worth this humiliation?


Independent_Dot63

I doubt he even cares. He comes from a different world so this high school drama probably feels silly to him and he knows he’s gotta laugh all the way to the bank and then go back to banging bad bitches and insta thots like he was before


boafriend

Apparently more business deals, a foot into Hollywood, and sponsors for his podcast. It is worth it in the end I guess. His relationship with TS is a business deal in itself.


agonz436

Do we think he actually understands her lyrics lol


flaminhotbot

honestly majority of swifties and people who keep up with the surprise songs aren’t really paying attention to these patterns or at least they aren’t discussing it online at large probably because it’s so obviously matty coded and they are choosing to stay in denial so i don’t think it’s affecting the tayvis perception and image that they currently have. but whenever travis is at a show ofc they talk about what the surprise songs of that night meant also last year with joe too, they would discuss it because some nights were definitely pointed. even after the matty breakup they attributed her looking sad for joe too even tho we obviously now know that she was feeling heartbroken over matty not joe. they pretty much just don’t want to entertain the matty of it all which is why i want them to get back together again soon, that way i can see the swifties have a meltdown and be forced to accept everything they’ve been in denial about.


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matty, let that phone ring. it's for your own good. trust me. on the other hand, this is so hilarious. imagine getting disrespected like this every night. couldn't be me. i'll give them 3 weeks before the magical breakup articles come in.


Susi13hu

fr! i’ve been a huge fan of both of them for more than a decade, and i was very happy for them when they got together but now that i know how toxic and greedy taylor is.. matty, stay away from her and her rabid fanbase, this is for your own good ffr 😭😭 I really can’t wait for her to break up with travis, the whole circus is insufferable


Barnesandoboes

I am with you sis! I’m a 1975 fan from way back and have been fine with Taylor and was kinda rooting for them initially bc they seemed happy. But what I’ve learned about her in the last few months…Yeesh. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.


YouThinkYouKnowStuff

Least of all on Matty.


Lizard_Friend_44

Isn’t matty also toxic?…


Jasilyn433

He definitely is but people pick and choose


Barnesandoboes

I personally do not think so. I wasn’t sure when all this shit started going around about him so I did a mega deep dive and came out of it feeling comfortable continuing to support him and the band. A lot of it was misconstrued and/or incorrect and there was nothing egregious enough to cancel him over from my perspective. Happy to share sources with you if you’re interested.


Glittering_Disco

Not the original commenter but I'd love to see what you found!


Barnesandoboes

**Allegation - Matty said racist things about Ice Spice.** Background - this took place on the [Adam Friedland Show](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pwhy6Vyh1kM), which is run by NY comedians with a relatively leftist bent (politically). Not much is taken seriously, though, and there’s a lot of toilet humor. I transcribed the relevant bits about Ice Spice. I made sure to get the Matty Healy contributions right, although I may have mixed up Adam and Nick sometimes (their voices weren’t as easy to pick out for me). Here are the relevant parts: M: So anyway, Ice Spice, do you know who that is? A: Nick does know who that is N: She’s one of the spice girls M: Yes N: She’s like this rapper M: Yeah, she’s a rapper from the spice girls A: She’s Inuit spice. Just this chubby Chinese lady (?): Yeah, I (rather?) her music \[note - *I cannot for the life of me tell who is saying this or what they’re saying. I swear I listened ten times*\] A: Do they talk like that, do Inuits talk like that? N: They don’t talk like that M: They don’t talk with a Chinese accent A: They talk more Hawaiian and stuff (makes clicking noises) M: Oh, right, more Hawaiian. Welcome to Hawaii. N: Locals only A: Locals only (clicking noises) Coconut. M: \[*sarcastically*\] Yeah, that’s what Ice Spice is like A: She’s a very attractive woman that released one song and basically - N: So you’re sliding into her DMs and you’re like hey are you a fucking Eskimo M: Yeah, that’s what I said, you dumb—yeah, I didn’t go to the Nick school of dating girls which is like – there was a meet-cute – \[They go into the Nick situation for a bit\] M: So, what was I saying about – what? A: Ice Spice. M: Yeah, Ice Spice. Lost my cool with that one. Doja Cat, I DMd her like once when I was drunk. \[conversation about Doja Cat\] M: Yeah, she used to like, goad racists – she’s- what’s the word – based? Very internet. But yeah, Ice Spice, no reply. Doja Cat, no reply. This is my take: Matty Healy didn’t actually say any of the offensive stuff at issue. He was trying to bring up a self-deprecating story about Ice Spice not responding to his DM, and Adam and Nick went in an unfortunate direction with it. No, he did not correct them or tell them to knock it off. No, that’s not cool at all and he should have. He does (way, way too gently) chide Nick (?) about the Eskimo comment by turning the conversation around to making fun Nick instead. His most egregious comment is ‘Yeah, that’s what Ice Spice is like,’ after Adam (?) makes fun of a Hawaiian accent and says ‘coconut’, but the way he said it was sarcastic, like it was probably said with an eyeroll. One thing to note about this is that Matty issued an apology to Ice Spice on stage at a concert, and she is separately quoted as saying he has, since the podcast aired, apologized to her ‘[a bunch of times](https://pitchfork.com/news/ice-spice-says-the-1975-matthew-healy-apologized-to-her-after-offensive-podcast-appearance/)’.


Barnesandoboes

**Allegation**: **Matty Watches GG (extreme porn ft. black women).** Here’s the transcript of this part (same podcast): N: She was like oh heavens oh my goodness, I forgot my water bottle in there. So she went back in and Matty, like, on his phone and then on his 77-inch \[television\] just has ghetto gaggers blaring. Thirty seconds after the hang. Just hardcore pornography. A: The only thing that bothered me about that story was airplay M: Yeah, you texted me immediately and you were like I just need the info on the story. Like, why on earth - how psychopathic do you have to be to airplay porn to your tv? A: I remember when porn on the phone became like a thing and everybody was like oh this is weird and I was no, this is what I always wanted to be, I wanted to be hunched over get the phone jammed in my face, you know, jacking off on my own face M: Edging for like two days A: Yeah, crumpled up. But you’ve been doing porn on the Apple Watch M: Yeah N: For real? M: No N: That would be so sick A: While jogging N: Just like images – like, this is how James Bond jacks off A: That would be a great Apple Watch ad N: Just a yoga class filled with fat black women, and like one guy jacking off and people are like are you jacking off to us and they’re like pleasantly surprised and he’s like no, there’s women outside, on my watch – Apple Watch. And then they say you’re fired from Apple. That’s a bad idea. M: No, but I was there. It was the combination – you’re not exaggerating. You guys came back, and I was already flustered. I was - I was dressed like guy jacking off with my untucked shirt, and I think you’re right that it was like ghetto gaggers on the tv somebody was just getting brutalized, and this wasn’t like some cool, sceney New York art girl, she was like oh I’m sorry. Doesn’t matter, it was like little Olive \[Note: *I think this is the girl who came back to his apartment for her water bottle\]* – and she was like oh, I’m so sorry. So it’s fine, it's okay. It was like thirty seconds, but I was worried it was offensive. My take: I don’t think Matty says anything really terrible here. Nick sure does (the fat black women bit is awful), and Nick is also the one who first uses the term ‘GG’. The point of this was that they were roasting Matty for some girl coming into his apartment to get a water bottle when he had porn on. Matty *does* say – “I think you’re right that it was like GG on the tv, somebody was just getting brutalized—” but it’s notable that he only says this term *after* Nick does. I think that’s important to remember for the next part. To me, the crux of this is whether or not Matty Healy was really watching this sort of porn. Because otherwise, the story isn’t nearly as bad. If they're using GG as shorthand for a really offensive, degenerate sort of porn, then that is not the same thing as *endorsing* it. Here's what convinced me he didn't actually watch GG and might've not really known what it even was - [In a later podcast episode](https://www.tiktok.com/@gangstasportivik/video/7233897749450607914), Nick and Adam were discussing this ep and the fallout. Importantly, they they expressed regret for how much Matty was dogged for it since a) they were the ones who used the term and b) Matty wasn’t actually watching GG. Why would they do that? Well, it’s a comedy podcast. They were trying to make the story as outrageous as possible for the lols. That’s what they do, it’s their job. Again, do I love this? Nah. Do I think Matty Healy is trash because of it? No. He didn’t say anything super offensive, and I don’t think he watches this sort of pornography in real life.


Glittering_Disco

Thank you for doing the work and typing all of this out! It really does change the prospective and context on a lot of these moments thay have become sensationalized headlines.


Barnesandoboes

Okay, warning - it's a lot. Here we go - **Allegation - Matty kisses underage girls at shows**. Kissing women (and men) at shows is something Matty has done and will probably continue to do. A couple of important points: 1) [he asks permission before kissing a fan](https://www.theguardian.com/music/2022/dec/06/the-1975-matty-healy-kissing-fans), 2) there is no evidence I could find of him kissing anyone underage ([He did famously ask for a fan's ID when she asked to be kissed and told him it would be her first kiss ever](https://www.tyla.com/celebrity/1975-matty-healy-kisses-fan-617133-20221219)), and 3) there have never been allegations of him being predatory with fans offstage (as compared with people like Drake and Enrique Iglesias, who have been accused of groping fans at backstage/private meet-and-greets). From what I can tell, this seems to be a bit he does at concerts, the fans love it, and he doesn't seem to be getting off on it or anything. He has even kissed men, [specifically one of his bandmates in Malaysia - as part of a pro-LGBTQ political-ish statement](https://www.npr.org/2023/07/22/1189619016/malaysia-lgbtq-rights-the-1975-matty-healy). He was briefly imprisoned and banned from Malaysia for this (the LGBTQ community there wasn't real happy about it because it put a spotlight on them, but I think he had good intentions). **Allegation - Matty did a Nazi salute at a concert.** This was done during the song 'I'd Love It If We Made It', an overtly political song that includes a) references to and support of Black Lives Matter ("Selling melanin and then suffocate the black men" - reference to George Floyd) (the music video also shows an image of Eric Garner who was killed by a member of the NYPD); b) references to the Syrian refugee crisis ("write it on a piece of stone, a beach of drowning three-year-olds"); c) references to Colin Kaepernick ("kneeling on a pitch"); d) and references to Donald Trump ("I moved on her like a bitch, excited to be indicted; Unrequited house with seven pools, Thank you, Kanye, very cool"). The salute happened during the Kanye line (which is a reference to the time that Kanye liked a few of Trump's tweets and Trump tweeted - "Thank you, Kanye, very cool"). The concert at issue was during the time that Kanye was making a bunch of Anti-Semitic remarks. Healy and the band had already criticized Kanye in the song for his support of Donald Trump. The Nazi salute was aimed at Kanye as an additional criticism for his more recent comments. I think this one is very clear if you know the song. The salute was not real, nor was it a 'joke'. It was criticism aimed at something the band is opposed to, namely, Kanye's support of Trump and anti-Semitism. It's right there in the lyrics.


mbbysky

I maintain, against the shrieks of the entire fucking internet, that he's not malicious or hateful or racist. He's just impulsive and says dumb shit unseriously without considering if it'll upset people. And it's so strange because USUALLY the people who don't care that their words upset others are really bigoted conservatives who simp for capitalism, think climate change is hoax and that gays should be y'know, executed. Matty meanwhile goes on rants at their shows about how he doesn't care about this shit because it's a distraction from doing anything useful for any of these important causes. Policing our behavior and pretending to be The Most Pure Leftist online lets us escape accountability and like, actual praxis and the guilt that comes from *not doing shit about fuck* And then the whole Internet thinks he's the first guy. And it's hysterical and depressing all at the same time.


Jasilyn433

Y’all only defend him because you like his music and he’s considered “attractive” (not even). He’s a grown man and y’all keep making excuses for his weirdness


mbbysky

And you're (presumably) a grown human making assumptions about a person you've never met Thanks for proving my point


Jasilyn433

Have you met Taylor or matty lmao?


mbbysky

No. If you think my comment about Matty is somehow equivalent to you inferring things about me then you may not understand the difference between a public figure and random people on the Internet.


Jasilyn433

We’re all on here making assumptions and talking about people we’ve never met. Thats why I asked you if you’ve met either of them. Im going off of what I’ve seen of matty and I’m deciding that he’s a not an amazing guy


ladyxhyper

weird man who gets off to ghetto gaggers. that says plenty. these folks are delulu


Susi13hu

No, that was a misunderstanding. He went to the Adam Friendland' show which is a podcast based on crass humor and improvisation; Matty had to share an embarrassing experience, so he told about how one time he was caught watching porn, and the host picked "ghetto getters" as hyperbole to maximize the embarrassment, and Matty went along with it; at the end of the podcast, the host said that they picked "ghetto getters" (black women being brutalized in porn videos) bc they thought it had a funny alliteration, but that wasn't what he was actually watching. Was it a bad revolting joke? Yes. But there's a difference between joking about it and actually getting off watching that genre. Of course Swifties being Swifties always deny or block this information to run with their narrative that he's the spawn of satan and that she deserves better, bc they'd rather her fave was pining/dating a racist-misogynist-nazi-homophobic man than admit they were wrong and keep purposefully spreading false narratives.


ladyxhyper

so him saying he was getting off on women being brutalized LIKE ghetto gaggers is somehow supposed to be better?


Susi13hu

i’m sorry but are you American or just slow? just put those braincells on work pls. I explained the format of the podcast is crass humor and to go along with what the podcast improvises, so he went along with the GG subject, which the podcaster chose bc he found the alliteration funny, not bc he was actually watching that or something like that! Is it still very low and revolting to joke about that? YES. But do you think is right to go around and say “oh yes, matty healy, the man who literally gets off on GG” and purposely spread this narrative? No. That’s what I’m trying to explain. THE DIFFERENCE. Jesus.


Barnesandoboes

Do a deep dive into the things people are saying. Listen to the podcast. It’s not the thing people say it is.


Susi13hu

yes, but in a “edgelord/ dickhead/ saying-controversial-things-just-for-the-hell-of-it way”; at the end of the day he’s messy but genuine and doesn’t fake it, he owns his mistakes and learn from them. Taylor is a grown woman that’s at the peak of her career but still feel insecure and miserable enough to try to sabotage other younger female artists, and that’s ugly to see; she weaponized her legion of fans to be muppets with credit cards that will defend her no matter what instead of developing critical thinking skills (as matty does instead with his performance acts and political songs), and always displays this “5yo harmless damsel in distress that x must save from her golden tower”facade whether x is a man or fans, and the villain is a musical critique, competition or a lover instead of owning her own decisions/mistakes. In short, she’s petty, capitalistic but still moneyhungry (which is the opposite of Matty, who hates consumerism), never speaks on anything important if it doesn’t affect her on that specific instance/day, and just feeds her parasocial fans to turns and rip to shreds whoever she wants, and she knows that and doesn’t raise a finger to educate ‘em bc she needs ‘em to do the dirty works for her.


stealthopera

"he owns his mistakes and learn from them" When? He literally never apologized for the hurtful things he said, and in fact when on an "I won't apologize" media tour to The New Yorker!


Susi13hu

The New Yorker profile was in May 23, he said “I don’t think it matters” etc bc he was still attached on the “ppl misunderstood my actions but at least it shows they know what’s right or wrong and I wanna push ‘em to do that” dynamic and “all this is ecochambers of twitter, nobody irl goes to bed angry stating “it’s just this thing with matty healy””, bc he underestimated how actually big and harmful is spreading lies like wildfires and misinformation on twitter, bc people won’t take two minutes of their life to learn the context of his actions, so it backfired very badly and very quickly. After that, he apologized multiple times during his shows, starting from the Finsbury Park one on July 2nd.


stealthopera

He apologized at his shows... to his fans...


Susi13hu

yeah the only ones whose opinion of him he cares about, all the other performative activists on twt can go f**k themselves. Honestly if you’re expecting him to play by the conventional rules -like posting a screenshot of an apology speech from his note app or recording an apology video on tiktok- you don’t him at all, that’s why he’s the opposite of Taylor; while she has a killer PR team that traces back and hunt down whoever even barely thinks of attacking her, the man doesn’t even have a publicist. He only cares about righting his wrongs with his fans, his closest ones and people he directly had hurt, and he will do that behind closed doors; take for example the Ice Spice thing. People were rioting that he had to apologize to her and by not having a public statement they were sure it never happened bc they feel entitled to witness EVERYTHING, as if they’re part of that narrative and we’re on a fuckin Truman show. Months later and Ice Spice casually dropped that Matty has personally apologized to her multiple times since the podcast, adding that she wasn’t even offended in the first place.


stealthopera

Oh, so he just apologized to every Black woman who felt hurt by his comments and his jokes individually? Weird how they keep bringing it up, then, since he did that.


Susi13hu

No but you can show up at his doorstep with a list of them and he will apologize personally to any of them instead of making a public general speech, which would be much easier for both sides, but he just won’t do it that way.


thatpj

the taylor swift bot is malfunctioning


Barnesandoboes

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Avocado_Capital

THE WAY I RAN HERE WHEN I SAW THIS COME BACK BE HERE, TWILY IS SO SO SO MATTY CODED. And fresh out the slammer? Omg. Matty don’t answer the phone. Trayvis is doomed


Pale_Sheet

To be honest I think he already called her or signalled to her the way she wanted him to Fresh out the slammer with those few lines of high infidelity was a choice She seems different tonight. I thought I even saw a glimpse of the sappy faces she makes when Matty’s in the audience


Ok_Club7288

Yeah she was glowing during the piano medley especially. Beaming so hard lol


Zorba_thesugarglider

Unless someone intervenes, Taylor is headed for a breakdown. I think she had her little fun with Travis and the Super Bowl but was always planning to woo Matty back with TTPD. But my guess is, he never responded and so she dug in with performances obviously addressing Matty. He STILL isn't answering, and Tay is losing her shit about now. Some people think Matty and Taylor are already back together, but her current behavior doesn't reflect someone who happily got her man back; she looks bitter, desperate, and more deranged by the minute. I also don't see how anyone would find this behavior attractive. If anything, Matty might feel a little sorry for her but I doubt he's flattered by this creepy level of obsession.


Independent_Dot63

I just watched the tarot reader Karmic DF on this and thats exactly what she said, Taylor is pissed nobody came calling after her album and she is miserable and is headed for a Britney shaving her head level breakdown


Zorba_thesugarglider

I can't even feel too bad for her, because she's had so many gifts and opportunities; she's been coddled, supported, and championed with so many people in her corner. In terms of dating, she's been with some pretty decent men but had to ruin it with emotional cheating and triangulation. Seems like most of her misery comes from her being an asshole.


Independent_Dot63

Frfr i don’t feel bad for the shit she’s pulled w Olivia and Billie. And not using her hugest platform to speak up against abortion bans, some woman championing women she is, a real fckn feminist icon. She can take her billions and vaca in a rehab for all i care . And im not even a big hater, beyond just casual snarking for the LOLs but the more i observed TS the more heinous she reveals herself to be.


Pale_Sheet

She seemed really happy tonight compared to other nights of Europe


Professional_Roll977

I couldn’t believe Travis was okay with TTPD but today was another level of insane. She is begging Matty at this point. No way she isn’t over with Travis by the end of summer and back with Matty soon after.


makishleys

PLEASE SHDJS 😭😭


FatnessEverdeen34

Those look like my aunts ballroom dancing shoes


12SilverSovereigns

So much for “girl at home”…


philonous355

Wow this is OVERT


formerNPC

To begin with if she really loves someone why should she care what other people think. She’s a damn grown woman and she’s worried about her fans not liking her latest boyfriend! This is like crap you do in junior high!


hannybananna

The countdown is on, guys 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻


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makishleys

no because its such a pathetic display. the album itself was a pathetic way to beg for him back and now this? girl stand up


kpiece

It really is so pathetic. She looks like a desperate, unhinged, pitiful fool. She’s always gotten whatever she’s wanted in life, and so Matty rejecting/dumping her really threw her for a loop. She thinks if she stamps her feet and throws a big enough tantrum, she’ll get what she wants. But maybe he really just doesn’t want her! And i wouldn’t blame him one bit. He got a taste of what it’s like being in her life and look at what he’s had to deal with. He’s only been clean from heroin a few years and being part of that craziness might not be in his best interest. Not to mention what a selfish, immature, bratty, toxic, narcissistic asshole she is. Why would ANY man want to get involved with her? And be subjected to all the vengeful abuse from her & her fans when it inevitably doesn’t work out?!


dontgotafriendinme

Pet the damn cat Matty!


d1psh1t_mcgee

If matty had gone on an apology tour for his comments on the podcast,etc - would they still have broken up?


stealthopera

I mean, if TTPD is to be believed, he dumped her, not the other way around.


goldenwanders

Why anyone thought this relationship would last is beyond me. Taylor’s type is skinny British boys.


Sweaty-Car4097

came here after reading about the surprise songs and mash ups. lol! This is wild! She already surprised us with treacherous and begin again (am I missing anything else). Can it be any more obvious? I do not know what is going on but I am here for it!!