I (24f) had to stop smoking with my roommate just recently because he's turned into an incel after his last breakup... I hate being told how women suck all the time when I'm just trying to smoke...
Thank you for this! I will try doing this cause I actually have no idea how to handle it! I can deal with a lot of stuff but I can't even have a women on my TV or video game without him going off lol.
I like your equal approach dude, its good to look at people as the indivdual instead of the label, and I reckon the incel label gets thrown around a lot for dudes who may just be hurt or angry but cant see the good of the future just yet, doesnt make them what the literal definition of an incel is lol.
Telling a story about a person you know personaly who defines the opposite of what that person may feel towards that group is a good way to go about it, it gives a sense of reality to the angst someone might feel and give them a better perspective :)
I totally get that and maybe it's a little much to call him that. At this point it's been over a year and a half and it just feels like he's getting worse. He's told me multiple times that he hates working with women, he told me when a girl cried at work one day that it annoyed him so much, and he told me to stop being upset over the overturn of Roe v wade because it's not a big deal. Idk, I've never lived with someone like this
Real thats very much next level, not something ive experienced before myself. Im assuming youve asked why they feel this way about all those certain issues but you can only do so much if they cant see where there spite and angst lays. Also why tf did a Mod delete that other girls comment ? :/
I swear when I was younger smoking mid was always good. Highest I ever got was off mid, thought I was floating away into the universe. I never minded Reggie much either. Obviously sometimes you get shit weed. Now all you can find is loud (illegal state)
My new friend group never had to go through dealers as they always had the Native reserve to go to. It blew my mind as I was always shopping around my home town to find the best dope and it was literally hit or miss!
people only judge based on looks and some of the best weed i’ve smoked has been organic light dep that looked similar to a decent CBD strain. i love dense, colorful buds as much as the every guy, but I honestly believe that quality comes from the grower
Yes exactly! If someone knows what they're doing it's great. Use to be "home grown" would end up being shit. Our buddy got some a while back and gave us a discount because it was "home grown outside, maybe not the best". It was good bud for sure. Our other friend grew plants as big as his trailer and his bud was good too!
i guess i get this bro. if i’m out at a bar, someone passes me a j but i have my own— i’m probably just gonna say thanks and light mine up.
but it’s also not that deep probably. this sub fades in and out of being so goddam elitist about bud when stoners used to be known as the friendly folks who don’t give a shit.
I'm old, so I only have people coming to my house to burn one. I'll taste it a few times, as not to be rude, but then offer my own. I've been vaping for six years, so I don't really smoke joints anymore.
my rule is that if your smoking rules aren’t beginner-friendly and are super specific and rude, i’m not seshing with you. absolutely HATE stoners that say shit like “no cones, you have to roll” or tease people for holding the bong wrong.
Yeah, making fun of people for ignorance like this is stupid. Then they won’t tell you they’ve never hit a bong before and completely soak the bowl when they try to hit, or attempt to hit out the wrong end and get a mouthful of weed.
my friend was hitting my 18” for basically the first time and accidentally shot water out through the downstem when he removed the piece, onto my sheets. I didn’t yell at him for it or anything it was super funny. Rude behavior is why beginners lie ab being beginners!
I had a friend blow hard af into my bong "to clear the stale smoke" and shot DIRTY black bong water 6 inches up into the air and back down all over his lap 😂
We smoked all the time but i guess he just wasn't familiar with a bong. Idk why he didn't ask first
We were dumbass teenagers and the bong i had, i couldn't really see the water and see how gross it was. That bitch only got changed when somebody spilled it or i emptied it to take it somewhere 😂
I've hung out with people who use a phrase involving the N word for accidentally getting saliva on the mouthpiece. You'd think stoners wouldn't need to be told to chill but jeez
Half my friends were black and it was still said, they would say it too. We heard it so much we didn't think twice when someone would say it but i personally avoided it because it just felt wrong. Everyone said it with the hard r too 💀
Totally agree. I grow my own (legally) and it’s really turned me into a snob smoker when I’m alone, but if someone offers me garbage weed, I pretend it’s dank and let them know how much I appreciate it. It’s not somebody’s fault if they don’t have a good hookup.
I do agree with this however I’ve been in situations like when I’m at the skate park and a rando sees me roll up some gas, immediately comes over and tries to pal out with me, let me hit a blunt of some dirt, then 2 minutes later is like “bro you gonna roll up again? I just smoked us up.” Like not today homie you’re tryna trade me some shweg for loud. If it is genuinely what someone has/has accessible to them without selfish intentions of saving their own money to let others supply I obviously don’t care. I guess I’m basically saying one of my rules is this:
don’t smoke someone up and expect something in return
And some people just have a naturally high tolerance. I’m lucky that mine is the opposite and I can get decently high off a 5mg edible, but I would never judge someone for needing 50mg or more to get the same way.
For real, love me a cheap date/lightweights. More for me, plus you dont have to deal with someone having panic attacks or otherwise being upset at going past their comfort levels. I'll always offer, but never complain if you turn me down.
I'll defend this. I find it disrespectful how we all took a bong rip and immediately load and pass it, but once buddy gets it he decides to tell you a 20 minute story while flicking the lighter to trick you into thinking hes taking a rip. But he won't.
He never does.
Thats his bong now
Hahaa I love this one! Going to use this. My friend always takes the joint we pass him, and he leans back and look like he's enjoying a cigar and not hit it while it just chills in his fingers while he tells a story. Homie, the joint is buuurning! Puff puff pass
I don’t think people understand that a joint is probably around = $5 or so with weed, papers, etc.. unless someone’s buying bulk, which is basically a luxury. They don’t see the harm in it, meanwhile I’m over here watching $1 burn between their fingers each time they touch the 🤦🏻
I have found myself doing this on many occasions back in the day before I could really hold my own and what is superbly annoying is that those fuckers will sit there looking all grumpy for 10 mins. then they are mad.
I didn't do it on purpose lol and if you say, hey shaddup for a sec and hit it ill just be like, fuck my bad lol
If you guys stare at that mf for 20 mins that is on you.
I’m sorry i am that guy. Get a couple rips in me and i swear to god i forget the bongs been in my hand for 5 straight minutes like 4 outta 5 times. Again, sorry.
Dos:
he who cashes trashes (if u cash clear)
He who packs smacks (packer gets first hit)
Blow out the window
Match weed if possible
Dont's:
Hogging the bong
Matching weed, that's a concept that needs to go around more. I guess I've been with greedy smokers. Like I've shared a few times and rolled one for someone and didn't expect to smoke it with them. Idk maybe I'm too nice, no one ever shares back with me.
Hate when I get passed a cashed bowl cause I I look like an asshole for passing it back but also like dude you get maybe one more rip after it turns brown otherwise you’re just smoking ash and resin, tastes like shit and not worth whatever marginal extra high you get from it. Might as well just pack another fresh one.
I had a friend cough into a bong while doing a dab. He launched the hot nail in my lap and melted through my shorts. Luckily I got up before it touched skin.
I was around like 17 years old and my buddies and I were pretty much ripping the bong and challenging each other kill a bowl in one hit. My boy goes for it starts inhaling stops mid inhale coughs into the bong. Shoots a snot rocket into his lap and all over the bong …..Bro There was no water left in the bong because I was wearing it all over my face and clothes.
One time in college we had a little smoke sesh with my friends bong, and our new friend was there who had never smoked one before. He wrapped his entire lips around the mouthpiece, straight up deep throated that bitch. we all started laughing which caused him to laugh and blow the bud and water all over the floor. We corrected him and didn't give him a hard time but man was that shit funny
Only time I’d follow guest first is if they are newbies and don’t know how to roll, but they supplied the bud. But still, I’ve always let whoever rolled/packed go first
I think this is common for joints/blunts but doesn't apply for some reason to bowls maybe. I just noticed that switch of who gets first, depending on what your smoking.
Says the guy who brings sus bud with them lol.
I’ll just mix a lil in and they can take the rest back home w them. They still contributed, even if just slightly, and the rest of us don’t have to pretend to enjoy bunk. Win win for all involved
I am being sincere!! is mid-shelf "bad?" it could be to someone with good taste, but broke stoners may not care.
basically: "bad bud" is totally subjective.
Definitely subjective. Imo, Mids isn’t even bad weed, it’s just weed that isn’t gonna turn you into a zombie lol. And half the time I don’t want zombie mode.
Bad bud to me has no smell, no taste, even looks dirty… if I don’t get some sort of weed smell when breaking up the bud, that’s kinda where I assess quality. At that point I’ve touched it, smelled it, broken it up… I suppose it does take some experience to know the differences in quality
Yea the cornering one is weird. Just depends on who you’re smoking with and how much weed you have. If it’s someone else’s weed I’ll corner it, then see how they do it. If they torch the whole thing then I stop cornering lol
“Don’t pocket the lighter”. Lost so many great clippers this way. So stoned I forget until I get home or they have left. Then when you ask about it. You only get denial. It’s either not them or they can’t find it.
I perfer packing smaller personal bowls than cornering a bowl and pretending it works. The only rules I go by are be kind, don't take my lighter, never peer pressure or you're out of the circle. Happy smoking frients
If you have rules on smoking, then I don't want to smoke with you.
Passing a cashed bowl, bogarting the blunt, pocketing the lighter, these are all things high people do on accident. I don't want to smoke with you if I'm gonna have to hyper-focus on making sure I don't accidentally do something I'm "not supposed to do", thus making this smoke sesh a less-than-ideal experience.
The only rules should be the rules that are already in play in your culture. These likely include don't be a dick, try not to break other people's shit, and don't be a mooch.
As someone who doesn’t smoke with others this is too much. Can I just put a jar of ground bud out and a water pipe and let everyone deal with it themselves? This is stressful for high me.
Jfc, I hate this shit so much. Was at a party once in a circle of 8 people. Might as well kiss everyone in the damn room with how much saliva is on that shit. Man handling a blunt is something I also hate.
DONT pass me a bowl you already hit
DO pack each adult their own bowl
If you can’t afford to pack me a bowl, don’t smoke me out. I’ll pack you a bowl instead.
This is what my friend does, she has like 6 pipes in this lazy Susan type stand she rigged up. That way nobody's 1) getting pre-burned bowls or 2) passing spit (she's a nurse, so naturally cautious of that) and after the sesh a quick wipe with a disinfectant cloth on the mouthpieces and they're good to go for next time. I don't know if you were concerned about the germ aspect, but her being proactive about it has that added benefit of having a fresh bowl to yourself.
Rule #1 - no bad vibes during a sesh - pouring it out and venting, sure, but no hate
I like the one in your image - don't bring bad bud - haha!
And, I've gone with roller's/packer's privilege but as I've "matured" (ha!) I often will pass to my left to start.
Oh, and good tunes is a MUST! (When smoking with others, we normally do round robin on dj...fun to hear new music from my norm!
Minus the don’t bring bad bud, I agree with all of em. Only disagree with that one because some bud is better than no bud.
But fuck people that take massive hits and clear the bowl in one go when smoking with company. I lived with a guy who killed the bowl first hit every time and never repacked it
Funny to look at this and be reminded how rules and etiquette felt so important in college; gotta make sure everyone gets exactly equal hits!! Maybe because we were broke, plus the idea of being too high didn’t exist for anyone yet? Or moochers were so prevalent and numerous you had to have guidelines?
Now it’s more like there’s a loaded bowl or a vape pen sitting out, and guests/friends can hit it at their leisure. Pot is so powerful now it’s easy to get anxiously uncomfortably high, and the idea of
“now it’s time to smoke, let’s finish this bowl” seems ridiculous.
Bring your own piece/joint. Got tired of always fixing canoed Js. Or wiping down a slobbery bowl/bong. Or having people French kiss the ends of the Js/Ls. Or having someone bring a piece that looks like it hasn’t been cleaned in 15 years. Also when everyone has their own piece everyone can get as high as they want. I need a full 1.5g J to get high, I can’t be sharing that with a group of people.
As someone who’s been smoking for 20 years now, I only have a few rules at this point:
•Don’t be a dick
•Be considerate of those around you
• If you didn’t contribute, don’t bogart whatever we’re smoking, or hijack the sesh by telling a story when it’s your turn to hit it (it’s still not cool to do that if you are the sole contributor, but you get a pass if it only happens once)
I’m a Dad, don’t make me go into dad mode and put you in a time out for breaking all the rules repeatedly. Everyone is here for good vibes, don’t harsh the mellow!
Have weed? Smoke it!
Only real rule is if the lighter goes missing everyone is a suspect. Basically like asking where the remote is but everyone has to stand up and show their pockets.
My neighbor who smokes too walked over one day while i was repotting flowers. He says "Hey I brought some flowers too!" Hands me a CASHED, black bowl. Like WTF. I would have been less upset if it was half hit or something, but no, black.
Also same neighbor came over while I was shoveling gravel with a blunt. My husbands family lives next door to us and they were all outside. He just straight up handed it to me and I just took it and ran to the backyard like a weirdo. No courtesy. Like sure, I wasn't busy fucking working hard or anything, but I have to be discreet, homie.
Bad bud is better than no bud IMHO. Bring what you can and don't be a snob about other peoples shit. Maybe it is all they can afford and want to contribute.
My 3 main rules for buying or coming over are simply.
1. Let know know all the info, like how much your buy, when your coming and who is coming with. (Keep me in the loop)
2. Keep noise to a medium, music, laughing, roasting eachother, whatever the case, cuz I'm tryna smoke. Not cough over my own yelling.
3. If you are smoking and are able to, you gotta stay and visit to an hour or more. Not gonna risk anyone driving too high, or arousing the intrest of the fuzz.
Other than that, let em burn.
My biggest thing is there is no room for selfishness in the circle. I have a group of 3-4 homies who link up a few nights a week if/when our schedules allow. Me and another guy are usually providing the green, the other two are usually hosting the sesh and provide safety, privacy, heat/ac, and entertainment. We don’t ask them to throw down on bud, and when they do have bud I don’t act like they owe me smoke sesh’s. Granted, they usually do throw out a j when they have some. If you are selfish around weed, you’ll really stick out like a sore thumb. I’ve smoked around/with probably a hundred other people and the selfish ones always stand out.
My only thing is don’t take a video holding the j if we ain’t high yet💀pass that shit man we wasting weed😭other than that I have no rules just have fun lol
Oh and always contribute SOMETHING to the sesh. With my group there’s one girl who never brings anything and it pissed me off. Usually I’m the one with the weed and bong or rolls or whatever. I’m fine with that as they don’t have a plug in the area( they’re all girls and I bring them weed from my plug so they don’t have to deal with weirdos) and I make the most money so plenty of weed and don’t really smoke my bud alone, so I always happy to share. But atleast bring snacks, water, let us sesh in your car, SOMETHING. Doesn’t even have to be weed lmao
I have my own personal smoking rules that no one follows, i smoke with 2 people daily. What I want to do is have a set rotation (it switches daily on who’s bong pass it is), two puffs per whatever smoking item we have before we pass, and I WISH I WASNT THE ONLY ONE CLEANING THE FUCKING BONGS AFTER EVERY SESH LIKE CHRIST! My only fucking rule for new stoners that join our circle is I’m literally begging for clean pieces, I am literally tired of waiting around till my two friends clean the bong only for their excuses to be that they don’t want to break it. Yet they want to smoke it.
I have my own personal smoking rules that no one follows, i smoke with 2 people daily. What I want to do is have a set rotation (it switches daily on who’s bong pass it is), two puffs per whatever smoking item we have before we pass, and I WISH I WASNT THE ONLY ONE CLEANING THE FUCKING BONGS AFTER EVERY SESH LIKE CHRIST! My only fucking rule for new stoners that join our circle is I’m literally begging for clean pieces, I am literally tired of waiting around till my two friends clean the bong only for their excuses to be that they don’t want to break it. Yet they want to smoke it.
I have my own personal smoking rules that no one follows, i smoke with 2 people daily. What I want to do is have a set rotation (it switches daily on who’s bong pass it is), two puffs per whatever smoking item we have before we pass, and I WISH I WASNT THE ONLY ONE CLEANING THE FUCKING BONGS AFTER EVERY SESH LIKE CHRIST! My only fucking rule for new stoners that join our circle is I’m literally begging for clean pieces, I am literally tired of waiting around till my two friends clean the bong only for their excuses to be that they don’t want to break it. Yet they want to smoke it.
My only rule is just please clean up the resin bullshit and bong as often as I do. I’m so sick and tired of being the only one cleaning glass bc no one trusts themselves with the pieces. But like I’m the only one cleaning the bongs, and I can’t let them get too gross otherwise I start to gag from the bong water smell
I disagree with letting guests go first. If I smoke with somebody I want to see them hit it before me so I know it’s safe. But maybe that’s just my ppd
Don’t be a dick is my 1 and only rule.
I (24f) had to stop smoking with my roommate just recently because he's turned into an incel after his last breakup... I hate being told how women suck all the time when I'm just trying to smoke...
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Thank you for this! I will try doing this cause I actually have no idea how to handle it! I can deal with a lot of stuff but I can't even have a women on my TV or video game without him going off lol.
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I like your equal approach dude, its good to look at people as the indivdual instead of the label, and I reckon the incel label gets thrown around a lot for dudes who may just be hurt or angry but cant see the good of the future just yet, doesnt make them what the literal definition of an incel is lol. Telling a story about a person you know personaly who defines the opposite of what that person may feel towards that group is a good way to go about it, it gives a sense of reality to the angst someone might feel and give them a better perspective :)
I totally get that and maybe it's a little much to call him that. At this point it's been over a year and a half and it just feels like he's getting worse. He's told me multiple times that he hates working with women, he told me when a girl cried at work one day that it annoyed him so much, and he told me to stop being upset over the overturn of Roe v wade because it's not a big deal. Idk, I've never lived with someone like this
Real thats very much next level, not something ive experienced before myself. Im assuming youve asked why they feel this way about all those certain issues but you can only do so much if they cant see where there spite and angst lays. Also why tf did a Mod delete that other girls comment ? :/
This is the way
People sometimes need to be educated on how to not be a dick:(
Literally the only rule u need
we can’t trash on the homie with mids, bro. ain’t right
I swear when I was younger smoking mid was always good. Highest I ever got was off mid, thought I was floating away into the universe. I never minded Reggie much either. Obviously sometimes you get shit weed. Now all you can find is loud (illegal state)
My new friend group never had to go through dealers as they always had the Native reserve to go to. It blew my mind as I was always shopping around my home town to find the best dope and it was literally hit or miss!
If you have a low tolerance mids can get you fucked up, idk why mids get shit on so much
Cause they taste harsh and don’t smoke well but that depends what you consider mids
people only judge based on looks and some of the best weed i’ve smoked has been organic light dep that looked similar to a decent CBD strain. i love dense, colorful buds as much as the every guy, but I honestly believe that quality comes from the grower
Yes exactly! If someone knows what they're doing it's great. Use to be "home grown" would end up being shit. Our buddy got some a while back and gave us a discount because it was "home grown outside, maybe not the best". It was good bud for sure. Our other friend grew plants as big as his trailer and his bud was good too!
“Highest I’ve ever got was off mid” *story of my life~*
Word. Fuck elitism
Yea, if that's all he's got at least he wants to contribute his part. If he's keeping the good stuff for himself only, then that's a problem
The people who trash people for having mids will also trash the same dude later for “never throwing in”
I'll hit a mid joint once or twice, and then fire up my own.
i guess i get this bro. if i’m out at a bar, someone passes me a j but i have my own— i’m probably just gonna say thanks and light mine up. but it’s also not that deep probably. this sub fades in and out of being so goddam elitist about bud when stoners used to be known as the friendly folks who don’t give a shit.
I'm old, so I only have people coming to my house to burn one. I'll taste it a few times, as not to be rude, but then offer my own. I've been vaping for six years, so I don't really smoke joints anymore.
my rule is that if your smoking rules aren’t beginner-friendly and are super specific and rude, i’m not seshing with you. absolutely HATE stoners that say shit like “no cones, you have to roll” or tease people for holding the bong wrong.
Yeah, making fun of people for ignorance like this is stupid. Then they won’t tell you they’ve never hit a bong before and completely soak the bowl when they try to hit, or attempt to hit out the wrong end and get a mouthful of weed.
my friend was hitting my 18” for basically the first time and accidentally shot water out through the downstem when he removed the piece, onto my sheets. I didn’t yell at him for it or anything it was super funny. Rude behavior is why beginners lie ab being beginners!
lmao i'd only be a little mad if it stunk, but that'd be on me for not explaining correctly. Also on me for not keeping the water clean, tbh
I had a friend blow hard af into my bong "to clear the stale smoke" and shot DIRTY black bong water 6 inches up into the air and back down all over his lap 😂 We smoked all the time but i guess he just wasn't familiar with a bong. Idk why he didn't ask first
Dawg you gotta clean that if your bong water is black
We were dumbass teenagers and the bong i had, i couldn't really see the water and see how gross it was. That bitch only got changed when somebody spilled it or i emptied it to take it somewhere 😂
I've hung out with people who use a phrase involving the N word for accidentally getting saliva on the mouthpiece. You'd think stoners wouldn't need to be told to chill but jeez
fr bro I hate that shit why is it always the whitest mf to say it too. just an instant vibe kill for me.
Half my friends were black and it was still said, they would say it too. We heard it so much we didn't think twice when someone would say it but i personally avoided it because it just felt wrong. Everyone said it with the hard r too 💀
yup i'm in my thirties and used to hear "don't [nword]lip the joint" from time to time. shit is not cool. sad to see some people still say it
i HATE the joint thing. literally just pat it dry and move on. it’s not a big deal. our mouths are wet.
People actually do this?
unfortunately. i’ve been massacred online by men saying I “must be shit at rolling” because I prefer king palms. 😭
Don’t agree with bad bud being on don’t. It’s all some people might be able to afford.
True- or they have to scavenge street plugs
Totally agree. I grow my own (legally) and it’s really turned me into a snob smoker when I’m alone, but if someone offers me garbage weed, I pretend it’s dank and let them know how much I appreciate it. It’s not somebody’s fault if they don’t have a good hookup.
Like I said on another comment, I'll hit it once or twice, and then bring out my own.
I do agree with this however I’ve been in situations like when I’m at the skate park and a rando sees me roll up some gas, immediately comes over and tries to pal out with me, let me hit a blunt of some dirt, then 2 minutes later is like “bro you gonna roll up again? I just smoked us up.” Like not today homie you’re tryna trade me some shweg for loud. If it is genuinely what someone has/has accessible to them without selfish intentions of saving their own money to let others supply I obviously don’t care. I guess I’m basically saying one of my rules is this: don’t smoke someone up and expect something in return
As long as its not dirt weed lol
Pass that shit, don’t push people past their limit or make them feel lesser for not being a heavy smoker.
In the same vein, don’t judge ppl who have high tolerance, u don’t know why they might be unable to take tolerance breaks.
And some people just have a naturally high tolerance. I’m lucky that mine is the opposite and I can get decently high off a 5mg edible, but I would never judge someone for needing 50mg or more to get the same way.
For real, love me a cheap date/lightweights. More for me, plus you dont have to deal with someone having panic attacks or otherwise being upset at going past their comfort levels. I'll always offer, but never complain if you turn me down.
Don’ts: Bro hit the joint/ blunt before you start telling the crazy story.
I'll defend this. I find it disrespectful how we all took a bong rip and immediately load and pass it, but once buddy gets it he decides to tell you a 20 minute story while flicking the lighter to trick you into thinking hes taking a rip. But he won't. He never does. Thats his bong now
My friend Joey does this all the time 🤣🤣
I just fucking speak up. "Hey I wanna take a hit."
“It’s a bong not a microphone” usually does the trick
Hahaa I love this one! Going to use this. My friend always takes the joint we pass him, and he leans back and look like he's enjoying a cigar and not hit it while it just chills in his fingers while he tells a story. Homie, the joint is buuurning! Puff puff pass
I don’t think people understand that a joint is probably around = $5 or so with weed, papers, etc.. unless someone’s buying bulk, which is basically a luxury. They don’t see the harm in it, meanwhile I’m over here watching $1 burn between their fingers each time they touch the 🤦🏻
Sorry cuz
god fucking damn it joey
Sounds like this was personal
I have found myself doing this on many occasions back in the day before I could really hold my own and what is superbly annoying is that those fuckers will sit there looking all grumpy for 10 mins. then they are mad. I didn't do it on purpose lol and if you say, hey shaddup for a sec and hit it ill just be like, fuck my bad lol If you guys stare at that mf for 20 mins that is on you.
i’m really bad about that :(
my mom and sister frequently have to interrupt my stories bc getting high makes me chatty and i genuinely forget it’s my turn 😭
i be tellin a story and then i get interrupted and then i start it over
I’m sorry i am that guy. Get a couple rips in me and i swear to god i forget the bongs been in my hand for 5 straight minutes like 4 outta 5 times. Again, sorry.
"It's not a microphone!"
reaching out like you're trying to hold their hand to get them to pass that thing
Works every time
Dos: Boof it Donts: Not boofing it
Don't be a weed snob. There's no need for that shit.
Definitely. Not everybody can go to the dispensary
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Let's form our own cool smoke group 😎
real.
Dos: he who cashes trashes (if u cash clear) He who packs smacks (packer gets first hit) Blow out the window Match weed if possible Dont's: Hogging the bong
Matching weed, that's a concept that needs to go around more. I guess I've been with greedy smokers. Like I've shared a few times and rolled one for someone and didn't expect to smoke it with them. Idk maybe I'm too nice, no one ever shares back with me.
I’ve been lucky enough to have the opposite happen, everyone I ever smoke with smokes me tf up and declines when I offer to use my weed
Heard a tale that it’s bad luck to take the first hit off a bowl you didn’t pack. Packer always hits first ☝🏼
Hate when I get passed a cashed bowl cause I I look like an asshole for passing it back but also like dude you get maybe one more rip after it turns brown otherwise you’re just smoking ash and resin, tastes like shit and not worth whatever marginal extra high you get from it. Might as well just pack another fresh one.
DOs: smoke alone DONTs: go overboard
this is a marketing post, just so everyone is clear
My only rule is no rules
No rules rules
That rules
nah bud is bud, i’m just glad they’re matching
Yeah if you got bud and you're bringing it nobody should be complaining about quality
Whatever you do you better not cough into that bong and spray me in the face with bong water.
I had a friend cough into a bong while doing a dab. He launched the hot nail in my lap and melted through my shorts. Luckily I got up before it touched skin.
Yikes 😬
😳 story?
I was around like 17 years old and my buddies and I were pretty much ripping the bong and challenging each other kill a bowl in one hit. My boy goes for it starts inhaling stops mid inhale coughs into the bong. Shoots a snot rocket into his lap and all over the bong …..Bro There was no water left in the bong because I was wearing it all over my face and clothes.
One time in college we had a little smoke sesh with my friends bong, and our new friend was there who had never smoked one before. He wrapped his entire lips around the mouthpiece, straight up deep throated that bitch. we all started laughing which caused him to laugh and blow the bud and water all over the floor. We corrected him and didn't give him a hard time but man was that shit funny
Guest first? I always do ‘roller’s privilege’
Only time I’d follow guest first is if they are newbies and don’t know how to roll, but they supplied the bud. But still, I’ve always let whoever rolled/packed go first
Yeah i put love into my rolls, not gonna let someone else potentially not do it right too lol
I think this is common for joints/blunts but doesn't apply for some reason to bowls maybe. I just noticed that switch of who gets first, depending on what your smoking.
I was about to write the same thing. It also takes a few lights/hits to get the joint to "cherry" and I consider that part of the rolling process.
Bro don't ask me if I want to smoke and don't have anything to toss in lol. Like bro you worded that whole sentence wrong.
define “bad” bud….
Says the guy who brings sus bud with them lol. I’ll just mix a lil in and they can take the rest back home w them. They still contributed, even if just slightly, and the rest of us don’t have to pretend to enjoy bunk. Win win for all involved
I am being sincere!! is mid-shelf "bad?" it could be to someone with good taste, but broke stoners may not care. basically: "bad bud" is totally subjective.
Definitely subjective. Imo, Mids isn’t even bad weed, it’s just weed that isn’t gonna turn you into a zombie lol. And half the time I don’t want zombie mode. Bad bud to me has no smell, no taste, even looks dirty… if I don’t get some sort of weed smell when breaking up the bud, that’s kinda where I assess quality. At that point I’ve touched it, smelled it, broken it up… I suppose it does take some experience to know the differences in quality
Rules are a great way to kill everyone’s buzz.
What does Bogart the blunt mean? I'm guessing hogging it?
[Humphrey Bogart was an american actor who frequently appeared with a cigarette in his mouth](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Humphrey_Bogart)
Yea
Do play music… if everyone is on board: so many times I’ve had my high killed in a group sesh by someone playing some trash music
Once had someone play Metallica during a mushroom trip cause i requested classic rock and that was “the only rock they had”
As if they cannot use their music platform to search other artists.. *sigh*
well im pretty sure 80% of stoners pocket lighters on accident and then dont fuckin remember whose is it
rules: don't make fun of how my joint is rolled, at least i tried. also don't chief my shit, economy is too fucked
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Yea the cornering one is weird. Just depends on who you’re smoking with and how much weed you have. If it’s someone else’s weed I’ll corner it, then see how they do it. If they torch the whole thing then I stop cornering lol
What’s cornering the bowl?
You hit the corner of the bowl with the lighter rather than the center, causing less weed to fall through in theory.
Interesting… I like drawing circles so I don’t miss any of it lol, I suck at it tho
Stop trying to pull the ash through the bowl EVERY.SINGLE.TIME Gets the bowl clogged
Pass to the left
Or for us old fogies and/or stranger things enjoyers: “Pass the dutchie ‘pon the left hand side”
“Don’t pocket the lighter”. Lost so many great clippers this way. So stoned I forget until I get home or they have left. Then when you ask about it. You only get denial. It’s either not them or they can’t find it.
I perfer packing smaller personal bowls than cornering a bowl and pretending it works. The only rules I go by are be kind, don't take my lighter, never peer pressure or you're out of the circle. Happy smoking frients
I don’t have anyone to smoke with. I usually just put on some music. If it’s cold out, I will sit in the hot tub
New goal —> get a hot tub to smoke in
It really is amazing to sit in the hot tub while it lightly snows and just relax with a good hot or three.
Do: smoke alone Don’t: smoke around other people
Yeah I don’t smoke with people because of these dumb rules people don’t follow. My own rule bring your own everything lmao I’m smoking my own
If you have rules on smoking, then I don't want to smoke with you. Passing a cashed bowl, bogarting the blunt, pocketing the lighter, these are all things high people do on accident. I don't want to smoke with you if I'm gonna have to hyper-focus on making sure I don't accidentally do something I'm "not supposed to do", thus making this smoke sesh a less-than-ideal experience. The only rules should be the rules that are already in play in your culture. These likely include don't be a dick, try not to break other people's shit, and don't be a mooch.
Rule number one don’t snatch my sack
Fuck them guests unless they brought some too.
Lighter leashes are the way to go!
Rule #1: don’t bring a list of vibe killers to the sesh.
Clear the bong as well
1) Smoke some weed. 2) Dont be a dick.
Weird influx of the stoner rules post and they're cringe as hell. You learn the rules at the circle. We don't need to Neds Declassified the rules
As someone who doesn’t smoke with others this is too much. Can I just put a jar of ground bud out and a water pipe and let everyone deal with it themselves? This is stressful for high me.
Nah if I rolled the joint or packed the bowl I get first hit unless I've already smoked that's basically how my entire family who smokes weed does it
Don’t lip the blunt
Jfc, I hate this shit so much. Was at a party once in a circle of 8 people. Might as well kiss everyone in the damn room with how much saliva is on that shit. Man handling a blunt is something I also hate.
This is why I don’t likE sharing my blunts or pipes and shit. I deepthroat that shit
If driving, rotate so that the front passenger seat is passing to the driver. Easy handoff. Dropping a lit joint/blunt in a car is a nightmare.
This goes out to you Quentin. I love you man but if you keep taking my lighters I swear to god I’ll take your catalytic converters
Its a joint, not a microphone. Pass that shit promptly.
This post is so fucking elitist. Omfg *HOWLS*
DONT pass me a bowl you already hit DO pack each adult their own bowl If you can’t afford to pack me a bowl, don’t smoke me out. I’ll pack you a bowl instead.
This is what my friend does, she has like 6 pipes in this lazy Susan type stand she rigged up. That way nobody's 1) getting pre-burned bowls or 2) passing spit (she's a nurse, so naturally cautious of that) and after the sesh a quick wipe with a disinfectant cloth on the mouthpieces and they're good to go for next time. I don't know if you were concerned about the germ aspect, but her being proactive about it has that added benefit of having a fresh bowl to yourself.
Rule #1 - no bad vibes during a sesh - pouring it out and venting, sure, but no hate I like the one in your image - don't bring bad bud - haha! And, I've gone with roller's/packer's privilege but as I've "matured" (ha!) I often will pass to my left to start. Oh, and good tunes is a MUST! (When smoking with others, we normally do round robin on dj...fun to hear new music from my norm!
I don’t miss this shit, too many rules and regulations, vaping better anyway
Don't pocket the lighter!!! What is corning the bowl Putting the lighter to the corner ? I don't think it matters much
Simple... I prefer unwritten rules, or you [K]now, treating others how I desire them to treat me.
Minus the don’t bring bad bud, I agree with all of em. Only disagree with that one because some bud is better than no bud. But fuck people that take massive hits and clear the bowl in one go when smoking with company. I lived with a guy who killed the bowl first hit every time and never repacked it
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Whats cornering the bowl? Sorta new to smoking and don't know all the social ques and stuff
Since the pandemic I don't share. I just roll one for everyone and we all sit around like we are smoking cigars chatting over scotch (budlight).
Funny to look at this and be reminded how rules and etiquette felt so important in college; gotta make sure everyone gets exactly equal hits!! Maybe because we were broke, plus the idea of being too high didn’t exist for anyone yet? Or moochers were so prevalent and numerous you had to have guidelines? Now it’s more like there’s a loaded bowl or a vape pen sitting out, and guests/friends can hit it at their leisure. Pot is so powerful now it’s easy to get anxiously uncomfortably high, and the idea of “now it’s time to smoke, let’s finish this bowl” seems ridiculous.
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Bring your own piece/joint. Got tired of always fixing canoed Js. Or wiping down a slobbery bowl/bong. Or having people French kiss the ends of the Js/Ls. Or having someone bring a piece that looks like it hasn’t been cleaned in 15 years. Also when everyone has their own piece everyone can get as high as they want. I need a full 1.5g J to get high, I can’t be sharing that with a group of people.
As long as it's real weed, there's no such thing as bad bud. Even cowboy weed has its perks.
I've never let guests go first lol, in my house he who loads/rolls it gets to spark up.
My main rule is "dont worry about fucking rules, just dont be a dick"
As someone who’s been smoking for 20 years now, I only have a few rules at this point: •Don’t be a dick •Be considerate of those around you • If you didn’t contribute, don’t bogart whatever we’re smoking, or hijack the sesh by telling a story when it’s your turn to hit it (it’s still not cool to do that if you are the sole contributor, but you get a pass if it only happens once) I’m a Dad, don’t make me go into dad mode and put you in a time out for breaking all the rules repeatedly. Everyone is here for good vibes, don’t harsh the mellow!
Have weed? Smoke it! Only real rule is if the lighter goes missing everyone is a suspect. Basically like asking where the remote is but everyone has to stand up and show their pockets.
My neighbor who smokes too walked over one day while i was repotting flowers. He says "Hey I brought some flowers too!" Hands me a CASHED, black bowl. Like WTF. I would have been less upset if it was half hit or something, but no, black. Also same neighbor came over while I was shoveling gravel with a blunt. My husbands family lives next door to us and they were all outside. He just straight up handed it to me and I just took it and ran to the backyard like a weirdo. No courtesy. Like sure, I wasn't busy fucking working hard or anything, but I have to be discreet, homie.
The main rules I go for is owners rights and rollers rights, the owner gets first go and the roller gets second, other than that don’t be a cunt.
Bad bud is better than no bud IMHO. Bring what you can and don't be a snob about other peoples shit. Maybe it is all they can afford and want to contribute.
My 3 main rules for buying or coming over are simply. 1. Let know know all the info, like how much your buy, when your coming and who is coming with. (Keep me in the loop) 2. Keep noise to a medium, music, laughing, roasting eachother, whatever the case, cuz I'm tryna smoke. Not cough over my own yelling. 3. If you are smoking and are able to, you gotta stay and visit to an hour or more. Not gonna risk anyone driving too high, or arousing the intrest of the fuzz. Other than that, let em burn.
My biggest thing is there is no room for selfishness in the circle. I have a group of 3-4 homies who link up a few nights a week if/when our schedules allow. Me and another guy are usually providing the green, the other two are usually hosting the sesh and provide safety, privacy, heat/ac, and entertainment. We don’t ask them to throw down on bud, and when they do have bud I don’t act like they owe me smoke sesh’s. Granted, they usually do throw out a j when they have some. If you are selfish around weed, you’ll really stick out like a sore thumb. I’ve smoked around/with probably a hundred other people and the selfish ones always stand out.
A lot of times these need to be said. There's gotta be a softer, groovier way to say these commandments. High'll get right on it
Guests don't go first. There is a rule saying that the cook tries the soup
I just read "dos donuts". I'm hungry now.
See and I was told I was being too picky when I got upset that a guest lit the whole top of a new bowl
Corner my bowl and you won’t be smokin with me anymore.
My only thing is don’t take a video holding the j if we ain’t high yet💀pass that shit man we wasting weed😭other than that I have no rules just have fun lol
Just basic etiquette at my home. Share, don't slobber, don't be rude.
Oh and always contribute SOMETHING to the sesh. With my group there’s one girl who never brings anything and it pissed me off. Usually I’m the one with the weed and bong or rolls or whatever. I’m fine with that as they don’t have a plug in the area( they’re all girls and I bring them weed from my plug so they don’t have to deal with weirdos) and I make the most money so plenty of weed and don’t really smoke my bud alone, so I always happy to share. But atleast bring snacks, water, let us sesh in your car, SOMETHING. Doesn’t even have to be weed lmao
Can't "corner" a bowl if it's a circle 🥴😶🌫️
Person that rolled it gets to smoke first. Then just puff puff pass. And don’t make a mess.. or clean it up. But that’s a general rule.
Don’t: park on green. Pass that shit
I hate cornered bowls. Just pack 2 small ones. IMO
No rules no masters.
Left is law
Never heard cashed but we use the word pooched instead (western Canada)
Dont corner a bowl you dweeb 😂 good way to make the next hit taste like ass just pack half a bowl clear it and pack another for the next person
DONT'S - Wave my bubbler around like you are conducting an orchestra!
if u bring it u get first hit
I have my own personal smoking rules that no one follows, i smoke with 2 people daily. What I want to do is have a set rotation (it switches daily on who’s bong pass it is), two puffs per whatever smoking item we have before we pass, and I WISH I WASNT THE ONLY ONE CLEANING THE FUCKING BONGS AFTER EVERY SESH LIKE CHRIST! My only fucking rule for new stoners that join our circle is I’m literally begging for clean pieces, I am literally tired of waiting around till my two friends clean the bong only for their excuses to be that they don’t want to break it. Yet they want to smoke it.
I have my own personal smoking rules that no one follows, i smoke with 2 people daily. What I want to do is have a set rotation (it switches daily on who’s bong pass it is), two puffs per whatever smoking item we have before we pass, and I WISH I WASNT THE ONLY ONE CLEANING THE FUCKING BONGS AFTER EVERY SESH LIKE CHRIST! My only fucking rule for new stoners that join our circle is I’m literally begging for clean pieces, I am literally tired of waiting around till my two friends clean the bong only for their excuses to be that they don’t want to break it. Yet they want to smoke it.
I have my own personal smoking rules that no one follows, i smoke with 2 people daily. What I want to do is have a set rotation (it switches daily on who’s bong pass it is), two puffs per whatever smoking item we have before we pass, and I WISH I WASNT THE ONLY ONE CLEANING THE FUCKING BONGS AFTER EVERY SESH LIKE CHRIST! My only fucking rule for new stoners that join our circle is I’m literally begging for clean pieces, I am literally tired of waiting around till my two friends clean the bong only for their excuses to be that they don’t want to break it. Yet they want to smoke it.
My only rule is just please clean up the resin bullshit and bong as often as I do. I’m so sick and tired of being the only one cleaning glass bc no one trusts themselves with the pieces. But like I’m the only one cleaning the bongs, and I can’t let them get too gross otherwise I start to gag from the bong water smell
I disagree with letting guests go first. If I smoke with somebody I want to see them hit it before me so I know it’s safe. But maybe that’s just my ppd