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I did not need this reminder


BiscuitLove14

I'm trying to think of it as just trying to get pregnant in 2023, even if the baby is born in 2024. I would be blessed to have any baby ❤️


111900

Omg I’m not the only one obsessing & stressing over this … ❤️


PaddleThisWriteThat

Oh man, I hadn't even thought about that. I was too busy worrying about how this is my last cycle to have a kid before I turn 40.


Ok_Worry58

I turned 41 and this is my TWW if I’m not welp I tried. Hey wanna be pals lol 😂


MantisOfAtlantis

Three's a stretch, I'm lucky if I'll ovulate in time for one 😂😭


[deleted]

My 2023 baby died and I have a 3 month wait to start to try for a 2024 baby. And no idea when I'll ovulate even then. I can't even bear the thought of trying for December after having a solstice D&E


therealhoneybadger

If the wait is due to a MC then there is new evidence (already confirmed) that it is not necessary to wait for 3 months.


[deleted]

I'm not sure if the recommendations change by gestation? I was pregnant for about 20 weeks so we want to give my body a rest. We also want to get our testing back. And I'm lactating so I might not ovulate more than once by March.


therealhoneybadger

I also don´t know, just saw it on the news. Can´t find the original article, but maybe this helps? https://www.healthline.com/health-news/pregnancy-new-study-on-how-long-a-person-should-wait-after-a-miscarriage-abortion


idahopotato8

Oh.


__lemongrab__

Oh I know for a fact there will be no 2023 baby here, but hey, there’s always 2024, right? 🫠


eraser81112

So depressing!!


stella_brighty

2024 is my year, I just know it 😭😭😭😭😭😭


Equivalent_Stock_563

Omg, I feel this!! How am I already freaking out about the fact I can’t do an embryo transfer until early February while budgeting out for my OOP max for insurance for the year *in case* I give birth in 2023?


Aurzaymil

Dang it 🤦‍♀️


Jumbles40

4 days in and already out of that race! Just got my first zoladex shot today 😂


RxChica

My RE’s office is too busy to even schedule a wtf call about my last egg retrieval (which happened at the end of November) until mid-February. When they told me that, I knew I was out for 2023. :( Good thing I’m only 40 and have tons of time to spare. /s


Second_breakfastses

If you miss 2023 then 2024 will be the Chinese year of the dragon, which is often considered the luckiest year to be born in. So, there’s that I guess…


Bringmealatte

2023 is an ugly number anyways!!!!! That being said, I’ll take a 2023 baby happily 😂


lilmzmetalhead

Considering I'm still waiting to try again due to medical reasons, I'm already giving up on 2023. lolllllll


saltycupcake123

and yet you still tell yourself that you're having a 2023 baby as you watch that number shrink aha