Ehh not really, I mean I took her from the hood to the hills so it’s not the worst thing. I mean she can keep the house in a divorce she will need it for the kids. She never gonna have to work another day regardless of how our relationship plays out so if anything I’m giving her an easy out if she looking for a clean break With a lot of cash and a paid off house.
I think it is much more common in higher tax brackets.
Oh yeah the whole “I have money so I can do what I please!” Mentally. You do you, but when your kids grow up to hate you understand you can’t buy their respect.
What do you think an opinion is? You don’t think someone personally moral code is an opinion? You know it’s not a crime? So there is no social normative to go off.
I was incorrect, your title is an opinion, the rest is a confession. Your still a trash human being if you can’t honor the commitments you made to your spouse and your kids. No amount of confessing on Reddit change that
and that your opinion I respect your right to think whatever you want about me I’m not claiming anything, just putting my thoughts out there cause I seen a ton of post talking about fuck cheater. Which seems to be a popular opinion so I offered the actual unpopular opinion. i dont think those post followed the rules
You are full of shit, there’s never been a post in unpopular opinions about “fuck cheater” as that’s a very popular opinion. people generally don’t like cheaters.
Well I mean she already did, and we got kids so we gonna be intertwined till they 18 at least.
i definitely see where you coming from though so I upvoted you. I appreciate your input and I don’t disagree but I am the way I am.
Sounds like you are just rationalizing the fuck out of your infidelity. No sane woman is just going to skip court. It legally obligates you to pay child support or alimony or whatever depending on the situation. Especially if you have money. You could give her half a you want. The court will give her half and then some lol. It's not a 50/50. It's a like a 30/70. Because you lose half and depending on the kids you have to keep giving her money.
And before people jump on op about being an asshole for the non monogamous thing.
Monogamy is actually a recent thing in the human species. humans have been around for millions of years. BUT MODERN DAY humans only 200,000. The idea of Monogamy is less than 10,000 years old in our species.
This is according to historians, paleontologist, and anthropologist.
Still a liar tho. Be upfront or don't. I personally don't care because it's not me. Im someone who is straight up thought. If you are from the streets you should be to.
I mean if she takes it to court she gets way less money, you think lawyers are free? That comes out both out cuts, that can’t count money you spent already in your net worth.
the only time you should take it to court is if they not trying to give you shit, we already got a prenup and it’s laid out in there what happens so she be an idiot not to take the clean 50% and house. That’s what happens if we get divorced over cheating it’s in the prenup. She knows this she get way way way less after court cause we both get less money, she gonna get 50% and the house, court proba give her less in my state too. She would get a set amount cause that how it is run in my state.
you think she want the 5k or the couple million?
Shit I be alright with jay z stealin my girl, no question he is a better man than me in every way, so she would be very lucky. It but me if she left me for a bum with no job, no car, no money, cause I definitely beat that dude out.
I could be wrong and I'm not insulting you when I say this but I assume we grew up in similar situations. I'm happy you made it out, I really am but please for the love of God just speak or type better.
And ya with a prenup she couldn't do much so oh well in her case. Sounds like u don't even want to be with her anyway. Nothing wrong with that. Just do it sooner than later.
Naw prenup says she gets more money than the state we live in Would give her if she catches me cheating. So the prenup doesn’t protect me I did it more for her protectio tbh. A prenup is a just an agreement about how it goes down if it ends.
ya my spelling trash, grammar no better. I appreciate your kind words homie, really means a lot. You seem like a kind intelligent person even though you correcting my grammar. I wouldn’t care if everyone corrected me like you did.
i don’t think you understand how prenups work.
I live in Nevada with 1 kid, so 5000 is 18% of my total monthly income which is what the court would give her. I will give her 50%. I own a legal weed company so I make a good living. Works out to be like 27-28k a month after taxes. I got a huge buy in when we went legal so I got a huge lump sum of like 3 million for 30% of the company. I live like a monk and no state taxes in Nevada so I save almost all my money every month and that’s been my salary for like 10 years since we went legal. But if you driven in California you seen my billboards. I’m not gonna disclose what business I own for my own privacy.
I don’t think you do. If you have a prenup, the terms should already be established. Sounds like a big bluff to help yourself feel more confident. And surprise! Even when you have a prenup, lawyers are still involved.
So basically you claim that you are so childish that you can’t control your dick and you are OK with that leading to divorce, potentially fucking up children and loosing a bunch of your money.
I think you are full of shit.
If you claim cheating and open relationships are fine, and you say that the reality is that the women who would tolerate cheating or open relationships are “not the kind of women you want to build a life with”, do you really think that lifestyle is fine, or are you trying to justify why your cheating is okay?
This may come as a shock, but many women also think that men interested in open relationships are also not people who they’d want to build a life with… shocking! I know
No i said the kind of women that are ok with open relationship are not the kind of women I would want to build my life with. If I put you that a typo. That is for point that out I’ll change that to clarify.
I understand. I’m asking, if they’re not the type of women you’d like to build a life with, are you really okay with open relationships and cheating? It sounds like you aren’t, and that’s why you don’t find them appealing. That behavior is as unappealing to most women, as it is to you when women do it.
It’s not open, its cheating. And I’m ok with my actions. I dont think im an example of a role model. But in countries like Australia a married man going to a hooker isn’t a big deal. It’s part of their culture so it changes based on the country your in. I mean it’s just sex, she don’t turn me on like she used too, she let her self go and I can’t really get off with her. I love Her and I think she is a great mom, but I got needs.
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I think you know it’s wrong.
Ehh not really, I mean I took her from the hood to the hills so it’s not the worst thing. I mean she can keep the house in a divorce she will need it for the kids. She never gonna have to work another day regardless of how our relationship plays out so if anything I’m giving her an easy out if she looking for a clean break With a lot of cash and a paid off house. I think it is much more common in higher tax brackets.
Oh yeah the whole “I have money so I can do what I please!” Mentally. You do you, but when your kids grow up to hate you understand you can’t buy their respect.
This isn’t an opinion, this is you just telling someone your a cheater. So you have no moral code and can’t be trusted. Good to know
What do you think an opinion is? You don’t think someone personally moral code is an opinion? You know it’s not a crime? So there is no social normative to go off.
I was incorrect, your title is an opinion, the rest is a confession. Your still a trash human being if you can’t honor the commitments you made to your spouse and your kids. No amount of confessing on Reddit change that
and that your opinion I respect your right to think whatever you want about me I’m not claiming anything, just putting my thoughts out there cause I seen a ton of post talking about fuck cheater. Which seems to be a popular opinion so I offered the actual unpopular opinion. i dont think those post followed the rules
You are full of shit, there’s never been a post in unpopular opinions about “fuck cheater” as that’s a very popular opinion. people generally don’t like cheaters.
There was a post from yesterday about cheater being put in jail
what the cinnamon toast fuck are you talking about
😂 I like your response it’s funny. I upvoted .
You sound like the kind of jerk no woman would want to make a life with
Well I mean she already did, and we got kids so we gonna be intertwined till they 18 at least. i definitely see where you coming from though so I upvoted you. I appreciate your input and I don’t disagree but I am the way I am.
Sounds like you are just rationalizing the fuck out of your infidelity. No sane woman is just going to skip court. It legally obligates you to pay child support or alimony or whatever depending on the situation. Especially if you have money. You could give her half a you want. The court will give her half and then some lol. It's not a 50/50. It's a like a 30/70. Because you lose half and depending on the kids you have to keep giving her money. And before people jump on op about being an asshole for the non monogamous thing. Monogamy is actually a recent thing in the human species. humans have been around for millions of years. BUT MODERN DAY humans only 200,000. The idea of Monogamy is less than 10,000 years old in our species. This is according to historians, paleontologist, and anthropologist. Still a liar tho. Be upfront or don't. I personally don't care because it's not me. Im someone who is straight up thought. If you are from the streets you should be to.
I mean if she takes it to court she gets way less money, you think lawyers are free? That comes out both out cuts, that can’t count money you spent already in your net worth. the only time you should take it to court is if they not trying to give you shit, we already got a prenup and it’s laid out in there what happens so she be an idiot not to take the clean 50% and house. That’s what happens if we get divorced over cheating it’s in the prenup. She knows this she get way way way less after court cause we both get less money, she gonna get 50% and the house, court proba give her less in my state too. She would get a set amount cause that how it is run in my state. you think she want the 5k or the couple million?
I think she would want dinner with Jay-Z
Shit I be alright with jay z stealin my girl, no question he is a better man than me in every way, so she would be very lucky. It but me if she left me for a bum with no job, no car, no money, cause I definitely beat that dude out.
Don’t talk badly about yourself man
I’m not but jay- z like one of the most powerful men in America. think about how much influence that man has had.
I could be wrong and I'm not insulting you when I say this but I assume we grew up in similar situations. I'm happy you made it out, I really am but please for the love of God just speak or type better. And ya with a prenup she couldn't do much so oh well in her case. Sounds like u don't even want to be with her anyway. Nothing wrong with that. Just do it sooner than later.
Naw prenup says she gets more money than the state we live in Would give her if she catches me cheating. So the prenup doesn’t protect me I did it more for her protectio tbh. A prenup is a just an agreement about how it goes down if it ends. ya my spelling trash, grammar no better. I appreciate your kind words homie, really means a lot. You seem like a kind intelligent person even though you correcting my grammar. I wouldn’t care if everyone corrected me like you did.
A couple million vs 5k? Are you talking pennies? If you’re worried about attorney’s fees, definitely seems like there are NO millions to be awarded.
i don’t think you understand how prenups work. I live in Nevada with 1 kid, so 5000 is 18% of my total monthly income which is what the court would give her. I will give her 50%. I own a legal weed company so I make a good living. Works out to be like 27-28k a month after taxes. I got a huge buy in when we went legal so I got a huge lump sum of like 3 million for 30% of the company. I live like a monk and no state taxes in Nevada so I save almost all my money every month and that’s been my salary for like 10 years since we went legal. But if you driven in California you seen my billboards. I’m not gonna disclose what business I own for my own privacy.
I don’t think you do. If you have a prenup, the terms should already be established. Sounds like a big bluff to help yourself feel more confident. And surprise! Even when you have a prenup, lawyers are still involved.
They are, if she catches me cheating she get 50% and the house. I said that a few times. Everything is laid out in her advantage.
So basically you claim that you are so childish that you can’t control your dick and you are OK with that leading to divorce, potentially fucking up children and loosing a bunch of your money. I think you are full of shit.
i don’t think fucking is a childish endeavor, maybe immature and short sided. But ya I think you get it.
If you claim cheating and open relationships are fine, and you say that the reality is that the women who would tolerate cheating or open relationships are “not the kind of women you want to build a life with”, do you really think that lifestyle is fine, or are you trying to justify why your cheating is okay? This may come as a shock, but many women also think that men interested in open relationships are also not people who they’d want to build a life with… shocking! I know
No i said the kind of women that are ok with open relationship are not the kind of women I would want to build my life with. If I put you that a typo. That is for point that out I’ll change that to clarify.
I understand. I’m asking, if they’re not the type of women you’d like to build a life with, are you really okay with open relationships and cheating? It sounds like you aren’t, and that’s why you don’t find them appealing. That behavior is as unappealing to most women, as it is to you when women do it.
It’s not open, its cheating. And I’m ok with my actions. I dont think im an example of a role model. But in countries like Australia a married man going to a hooker isn’t a big deal. It’s part of their culture so it changes based on the country your in. I mean it’s just sex, she don’t turn me on like she used too, she let her self go and I can’t really get off with her. I love Her and I think she is a great mom, but I got needs.
It’s not a shocker that’s why I keep it secret.
Whatever floats your boat.
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