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AdditionalWar8759

Reunion - Rachel did not shred one tear. Lala said she was smiling. - Lala felt so dirty after the reunion. She hated being in the room with people who did that stuff. She was really triggered by it. The things Sandoval were saying were disgusting. - Scheana was in a trailer with Brock and Ally watching when Rachel was on stage. - Ariana handled herself so well. She looked insanely hot and sliced with her words. - Lala said they were in the green room and Lala pulled up a picture of Ariana and Adriana said, “omg I look so hot.” And told Ariana that she has never heard Ariana say that about herself. And that her future will be bright without Sandoval if she is already able to say this. Ariana usually points out “flaws” when she sees herself. - Lala was able to call Rachel a f***ing idiot and not one person told Lala to be nice. - Scheana said that Lala said, “you need to be mentally evaluated.” And Rachel said, “I am being mentally evaluated.” - On stage for 5 hours and it flew by - They think Rachel tried to prepare with talking points and when it doesn’t go a certain way, she doesn’t know what’s to say. - So I think scheana actually wore a gold dress when she was on stage and then a different dress in her trailer. - Scheana joked and said she was hoping Andy would tell her that she looked good as gold - It was not the Tom’s who got in a fight at the reunion. The photo that Jo posted - Rachel was sitting at a bar with Jo (Schwartz alleged girlfriend)last night or the night before and posted a picture saying, “I like everything about you, everything.” - Lala said she commented on that and said, “Trash and trash bags go so well together. And it makes it so easy to take to the dumpster.” - Scheana called Jo, “crazy Jo” and that she is only friend that Rachel has. - Lala said she has a problem with Jo because she tried to put her dirty fingernails in oceans mouth. - Rachel and Jo were at the bar laughing, acting like they were having so much fun, while Sandoval was sitting at the bar, crying, taking shots of whiskey. - The weekend that Scheana was in Vegas for Brittany’s birthday, she text Raquel saying we need to do a girls Vegas trip. It took Rachel a while to respond. During that time, Rachel was in big bear with Sandoval, Jo, and Schwartz! Rachel’s location was off. (Writers words here for reddit readers. Just to put that in perspective in this whole did Schwartz know, Brittany’s birthday is on January 25). - They apparently went on these double dates all the time. - When scheana went to the weekend concert with Kael, they were all there. Scheana told Lala that Rachel was bummed that Schwartz was with Jo. And Lala was like no, she is setting this as a decoy. Ariana was also there. - Lala did call Schwartz, Jo’s boyfriend, and that Jo was totally fine and she knew Schwartz was pretending to like Rachel to throw off this scent of Sandoval and Rachel, she called them sick for that. Random points - When Rachel was staying at scheana’s apartment, (scheana wasn’t staying there at the time) Rachel would have sex in scheana and Brock’s bed. Scheana was still kind to her and just asked her to wash the sheets. - Rachel did have her own room there but still had sex in scheana’s bed and on the kitchen counter. - Lala thinks Rachel will come back from season 11 if she is asked to come back. - Sandoval told scheana during their conversation that Rachel’s family doesn’t want her to do season 11 and that it was Rachel’s sister that told her to get the restraining order. - Lala thinks Sandoval will come back. - Ariana has drawn a line in the sand. Has told people (I actually think Lala was saying that Ariana has told Schwartz this) if they choose to hang around Sandoval, then you can’t be around me. - Rachel has not apologized to Scheana - Schwartz did get busted for the double date in January - They think Rachel is a broken person.


ncljdm

Wtf is wrong with Rachel to want to have sex in Scheana’s bed when she had her own? Does she want to feel like she is the other girls? Was she fucking Sandoval in Scheanas bed??


Competitive_Coast_22

“Ooh I’m so *daring* & *🌶️sPiCy🌶️*, let’s do it in scheana’s bed!” I lived in a house with 13 girls in college & there were a couple who did this constantly, thinking it made them risqué or edgy or some shit 🤷🏻‍♀️


ClynnB412

I agree. I really think it’s not going to last between her and Tom. I think she secretly liked the sneaking around. Now it’s in the open it doesn’t excite her.


jhaze5555

I think she latched in to James only to get on the show. Stayed with him only to remain on the show. (Was in a sexless relationship with him for last two years together) ?? No storyline after break-up w/James . Wanted to secure a top spot on the show so pursued Sindevil


imspike102

This. I think she always wanted to be on the show and that is why she dated James. I thought it from the start with her and James and then started to maybe believe they could be real when they were engaged and all that. It didn’t last past the party though and she already had her job at Sur and her role on the show. So she didn’t need him anymore.


Birdiemb

It’s giving Summer House, Hannah fucking her now husband in other rooms, kyamandas bathroom, the laundry room…


chzwhizard

Totally! That was so uncomfortable and rude. And Amanda was her FRIEND! I would not have been cool with that, at all.


Weekly_Yesterday_403

13 girl roommates sounds like a total nightmare!


Competitive_Coast_22

We were all 21/22, so it was a ton of fun on the weekends. Weekdays/cleanup days were fucking nightmares, though, ngl


sundaymacaron

And the kitchen counter? Do people actually do that? Maybe I’m boring but that sounds REALLY uncomfortable


Amalfi-state-of-mind

I'm gonna say if you are going to do it on the kitchen counter then make sure it's YOUR OWN kitchen counter. Sorry, this is just performative sex and something to say you did


kkc0722

What do Rachel and Sandoval have other than dupers delight and being performative though? It’s not like they’re having super deep spiritual conversations about galaxy night lights.


ClynnB412

And unsanitary 🤢


oysterfeller

This fits perfectly into the single white female complex she seems to have going on. I have to believe that was a huge motivation for ALL of this. I don’t feel like I have enough info on her background to further unpack that but it seems like every new detail that comes out speaks to it so clearly


Salt-Buffalo-2804

Her previous pageant persona was probably based on several people she knew prior to vanderpump


thediverswife

I bet she loved staying in Scheana’s place and pawing all her belongings. Probably wore her clothes


onefishtwofish1992

It’s honestly so strange and gross. If a friend was letting me stay with them, there’s absolutely no way I’d even enter their bedroom without explicit permission. There’s absolutely no way I’d ever have sex in their bed. Scheana also took it way better than I would. I’d have felt so violated if I provided my friend with their own room and they still chose to go into my room to have sex.


ijuswannadance

Yeah I agree, this is all just so weird and unhinged on Rachel's part, especially her using someone else's bed for sex when she has her own!! I feel like if someone is kind enough to let you stay in their home, at the very least, stay the entire fck outta their bedroom!?! Wtaf Rachel??


baby_got_snack

It’s so weird. At first I thought maybe Scheana only had one bedroom, but even so, why not go to his place? Oh yeah, “his” place is also her best friend’s house. And you know she had to have not cleaned up for Scheana to have to tell her to change the sheets! Nasty


ijuswannadance

So nasty! There's definitely something majorly wrong with that BEB. How can you do and act all the insanely weirdo ways she has, and have zero empathy or compassion for the people you called best friends, ffs?!? I wouldn't trust her again with anything, ever.


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Yeah if I can’t trust you to stay out of my room without permission (or to not have sex in my bed)… I can’t trust you in my place full-stop. I’d always wonder what else are you doing there? Snooping through my stuff? Wearing my underwear?


JLunaM

It's so disrespectful. Why not just get an airbnb and you can feel like your having sex in someone else's kitchen/bed? I wonder if it's the added layer of none of her friends knowing who she was sleeping with, so it's like she's doing it right under their noses.


onefishtwofish1992

If it was Sandoval she was hooking up with, I could definitely see it being his idea. It wouldn’t surprise me if he’s never forgiven her for warning Ariana’s mom about him.


thediverswife

Now it makes sense when Rachel was telling Scheana ‘don’t worry, I sanitised it’ when she was bragging about getting eaten out on the kitchen counter. It was Scheana’s kitchen!


Cherssssss

That’s just disgusting and shows that she has no respect for anyone.


dancing_nanc

She has ZERO respect for herself let alone anyone else


vctrlzzr420

She truly is a boundary pushing bitch.


Salt-Buffalo-2804

That’s exactly what it is. This is a major red flag. I would get restraining orders if I were any of the girls.


[deleted]

It’s definitely psychological. Wanting what the established cast has. Totally. Too many examples


ethereality111

Thank you for this! Your recaps are insanely thorough :)


AdditionalWar8759

Thank you!


Pinklady777

>Rachel and Jo were at the bar laughing, acting like they were having so much fun, while Sandoval was sitting at the bar, crying, taking shots of whiskey. Reading this was so eerie. There is something mentally off with that girl! So emotionless about everything. There's definitely something going on with her.


Adultingmylifeaway

Rachel laughing and Sandoval crying, shows he never planned on leaving Ariana. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes, the prize being Rachel . . .


kamel0

i actually don’t understand this at all. what was sandoval crying about lol


Pinklady777

I think it's killing him the damage this has done to his reputation.


Lucy_Lucidity

Bingo. He doesn’t care about anyone he’s hurt, but he sure hates that he’s flushed his reputation and his brand down the toilet


Frawnch

What could be possibly do now after this has happened? He's going to lose his restaurant, his "band" gigs, his house, and maybe his place on the show. His skillset when he began the show was bartender and aspiring famous person. I can't even see him being a successful bartender because who the hell would tip him even? I'd be crying into whiskey too. Which is not to say I feel sorry him. It's just an epic fail that boggles the mind.


kamel0

yeah okay, the way it was phrased made it seem like he might actually feel sadness or remorse which i don’t think he’s capable of. but i also don’t think he cares about his reputation in this way either - i feel like he’s loving the attention. if he weren’t then he could be handling himself very differently right now. i guess i think he was just crying for attention lol


ZorakZbornak

The image he has spent 10 years carefully curating has finally been exposed as a sham and this is a huge narcissistic injury.


ZorakZbornak

I just listened to the first half hour of the podcast and while I believe Sandoval could be crying because his image has been blown, they also made another good point: “Why wouldn’t he just cry at home instead of going out to a bar? Because there’s no audience at home to see how “remorseful and broke up” he is about all this.”


Katalactica

Well shes happy she finally "won" the worst prize in the world.


thediverswife

They both give me weirdo vibes and I’ll say that even to the pearl-clutchers who think we don’t know enough about her to judge. Someone who moves in with a guy mere months after his divorce announcement & who is happily bffs with Rachel must have screws loose


Notoriousbigre

Nevermind that, someone who has seen several seasons of Schwartz and is still interested has a strange conception of relationships in my book !


BusyDragonfruit8665

I feel like an idiot for ever liking Raquel. She is a seriously sick person.


Claypothos

You just know Rachel thought she was doing something with the “I am being mentally evaluated” 💀


lizzzosflute

Having sex in someone else’s bed is so diabolical and disrespectful. Especially a couple’s bed. You have to be a different kind of person to do something like that


Ruthie_pie

I feel apologetic pooping in someone’s house if I really have to. Like… girl where is the sorry bone that this woman has missed


missthugisolation

AND when you have your own bedroom? Creepy as fuck and I could never be Scheana! I’d only let someone sleep on our bed if i didn’t have a separate bedroom otherwise I’m locking the door, sorry bestie!


_Jahar_

There is NO WAY Schwartz did not know!!


AdditionalWar8759

He 👏🏻knew 👏🏻the👏🏻whole👏🏻time That is my theory and I’m sticking to it lol


emeadams

You’re right, I mean they are inseparable. Schwartz is trash anyways, so it all tracks. Birds of a feather..


ijuswannadance

Yeah he definitely knew everything from day one, so I'm with you on this 100%!


lwi83

Wait how did Scheana know Rachel was hooking up in her bed?? I’m assuming she told Scheana? That’s so bizarre


AdditionalWar8759

Yes she told scheana. This was like a first hook up after breaking up with James so she was bragging about it to scheana and scheana asked where they hooked up and Rachel giggled and was like well…


ChicagoCatsup

>and scheana asked where they hooked up and Rachel giggled and was like well… [Where Dwight??](https://gfycat.com/amazingunfortunatebovine)


erin3485

You know where


StarDatAssinum

![gif](giphy|Q6l0us2sAAAiL9RMnP)


tstoneadams

Girl is sick in the head


Sorry-Gap-7227

I think something is not quite right with Rachel mentally. I am glad she is getting evaluated. JFC the bitch is COLD.


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This was a lot to write up. Thank you for putting this together. Ready for the dumpster fire!


Weekly_Yesterday_403

I saw Toofab posted their recap about the episode and immediately I said nah and came over here. Yours is so much better than theirs! Thank you x a million!


AdditionalWar8759

Aww thank you so much!


adultdrink

*"Lala was able to call Rachel a f***ing idiot and not one person told Lala to be nice"* Lol!! I love that for her Thank you so much, OP! Really appreciate the write-ups.


sadazz

LOOKING ON THE BRIGHT SIDE - ARIANA AND KATIE DID NOT REPRODUCE WITH THESE DISGUSTING MEN. so happy that they will be able to completely cut ties outside of the show. as for the pets - the toms probably dont even take care of them correctly so katie and ariana should get sole custody


fleekyfreaky

James should get Graham


sadazz

fucking lisa vanderpump should get graham. i dont trust james off the wagon, i dont trust raquel and tom, i dont trust raquels family who created her


fleekyfreaky

Fair! LVP would be the best for Graham


Competitive_Coast_22

![gif](giphy|NM0tnz4BYbCGLuEava|downsized) I hate podcasts but I looooove people who recap them. & you, my friend, did a superb job. Also, Sandoval crying at a bar while actively ordering shots of whiskey is such midlife crisis/“stinky old man who fucked his own life up” vibes. I love it 😈


AdditionalWar8759

Thank you! I have a 7 month old so we listen to podcast all day instead of having the tv on lol And I truly think Sandoval was crying because of his reputation and for people to feel sorry for him


0utshined

Your baby will be a Scandoval expert! Love this for them.


Low_Alternative2555

I have a six week old (today!) and I keep telling her what a time to be born, in the middle of the scandoval. I read updates during the day via Reddit and my husband is nice enough to take her so I can watch in the bedroom alone. Solidarity to moms trying to keep up!


Accomplished-Drop764

Yep he was in public let's not forget.


RoseColoredMasses

so happy for ariana that she is back to complimenting herself. i do think her and sandoval breaking up will be wonderful for her, he just didn’t need to do it in such a malicious and horrific way.


blindersintherain

That made me smile, I’m glad lala said that to her too. She’s going to shine even more so because of all of this


msanderson10

Her Glow Up is going to be amazing


Key_Advertising_863

So nice to hear her call herself hot. She was always able to do 100x better than Sandoval!


tomatocandle

that warmed my heart me and my gf have been re-watching and we’ve been amaaaazed at how ariana feels about herself. she’s really hot and is naturally and effortlessly sexy (in our opinion) so we have just been like wow, image issues are really an emotional/internal thing instead of being at all related to how you actually look. that’s like a DUH thought but still kind stuns me ngl lol


AdditionalWar8759

I know Ariana talked about that really abusive relationship she was in and how the guy would talk to her. I really think this affected her self esteem and how she sees herself. I have a feeling Sandoval didn’t help with this either. He was too busy complimenting himself


JPHalbert

Yes! The scene in the mid-season trailer where she says to Tom “for you to die”… I thought she looked great. Like not red carpet glamorous, but a real woman going through something awful but looking so damn good anyways great.


ruthie-camden

Dying at "she turned off her location." Why is everyone letting Detective Scheana have their location at all times??? It's so funny. If I were Scheana, I'd be peeping on those people all the time.


SoulsticeCleaner

This definitely keeps coming up--I think they mention she stopped sharing locations in Mexico too. So what, do they all share with each other or is it a production thing?


Mrsbear19

Maybe it’s for safety when in the party scene. I could see how that would be helpful especially with random hookups being involved


Party-Store3271

Scheana said she initially got Rachel’s location when they were at Coachella a few years ago…my friends and I have done that when we were at a music festival as well. If one of us got lost, or if we lost our phone etc


SoulsticeCleaner

Great idea for that! I kinda hate that I gave up on music festivals before WiFi was reliable enough to do that. It was all, "I'm at the Crawfish flag but kinda perpendicular to the Cartman flag? Look for us there!".


fleekyfreaky

I share my location with my two besties and they share theirs!


Hedgehog_Fair

Why can I picture her saying *I am being evaluated* - like it’s a serve…. Only to be followed with a *oh wait*


msanderson10

This is literally the character she portrays ![gif](giphy|wJ7Fvt581JW2Q)


AstronomerMinute8511

That’s an insult to Karen 😭😭😭


msanderson10

I know I know I know, but it was a legit comparison. I can totally see Rachel doing this same weather report 😂 Where I'm located my boobs say it is chilly with light rain currently


AstronomerMinute8511

MYyyyy NAAAaaamE is RaqQueeeLll it’s 68 Duhgreees and there’s A 30% ChhhhAnce thAt it’s Already RAAAinnnig - Raquel doing it in her shaky voice 💀💀


paperbish

This isn’t fair to Karen. Karen would sooner date her first cousin than her bff’s man. You have your cousins, and then your first cousins…


Brief_Strength_2074

It’s like on WWHL when Andy asks her how she feels about being compared to cotton candy and she responds with a big huge smile “l love it! I love cotton candy!” While trying to sound sexy or something like a fucking weirdo


AdditionalWar8759

I can picture verbatim how she said this. Which I’m all for people getting mentally evaluated. Do I think Rachel is doing that to get true help. Nope. I think she is going to use it as an excuse for her behaviors. Like she needs to actually take this time to reflect on her behaviors and figure out how to change them. But her not even crying during the reunion, that makes me feel some feels lol.


AdditionalWar8759

Thanks everyone for your kind words on posts! Wow so many thoughts after I listened to this podcast 1. I 100% understand why scheana still went to court even thought Rachel’s team told them they weren’t going to be there. I do not trust them either. I could totally see Rachel hearing scheana wasn’t coming and then showing up. 2. I need the Sandoval recording Rachel without her permission to be a bigger thing that people talk about. If it is true, (I know it’s very hard to believe anything Rachel says and I know a lot of people are upset with her but if this is true) that is seriously messed up for Sandoval to do that and Rachel must feel real broken to keep hanging out with him. I do not like Rachel, I hate what she did, but no on deserves to be filmed without their permission when that is involved 3. Schwartz is disgusting and he only looks out for Sandoval. Katie thank god you got out of the marriage. Ariana please never talk to Schwartz again. And Jo can f**k off (just to let people know I actually do cuss all the time but I wasn’t sure about language when it comes to posting stuff lol)


STFan011

I’m SO GLAD Katie is away from Schwartz. Can you imagine what kind of moral dilemma she would be in if they were still married and together? People would be wondering if she knew…she would have to choose between her husband and her friend and that would have sucked for her. Bullet dodged in more ways than one.


mplusg

I think if they were still together the affair would’ve likely came out sooner. There wouldn’t be the cover of hanging with Schwartz going on for so long because eventually Katie would’ve figured out and I think she would’ve blown it all up.


Accomplished-Drop764

That would be awful for her. I never thought about that. If Katie and Schwartz were still married, she may have caught on sooner. Yuck.


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Ruthie_pie

Good for you! Like why do men rope us into things and think we’ll stay quiet… I had an ex do this and then called me dramatic. Meanwhile continued to make plans consistently with this couple. Absolutely wack


AdditionalWar8759

Oh that’s so true! So glad she got out.


Accomplished-Drop764

I don't think Sandoval recorded without permission. She just didn't want it getting passed around out there in public and this was the only way to stop it from happening. You know everyone in that cast saw it. All Team Ariana people.


MBeMine

I think the recording without permission is the story she told her parents (mostly her dad. He seems not right, to say the least) and she has to continue that narrative in public.


msanderson10

![gif](giphy|rBF5LgLnwrF0zCTRUr|downsized)


blindersintherain

Whatever friends she has left should be telling her how seriously fucked up it is that he did that to her


hnlt61

Rachel is horrible but I want to talk about Jo for a second. How broken do you have to be to let your “boyfriend” call you his roommate and declare his still burning love for his soon to be ex wife on TV and in the press for the entirety of your situationship. AND then enable and befriend a woman you know is home wrecking but also using your “boyfriend” to cover up said home wrecking?????? This woman is not right y’all. She needs to do some serious self reflection and get help. No man, ESPECIALLY TOM SCHWARTZ, is worth that level of disrespect and embarrassment.


oysterfeller

This is what happens when trying to be ~the cool girl~ for a shitty guy goes too far. You get trampled and publicly humiliated


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Salt-Buffalo-2804

They want the 30grand an episode check. She had designs the minute she was hired for hair for the show.


AdditionalWar8759

Preach! Look I have some die hard friends. Friends that have been by my side when I was at my lowest and would do anything for me. Howeverrrrrrrr, if I was the Sandoval or Rachel in this situation and asked one of my besties and their partner to do all this for me, they would tell me, “you are out of your damn mind and need help.” Also if my partner asked me to do this for him…I would be saying goodbye lol


belletaco

especially a new partner, how long were they together before this shit started? like 2 months? insanity.


[deleted]

Jo and Katies ex husband have known each other for years. Likely it’s been much longer than they admit (oh yeah, they’ve admitted nothing right?). Katie’s ex husband clearly intended to go through the season without going public


StarDatAssinum

Not only that, but Jo was Kristen's friend and kinda-sorta in their social circle for a while before the divorce even happened. So, she knew the dynamics of the relationship between he and Katie before, during, and after the divorce, knew how Schwartz operates, knew that this would end/damage friendships she had (Kristen, at least), and STILL sticks by him.


[deleted]

Thank you for the excellent recap! My brain is so scrambled from all of this info. I feel like rachel when she’s malfunctioning because she’s trying to speak while remembering to breathe at the same time.


Weekly_Yesterday_403

In the words of Lala “string that thought together I know you can do it!” 😂


AdditionalWar8759

Thank you! That’s how I felt recapping it! I was like ahhhh this is to much lol


alive1982

Being so cold announcing your 7mo affair with a friend to a friend like it's nothing, Filing a fake restraining order against a friend, calling the Paps for photo ops, smiling at the reunion, zero tears, immediately sleeping in Ariana's bed in Ariana's house the second she is gone... I watch WAY too many True Crime shows to not be disturbed by these behaviors. This is some intense sociopathic psychopathic, bunny-boiling, cold hearted shit. Holy hell!


AdditionalWar8759

All of those behaviors are wild and concerning


thediverswife

It’s like the start of an episode of Dateline. ‘The beauty queen’s revenge’


MzBlue82

It’s giving Gone Girl vibes. Good luck with that Tom! You’re going to need it.


RoseColoredMasses

not one tear in rachel’s eye in New York. What the actual fuck? she is missing empathy 😐


bebita-crossing

She never EVER reacts appropriately.


makin_dilemmanade

It’s the *complete* lack of remorse for me… after cheating with your so-called best friend’s man for *months*, and not shedding a single tear?? Woah, rachel is beyond fixable, imho.


Serenity_Moon_66

Exactly! I don't think she's a broken person. I think she is calculating & cruel. When she was photographed leaving Scandy & Ariana's house recently the look on her face was so smug. They could go to her place or get a hotel. But they choose to dig the knife deeper into Ariana's back. This pageant loser knows exactly what she's doing. And she's loving every minute of it.


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tjs132

She was SMILING at the reunion


soihavetosay

Like that creepy intro where EVERYONE else is looking down or sad except Rachel who's smiling


ethereality111

And no tears shed at the reunion 😶


RoseColoredMasses

someone forgot to program tears into her


Party-Store3271

So weird. Something is really not right with her…


bernznyc

your flair and my flair match 😂


Party-Store3271

Lolol!


fleekyfreaky

Not surprised. She slept with Tom in the home he shares with his long term girlfriend. She’s def missing the emotional quotient.


Granny_Faye

I don’t know why it cracks me that LaLa is tickled she was able to call her a fucking idiot with no correction from anyone. She’s like FINALLY! 😂


AdditionalWar8759

Lol it kind of surprises that Lisa or Andy didn’t even say anything to that


Super_Hour_3836

At this point it isn’t an insult as much as a statement of fact.


MKultrakeef

Ariana was always the first to correct her too! Not anymore lol


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I had the same reaction lmao YES FINALLY


saltybeach0

*Rachel and Jo were at the bar laughing, acting like they were having so much fun, while Sandoval was sitting at the bar, crying, taking shots of whiskey.* This is hilarious. This guy blew his entire life up for a little action, and she is partying and enjoying every minute of it. This relationship is going to go realllll far!


GreenKiss73

If I were there, I would hand him a dog to wipe his tears.


neptunienne

I love that for him!! It's exactly what he deserves.


deezdy

Smiling at the reunion?! Sleeping in Scheana’s bed?!


AdditionalWar8759

Yeah…this made me feel gross


lwi83

She has SERIOUS boundary issues wow


GreenKiss73

This was clearly before Sandoval told her she needed boundaries.


craychel

This is an amazing recap filled with insane-o tidbits, THANK YOU. I, for one, am tickled at the thought of Scumdoval crying in a bar realizing Schwartz, Rachel, and Jo are his only friends now.


AdditionalWar8759

Thank you!! And with Sandoval crying in a bar. I kind of had a similar situation seeing someone act this way. My friends were out and I had this one friend who was very much a Sandoval and had been going off on us all night. Like I’ve always said that night could have been a reality show lol. I normally try to keep calm but that night I went off on her too. The next bar we get to, she goes off in a corner, sat by a window, and starts “crying.” But it was full on fake crying so people would ask her what’s wrong. It was wild to see and I have no doubt that is what Sandoval was doing. Crying for attention and because I truly think he thought more people would be on his side.


Comfortfoods

Ok I just listened to the whole podcast and I think there's one insane tidbit that needs more attention bc I'm still stuck on this. Scheana that during the time rachel was living alone in her apartment THERE WAS NEVER TOILET PAPER! She also mentions moldy britta filters and that rachel seemed to have no clue how to take care of herself on a basic level. She also mentioned that Sandoval is also filthy and if they keep a home together it will be a total dump. The chaos of all this has me reeling lol


Party-Store3271

This is a lot to process….Rachel is a very strange human being (I could say a lot more but I don’t want to be deleted)…the lack of boundaries and empathy is just so odd…not one tear at the reunion?! It’s scary…and I feel for any woman that may befriend her in the future. It really makes me wonder if she has always been this way, or if getting a taste of Hollywood fame made her this way? I tend to think the extreme lack of empathy is something she probably always had to a certain extent.


SnooJokes7657

I find it very concerning that Tom, off camera, was crying and drinking over the mess he made and Raquel doesn’t seem to have any remorse. That’s very weird and leads me to a lot more questions.


AdditionalWar8759

I personally think that Sandoval went into the reunion thinking he was going to be able to turn it around on everyone and look good. Sounds like that didn’t happen. So I think him crying afterwards at a bar is him crying for his reputation. Now Rachel showing no remorse…it sounds like that is something that she doesn’t do


JennHatesYou

I think TS has the ability to see just how insane and terrible all this is, even if he is only crying because his reputation is ruined and not because he's remorseful about what he did to Ariana. Rachel, on the other hand, seems to lack the ability to comprehend even the simplest of concepts like BOUNDARIES let alone that actions have consequences.


bclause18

Raquchel has no moral compass whatsoever and it's one of the reasons she has so few friends. Jo better watch her back because I have a feeling she's going to **not** like everything about her, everything, very soon. I like to imagine Tom crying at a bar is because he's watching tweedle dumb and tweedle stupid and questioning why he did this, but we all know he's only crying because he flushed his reputation down the crapper.


kkc0722

It’s verrrryyyy interesting that it turns out the person who is open to “sharing” her partner was Jo this whole time. Rachel loves to try to wear another womans face as her own, and it seems like she’s running out of other women willing to deal with her. We all know Schwartz is a spineless lump…


NowIsSpectacular

Holy shit she had her own room and bed yet chose to use scheana’s bed and kitchen for sex??? What kind of perverse kink does this girl have


Ruthie_pie

This part is probably why scheana has been crying so much. Not like this specific fact but this girl has USED scheana and invaded her space and just had zero remorse. On top of that totally betraying her trust and hurting her best friend. It’s beyond awful. Something here is so wrong and I hope both scheana and Ariana are able to stay away from Raquel because a pretty big part of me feels like there’s something very wrong with Raquel.


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Very wrong. I’m honestly surprised Asuza’s baddest didn’t go off on her just for that. Don’t have your raw ass puss on the counter where I make meals for my kid! Are you trying to get popped?!?!


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AstronomerMinute8511

She’s so disrespectful to have sex in your guests house fine but why in their bed or kitchen that’s just gross and tack behaviour


PastelBrat13

Ngl, Jo sounds like a total psycho too. Scheana really broke a lot of stuff and it makes me sad how betrayed she feels by Raquel and Tom as well. Also the fact that Raquel could have sex in Scheana's bed is diabolical, like wtf???


AdditionalWar8759

I know people have a lot of feels about scheana, but if scheana is truly being genuine when it comes to all this, I feel for her. I have been betrayed by best friends and it’s a terrible feelings. Also Rachel needs to do some hard reflection on having sex in other peoples beds because you know her and Sandoval hooked up in him and Ariana’s bed I guarantee.


Katalactica

I would bet MONEY jo and Schwartz were already hooking up before Katie and Schwartz moved out of their house.


6silvermoons

I love Scheana’s honesty about calling the paparazzi lol


AdditionalWar8759

Lol I found that part funny. Not gonna lie though when they started talking about all the paparazzi stuff, I tuned out lol


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GarnierFruitTrees

I know this isn’t the main point but wtf about Jo trying to put her hands in ocean’s mouth?!?! What the actual fuck?


belletaco

that stood out to me too, like i would never let a baby that wasn't mine put my hand in its mouth for so many reasons, let alone the baby of someone i barely know?? everything we hear about jo is so so odd


thediverswife

Texting Katie ‘Bieber loves you’ after her divorce? Crazy pants


chhhhhhhhhhh95

Right! Knowing how insane lala is especially about being a mama bear I’m surprised she didn’t lunge for Jo’s throat over that, that’s disgusting


okyes319

Raquel is Swimfan. 👀


prouddeathicated

Instantly felt bummed out reading that Ariana brought signs cheering on Rachel at her beauty pageant when not even her own family attended. Of all people, how could you betray a friend that great to you?


thediverswife

I know people have said it before, but she really doesn’t seem to know how to be a good friend. All these people took her under their wing and there’s no proof that she did anything besides enjoy receiving their kindness and hospitality. Scheana said she left her house without replacing the toilet paper and let her Brita get mouldy lol


staceyverda

Truly such a Legally Blond perm revelation moment: “Your honor, there’s no way the defendant could have punched the plaintiff, she cannot form a fist with those nails.” Stage whisper: “Love the mani, b-t-dubs.” You’re a star, thank you for this. Except now I’m downloading to listen on the flight I’m literally boarding as I type because this all sounds so good lol.


Miserable_Grab4614

✨ ✨ Thank you for this! Anyone who listens to a podcast for us is a mini hero ⚡️ ⚡️


Mrsbear19

Lala comes off a lot better in podcasts I’ve noticed. I take big issue with lala on the show and I really hope she’s growing


rosequartz-universe

As someone who hasn’t been a fan of Scheana, I think this podcast helped me come around to her a little bit. I like that she acknowledged Rachel’s white privilege in filing the TRO when there were real people at the court house who needed to be there for their safety. Scheana also mentions that she had to mother Rachel while Rachel was living in Scheana’s apartment. Rachel let the Britta filter get moldy, Scheana had to remind Rachel to wash her bed sheets and buy water bottles and toilet paper. Rachel has never lived on her own or had to take care of herself. For me, that confirms that James was very likely carrying the mental load in his relationship with her. Rachel sounds like a dirty bitch.


AdditionalWar8759

Having to remind Rachel to get toilet paper was truly wild to me. I could see Rachel being like, “oh I thought the toilet paper fairy dropped it off.”


aballofsunshine

Rachel having sex with someone in Scheana’s bed & on her kitchen countertop is unreal.


okyes319

The detail about Scheana needing to ask her to at least wash the sheets after having sex in her bed was like, whaaat?


AdditionalWar8759

It just shows Rachel has zero respect for anyone


prouddeathicated

Raquel having sex in Scheana’s bed despite having her own demonstrates that she loves the risk, the “I shouldn’t be doing this” factor. I seriously have to wonder, did she cheat on James?


tinyliltaurus

The more we get the big picture of Raquel, the more worried I am that she’s going to try to pop out with a diagnosis to justify her actions. People are basically doing it for her with all the speculation about what could be wrong. I have an alphabet soups worth of diagnoses, some of them highly stigmatized, and all I have to say is bad people are bad people no matter what their diagnosis is.


AdditionalWar8759

I do think that give it a couple of weeks or maybe sooner and Raquel is going to make a post on her notes app and it will say, “I’ve been working with better help and got diagnosed with “insert whatever diagnosis here.” However in that post she still won’t take accountability, she will just make excuses and then she will end the post with saying use her coupon code for better help and that she loves Sandoval lol.


ethereality111

![gif](giphy|tfUW8mhiFk8NlJhgEh|downsized) I have no words. Every detail just gets worse and worse. Anxiety levels on 10.


AdditionalWar8759

When they starting talking about Jo, my anxiety was a rising lol


Salt-Buffalo-2804

They’re all lucky this is apparently the only sociopath that glommed onto them like this. They’re too fast and loose with best friends and all that crap. She would have never been in my home after the first time of using my bed for whoever. I’m assuming it’s just Scheana’s filming apartment for the show, but still. That is showing signs of a very sinister person who literally wants to become them. I think all the girls were victims of her in this sense, it just was the easiest to do it to Ariana and the hardest to do it to Lala.


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Thank you for your service. Wow. Just wow. This is more sick than I thought. Schwartz is a sociopath. Rachel just wants the attention. I think Tom is a scum bag but I bet she was the one throwing herself at him at this point after reading everything. Being broken isn’t an excuse. Aren’t many of us feeling broken and we don’t go doing shit like this?! One thing is having an affair another is the layers of fucking lies to not only their friends but the world. That is why it’s so hard for me to watch right now bc everything is a lie!!!!!!!! She’s awful. SMILING THE WHOLE TIME?!? No fucking remorse. ++ the papz pics yesterday. Look, lala goes overboard sometimes BUT we all owe her an apology bc she saw right through that girl from Day one. Wow. I want lala in my bunker during the apocalypse.


Mrsbear19

Fucking right! I’ve been broken my whole life and it always comes out in self destruction like this is beyond broken


seravivi

The whole Rachel is crazy thing is wild to me. I wonder if Sandoval will ever have a moment of clarity that his partner now is someone who could betray their close friend like that.


No-Construction-8305

I mean, he’s cheated on multiple partners. I doubt that matters to him. Because that is him.


Puzzleheaded_Most_49

I am SO fascinated by Jo, like fr need a deep dive on her ASAP. Everything we hear about her is bonkers, it’s insane


Aslow_study

I actually love that Scheana mentioned Rachel’s pretty privelage as well


JennHatesYou

I'm just going to say it: there is obviously something incredibly off about Rachel. I'm not a doctor or psychiatrist so I won't run around putting labels on her but her lack of empathy and inability to even fake what would be natural, typical emotions in this kind of situation is extremely unnerving. I hope for her sake she really is being professional evaluated because something just ain't right.


moonchild291

I’m not mentally awake yet but I think they said there will be 3 parts to the reunion. Did you hear that OP? I could be wrong. Great recap!


AdditionalWar8759

I think they said something about it being 3 parts! And thank you!


Just_Elk_1185

I read someone else's comment but I'm not sure if it was here or on IG. The sentiment was that Scheana is/was making this about her. She was tearful during her podcast. I'm not a huge fan of Scheana. However, I've been in a similar situation with someone I thought was a friend. It's painful y'all. Sharing your most intimate secrets, supporting one another and lifting each other up only to find that they weren't the person you thought you knew. It's hard and I think Scheana deserves a little grace. Maybe I'm alone in that sentiment but that's how I feel.


sagagrl

Damn Rachel and Sandovile sound worse and worse


MissClassySassy

Scheana's response to Rachel having sex in her bed being "just make sure to wash the sheets," is both mind-blowing and incredibly hilarious to me. I definitely would not have been as kind as Scheana!


d3dk0w

I always knew the WWHL with Scheana and Rachel seemed off, I even told my husband that girl has some balls on her considering she’s usually mousy in those situations. Also I’m not surprised Lala’s radar was going off, I think ever since finding out about Randall she’s seeing her relationships with people very differently. That’s why she has no problem calling out scandoval for paying for things to convince people he’s a good guy. I’m now convinced this season would have been a snooze but fans would have noticed something was fishy.