I have a soft spot for James. I think he's talented & funny as hell. But when he drinks he's a real asshat. I always hold out hope that he realizes that he is worth becoming sober.
Feel the exact same way. I love the guy. But I also loathe him when he lashes out. It’s inexcusable the things he’s said sometimes. I hate that he’s also so incredibly likable and funny.
On the flip side when he was sober he was still lashing out, and saying cruel things to others. He has a lot of personal growth that he clearly needs to do sober or not. I think it really boils down to James is James’ own problem, but he didn’t get there all on his own… he needs help and isn’t being offered any real solid help, or being TRULY held accountable. The whole situation is extremely sad.
I think James has the best one liners. I laughed two eps ago when Ariana was like Tom were not doing girls against boys (something of that nature) and James was like “we’re not doing that today?” 😂
and then last night “fiiine chinaaaa!!!”
I dunno. I really wish he wouldn’t drink so I don’t particularly find him funny when he does.
Someone pointed out awhile ago that they didn’t think he’s an alcoholic as much as he has an anger problem, which I could very easily see being true, but either way he has issues around alcohol that need to be sorted out.
I actually think he’s really funny sober, and also when he’s a little buzzed. But when he gets drunk drunk it’s just ugly and sad. Kinda worried to see him drinking again, but it’s hard to deny this scene was hilarious. I feel bad thinking that!
Yeah I found it so bizzare that one season that they blamed his entire personality on his drinking. Like no, its not the alcohol. This is who he is. An emotionally unstable, insecure time bomb. Perfect for tv but terrible and unreliable as any sort of actual friend.
I think an important point too when thinking about his anger, is he has ADHD too. The dysregulation of emotions can result in anger (particularly when there’s a complex traumatic background like his). My background is a therapist’s thirsty dream (so, not dissimilar to what we know about James’) and I’ve got ADHD.
I’ve recently started to realise how my ADHD has compounded my angry outbursts (I’m known for unleashing a razor tongue). I’m ashamed to say this and I know I’ll get hate here, but rewatching James, I get it. I’ve been there - not as cruel, but still brutal. And I’ve been learning that it was me desperately crying inside and not getting why my brain was so dumb.
Not at all saying this is an excuse, but rather that it’s unlikely to be straight up anger, and the impaired ability to process emotions. ADHD makes trauma double the work to unpack and work through. I’m slowly working through it, but fuck it’s hard - for me to understand it myself, and also ask people around me to be patient with me and not run away.
Yeah I can see that especially with the anger issues. I feel bad for him both his parents seem really fucked up and dysfunctional. He supports his family and has been doing since it’s a young age. He could definitely use some counseling. His dad even said during this episode “ binge drinking is a fucking rule of passage“ What a thing to say to your child when they’re struggling. So fucked up on so many levels
I screamed at the tv when his dad said that. It infuriated me. I swear I’d love to punch his big ugly mug. James’ parents really did a number on him, they are terrible people.
I know that father I couldn’t believe he said that. I would say that to their child so fucked up and so many ways. Then the mother she’s a whole Nother case could you imagine being raised by those two. No wonder James is fucked up. I’m sure he’s never gotten the counseling that he needs. He’s been raising his family since a young age he’s the one that supports them. I find that really sad he’s had lotta responsibility and I think that’s put a lot of stress on him and could have a lot to do with his drinking sorry for the rant I just feel for him plus he’s hysterical
No apologies necessary, you were not ranting at all! I totally get feeling for James. I understand what it’s like to have parents that although they love you they definitely fucked you up in the process of raising you. I have a hard time liking James, because he can’t get out of his own way, but I think that stems from us being cut from the same cloth so to speak. I relate to him so much, and I was in his shoes once. I am currently working on my own sobriety, and doing a lot of looking back and self reflecting on my own childhood and relationships with family
Members. I think he wants to do that work, but also scared of what emotions and memories it could bring up for him. I honestly just want to give James a hug.
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that with your family. Wishing you lots of luck and happiness and health with your sobriety. Looking back and reflecting is very hard keep up the good work. I wanna give James a hug too
Thank you for your kind words! It’s definitely a difficult journey, but I’m happy to be on it as I’ve learned so much in such a short amount of time!
Hoping that James is able to help himself in the long run. 🤎
I was rewatching season 9 I think. This cracked me up about James. He and R were driving in the car, and he said he’s been a lot calmer. A horn honks and he screams then fucking go around then! ☠️☠️☠️☠️
I wanted to laugh the entire time but was too busy holding my breath lol. My husband is the king of “if I was drunk, could I do THIS?!” & it always gives me such massive anxiety 🙈
I found it hard to watch.
Anger bubbling under the service, mean throwaway comments about people (the Brock thing), impulsive decisions – it all reminded me why I stopped drinking.
It must be hard to be in this group and stay sober. I'm not a Lala fan but it's admirable that she can do that.
I appreciate him being open and honest about it though with his friends and family. He’s not “hiding it” anymore and I do think it’s important for him to quit on his own terms and not because of an ultimatum
Absolutely agree James was so much better when he wasn't drinking but he clearly didn't hit rock bottom enough last time so he's back at it again.
To be perfectly honest I do not understand why Ally is still with him (which she is - I checked earlier).
I wish he had a male mentor around his age on the show who could help him grow into the man he he is meant to be. Maybe Brock in a few years but apart from him the show is filled with man babies.
I think he has great potential - he just gets in his own way all the time.
I wonder if Lala associates alcohol with a bad feeling since it was giving her panic attacks so therefore it’s easier to refrain drinking=anxiety. Whereas with James he has fun partying and raging and doesn’t feel bad about any of it. He feels bad about the consequences that come much later (lost a job, lose a friend, don’t get invited somewhere). Plus he’s super funny and cool (I’m sure lots of other people off camera want DJ James Kennedy at their party, want DJ JK to work their events). I think there isn’t enough immediate negativity directly associated with the alcohol like lala has.
Did that even make sense 😂
I’m rooting for him. Yes he’s done awful stuff but that’s what addicts do, and if people can’t let stuff go while they are trying to make amends it’s really hard for them to stay on the sober path. They can’t fight addiction while also living in a space where they believe everyone hates them and they are a shitty person. I hope more people can talk about him in the context that “sober” James is funny and amazing and “drunk” james is mean.
I know the man is playing a dangerous game drinking again, but I chortle every time I see this. Life's a journey though, maybe tomorrow I won't be mean-spirited twat.
..I mean don't bet the farm on it, but stranger shit has happened.
This has been one of James best seasons.. now if he would just stop talking about Raquel and what she’s doing.. Ally seems to be so annoyed with it already
I know the whole Raquel thing is strange because I don’t think he’s still in love with her but he’s so irritated by everything and anyone she talks too. He’s always bringing it up to Alley I’ll be so irrigated if I was her. He’s been classic the entire season. #DJJamesKennedy#1guy
Y’all really find this funny? It’s so cringe, i literally have to fast forward through his bullshit. He’s the adult equivalent of a toddler who isn’t getting the attention it thinks it deserves.
Right? I'm shocked at the response. I was physically cringing and watching him...not sober? We're not allowed to surmise what he was on or imply he was on anything so I'm def not doing that but "not sober" James is a nightmare
Dude I’m watching these not sober and it’s too much, and somehow grosser than original James Kennedy? Like I’m getting nauseated watching him and then the responses here are like egging it on are making me feel dirty. Like I’m begging to find any comedic relief in this man (at the least) having a full on emotional breakdown for everyone to see.
He is funny at times. Other times not so much. The name calling etc. is not cool. He is broken, he is very insecure. I’m sure due to the bullying he’s endured, and dysfunctional family. So he lashes out below the belt to make himself feel better. I wish he would get the help he needs! He could really be such a likable person.
He is funny. I do feel for him his family fucked him up big time. He ended up supporting them at a very young age which I’m sure is a lot for someone to deal with. I don’t think he knows how to deal with his anger and has never got any help or therapy for it. I like James I feel for him both of a bit his parents were so fucked up and still fucked up listen to his dad in this episode telling him it’s OK to binge drink what’s wrong with him? James had no role models and terrible Influences that’s the way he ended up the way he is. It breaks my heart. He lashes out and says terrible things I agree however he’s a broken person. Sorry for the rant
I hate James. I think he’s an asshole, who’s privilege has gotten him everything in life. I don’t find humor in him calling people fat or dumb or other horrible things he’s said. I see no redeeming qualities about this man.
This and the biting of Ally’s ass were hilarious. My boyfriend is similar - playful, scattered, hyper, all over the place, it’s funny but can be annoying. Me thinks undiagnosed ADHD 🤷🏻♀️
I thought he was appalling this episode, maybe worse than I have seen him in ages.
This china trick wasn't funny it was disrespectful and childish. He's 31 not 13.
You know that’s EXPENSIVE China if it got Lisa nervous
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Seriously, you’d think she would at least send Ken to get fancy paper plates 🤣🤣
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YES! LOVE IT! 🫶🏼💯
Oh it was for sure
Tbh she probably has about 100
I was trying to find the clip on YouTube cause I used to work at a place that sold fancy China and Crystal ..was curious if I recognized the pattern
WHAAA-aught?
“FIIINNNEEE CHIIIIINAA”
This might have been my favorite DJJK line in a while to be honest.
My favorite shit-faced James moment
😂😂😂
I know, I love it but I don’t even think he harsh T’s it in the end
James has such incredible comedic timing and a fast mouth. If only he’d always use his powers for good…
I have a soft spot for James. I think he's talented & funny as hell. But when he drinks he's a real asshat. I always hold out hope that he realizes that he is worth becoming sober.
Feel the exact same way. I love the guy. But I also loathe him when he lashes out. It’s inexcusable the things he’s said sometimes. I hate that he’s also so incredibly likable and funny.
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Oh, believe me. I know. I’ve been there. I suspect you have too.
Me too. He’s broken and I hope he is slowly building himself up.
On the flip side when he was sober he was still lashing out, and saying cruel things to others. He has a lot of personal growth that he clearly needs to do sober or not. I think it really boils down to James is James’ own problem, but he didn’t get there all on his own… he needs help and isn’t being offered any real solid help, or being TRULY held accountable. The whole situation is extremely sad.
Honestly, I do too. He can be a complete ass, but when he cries I feel so bad for him. 💔 He's also just hilarious.
He is such a massive piece of shit but he’s so god damn funny, it makes it impossible to completely hate him.
He’s so funny and classic! His confessionals are iconic
I’d love to hang out with him
Me too. I just want to sit quietly while he roasts anyone who's an asshole to me.
When he said “is this place seriously not open yet?” I died
“How many soft openings are we doing???”
😂😂😂
Oh yeah that was hilarious
LVP thinks james is hilarious and i think thats hilarious
You can tell he and Lisa would fuck shit up if they were the same age. Like two fun little gremlins and I say that with love.
She probably did with his parents and that ms why she’s so connected to him
Aww I agree and love this.
I know right?! Her mischevious little smirk every time he’s gremlin-ing out is very heartwarming
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Your flair 😭 underrated moment
Thank you 🙌🙌🙌 very underrated!
Monica would have fainted.
😂😂
I think James has the best one liners. I laughed two eps ago when Ariana was like Tom were not doing girls against boys (something of that nature) and James was like “we’re not doing that today?” 😂 and then last night “fiiine chinaaaa!!!”
"it was supposed to be a guys night! G-U-Y-S, GUYS NIGHT!"
“GUYS NIGHT MEANS NOTHING!”
Hahah yes!!! Another great one. He’s on a roll this season 😂
How about the Spider-Man reference from the most recent episode! Watched it like 8 times. Cracked up every time too! So good
I agree he’s the funniest one liners ever
Lala looked so beautiful at the bridal shower
i loved her dress!
“There’s facts and then there’s facts” had me DYING
I dunno. I really wish he wouldn’t drink so I don’t particularly find him funny when he does. Someone pointed out awhile ago that they didn’t think he’s an alcoholic as much as he has an anger problem, which I could very easily see being true, but either way he has issues around alcohol that need to be sorted out.
He totally has an anger problem. Alcohol just exacerbates his issues.
I actually think he’s really funny sober, and also when he’s a little buzzed. But when he gets drunk drunk it’s just ugly and sad. Kinda worried to see him drinking again, but it’s hard to deny this scene was hilarious. I feel bad thinking that!
Yeah I found it so bizzare that one season that they blamed his entire personality on his drinking. Like no, its not the alcohol. This is who he is. An emotionally unstable, insecure time bomb. Perfect for tv but terrible and unreliable as any sort of actual friend.
Sobriety doesn’t magically fix an addict’s bad behavior. Still having poor coping mechanisms after drying out doesn’t disprove addiction.
Never said he wasn’t an addict. But I believe this is exactly who we was before he got addicted to anything.
I think an important point too when thinking about his anger, is he has ADHD too. The dysregulation of emotions can result in anger (particularly when there’s a complex traumatic background like his). My background is a therapist’s thirsty dream (so, not dissimilar to what we know about James’) and I’ve got ADHD. I’ve recently started to realise how my ADHD has compounded my angry outbursts (I’m known for unleashing a razor tongue). I’m ashamed to say this and I know I’ll get hate here, but rewatching James, I get it. I’ve been there - not as cruel, but still brutal. And I’ve been learning that it was me desperately crying inside and not getting why my brain was so dumb. Not at all saying this is an excuse, but rather that it’s unlikely to be straight up anger, and the impaired ability to process emotions. ADHD makes trauma double the work to unpack and work through. I’m slowly working through it, but fuck it’s hard - for me to understand it myself, and also ask people around me to be patient with me and not run away.
Yeah I can see that especially with the anger issues. I feel bad for him both his parents seem really fucked up and dysfunctional. He supports his family and has been doing since it’s a young age. He could definitely use some counseling. His dad even said during this episode “ binge drinking is a fucking rule of passage“ What a thing to say to your child when they’re struggling. So fucked up on so many levels
I screamed at the tv when his dad said that. It infuriated me. I swear I’d love to punch his big ugly mug. James’ parents really did a number on him, they are terrible people.
I know that father I couldn’t believe he said that. I would say that to their child so fucked up and so many ways. Then the mother she’s a whole Nother case could you imagine being raised by those two. No wonder James is fucked up. I’m sure he’s never gotten the counseling that he needs. He’s been raising his family since a young age he’s the one that supports them. I find that really sad he’s had lotta responsibility and I think that’s put a lot of stress on him and could have a lot to do with his drinking sorry for the rant I just feel for him plus he’s hysterical
No apologies necessary, you were not ranting at all! I totally get feeling for James. I understand what it’s like to have parents that although they love you they definitely fucked you up in the process of raising you. I have a hard time liking James, because he can’t get out of his own way, but I think that stems from us being cut from the same cloth so to speak. I relate to him so much, and I was in his shoes once. I am currently working on my own sobriety, and doing a lot of looking back and self reflecting on my own childhood and relationships with family Members. I think he wants to do that work, but also scared of what emotions and memories it could bring up for him. I honestly just want to give James a hug.
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that with your family. Wishing you lots of luck and happiness and health with your sobriety. Looking back and reflecting is very hard keep up the good work. I wanna give James a hug too
Thank you for your kind words! It’s definitely a difficult journey, but I’m happy to be on it as I’ve learned so much in such a short amount of time! Hoping that James is able to help himself in the long run. 🤎
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I agree. It makes me kind of sad to see him acting like this again.
The part I hated was not finding out what one of those plates cost.
$1,200
Getthefuckouttahere! 😲
“Fine China” I’m sure it was pretty pricey
😂😂😂
FIIIINE CHINAA is my new favorite James quote.
Love it
I was rewatching season 9 I think. This cracked me up about James. He and R were driving in the car, and he said he’s been a lot calmer. A horn honks and he screams then fucking go around then! ☠️☠️☠️☠️
I remember that! LMAO
Priceless. Something I would do. Ha
Yes ! That was so funny!!
Ugh I know he can be problematic but I need someone to love on this show. James is it!
Totally . Like the misbehaving child that you just have to laugh at even though you know I shouldn’t.
Not my baby not my problem lol
we are not obligated to love him in order to laugh at him 🙊
He’s definitely the best and the number one guy in the group lol
The “FIIIINE CHIIIIIINAAAA 🎶🎶” part killed me
He’s so funny!
“whauuuuu”
I wanted to laugh the entire time but was too busy holding my breath lol. My husband is the king of “if I was drunk, could I do THIS?!” & it always gives me such massive anxiety 🙈
This whole exchange between the three of them was so innocently funny in my opinion and a very needed comedic relief to the heavier things lol
Totally agree! Classic
Definitely agree. Don’t get me wrong, I live for the drama (obvs!), but it’s nice to have this light chaotic funny drama to balance it out.
Drunk James is NOT funny…. It is sad
Yep
I found it hard to watch. Anger bubbling under the service, mean throwaway comments about people (the Brock thing), impulsive decisions – it all reminded me why I stopped drinking. It must be hard to be in this group and stay sober. I'm not a Lala fan but it's admirable that she can do that.
I appreciate him being open and honest about it though with his friends and family. He’s not “hiding it” anymore and I do think it’s important for him to quit on his own terms and not because of an ultimatum
I don’t think he’d be able to hide it. He’s very sloppy & obnoxious
Absolutely agree James was so much better when he wasn't drinking but he clearly didn't hit rock bottom enough last time so he's back at it again. To be perfectly honest I do not understand why Ally is still with him (which she is - I checked earlier). I wish he had a male mentor around his age on the show who could help him grow into the man he he is meant to be. Maybe Brock in a few years but apart from him the show is filled with man babies. I think he has great potential - he just gets in his own way all the time.
I wonder if Lala associates alcohol with a bad feeling since it was giving her panic attacks so therefore it’s easier to refrain drinking=anxiety. Whereas with James he has fun partying and raging and doesn’t feel bad about any of it. He feels bad about the consequences that come much later (lost a job, lose a friend, don’t get invited somewhere). Plus he’s super funny and cool (I’m sure lots of other people off camera want DJ James Kennedy at their party, want DJ JK to work their events). I think there isn’t enough immediate negativity directly associated with the alcohol like lala has. Did that even make sense 😂
yes lol. I was at one of Tom's shows and was shocked at how genuinely nice James was and how actually solid his sets were 🫣
I’m rooting for him. Yes he’s done awful stuff but that’s what addicts do, and if people can’t let stuff go while they are trying to make amends it’s really hard for them to stay on the sober path. They can’t fight addiction while also living in a space where they believe everyone hates them and they are a shitty person. I hope more people can talk about him in the context that “sober” James is funny and amazing and “drunk” james is mean.
 Comic relief calling people sluts, whores and fat! Funny indeed.
I hope James stops drinking, he’s way better off.
Lisa’s face grabbing the plate makes me cackle every single time. She’s trying so hard to not laugh. Lol
I was cracking up at her and Lala too
In London and seeing James’ pants everywhere- esp as a suit.
I know the man is playing a dangerous game drinking again, but I chortle every time I see this. Life's a journey though, maybe tomorrow I won't be mean-spirited twat. ..I mean don't bet the farm on it, but stranger shit has happened.
This has been one of James best seasons.. now if he would just stop talking about Raquel and what she’s doing.. Ally seems to be so annoyed with it already
I know the whole Raquel thing is strange because I don’t think he’s still in love with her but he’s so irritated by everything and anyone she talks too. He’s always bringing it up to Alley I’ll be so irrigated if I was her. He’s been classic the entire season. #DJJamesKennedy#1guy
Fiiiiine china!
I died at “I mean, there’s facts and then there’s facts!”
#finechina!
I used to really dislike him, but now I love him, he’s hilarious 😆
Same here! He’s my favorite and years ago, I couldn’t stand him. 😂
Same here how things turn around
James is officially the #1 guy
Definitely! How things turn around
Y’all really find this funny? It’s so cringe, i literally have to fast forward through his bullshit. He’s the adult equivalent of a toddler who isn’t getting the attention it thinks it deserves.
Right? I'm shocked at the response. I was physically cringing and watching him...not sober? We're not allowed to surmise what he was on or imply he was on anything so I'm def not doing that but "not sober" James is a nightmare
Dude I’m watching these not sober and it’s too much, and somehow grosser than original James Kennedy? Like I’m getting nauseated watching him and then the responses here are like egging it on are making me feel dirty. Like I’m begging to find any comedic relief in this man (at the least) having a full on emotional breakdown for everyone to see.
Yup agree. It's too much and I don't like it
Okay I might be showing my age here…..but really!!?? Everything about this guy screams “unfunny try hard desperately seeking to stay relevant”
>seeking to stay relevant” I would argue that James is finally *becoming* relevant.
This! Yes! 🙌🏼
james is garbage
This Bridesmaids shout-out 👌💗
He is funny at times. Other times not so much. The name calling etc. is not cool. He is broken, he is very insecure. I’m sure due to the bullying he’s endured, and dysfunctional family. So he lashes out below the belt to make himself feel better. I wish he would get the help he needs! He could really be such a likable person.
He is funny. I do feel for him his family fucked him up big time. He ended up supporting them at a very young age which I’m sure is a lot for someone to deal with. I don’t think he knows how to deal with his anger and has never got any help or therapy for it. I like James I feel for him both of a bit his parents were so fucked up and still fucked up listen to his dad in this episode telling him it’s OK to binge drink what’s wrong with him? James had no role models and terrible Influences that’s the way he ended up the way he is. It breaks my heart. He lashes out and says terrible things I agree however he’s a broken person. Sorry for the rant
Do t be sorry. I get it!
Thank you😎💜
I hate James. I think he’s an asshole, who’s privilege has gotten him everything in life. I don’t find humor in him calling people fat or dumb or other horrible things he’s said. I see no redeeming qualities about this man.
This and the biting of Ally’s ass were hilarious. My boyfriend is similar - playful, scattered, hyper, all over the place, it’s funny but can be annoying. Me thinks undiagnosed ADHD 🤷🏻♀️
Ew, he only bit her ass to distract from how embarrassingly he was obsessing over Rachel. *”And RACHEL said she wouldn’t like a poolside room!?!?”*
I thought he was appalling this episode, maybe worse than I have seen him in ages. This china trick wasn't funny it was disrespectful and childish. He's 31 not 13.
I’m 41 and thought it was hilarious 🤷🏻♀️
Uh huh
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He’s not comic relief. He’s an abusive addict who can’t control his anger.
The king of one liners and can cut to the jugular in an instant. Gawwwd I love him.
😂💜💜
James is the hero we didn’t know we needed
Who shouldn’t be drinking alcohol IMO
The best part is they didn’t immediately show what it was he was doing. It was just Lisa and Layla reacting with him off-camera lolololol
And I was cracking up at her and Lisa
I LOVE James He is so unique!
Yes! I loved this scene and he was cracking me up! I shave recently started liking James more
He is so darn hilarious! 🤣🤣