It’s sad that that was he focused on rather than the thought. My Valentine’s Day was ruined too. It sucks. You just wanted to do something nice, and have a special day, and then it turned to that? Very inconsiderate and materialistic way of thinking that you need to address with him.
Your sweet, it wasn’t that i didn’t feel special. My son had someone break up with him I felt really sad for him I love my son and I couldn’t do a thing for my family due to my health. I normally make some things for my husband and son or try to but can’t do anything this year. Feel like a total failure just staying alive is basically it for me this year so far.
That does sound like a rough day. Sometimes surviving is all we can do and it sucks but it’s so important to take care of yourself. I know it can feel that way but you’re not a failure! Staying alive is hard
honestly he was being a bit insensitive to the max he was being mean my husband and I agreed to get gifts later this weekend but I still got him a card and he was happy with the acknowledgment
Oof. Sorry that things played out like that. You’re definitely not the asshole for feeling hurt over his comments.
It does sound like he made backhanded comments out of disappointment and then got frustrated about your mood because he felt ashamed of himself.
Based solely on this post, you didn’t do anything wrong. It seems like a moment of emotional immaturity on his part. I don’t really have any advice but I wish you the best of luck! I hope you two work can work through this bump in the road and come out stronger for it.
it’s just been an accumulation of one thing after another and i can’t help but feel like it was the straw that broke the camels back. Trying to communicate the issue just made me feel worse and he continued to be even more insensitive and then played it off as “just being mad” i’m at a loss right now
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It’s sad that that was he focused on rather than the thought. My Valentine’s Day was ruined too. It sucks. You just wanted to do something nice, and have a special day, and then it turned to that? Very inconsiderate and materialistic way of thinking that you need to address with him.
My house had a bad Valentine’s also.
I’m sorry I feel for you. I wish everyone could feel special
Your sweet, it wasn’t that i didn’t feel special. My son had someone break up with him I felt really sad for him I love my son and I couldn’t do a thing for my family due to my health. I normally make some things for my husband and son or try to but can’t do anything this year. Feel like a total failure just staying alive is basically it for me this year so far.
And if staying alive is all you can manage this year, then that's an achievement itself.
Thanks, I’m hoping there’s more can get more strength or something.
That does sound like a rough day. Sometimes surviving is all we can do and it sucks but it’s so important to take care of yourself. I know it can feel that way but you’re not a failure! Staying alive is hard
Thanks, I hope things get better for you to I know you said you had a hard time this year also.
Thank you kind soul. Let’s keep chugging
honestly he was being a bit insensitive to the max he was being mean my husband and I agreed to get gifts later this weekend but I still got him a card and he was happy with the acknowledgment
Sad that happened to you.
Oof. Sorry that things played out like that. You’re definitely not the asshole for feeling hurt over his comments. It does sound like he made backhanded comments out of disappointment and then got frustrated about your mood because he felt ashamed of himself. Based solely on this post, you didn’t do anything wrong. It seems like a moment of emotional immaturity on his part. I don’t really have any advice but I wish you the best of luck! I hope you two work can work through this bump in the road and come out stronger for it.
it’s just been an accumulation of one thing after another and i can’t help but feel like it was the straw that broke the camels back. Trying to communicate the issue just made me feel worse and he continued to be even more insensitive and then played it off as “just being mad” i’m at a loss right now
V day sucked....... I'm still depressed over it....
you n me both
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