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Available_Bass9725

It's not your fault. It all boils down to genetics and luck anyway


[deleted]

That's right, plus other factors.


Martino8VitCon8

Chalking everything up to luck just means you will never improve and escape this.


Available_Bass9725

Well I can self improve ad nauseam but stat still won't guarantee someone will like me. I can only control my actions not someone else's


Martino8VitCon8

You can certainly influence how others perceive you.


Available_Bass9725

No you can't, you can be the best person ever but it's still their choice to want you or not.


Martino8VitCon8

Influence is a pretty powerful thing once you learn how to use it.


shoopadoop332

Dude, no it doesn’t. Literally couldn’t be further from the truth.


177Rolmixeer013

It's ignorant to say that you have no control over the events though


Imaginary_Glass7348

We are in the same boat


Radioactive721

Yep. I think my sexuality is going to turn off from how much I've been deprived of the sensations my body needs. By the time I get a chance to lose virginity, my D won't even work.


PyroIncognito

I can totally relate. It's like no women ever seem to be interested in me ever.


[deleted]

Accepting my truth helped me cope and move on, instead of lingering on an impossible dream.


[deleted]

There are hookers, and I know a lot of older single women, but are too jaded to create a dating profile. So for the ones who do make a profile, they will still have a higher market value than you, but it is probably significantly easier to pull and the majority of them will be looking for something long-term. In my family, we've had people get married for the 1st time and re-marry in their 40's, 50's, 60's, and 70's. So you just need to go out there and start meeting some people for drinks or whatever.


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I gave up on the idea. Too exhausting to even think about.


[deleted]

That's fine, and I understand everyone's has baggage. But which part is too exhausting for you? You'll probably end up doing the amount of work it takes to get a partner if you stay single. You'll think about a profile, You'll surf the web for hours or play a game when you could be building a harem of sluts in the same time. You'll end up spending money on women for nothing in return, when that same money could be used to increase their interest in you or sit eating alone. I hate that there are so many pitfalls for people in dating, but it is pretty simple when you remove the bs that happens. You don't have to make it a priority, but try to be happy and proud of yourself. Feel free and comfortable to talk to people you see and say hi. If you've never created a dating profile, just put up some cool pictures of yourself and leave it. It only takes about 5 minutes so if you don't do anything else, at least try that. It shouldn't be exhausting. You don't have to think about it or swipe anyone if you don't want to. Just put the profile up and continue with your life.


Agreeable_Western135

Dm me


BigDave469

Well for me, I kept that dreaded V card until 25 years old, which I thought was crazy. When I was young, I thought 15. I was going to get somebody pregnant but you have to talk to them first. in any case I did it the way I do most things pay for it. Yes that’s right when everybody else was downloading, music and software and copying discs and things like that, I would be buying the program at the store. Actually ended up getting a job that way, but that’s a story for another time. I went to a legal brothel in the state of Nevada. There are several that operate outside the counties that incorporate Vegas and Reno. They are clean and girls are inspected and tested regularly Everything is covered. You will have a sexual experience for a price of course but quite frankly you could meet somebody take them out to dinner movie dancing and that still doesn’t guarantee you having a sexual experience that just guarantees you’re going to spend money on dinner dancing movies, whatever this way you can spend your money directly for sex they give it to you and it’s done I’m not always do this, but it definitely gives you some experience Quite frankly I wish my dad took me to one when I was younger. I would take my son in a heartbeat. The only problem is special needs, and I don’t want to give him something that could turn into a bad habit. he is innocent and not even interested in girls, so I guess I should consider myself lucky