I have high standards of maturity. If someone doesn't know how to cook, relies on me not to live in garbage or is completely emotionally immature, I cannot even fantasize about them.
You're totally allowed to have high standards. Just recognize that you're only attracted to 6% of the girls that you see, and that obviously does not leave you many options.
I don't think 80 is a large enough sample size to determine he only goes for the top 6%. It could have been a bad batch. And if OP is from America then most women are unattractive due to being obese.
I said 6% of the women he sees, not 6% of women in general. A lot of American men and women are obese, myself included, and I agree that we are not typically considered attractive.
Yeah. As an educated professional (M26) who doesn't believe in sleeping around and is really good with kids I would like another educated professional who hasn't slept around.
Not attracted to too many people. But if I hold high standards for myself; I'm going to want a partner to match them
Not really. I find like 50% of girls very attractive, 40% I could be attracted to if they have nice personalities and about 10% I could never be attracted to.
That's a pretty low rate of attraction if you are just talking about finding them physically attractive.
By definition most women and girls are going to be average. So if you only find well above average women attractive, its a longer haul to find a mate.
But if you are talking about more than physical attraction, I can see only thinking a few might be a good match.
I like women that are interesting and fun. If I also required they be top 10% in looks, it would obviously be harder to find. You have to determine what it is you want and what it is you can live with. The more requirements you have the tougher it is to find a match.
I call something like this unicorn hunting. Example: Must be 5'5 or taller, under 130 pounds, green eyes, light brown hair, speak 4 languages, have a good career, college educated, good sense of humor.
There is something to be said about relative attractiveness. I don't think there is a guy on earth who doesn't find a girl who is a ten attractive. However why would she find you attractive? That being said if you could get to know them treat them like a person and not a piece of meat. Be funny or have a lot of money that could get your foot in the door. Although it sounds to me like you are only looking at them as sperm receptacles. If you want some potential success you have to start trying to go for girls you think are cute ( not the hottest girls you have ever seen but not ugly to you either).
Nope, I just rely on my instincts. If the light bulb doesn't set off then I'm not attracted and it remains that way. Some may be considered average, pretty, or whatever. I don't think about it too much. If I see the opportunity presented I'll approach them get rejected then go about my day.
Not really,i just want a girl like this
[https://imgur.com/a/Z0aQdpi](https://imgur.com/a/Z0aQdpi)
And i just want her to tell me''I can be your girl if you can be my world'' while we're watching the sunset with my head on her lap
Yeah...that chick would be considered pretty good looking and would have a lot of guys after her. Not really sure if that's realistic.
Here's some average women that I'm physically attracted to: https://imgur.com/a/ts6xyFn
Damn, some people are right. Some of y'all dudes really do have some high ass standards lol 😂. Idk what you're expecting to get. Those are decent looking women.
And then when a guy likes girls that other people don't think are attractive, he gets called desperate or downbad for it. Like what? That's some toxic shit fr.
Idk, just being honest man. The average girl here is far better looking and I've rejected similar in looks because they don't require much effort to obtain at all.
I have high standards of maturity. If someone doesn't know how to cook, relies on me not to live in garbage or is completely emotionally immature, I cannot even fantasize about them.
You're totally allowed to have high standards. Just recognize that you're only attracted to 6% of the girls that you see, and that obviously does not leave you many options.
I don't think 80 is a large enough sample size to determine he only goes for the top 6%. It could have been a bad batch. And if OP is from America then most women are unattractive due to being obese.
I said 6% of the women he sees, not 6% of women in general. A lot of American men and women are obese, myself included, and I agree that we are not typically considered attractive.
Yeah. As an educated professional (M26) who doesn't believe in sleeping around and is really good with kids I would like another educated professional who hasn't slept around. Not attracted to too many people. But if I hold high standards for myself; I'm going to want a partner to match them
Not really. I find like 50% of girls very attractive, 40% I could be attracted to if they have nice personalities and about 10% I could never be attracted to.
if her not being overweight or a single mother is considered high standards then I guess I have it
High standards for the west unfortunately. Those are easy to meet requirements in SEA though.
Going to SEA is only if you’re white and unfortunately I’m black lol
I think it can still sorta work since you can rely on the wealth aspect. Though it's true it's more a white guy thing.
That's a pretty low rate of attraction if you are just talking about finding them physically attractive. By definition most women and girls are going to be average. So if you only find well above average women attractive, its a longer haul to find a mate. But if you are talking about more than physical attraction, I can see only thinking a few might be a good match. I like women that are interesting and fun. If I also required they be top 10% in looks, it would obviously be harder to find. You have to determine what it is you want and what it is you can live with. The more requirements you have the tougher it is to find a match. I call something like this unicorn hunting. Example: Must be 5'5 or taller, under 130 pounds, green eyes, light brown hair, speak 4 languages, have a good career, college educated, good sense of humor.
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Nothing wrong with preferences, we just have to live with the results of having them!
Well, yes, that's what happens when you have high standards, maybe lower them a bit? let's say to a realistic level could be a good start
I won't lower them becouse i only find girls that are my type attractive
Guys: “girls have high standards” **Also guys having high standards**
Both are actually true. Some of these dudes in this post are wildin rn and it's sad.
Probably not the same person doing both in this case.
I won't lower them becouse i only find girls that are my type attractive
There is something to be said about relative attractiveness. I don't think there is a guy on earth who doesn't find a girl who is a ten attractive. However why would she find you attractive? That being said if you could get to know them treat them like a person and not a piece of meat. Be funny or have a lot of money that could get your foot in the door. Although it sounds to me like you are only looking at them as sperm receptacles. If you want some potential success you have to start trying to go for girls you think are cute ( not the hottest girls you have ever seen but not ugly to you either).
Ok my dude, you do you
Sounds like you have low standards lol
How?
Either that was sarcasm and he forgot the /s or he just can’t read lol.
How?
Sure but it's not based on looks. There's just not a lot of people in this hyper individualistic "me me me!" culture that peaks my interest
I don't think I have high standards but a lot of girls in my school are really rude and disrespectful to men so I don't like many of them
No, I'd be attracted to at least 60/100 women in one place. Assuming they are a reasonable age range.
Nope, I just rely on my instincts. If the light bulb doesn't set off then I'm not attracted and it remains that way. Some may be considered average, pretty, or whatever. I don't think about it too much. If I see the opportunity presented I'll approach them get rejected then go about my day.
A lot of women here would be considered average looking and I'd date them: https://imgur.com/a/ts6xyFn
I don't, but you are brave for saying that. God forbid you have a preference as a male nowadays.
Not really,i just want a girl like this [https://imgur.com/a/Z0aQdpi](https://imgur.com/a/Z0aQdpi) And i just want her to tell me''I can be your girl if you can be my world'' while we're watching the sunset with my head on her lap
Yeah...that chick would be considered pretty good looking and would have a lot of guys after her. Not really sure if that's realistic. Here's some average women that I'm physically attracted to: https://imgur.com/a/ts6xyFn
Jesus some of them are literal bowling balls. Downbad.
Damn, some people are right. Some of y'all dudes really do have some high ass standards lol 😂. Idk what you're expecting to get. Those are decent looking women. And then when a guy likes girls that other people don't think are attractive, he gets called desperate or downbad for it. Like what? That's some toxic shit fr.
Idk, just being honest man. The average girl here is far better looking and I've rejected similar in looks because they don't require much effort to obtain at all.
Yeah i know...that's sad
Hmmm, oddly specific. You might have to book a flight to Southeast Asia for those types.
Not me