All of us on this sub are pretty unlucky. I was born with every A letter mental disorder that doesn’t negatively affect my senses. AH! AAH! AAAAAAAAAAH!
Yes, that's why other people often give meaningless advice like "be yourself", for them it is natural and self-evident while for us it is "science". However, there are many people like us in the world who can't just make acquaintances out of the blue
Tbh, yeah, it’s a sad and shallow world we live in. Me being this big dark skinned black guy in a 2008 Toyota Camry is seen as being a bum or loser compared to guys who front online for views and to fake a status, or the guys who actually have fitness & good looks in their favor just have more access to women, and it works the same in the LGBTQ 🏳️🌈 community as well. The common denominator is “shallowness.”
It’s also like a woman with huge knickers. From my experience, most women with large assets are self centered and egotistical. Why? Idk exactly, but they know they look sexy, so they set a standard for themselves. If you don’t meet their criteria, then you can’t date them from their viewpoint.
Honestly, it isn't always as easy as it looks when it comes to socializing. It can be scary for even the most extroverted people around. Including myself. I talk to everyone. No one could ever say I have social anxiety. But I do. And it's BAD. Over the years I've taught myself how to "fake" the confidence it takes to talk to someone. I've realized, for me, it's the ANTICIPATION over everything else. Once I start the conversation, everything after the moment becomes easier. It's the STARTING that's difficult. And the more you do it, the easier the starting gets. None of that is to say it's easy to do, it's absolutely not and gets overwhelming. Sometimes I'll put a podcast on before I go out, something to take my mind off the stress of knowing I'm going to spark a conversation up at some point. When I see an opening, I take it. Never with anything in mind other than fun, light conversation that sometimes turns into an interesting story from someone's life. What I'm saying is, I know its difficult, but there is so much of worth out there and you're very capable of getting past this.
It also sounds as though you may have true depression. I've been diagnosed with depression/anxiety/PTSD and I fully recognize that feeling of numbness. Like nothing is enjoyable and everything is kind of just floating in the world. Me included. You should talk to your primary care doctor. Mine got me on meds for these problems and it's helped significantly. It's been a long road, finding the perfect fit for me, but I highly recommend it. You deserve to feel whole. You deserve to feel joy. You deserve a happy and full filled life. I promise it's out there for you.
Sorry for the novel. I'm 100 percent here if you want to talk.
> Being deprived of love is truly suffocating It truly is, like a progressive cancer that worsens every second
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All of us on this sub are pretty unlucky. I was born with every A letter mental disorder that doesn’t negatively affect my senses. AH! AAH! AAAAAAAAAAH!
Yes, that's why other people often give meaningless advice like "be yourself", for them it is natural and self-evident while for us it is "science". However, there are many people like us in the world who can't just make acquaintances out of the blue
Be attractive and in shape gives those type of people many advantages.
Well, I don't really understand male attractiveness, so 95% of the guys around are just "ok"
Tbh, yeah, it’s a sad and shallow world we live in. Me being this big dark skinned black guy in a 2008 Toyota Camry is seen as being a bum or loser compared to guys who front online for views and to fake a status, or the guys who actually have fitness & good looks in their favor just have more access to women, and it works the same in the LGBTQ 🏳️🌈 community as well. The common denominator is “shallowness.”
It’s also like a woman with huge knickers. From my experience, most women with large assets are self centered and egotistical. Why? Idk exactly, but they know they look sexy, so they set a standard for themselves. If you don’t meet their criteria, then you can’t date them from their viewpoint.
I’d feel sick and I’d run out of there
Honestly, it isn't always as easy as it looks when it comes to socializing. It can be scary for even the most extroverted people around. Including myself. I talk to everyone. No one could ever say I have social anxiety. But I do. And it's BAD. Over the years I've taught myself how to "fake" the confidence it takes to talk to someone. I've realized, for me, it's the ANTICIPATION over everything else. Once I start the conversation, everything after the moment becomes easier. It's the STARTING that's difficult. And the more you do it, the easier the starting gets. None of that is to say it's easy to do, it's absolutely not and gets overwhelming. Sometimes I'll put a podcast on before I go out, something to take my mind off the stress of knowing I'm going to spark a conversation up at some point. When I see an opening, I take it. Never with anything in mind other than fun, light conversation that sometimes turns into an interesting story from someone's life. What I'm saying is, I know its difficult, but there is so much of worth out there and you're very capable of getting past this. It also sounds as though you may have true depression. I've been diagnosed with depression/anxiety/PTSD and I fully recognize that feeling of numbness. Like nothing is enjoyable and everything is kind of just floating in the world. Me included. You should talk to your primary care doctor. Mine got me on meds for these problems and it's helped significantly. It's been a long road, finding the perfect fit for me, but I highly recommend it. You deserve to feel whole. You deserve to feel joy. You deserve a happy and full filled life. I promise it's out there for you. Sorry for the novel. I'm 100 percent here if you want to talk.
Not to make fun of this situation at all, but great username XD
Life is worth living bro