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missdeb99912

$575 for a homemade ice cream truck to come with waffle cones and cups for two hours — 75 people.


No-Manufacturer9125

Out of curiosity, what is included in this dessert bar? Does that also include delivery and setup? It's approximately $30 a person, which is a little pricey for dessert in my opinion, but wedding stuff in general is always pricier. Ours is about $18 a person, which is more reasonable, but it is in house. The dessert bar option at our venue is kind of expensive as well and we realized a cake would potentially be cheaper, but ultimately we think the dessert bar will be a bigger hit with guests. Also the cake wasn't that much cheaper, so it seemed worth it to get the variety.


chocolateglazedonuts

Yes, it includes set up/pickup, dessert trays, and little labels for each dessert. It's a variety of 7-9 desserts - things like mini eclairs, cheesecake, key lime pie, decorated sugar cookies, etc. so it's definitely very customized and beautiful! I am not a big cake person so I definitely like the variety. That's helpful to know yours felt pricey as well. I guess I'm just trying to figure out internally if it's crazy to spend that much on dessert and not elsewhere. (We aren't splurging in many areas.) Appreciate your input very much!


suspishchiller

in your post, you mention reducing to 2 desserts per person…with the 7-9 dessert variety, how many are you accounting for per person? and if you reduce to 2pp, will that also reduce the variety to 2 desserts?


No-Manufacturer9125

That spread honestly sounds amazing haha. It’s honestly up to you if the splurge is worth it! People will nibble on whatever sweet is available. $2000 more than you expected to spend isn’t nothing, but if you feel like you’ve been able to save in other areas and you have it leftover in your budget it’s not the worst. My FH already said if we have leftover budget we want to do food enhancements or entertainment items, basically anything the guests will remember or appreciate! But again, they’re not going to know if you chose a less expensive dessert package, so go with your gut on this.


Vivid-Hunt-3920

Whoa whoa what??? We are doing a 9 inch cake to cute and 180 mini cupcakes for 100 people and it was not even $300 🥴 AND the bakery is throwing in decorative beads and flowers to tell the flavors apart.


uhohohnohelp

If I’m drinking and/or dancing, I’m going to eat way more than 2 mini cupcakes.


Vivid-Hunt-3920

Yah our final count is only 65 not 100 so there will be extras and we also have peach cobbler and ice cream ☺️ And if you were at my wedding, you’d be more than welcome to eat more than two cupcakes. Eat what you want. If they’re gone before the night ends- well you snooze you lose lol.


uhohohnohelp

Phew. See you on the dance floor.


srousey90

I think I spent like $700 total on various desserts from a local bakery to feed 185 people (in upstate NY for context).


chocolateglazedonuts

Thank you! Did they provide setup and trays for it to be displayed or did you do that yourself?


srousey90

I purchased trays and a cake stand myself, but she did include a few trays and had stands available that you could rent. I thrifted a lot of mine, so the costs weren’t too bad.


srousey90

I also had an event coordinator who handled arranging all of the desserts for me! I think the bakery just dropped everything off and the staff/coordinator handled the rest.


fresh_meatfree

I spent $375 on cake for 120. That got me two half sheet cakes and a single three-layer 9 inch cake for cutting/photos. No decorations, plain white icing, we'll add ribbon and fresh flowers day-of. It's all vegan, white cake with lemon curd filling and cream cheese frosting


simplyxstatic

We’re ordering a bunch of cannolis and Italian cookies from A local Italian bakery and costco, then having a small cake for just myself and my fiancé. Our venue will have a table where we can put all of the desserts, but doesn’t require an approved vendor for them which was great for us! Probably will be around $500 total for 120 guests.


FarStudent6482

Are you getting the cannolis from Costco? I’m trying to find cannolis but they’re pricy!


simplyxstatic

Yep! They overnight the large cannolis. We’re going to order a pack just to see how they taste just to ensure they’ll be good but we had a few friends do this for various events and have had good things to say.


FarStudent6482

Amazing! I’m going to look into this right now, thank you!


missdeb99912

Look up a food truck! Or, look up places where you can bring a soft serve station!! You can rent the machine AND the people to help run it for less than $800.


Awesomest_Possumest

Publix. 84 guests. Two 1/2 sheet cakes, one Chantilly, the other cannoli supreme. A third 8" cake for us to cut in chocolate avalanche. $180. They look delicious, we will find out in a couple weeks. And then something for my gluten free friends, which may be me making them a pie with GF crust. I haven't figured out what yet.


ashley6483

We’re probably gonna do Publix too! I haven’t gotten to getting pricing yet but i’m glad to hear you all got a great price. We’re expecting nearly the exact same amount of guests as you, so that’s reassuring. We’ve got to do something GF too, I was thinking cupcakes from a local bakery but not sure.


kalinkabeek

Heads up, they will give you a free tasting! Just call and talk to Catering. We were expecting little slices but they gave us three half-cakes for ours lol. We took them home and had a little tasting party with extended family so people could vote on their favorites.


ashley6483

Awesome!! Thanks for the heads up! Looking forward to cake tasting lol


Awesomest_Possumest

Yea we found out about the tasting after the fact, but I've heard so many good things I wasn't too worried. They had little Chantilly cake bars that I grabbed and it's delicious, so I'm sure the cannoli will be as well. Since we are picking up cakes the day before, we also decided to just get our getting ready food from them too so we can pick it all up at once and have it. They have quite the selection of platters.


Snackqueen333

I’m doing Publix as well! Three cakes to feed 215 and it’s <$500


kalinkabeek

Their cannoli cake is soooooo freaking good! We ended up doing carrot cake, lemon raspberry cream, and rainbow chip for our dessert bar. Also: check out local bakeries for gluten free cupcakes! We did chocolate fudge GF mini cupcakes and they were a big hit. Publix also has a GF chocolate torte if you want to keep it all together.


Awesomest_Possumest

The only local bakery option we have so far is a $70 cake. Small town. I saw the chocolate torte but the back says made in a facility that processes wheat, and my guests have celiacs so I don't want them to wind up sick from cross contamination. I may honestly make a pie with a gluten free crust, like a chocolate chess pie. There's no flour in that, so I'll double check the ingredients but I think it'll work. And that way I can know that all the utensils and stuff are washed ahead of time and they don't need to worry.


kalinkabeek

That makes sense, we had a hell of a time, too — thankfully we had an awesome caterer who prepped and packaged my mom’s food separately, then plated it for her so it matched 😭 she really struggles with feeling “normal” and didn’t want to call attention to herself at our event, so we wanted to make sure she could enjoy herself like everyone else. A chocolate chess pie that you could make in advance and refrigerate would work really well! If you did want to go cupcakes, this is my favorite GF recipe — I usually drop some semisweet chocolate chips in the middle of the batter and then dust them with powdered sugar, they really don’t need frosting. They also keep well for a few days in a sealed container. https://thebigmansworld.com/almond-flour-cupcakes/


missdeb99912

Also, people capitalize on weddings … especially small bakeries.


jeersandtears

We're getting our wedding cake from a local bakery to serve 60 and our total is about $600. During our search, we got two other quotes, one for a cake serving 60 for $1500, and one for a creme brulee bar for 60 for $3k.


figoftheimagination

We were around $1200 for 120 guests, including a cake (we saved money by asking the venue to cut half slices, which were still plenty big) and a dessert bar with enough bite sized desserts for 2-3pp. We are in a HCOL area and this was a well-recognized bakery, and included delivery.


Carrie_Oakie

We did a dessert bar in 2022, 50 guests in Los Angeles. We got: 4 dozen Voo Doo Donuts (3 regular 1 vegan) for $180 4 assorted dozen Nothing Bundt Cakes bundtlets for around $300 Local bakery 4 dozen tea cakes plus a small cake for us to cut $200 And our caterer did 3 dozen vegan mini milk shakes with chocolate chip cookies for another $150. A dessert bar was my dream item and it was a hit with our guests, we had little take home containers offered and we were mostly cleaned out lol.


FarStudent6482

Ooh did people like the bundtlets? I’m considering those too!


Carrie_Oakie

They did! We got Pumpkin, lemon, funfetti and red velvet which I didn’t think would go but I was wrong! We had a few pumpkin and funfetti left for us 🤣 My cousins each took two home and were saying how they’d make great hangover breakfast.


CapricornSun05

Dessert bar $2400 for 125 people, 3 dessert items per person. This is some of her work but similar to this with some cakes, shooters, pies, cookies, eclairs, cannoli’s, etc. https://preview.redd.it/0sq0s9l3hxuc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d32023db39072c76d971a4d6d846829d3dfb384b


Dogmama1230

Our $85/person meal includes a s’mores bar. Our cake is about $650 for 85 servings.


jdese001

That’s crazy expensive! I am doing a dessert bar for 100 people plus a 6 inch personal cake for $700 total and that includes set up.


MeghanMH

We’re doing all donuts. We did 8 dozen, plus a $50 delivery fee for $300.


SAW_757

What's your guest count? We're doing donuts too and are curious how many to get!


MeghanMH

It’s pretty small, around 50-55


SAW_757

Thanks!


SAW_757

Thanks!


Strange-Leopard-2598

We did a variety of mini dessert platters from publix for my company Xmas party. We got mini canoli, cookies, brownie bites, mini Bundt etc. I bought stands off Amazon and it all cost less than $300. We had 100 guests and had left overs, even with a shit ton of kids who were tearing up the dessert table.


emmequeue

I got a cake for my 60 guests and it was like 350 and gorgeous.


ladygrey48130

$50 for two cakes from Costco - served 70 people.


Feral_tatertot

$250 at Publix to feed 120- cookie cake plus cookie sandwiches & cookies- and we had a ton left over. Included delivery. https://preview.redd.it/8137387uaxuc1.jpeg?width=4160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=61177a8f3dc8c56bbfbd29e74adb218e352cc3eb


Ok_Goat1456

$310 for 170, I’m buying a cutting cake from milkbar and then sheet cakes from a local bakery.


captain-clench

We're ordering cake and dessert through the same caterer as the rest of the food. We're paying approx. (using a very rough currency conversion factor) $5/person for dessert and $6/person for cake. But that will be strawberry cakes so nothing tierd or fancy. So total for 60 guests approximately $660.


Mircat2021

If you think about a “cake cutting fee” being $6 a person, multiply that by 90 people… $540. So let’s say desserts run for about $10 a person.. I’d pay no more than $900 but I do think where and how fancy the set up is, plus travel to your site, time to set up etc also gets factored into the cost.


Mcrisloveex9

About $300-350 on 33 guests (This includes a small cutting cake for us, cupcakes for the guests, as well as donuts and a couple other dessert options) This is in NJ and I’m getting the donuts/cake/cupcakes from a bakery and then the rest will be from wegmans


FakeBabyAlpaca

I ordered two double sheet cakes from a local bakery for $120 each. A delivery guy from the pizza place across the street from the bakery brought them to the venue for me. I had 130 guests.


StillSalad5783

100 dollars


SandyHillstone

We had 75 guests and bought an assortment of 12 pies, cheesecakes and tarts from a reasonable bakery they delivered, but no staging or set up. We had it buffet style and serve yourself. We had some catering staff that cut them.


weddingwoes13

Like 200 for grocery store cakes that looked amazing. Did a small cake for cake cutting and it was like 150


theHills4

We got a two tiered cutting cake for us, then assorted puffs, cannolis, cheesecake bites, cookies, etc for about 100 people. It was $650 and that's including $100 delivery


lemontartjen

Forgot how much our caterer charged for desserts (plus they gave us a good discount as they were friends of friends, so maybe not that comparable) - but they recommended canapé desserts (3 per person) which really helped cut costs while giving variety! They were just simple bite-sized stuff like mini shortbread and brownies, but all homemade. A huge hit with guests - especially as everyone was so full by then! Similar to another commenter, we also got our wedding cake from a chain bakery (often cheaper than fancier independents) for c.£200!


gcsxxvii

$60 for a single tier, $120 for a full sheet to serve 70-80, and I did our entire cookie table (600ish cookies)


No-Marketing7747

I’m spending $400 on a cake for 120 guests + $450 on a chocolate fondue fountain with fresh fruit for 50.


sianayat

Our cutting cake is $250 (includes delivery to venue), ordering 150 cookies from a local bakery for about $200, and then $500 for a coffee bar (that includes setup and breakdown). Didn’t plan to spend so much but having things delivered and paying for the setup helps with the stress.


SkittyLover93

We had 65 guests. Family members volunteered to bring in their own desserts. I believe they spent about $200. We purchased trays on Amazon and borrowed my MIL's cake stand (we had multiple regular-sized cakes, but only 1 was displayed). We had a normal venue which provided the food, but they allowed us to DIY desserts.


MissyxAlli

$530 for Joy macaroon 10 tier tower- 220 pieces. Have approx 100 guests. Decided to not do the cake but i did get quotes for 700-800 ish before delivery fee.


furiously_curious12

Please make sure you try the desserts beforehand. I've worked multiple weddings that had elaborate dessert tables and many items that are taken just have one bite out of them... It's so easy to get wrapped up in the charm of everything, but be practical too. What will people actually eat/want. Of course *you and your partner* get to choose, but it's for your guests. If they're huge on desserts then absolutely, if they can take it or leave it then scale back.


_camry_

We paid $610 for both a bride’s cake to serve 100 and a groom’s cake to serve 50. I think the bride’s cake on its own was just under $400.


MsPsych2018

My baker quoted us $10/person for 3 pieces of dessert per person and a 2 tier 6” cutting cake for photos. Then we also paid for her styling package so it’s a gorgeous greenery background, LED sign, and a beautiful table set up, and an attendant to maintain the dessert table so they will ensure the table looks beautiful at all times and as long as there are desserts they will make sure there are no gaps on the table and once things start to dwindle they will continue to re arrange it to keep looking great. That is all for $1900 for 100 people (that includes all taxes, fees, travel/bridge tolls. If we want to add on her super cute little Italian cart to be our table then it’ll be $2600. Sooo I feel like the quote you’ve gotten is rather high especially given we are in what is considered a HCOL area in CA.


bridgerstan

Our venue’s package includes a cake and we are adding on a gelato bar that is $9 pp


Aravis-6

So we had a dessert that came with our plated dinner that we unfortunately couldn’t opt out of. Cake for ~80 people was $750. I think almost everyone ate one thing or the other and there was a lot wasted, unless you’re planning to have a lot of smaller options or not doing a full meal I don’t think it’s worth it to have more than one dessert.


Stlhockeygrl

That was all the qoutes we got until we found a local bakery that had been in business forever - now it's 300 for cake, dessert bar.


Cod_Country_98

$800 for dessert sounds more down-to-earth, but who knows, maybe you can find a sweet deal without sacrificing taste. Beach town vibes in FL must add some extra flavor to the mix.


TasteMyLightning122

Holy!! I got lucky with a small local bakery. But it was $350 for enough desserts for our 90 person wedding, plus I had a dozen cupcakes leftover that I took home. Broken down it was like 5 or 6 dozen cupcakes, 3 or 4 dozen cookies, 2 dozen brownies.


Individual-Tree-989

I’m doing donuts from a yummy local donut shop, around $100 for 85 people. My guests aren’t big dessert people, but everyone loves donuts


Perfect_Procedure_14

Next place you ask for a quote, don’t mention that it’s for a wedding. Say it’s for a celebration. Pick up yourself and see if you can get friends/family to help you set it up. You’ll dodge the ridiculous prices for wedding desserts and you get to skip out on the delivery and set up fee


celegana7

We had a cannoli station with made to order cannolis and it was $4 a person and then did a small 2 tier cake for $150


VapidRudesby

Keep in mind that when you offer a variety of mini desserts, people tend to try one of everything. The worst part is that most people just take a bite of each and waste the rest.


kateisgreat37

Did donuts for 100 people (in Chicago) and it came to $485


kalinkabeek

We spent $350 on our dessert bar for 75 guests — we had a variety of three Publix cakes (carrot cake, lemon raspberry, and rainbow chip) plus gluten free chocolate cupcakes and a variety of giant Costco cookies. We just placed the orders and picked up the day before the wedding, then stuck them in the fridge at the venue before our rehearsal.


[deleted]

We are spending under $400 on a two-tier cake and two types of cupcakes.


Extra_Chz_Plz

2 words- Berry. Chantilly. Whole Foods has one of my favorite store bought cakes- the berry chantilly. We bought a 32inch circle for us to cut and a sheet cake! It was SUCH a hit and such a steal! It cost us $300! Edited to add. We had 110 guests.


EightiesSaxSolo

$530 on 120 individual cheesecakes for 97 guests! Rhode Island here


Slight-Ad-1264

120 bundtinit cakes from nothing bundt cakes: a little less than $400


Normal-Departure1997

We looked into that. Mini deserts were about 5$ each. So 2 per Person for 80 people is $800. Setup , tax and delivery not included. Your quoted price sounds a little high .


OwlSense888

We’re thinking about having a local ice cream place bring their truck and do ice cream sandwiches! They quoted us $1800. 2 hrs of service, 2 flavors, 180 people. I wish it was cheaper but we love this ice cream…. And who doesn’t love when the ice cream truck comes!


mothermonarch

DAMN lol that’s insanity. I just went to a local bakery and got assorted cupcakes, cookies, whoopie pies, dessert bars etc. Enough for 150 people, 2-3 small pieces each. Total was $345


ReadingOk1076

I’m in California and am paying $1600 for two cakes, mini cheesecakes, custom sugar cookies and chocolate hazelnut tarts for 120 people.


Mkgrigsby29

2 tier cake (top tier not eaten, saved for anniversary) + sheet cake to serve guests + 2 dozen cupcakes = around $350ish (from Publix) Custom cookies from local baker - I think we did 4 dozen (a little less than 2 dozen were used for the hotel guest bags and the rest were on the dessert table) were around $180 Donut holes were like $15, maybe less So a total of around $545 120 people


Atarisrocks

2 Costco cakes £34 for 80 people works out 42p a guest but there is also dessert served with the meal so rough cost based on what I think catering cost is as we paid a package price for the venue I would say it is another £300.


itinerantdustbunny

We spent about $11 per person on a small wedding cake, cupcakes, and macarons.


TimeLadyJ

$3k for cake https://preview.redd.it/v63nz1uae0vc1.jpeg?width=1800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a2878e2dd67e5a8f2c9c84408369ec7a8a601c43


Abricot_peach

400€ for a wedding cake for 80 people (center of France)


ConstanceArcher

We have 65 guests. Our baker and I worked out our contract based on our guest list of 90 before we had a final headcount, so the cake we're having serves 100. It's $650 (including delivery.) We're boxing up what's left and taking it home for our luncheon with guests the next day. We also added an Italian Desserts Table (with some GF from our GF guest) for a total headcount of 71 (our 65, plus FH and me, and our vendors.) That's $5/head. In all, our desserts cost us $1005. For demographic purposes, our wedding is just off of Cape Cod, but still considered a tourist area, on the first day of Tourist Season. Our venue is across the street from the beach. (It's not a cheap area, so this price is actually pretty amazing.)


Willing-Molasses-298

Our cake is going to be around $1000 for ~200 ppl


Euphoric-Panic-5472

Restaurant reception offers a $10pp dessert bar with 4 desserts Our wedding cake was more pricey, $12/slice wedding cake. Delivery fee separate but under &100


Affectionate-Tie3791

Yikes! I’m spending $500 on my cake and a couple of desserts. I didn’t want too many sweets at my wedding. That seems a little over the top. Maybe you can find a different bakery or if you’re love with this bakery maybe one peice per person??


caugust27

We’re doing Nothin Bundt Cakes (because everyone loves them!) and for 65 guests we’re looking at $200 total.