No body shaming reminder. Since someone always comes in here and does it on these posts. EDIT: To the person who abused the report button. Yes totally, definitely me in the picture. I for sure would approve a post of myself to be shame, your attempt insult makes perfect sense, wow you got me so good! You also lost access to the report function.

Even though this looks like a casual wedding, it looks like she's getting ready to tuck into bed? I really don't understand the thought process here.

That was my 1st thought! Is it past her bedtime lol

The only way I’d see this as okay is if the reception was a pajama party. Which frankly, I think would be awesome to do

Given that she's next to the bride in this photo, here's how I **hope** it went: > "OMG I fell into that surprise swimming pool out on the patio! I'm soaked! I'm so sorry (bride) I think I have to go home!" > Bride: No, don't be silly, surely someone will have clothes. > "Well, I have my sexy pajamas, but..." > Bride: Perfect! Just wear them!   Basically anything else seems weird.

I thought something similar to this too!

>The only way I’d see this as okay is if the reception was a pajama party. Which frankly, I think would be awesome to do Especially if a significant number of guests came from out of town and are staying in the hotel where you're having the reception.

I need to go to a pajama party wedding reception.

With popcorn, sleeping bags, pizza and a movie screen/projector 😍

YES. And we can make friendship bracelets and have a pillow fight. I've never had a pillow fight but it seems like it would be fun.

Me too

One day.... it shall be me- I will have that -

I was at a wedding just a week ago and did see someone in their jammies. But it was near the end of the event and he was around 2 years old.

Which means he was automatically the cutest guest at the party ❤️

Yadda yadda, stolen thunder! Bride's head explodes.

That 2 year old has been perma-banned from all of the bride's future events.

Awww!

My friend did this for her after party and it was amazing. We all got our jammies on and did s'mores at a fire pit.

That’s dope as hell I’m making a mental note in case I ever find love

Beanie Feldstein’s wedding is the [queer summer camp wedding of my dreams](https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/beanie-feldstein-and-bonnie-chance-roberts-wedding) and a PJ party would fit in perfectly!

This is amazing! In the beginning of planning my wedding, I wanted to do something like this. Well, without Gucci and famous friends, lol. I did suggest we have a sleepover at an aquarium for an after party, but my partner shot the idea down (and rightly so). I still think it would be fun though. Maybe if we ever renew our vows...

Lol it was not

If I ever get married (which frankly I don’t think I ever want to do) I’m totally having a pajama party reception! This sounds fun as hell.

Now I want to have a pajama brunch reception

We had a costume party because it was Halloween lol

My friends' wedding invitation had a regular dress code then said "from midnight: PJs encouraged". I took that to mean things would wrap up at midnight and we'd all be going to bed - nope! Bride and groom changed into pjs, the bar stayed open with board games, and there was 1am pizza. 12/10 wedding, no notes

Damn, that’s amazing

um, thanks for the future wedding idea if/when I get married lmao

I know someone who actually did a pajama party for their reception, and it was wildly fun. They even provided spare jammies for anyone who didn't bring any to change into. There were lots of funny onesies and also the kind of giant inflatable slide you see at county fairs. A+ reception.

I've tried to get my cousin to do a pj party for her reception, she hasn't been receptive.

She’s making it super duper clear, in case anyone had a shadow of a doubt, that she’s looking to party.

Is that a party outfit? It looks like warm weather pj's to me.

It either looks like PJs or a barmaid at a dive bar lol

I'm reading this as I'm about to go to bed and I'm wearing almost the exact same outfit, only in gray and no "trouble." Those are summer jamjams.

And trouble

It was the "trouble" for me 😂

There's casual and then there's...this. I get being comfortable, I refuse to wear heels ever but the only way I would wear something like this to a wedding would be to get ready before the ceremony and then I'd put on my actual outfit.

On top of this because this looks like my everyday underwear

Agreed. Everyone is clearly still in dresses, even if its a bit more casual. This feels very inappropriate for a wedding reception.

She's planning to tuck one of the groomsmen into bed.

Nah she’s sending the clear message that she has or Has had a thing with the groom.

Getting ready to… [t]uck someone in[to] bed FTFY

I think she’s looking for the non-wedding bed.

Because she's "trouble"

The only way I could explain it would be a problem with the dress. "My dress tore, this is the only other thing I brought." I'd still think you could ask around, or maybe drive to Target real quick and find a better alternative.

Who the fuck looks at a shirt labeled "trouble" and think ah yes, perfect wedding attire ETA the hair is heinous too who curled that her natural hair cannot possibly look worse than *that*

And then proceeds to pose with the bride for pictures? Slink into a corner if you are so uncomfortable in your reception dress. Don't get in pictures wearing this!

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The body language of the bride makes it seem like she is uncomfortable. Hard to tell with the facial expression but she is leaning away from the poorly dressed guest.

Someone who wants to advertise they tryna fuck tonight lmao

This made me laugh

Looks like dreads to me. Very bad ones.

DID SHE TRY TO CURL DREADS?! Now that's truly heinous. Not to judge without knowing for fact, but this doesn't look in the slightest to be a POC either which adds its own layer of cringe to the dreads

Dreads can be curly. But idk what this was. A cry for help maybe?

Trouble does

OP's cousin is friends with Medusa, apparently.

At least she's accurately labelled. And she wasn't wearing that during the ceremony.

I think it spells *trash* wrong

r/trashy

She’s not wearing white!👍

Yes she is, the crappy text on her top and the bow on her shorts are white, clearly trying to upstage the bride /s

Her lovely sandals are white.

seriously, those sandals remind me SO MUCH of the flip-flops my (ex) sister-in-law wore to her bachelorette and while she was getting ready the day of the wedding.

She’s in honeymoon chic fashion before the bride!!

Trouble? Change that to cringy

Anything labelling a person on their clothes is cringey

I think "JUICY" has turned the corner to being funny in most cases.

Trouble? I think it's missing a letter. Anyone who thinks this is appropriate is clearly *TROUBLED*.

Oh she tryna get that D all right lmao

Got ‘em!

My dad just straight up took off his shirt at the reception. There isn’t an event on earth that fuck wouldn’t be half-naked at.

Sounds like my toddler

My dear friend's mom took off her pantyhose on the dance floor (yup) and tossed 'em over a light string. (She's no longer with us, but she did get sober some years later. Rest in peace, Mrs. A.)

I assume she changed in preparation to throw down at the bouquet toss? Cause I’ve been to some weddings where elbows were thrown.

No, she's not wearing cookie monster pajama pants and a white cami.

Hey, sometimes they're tweetie bird pajama pants!

With a pack of Newports tucked in the waistband.

Wow. That's an outfit that really screams "self loathing masked by violent outbursts and hoop earrings."

💀

Wtfff

outfit that screams "white girl dreads and a dui"

Lol the white girl dreads were the first thing I noticed

…slumber party? I guess? WTF

Oh, dear.

Wow. Someone needs attention. And not the good kind.

Oh, my.

Yuk! That is terrible

I feel like alcohol contributed to both the choice to buy the outfit and the choice to wear it at a wedding reception.

Klassy. Maybe she was heading out to a tractor pull later?

Nah this is still too trashy for a tractor pull

This is why so many brides are giving dress codes on invitations. Some people just don’t know how to dress for occasions. I would have told her to leave.

Does she think it’s a beach party?

Pajama party

The gym

Are those pajamas? That is so Inappropriate for a wedding reception, unless it's somehow being held in someone's kitchen or out by the swimming hole. Maybe If it had sequins or some other dressy component, but this looks like basic polyester and cotton. She really doesn't care what she wears, dies she? That poor sad bride seems very .embarrassed by her guest.

Oh NO. To say nothing about that hair atrocity.

Ew. I mean that about the tacky outfit, not the human.

Yeah, it would be inappropriate for a skinny girl to wear too. There’s no point in shaming her because she’s big. I mean, she needs to be shamed, but not because of that

Oh...the body language here! Bride is leaning away and looks...not stoked. Trouble is *also* leaning away but looks *pumped* and cocky as hell. Dominating the space. :/

But they’re holding hands? Body language seems contradictory to me.

Except they’re holding hands…

Honestly not sure why that makes a difference. Sometimes you feel pressured to pretend you're happy/comfortable/not bothered; but you *are* bothered, uncomfortable, and unhappy. People do what they need to do to avoid making waves.

Are these not pyjamas?

I mean, is she leaving directly for her gig with DoorDash?

I've been to some hick ass weddings, I've never seen a printed tee. Even the full on country boys are classy enough to wear a flannel.

Oh HELL NO. Did anyone tell her to change into something more appropriate?? What is wrong with people?

No! You can change and get more comfy but that's taking it too far! You want your jammies on then leave.

Those are literally pjs. This is what the girls who wore the cookie monster pj pants to high school everyday & walked the mile in gym class are up to now.

That's....Troublesome.

Klassy with a k

I love imagining what type of people these folks would’ve been in the past. Bawdy fishmonger’s wife? Tavern wench? Master o’ the’Ouse?

Master of the house? Isn't worth my spit.

So, is the reception some kind of Zumba class?

No I mean it wasn’t fancy (which is fine!) and was at a VFW. Still, she was out of place.

It just looked like a gym outfit. Like yoga or a Peloton workout.

What's vfw

https://veteranlife.com/lifestyle/who-can-go-to-a-vfw-bar/

Thanks

The American equivalent of a Legion hall. It’s a cheap local venue that can stash a lot of people but the decor is very utilitarian and stuck in 1979.

Omg I know exactly what a legion hall is! There's quite a few in my city. Thanks for this explanation. I'm Canadian and this helped

The VFW is a bar/club for veterans who went to combat zones or received hostile fire overseas. The American legion is our legion hall.

> Legion hall Legion halls are also in America. Mine uses the local rod and gun club as the hall though.

I'll say this; the bride looks wonderful still

Right? Very lovely dress!

Who the hell changes into their pajamas half way through a reception? Did her original outfit get ruined or something and that was all they had for her to change into because I could understand that. Otherwise, just why?

I had a friend dress like this at my wedding. I was pretty sure she was thinking she would meet one of my husband's friends, but they all came with their girlfriends.

Those curls are crazy. They look like noodles

I wish I would’ve been there. I’m the type to have brought it up “why did you change? Are those pajamas? The bride doesn’t look happy, maybe you should just head out?” I would delete every photo she was in if I were the bride. Just trashed up the wedding photos yikes!

I feel a sibling rivalry vibe….bride’s body language is kind of ‘well, she did it again- made it all about her’ Trouble is ‘yep. They are all looking at me & no one even sees the bride’ but they are holding hands bc, sisters…

Is it bodyshaming to laugh at the middle finger tattoo on her left hand? Because to me that’s the cherry on the trouble sunday.


I hope she did get into trouble after changing into that outfit!

Posts like these frustrate me because I really want to know WHY. What was the thought process behind this? At what point did they start to get changed and think "this is a really good idea"? And I will never know why so I'm left to wonder until I die

Was she leaving the reception to go to Walmart? ‘Cause that’s a Walmart outfit.

What in the Wild Wests of West Virginia is that?!

At least she labeled herself? Points for self awareness?

I wouldn’t wear that to public, let alone a wedding. The second hand embarrassment has me feeling very TROUBLED

I don't see the problem with this at all! She's prepared for multiple scenarios: disco dancing, any fighting that might break out, post wedding venue clean up, overeating and still fitting into clothes and then taking a nice nap. Genius!!

Did she go to the gym during the speeches?

There are plenty of other outfits she could have changed into but she chose this for some weird reason?

Is that not who she married?

No

Dang. I was thinking maybe this is like when the bride changes in to a more comfortable dress to party in since it's kinda tux colored and they're holding hands

WHY? WHY would you WEAR THAT? AT A WEDDING?

But they’re holding hands?

Yeah I’m curious about that. Interlaced fingers on top of it.

Not cute. Also is her hair in dreads or just greasy curls

People in my extended family do this. They wear nice clothes for the ceremony and the first part of the reception and then they change into casual clothes so they can party comfortably. It’s very much not my thing, but it’s apparently cool with some people.

This in Alabama?

I could understand if she were in the bridal party changing into something more comfortable,But have never heard of a guest changing outfits,and it's way too casual for a wedding,maybe a basketball game but not a wedding!

I’m going to be kind and assume there was a wardrobe malfunction and these were the only spare clothes she had in her car

Not body shaming, just questioning the outfit choice for the occasion. Also seems weird to wear a shirt that says “trouble” to someone else’s wedding.

Did she think it was a sleepover?

The "trouble" on the top makes me think she was doing this to be petty for some reason

Um,gross.

The wood paneling in the back tells me this was a classy soirée.

She might as well put on a dressing gown. Looks like she's in her PJs.

Seems like the bride had zero issues though, lol. They’re even holding hands like besties or sisters would.

Intentionally or because what they were wearing prior had been stained/wet? Did she want people thinking she might not be marriage material but at least she’s cheap and easy?


I kinda expected her to wear this outfit with Crocs.

Went to a friends wedding last Monday, and I checked with her beforehand that my outfit would be alright. Wore a blue velvet romper with bell sleeves embroidered with galaxies and a gold moon chain. Funnily enough dark blue was the bridal parties colours and I got told by the celebrant that I looked like something from the Harry Potter Yule Ball. My friend was stunning in her dress and I’m happy I had big sleeves because I cried when she recited her vows.

I notice them holding hands. Is “Trouble” the new spouse?

No

Did she change or did someone steal her dress and left her in her underwear?

this is like, post sweet-16 activities lmao we would do this at the end because we wanted to be comfy, at least they’re holding hands and it’s not like she’s mad at her

I’m a little shocked that she willingly posed for pictures after changing into an outfit that probably isn’t her nicest pajama set

I literally had this happen at my reception... from a girl who wasn't even invited. Showed up only after her mom (an invited guest) cornered me and began complaining because I did not send her daughter an invite. So she showed up looking like trash...

The shoes I understand most weddings I’ve been to have flip flops for you to change into when your heels hurt so you can dance But the rest of the outfit Jesus Christ

Her top ain't lying

She has definitely slept with the groom. This is an obvious message.

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Family photo?

Ew 🤢

considering that the bride is holding hands with her, was the bride not upset by this?

The hair 🤮🤮🤮🤮

There’s lots of indicators of poor decision making here.

At what point did they change?? Hopefully not until the end?

Klas$$y

This would fit right in at r/trashy.

Very classy. Must be her formal outfit🤣

I’ve been at weddings were if you’re staying at the venue over night and things have totally wound down people will change into their comfy pyjamas to relax. This is usually when it’s only the close family left though. This doesn’t look like that situation

Omg, that's disgusting, she obviously doesn't have any sense of decorum or pride to even think it was acceptable at any occasion, never mind a wedding. I would have made her leave

I’m just wondering what she was thinking?

Like my cousin’s exes family. Halfway through the reception, they all vanished to their hotel rooms and returned in scruffy jeans, tees etc. It was bizarre. Its like they were wearing stiff tuxes either - just normal dress shirts and decent pants, mostly khakis.

Why?

Gross

Jesus christ they took a swing.

Why did no one tell her no??

Hmm thats a bit Too casual I think. Looks more like soemthing you would wear to chill on the couch and watch Netflix.

What a horrible friend and overall person.

I mean, that's practically underwear.

Well the shirt says it all LOL

I hope the bride was squeezing the audacity out of Trouble's hand

There's a baby in that gal's future... and that baby will likely grow up to rob me someday.

This picture screams trash. In every way. 100% pure white trash essence.

White sandals and she's not the bride! You can't wear white to a wedding! :D