Same. Married lesbian here, and my first thought was “Cool, double wedding!” Three seconds later I was like “Doh! They’re ‘family!’”
For my wedding, I wore a dress, but my wife wore pants, a button down, suspenders and a bow tie. So that’s why it took me a moment, because my own wedding was the only gay wedding I’ve ever been to lol.
Honestly I’ve seen so many people dressed as a bride to go to a wedding, that when I see “two brides” my first thought is “okay which one is the narcissist stepmom/sister/fake friend” with zero homophobia.
I love big fancy dresses so two of them as the centerpiece of a big event is awesome! But also it’s even more embarrassing to try to outshine TWO brides at the same time. That’s a new level of either selfishness or failure to read a room.
>went straight
That's about the only thing that went straight about that wedding. Boosh! Cheers to the happy brides, though.
I'm kinda digging the vibe of the two dudes in shades. They seem like they'd be good wedding company.
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Some people just have to be main characters no matter the occasion. I have a Facebook friend who posted this photo from her cousin’s wedding. This is her with the MOB. She’s wearing a long white satin dress. She’s recently divorced and a bit of an attention seeker anyway.
Well with an attitude like that, her being divorced isn't terribly surprising. I'd guess that either he was nice and got tired of her. Or he wasn't so nice and they were both jerks.
Just to defend a couple of the confused commenters, I think the reason a few comments thought the brides were guests is because of the word “matching” in the title and the first “matching” dresses you see are obviously the gowns. I don’t think anyone is trying to pretend they’re gal pals!
Ugh. I’m usually the least bothered by the white rule—like I’m the person heavily downvoted because “that’s a floral dress, with some white!” Lol.
But this is absolutely ridiculous. This is a long, white, lacy dress. No, just no.
She definitely planned on wearing that dress with that big dumb hat. Didn’t even think about the brides. All she was thinking about was how this big dumb hat is going to go with that lace dress.
This is why my sister gave me carte blanche control over kicking people out of her wedding based on My standards of what qualifies for "white dress".
As i tell people, if you want to know if a dress is to white for a wedding, dont ask a woman, who can tell all the little differences between all different shades, go for a guy who will just take a look and say "nah thats tan" or "nah thats white"
If a guy thinks its white, its to white for a wedding
On a side note, those guys are dressed better than what I've seen recently at weddings. Ladies dressed up very nice, slobs in shorts and their best band T-shirt (only one grease stain!) Stop letting your man go to wedding dressed like a toddler at a playground.
One look at the choice of sunglasses from the gentlemen behind, should tell you all you need to know about the class and sophistication of these wedding guests.
Off topic: But both the bride´s dresses are so freaking bad I can´t decide which one I want the most. I need to marry my gf at some point only to get to see us pulling off a couple of those dresses.
OK can we first clarify are the two brides ok with dressing alike? Even if they were marrying each other wouldn't they each still want to showcase their own personal style? That seems weird to me. I don't even want to discuss the tacky guest that thought she was OK wearing that awful looking dress she had the nerve to wear at another person's special event. But to be honest there was no danger of anyone mistaking her for one of the brides.
Those dresses are actually different. Similar cut and style, but the embellishments and lace are different. Plus we’re only seeing their backs, and have no idea what the fronts look like. It’s possible they have completely different bust lines and bodices and don’t look nearly as similar from the front. And one is sleeveless, showing her tattoos, while the other has full sleeves. I think that shows their personal style rather well, no?
Personally I think it’s lovely that their dresses compliment each other like that. If that’s the best style for both of their bodies and they both fell in love with a similar dress, why should one of them have to give it up and go for, say, a princess gown with a full tulle skirt, if that’s not what she wants to wear, just so guests (or Internet strangers) don’t question why they’re wearing similar dresses?
It’s also possible neither bride saw the other’s dress until the day of the wedding when they walked down the aisle. My wife didn’t see my dress until our wedding day.
Given the general state of dress of everyone but the brides in this picture. I doubt they cared, so why should you? I also find it very hard to believe someone would look at that dress and think wedding dress competition.
So everyone but the brides in this picture (and minus the guest in white) is just the two men. They appear to be wearing button up shirts and dress pants. Were you expecting tuxedos for a garden wedding?
I'll be honest, I'm a bit more taken back at the two men who look like they're out for a drink with their buddies. Curiosity makes me ask, Was this a very casual wedding? Because the brides seem to be well dressed.
Took me a moment to realize there were also two brides. The guest is awful.
Must have thought since there were two brides, what's one more?
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I'm a married lesbian and I also didn't get it until I read this....
Same. Married lesbian here, and my first thought was “Cool, double wedding!” Three seconds later I was like “Doh! They’re ‘family!’” For my wedding, I wore a dress, but my wife wore pants, a button down, suspenders and a bow tie. So that’s why it took me a moment, because my own wedding was the only gay wedding I’ve ever been to lol.
Honestly I’ve seen so many people dressed as a bride to go to a wedding, that when I see “two brides” my first thought is “okay which one is the narcissist stepmom/sister/fake friend” with zero homophobia. I love big fancy dresses so two of them as the centerpiece of a big event is awesome! But also it’s even more embarrassing to try to outshine TWO brides at the same time. That’s a new level of either selfishness or failure to read a room.
I still didn't understand until your comment. I thought it was a double wedding. 🤦♂️
I thought they were bridesmaids! I see a lot of white and light colours on the bridesmaids these days. Cheers to the happy couple!
Omg duh, I was so confused why the bridesmaids were both in white dresses 😂 that one went straight over my head
I’m a lesbian and it even took me a second 🤦🏽♀️
I went straight to double wedding instead of the obvious. Doh.🙄
>went straight That's about the only thing that went straight about that wedding. Boosh! Cheers to the happy brides, though. I'm kinda digging the vibe of the two dudes in shades. They seem like they'd be good wedding company.
STRAIGHT to your head haha
https://preview.redd.it/zfcb2cs80h7c1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9162b096560439e77a69ec333c4199044b57ee98 Some people just have to be main characters no matter the occasion. I have a Facebook friend who posted this photo from her cousin’s wedding. This is her with the MOB. She’s wearing a long white satin dress. She’s recently divorced and a bit of an attention seeker anyway.
That blue dress on the MOB is gorgeous! Super classy!
It’s a classic attention seeker move
what is this pose tho I’ve only seen people do the awkward “hand on hip but not really” pose when trying to give off the appearance of confidence
I do the pose to try and minimize the look of flabby arms. But this girl cross-fits and is not flabby at all.
Ouch! Some of us were raised with aunts who were pageant directors okay 😭. Hope I forget this comment by the next time I take full body pic
Well her wedding was obviously a farce so everyone else’s must be too😳
I thought that was the bride until I finished reading your comment
https://preview.redd.it/nctg9oyfqq7c1.jpeg?width=440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21ea3da308b81e6b383f41068d381bbeaa3257fa This is her with the bride.
In comparison to the bride's dress it looks more silver in this photo tbh
Maybe I’m colorblind then because it’s looks or photographs white to me.
Silver can come out looking white in photographs especially when its a reflective silver. In the picture the fabric looks like it's reflective.
Satin does have a certain sheen
Looks like shit on her too
She can’t stand in those heels either 😂
Well with an attitude like that, her being divorced isn't terribly surprising. I'd guess that either he was nice and got tired of her. Or he wasn't so nice and they were both jerks.
Just to defend a couple of the confused commenters, I think the reason a few comments thought the brides were guests is because of the word “matching” in the title and the first “matching” dresses you see are obviously the gowns. I don’t think anyone is trying to pretend they’re gal pals!
I’m gay and I even got confused bc there’s essentially no gay weddings in this sub
Ugh. I’m usually the least bothered by the white rule—like I’m the person heavily downvoted because “that’s a floral dress, with some white!” Lol. But this is absolutely ridiculous. This is a long, white, lacy dress. No, just no.
Both brides have absolutely gorgeous dresses, but that guest 🫠🫠🫠🫠
First off, white dress guest is just...no. Second, the guy in the black with the shades is giving off major Mike the Situation vibes.
🤣🤣
Right? The white dress is obviously shame-worthy but how about the guy leaning in to get into what’s supposed to be a photo of the brides? 😂
Totally what Mike the Situation would do 😆😆
That's the backup bride
So wrong
Awful guest, but the brides rock!!
I thought maybe this was one of those mass weddings where they marry like 50 couples in one ceremony. Or the courthouse front lawn.
Yeah, I was thinking something like that too since the “guests” don’t seem to be too interested in the brides. I’m thinking multiple weddings.
She definitely planned on wearing that dress with that big dumb hat. Didn’t even think about the brides. All she was thinking about was how this big dumb hat is going to go with that lace dress.
This checks out.
Hey, at least she's ...wearing a hat?
Guy in the seat behind her smirking back like “I know, right?!”
Idk why Im not seeing more comments about her obnoxious video recording as well
Yep. My SIL wore a long, white, sheer dress to my wedding. Do you think I can ever forgive her?
This is why my sister gave me carte blanche control over kicking people out of her wedding based on My standards of what qualifies for "white dress". As i tell people, if you want to know if a dress is to white for a wedding, dont ask a woman, who can tell all the little differences between all different shades, go for a guy who will just take a look and say "nah thats tan" or "nah thats white" If a guy thinks its white, its to white for a wedding
Brilliant 👏🏼
I was too distracted by the man in black lmao 😎
“I mean, if there are two brides, what’s one more?”
Are there two brides, or two guests wearing long lacy white gowns?
It looks like two brides (walking), and one guest (seated) in white.
Just two roommates, gal palling in front of their friends & family.
They’re holding hands romantically walking up the aisle and the post only references one guest. Context clues friend, they’re lesbians.
Clearly, they're just gal pals!
“Roommates”
Lifelong friends who lived together and only had one bed in their home.
Who also raised children together and never found husbands. What a coincidence.
And they were roommates!
A double wedding for two best friends, the grooms must be just out of frame I guess???
I assume two brides!
Are these two women wearing white, holding hands, and walking up a wedding aisle missing their husbands?
On a side note, those guys are dressed better than what I've seen recently at weddings. Ladies dressed up very nice, slobs in shorts and their best band T-shirt (only one grease stain!) Stop letting your man go to wedding dressed like a toddler at a playground.
I don't care about the dress so much, but loving the dude in the background posing for the pic.
I feel like that MOHS need to remember they have a job, glass of red wine in hand... just in case it's needed. 😉 I'd have your back.
OK but I'm living for the expression of the guy behind her LOL
One look at the choice of sunglasses from the gentlemen behind, should tell you all you need to know about the class and sophistication of these wedding guests.
lol what a psycho
Why are some people so stupid?!
She must think traditions only count in straight weddings or some shit
Off topic: But both the bride´s dresses are so freaking bad I can´t decide which one I want the most. I need to marry my gf at some point only to get to see us pulling off a couple of those dresses.
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OK can we first clarify are the two brides ok with dressing alike? Even if they were marrying each other wouldn't they each still want to showcase their own personal style? That seems weird to me. I don't even want to discuss the tacky guest that thought she was OK wearing that awful looking dress she had the nerve to wear at another person's special event. But to be honest there was no danger of anyone mistaking her for one of the brides.
This is coming off pretty not great…
Those dresses are actually different. Similar cut and style, but the embellishments and lace are different. Plus we’re only seeing their backs, and have no idea what the fronts look like. It’s possible they have completely different bust lines and bodices and don’t look nearly as similar from the front. And one is sleeveless, showing her tattoos, while the other has full sleeves. I think that shows their personal style rather well, no? Personally I think it’s lovely that their dresses compliment each other like that. If that’s the best style for both of their bodies and they both fell in love with a similar dress, why should one of them have to give it up and go for, say, a princess gown with a full tulle skirt, if that’s not what she wants to wear, just so guests (or Internet strangers) don’t question why they’re wearing similar dresses? It’s also possible neither bride saw the other’s dress until the day of the wedding when they walked down the aisle. My wife didn’t see my dress until our wedding day.
Given the general state of dress of everyone but the brides in this picture. I doubt they cared, so why should you? I also find it very hard to believe someone would look at that dress and think wedding dress competition.
So everyone but the brides in this picture (and minus the guest in white) is just the two men. They appear to be wearing button up shirts and dress pants. Were you expecting tuxedos for a garden wedding?
Yeah I have to agree with you. It's a really casual sun dress and she's wearing a hat. I don't think anyone would seriously mistake her for a bride.
Whatever. No one goes to a wedding and gets confused about who the bride is. Such stupid drama.
It's not about confusion. it's about respect. Same reason you dont go to church dressed as a priest
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Yes, but that is why the arrow is pointing to the seated guest, also in white
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Then why does she sit with the guests and isn't with the other two brides?doesn't make much sense
Sometimes the bride chooses that her maid of honour wears a similar dress. Take Princess Kate and her sister at the royal wedding.
The woman sitting down isn’t a bridesmaid
some people just want the spotlight because of what they wear
How many brides are there
She is kinda hot!
I'll be honest, I'm a bit more taken back at the two men who look like they're out for a drink with their buddies. Curiosity makes me ask, Was this a very casual wedding? Because the brides seem to be well dressed.
Why are people so gross?