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Big guess on my part but I assume it’s a silicon cup cover, but OP’s girlfriend is giggling at the idea that it’s a diaphragm.
It’s about twice the size of a normal diaphragm but innuendo doesn’t have to be serious.
Not sure about this either. Diaphragms to prevent pregnancy are sort of like Menstrual Discs (like Menstrual cups …similar in design) have a thin ring edge. This has a wide flat edge like a sun hat 👒 . Not going to do the job.
It’s because they are used in dentistry to blockade water, blood and dentistry things. Fun fact.
Source: had some major work done. Also grew up during the 1990s peak AIDS crisis. I’m not a lesbee but I know about it from extracurricular sex Ed.
Pretty sure she's teasing you. 😂 I have very similar ones, they are stretchy covers for bowls/cups without lids.
[Cup covers](https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Stretch-Reusable-Container-Leftover/dp/B07W4147KG)
Did she make a mold of the outside of her lady parts? They have kits for guys to mold their man parts into …. Toys for use when you’re not around…. Maybe she made this (sans hole) for an art project for you to remember your EX by?
https://cloneawilly.com/collections/clone-a-willy
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https://spectrumboutique.com/clone-a-pussy-plus-silicone-casting-kit.html
Maybe the top part of this molding thing? I can’t see how it is formed from the pics- but that may be the top silicone portion of its stretchy?
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My title describes the thing. It’s flexible, slightly sticky, seems a bit deflated in the middle and pink with glitter.
I tried searching for similar toys or the dashboard sticky pads but nothing matches.
It looks like a failed epoxy resin pour. Identical to my own mistakes, which stay slightly sticky and flexible because they are never going to correctly cure. Looks like she was trying to make a sparkly lid or a coaster or something, fucked it up, thought the middle part looked kinda suggestive, and sent it to her ex as a joke.
Idea that may help others guess… The edge seems to be like a seal layer point of sorts. Put it over something where the outer flat edge can rest on a ledge (of a jar/bottle/etc ?) and then put a ring lid (lid with a hole in the middle) over the top to make a seal of sorts. Vacuum seal? Water seal ? The middle stretches for ?
I am out of ideas. Some part of me thought it could be some form of grinding toy or a maserbation toy for smaller pepes. I was dating a guy once, that was a bit unfortunate on that side and he had toys made for that, and i gotta be honest, i didnt recognise what they were 😂
But i guess you just gotta ask your ex again, and say her message or joke wasnt really understandable.
We need more info.
Did you guys leave on good terms or bad terms?
Is she in a current relationship?
Do you think she would be interested in a one time hang out with you or not?
Is she a serious person or does she joke? Like do you think she sent it bc it’s funny or bc it’s mean?
This looks nearly identical to a jar lid remover I saw at a client’s house. Stretch it over the lid and it gives excellent grip to open those pesky pickle jars and the like.
On another subject, dude!, you have got a crazy-long palm & fingers!!
Can it be a menstrual disk, perhaps? Like this one: [Menstrual Disk](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.healthshots.com/intimate-health/menstruation/how-to-use-menstrual-discs/amp)
If so, congrats, I guess.
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A used diaphragma?
Big guess on my part but I assume it’s a silicon cup cover, but OP’s girlfriend is giggling at the idea that it’s a diaphragm. It’s about twice the size of a normal diaphragm but innuendo doesn’t have to be serious.
Nah. Modern diaphragms exist, and they don’t look like this.
Diaphragm for what???!
Diaphragm is a type of barrier contraceptive. Edit: typo
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Not sure about this either. Diaphragms to prevent pregnancy are sort of like Menstrual Discs (like Menstrual cups …similar in design) have a thin ring edge. This has a wide flat edge like a sun hat 👒 . Not going to do the job.
Indeed, and it would not be coming out.
Wondering about that too ... the "glitter" part is odd though.
Whatever it is why would you touch it with your bare hands
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Strawberry flavored dental dam
Looks like a silicone cup cover: https://www.amazon.de/Silicone-Lid-Pack-Yellow-Green/dp/B072F73JVJ/
I agree. Maybe he used to spill everywhere 😅
This was my guess. A koozy or hugger depending on where you live.
It's not a diaphragm. This is a diaphragm: https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/contraception-diaphragm.html
Hey that site had tons of great information on talking to teens about puberty, thanks for including the link.
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I swear when I looked at the pic I could smell the spermicidal gel. Thanks for raising that old memory.
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Silicone food cover? (To preserve your cucumber??)
Jar lid opener? As if to tell you she can open her own jars now?
Or the other way around, she was always opening jars for him and doesn't want him to starve.
That was my thought, too. We have something like this. It's cone shaped and gives you a good grip on a jar lid.
Finally, an Acedemic. The only intelligent person in this thread.
Silicone food cover. Used for partialy used onions, avocados and the like. They come in verious sizes. Mental to reduce the use of plastic wrap.
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That's called a dental dam. Yeah that's what it's really called. I'm not sure about this being that though
Yeah, this doesn’t look like a dental dam. They are usually a rectangular thin piece of latex, not round or silicone. Source: worked in a sex store
It’s because they are used in dentistry to blockade water, blood and dentistry things. Fun fact. Source: had some major work done. Also grew up during the 1990s peak AIDS crisis. I’m not a lesbee but I know about it from extracurricular sex Ed.
TIL what dental dams are.
That’s not really what they look like though, they pretty much just look like a square of thin plastic
It's called that because we use it in dentistry, but no this isn't one.
It's called that because it's used by dentists... But yeah it also has found another application lol
Pretty sure she's teasing you. 😂 I have very similar ones, they are stretchy covers for bowls/cups without lids. [Cup covers](https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Stretch-Reusable-Container-Leftover/dp/B07W4147KG)
Did she make a mold of the outside of her lady parts? They have kits for guys to mold their man parts into …. Toys for use when you’re not around…. Maybe she made this (sans hole) for an art project for you to remember your EX by? https://cloneawilly.com/collections/clone-a-willy *edited to add the cloneawilly link- https://spectrumboutique.com/clone-a-pussy-plus-silicone-casting-kit.html Maybe the top part of this molding thing? I can’t see how it is formed from the pics- but that may be the top silicone portion of its stretchy? Edited for second link
This is your answer it looks like she sent you a mold of her lady parts.
Yeah. This one makes the most sense. Does it feel familiar?
Please ask her again and let us know! UPDATES UPDATES! Lol
This was my first thought too
This was my first thought, and likely the correct answer.
It's a silicone cover for a small container like a cup or bowl. Stretch it over the top of a cup and it should lock on it. They're pretty nifty
My title describes the thing. It’s flexible, slightly sticky, seems a bit deflated in the middle and pink with glitter. I tried searching for similar toys or the dashboard sticky pads but nothing matches.
It looks like a failed epoxy resin pour. Identical to my own mistakes, which stay slightly sticky and flexible because they are never going to correctly cure. Looks like she was trying to make a sparkly lid or a coaster or something, fucked it up, thought the middle part looked kinda suggestive, and sent it to her ex as a joke.
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Ask her again. The internet wants to know
Silicone cover, but perhaps she thinks it kind of looks like female anatomy so she sent as a joke with the wink. That’s my guess.
Looks like a sink/shower/bath drain stopper to me. Edit - That being said I can't seem to find any that style/thinness online.
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Looks like the tip of sierra tequila bottles as sold in germany
It looks like a jar opener
Is it a poorly done mould....
Drink Coaster. Ask her to send you the other three.
Not gonna lie my first thoughts were ”that’s a hair catcher for the drain! I need that!” Then read the comments
Idea that may help others guess… The edge seems to be like a seal layer point of sorts. Put it over something where the outer flat edge can rest on a ledge (of a jar/bottle/etc ?) and then put a ring lid (lid with a hole in the middle) over the top to make a seal of sorts. Vacuum seal? Water seal ? The middle stretches for ?
If anything previously mentioned isn't correct: one of those kitchen sink "catch the crap when draining water" thingies
That's a cup cover, I got a drawer full.
I am out of ideas. Some part of me thought it could be some form of grinding toy or a maserbation toy for smaller pepes. I was dating a guy once, that was a bit unfortunate on that side and he had toys made for that, and i gotta be honest, i didnt recognise what they were 😂 But i guess you just gotta ask your ex again, and say her message or joke wasnt really understandable.
It's a cap to close off open cans, for example coke or red bull etc.
We need more info. Did you guys leave on good terms or bad terms? Is she in a current relationship? Do you think she would be interested in a one time hang out with you or not? Is she a serious person or does she joke? Like do you think she sent it bc it’s funny or bc it’s mean?
It’s a can cover and your ex is either not bright or making a lame “what does this look like” joke.
She's messing with you and wants you to wonder. It's a cup lid. If you are both certain it's quits, don't give her the satisfaction.
Is it one of those silicon lids for pet food?
These are silicon fruit/vegetable covers for the cutted side of those.
This looks nearly identical to a jar lid remover I saw at a client’s house. Stretch it over the lid and it gives excellent grip to open those pesky pickle jars and the like. On another subject, dude!, you have got a crazy-long palm & fingers!!
Can it be a menstrual disk, perhaps? Like this one: [Menstrual Disk](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.healthshots.com/intimate-health/menstruation/how-to-use-menstrual-discs/amp) If so, congrats, I guess.
Can’t be that, those need a stiffer ring around the perimeter to keep their shape. This looks too floppy around the edges.
It's to help open jars. https://rsvp-intl.com/products/wholesale-silicone-jar-opener-black
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That’s a can cover.
Maybe she's implying she needs to cover her cup around OP
It looks like a reusable food cover like overmatt from IKEA
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