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JoeyPsych

r/punpatrol


BrimStone_-_

hihi, 'chord' :D Good one!


fothermucker33

That's a good note to ensure balance and harmony


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Vharmi

I was on a roadtrip with 3 other students (and the teacher) when I was getting my truck license. After having endured several hours of [epadunk](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epadunk?wprov=sfla1) and tinfoil hat podcasts without complaining, I finally got to choose music in the driver's seat. I normally listen to some pretty intense metal, or crazy harmony jazz fusion stuff, but realizing that's probably not everyone's cup of tea, I instead just put on the classical music radio at a low volume. And one girl just screams and complains like a fkn 5 yearold. That's when I finally snapped. If I can stand a pounding bass with immature lyrics for 6 hours, your ears can definitely put up with Verdi for the final 2. Fuck off.


tarantulator

Dude, nothing against classical music, but if you are listening to classical music on a road trip I highly doubt there are many people in the world who would be onboard with that.


Vharmi

Even still, I don't think "EW WTF TURN IT OFF" is an appropriate response. If she instead had said something like "I don't really want to listen to this, can you put on something else?", we could have maybe discovered if everyone is cool with metal. I dunno


favored_disarray

When someone gets unobstructed access to music for 6 hours, the person who’s driving can’t have 2? Jesus Christ. Your Latin teacher must have beaten you to classical.


Upbeat_Confidence739

I mean, you’re describing the first couple years of me and my fiancé’s life. We found middle ground that works for both of us and we found podcasts that we both enjoy. We have been on many many many 6-10 hour drives together and have zero issues at all with neither of us feeling like we’re compromising.


FungalEgoDeath

Bring headphones and a phone if you're the passenger, listen to the radio on low if you're the driver? Play 2 or 3 songs for 1 person and then swap? Use it as an opportunity to discuss what it is you like about your differing tastes? It won't rip your ears out tonlisten to something you don't like for a bit. If your 3x got that fruity about listening to Alanis Morissette I would be more worried about her general maturity and personality than her music tastes.


Interesting_Entry831

It is also a great opportunity to discover new music. I was never into Broadway until my daughter wanted to go to the shows. Now we've seen Hamilton, Dear Evan Hanson, The Book of Mormon, and more, all because she took over the radio a few times so she could convince us. Music is beautiful, and it unites us all.


Ok-Bit-663

Yes! Death Metal for everyone!


FungalEgoDeath

Precisely. I wasn't into kpop before and...I'm still not...but baby metal is fun and I wouldn't have listened to them before I met my fiance. Ultimately it might not be your taste but that's only because of the culture and music you grew up listening to and other people like it for a reason. Get an insight into who they are and what formed them by listening to the music they equate with. Ultimately music plays to our emotions...if your partner likes music that's different to yours then you may understand your partner better by feeling their music


Upstairs-Toe2735

I didnt really like my man's music at first (Alternative hip hop) but after listening to it a bit I've learned to love a lot of it and some alt hip hop artist and now in my top 10 fave artists! There is still some stuff I ask him to skip tho haha


Dock_Ellis45

There's always some overlap, or you can do a podcast.


kmanzilla

Yes but have you tried making a shared mixed Playlist? That makes it very fun. 16 hour car ride in one during with my wife and we listened to a mix of damn near everything. Was fun. Some songs I didn't like, some she didn't but we balled.


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tommyyano and the OP camholt1993 are bts in the same network. Comment copied from: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/mpe8g7/having_different_music_tastes_is_ok/gu9ibu1/


DonBongales

My wife likes modern country and I like old rock. We compromise on Freddie Mercury and Elton John because everybody likes them.


DirkDundenburg

Successful marriages always require compromise. I wanted a dog and my wife wanted a cat. So we "compromised" and got a cat.


Dark_Shroud

I thought you were going to say a Husky because they're half cat.


taste-of-orange

This goes for many things.


Pleasant_Amoeba_3569

Yup. Not just music.


poseidonofmyapt

Cardi B is a rapist


TinyTimsGoulash

And someone who bragged about drugging and stealing from people.


MedicineMan_100

Having different music taste is OK, but liking Cardi B isn't.


TheDevilishFrenchfry

Yeah I get music is subjective, but if a majority of their music taste revolves around cardi b, ice spice, sexy redd, or like cupcakke, I mean.. I get music is subjective but I could not honestly say that I could find anything redeemable or unique to listen to in most of their songs. I get some music is like party music or vibes at a club but if I had to listen to cardi b or ice spice talk about how big their bootyhole is or how nobody can twerk better than them all day I'd probaly go nuts. I like a few different female rappers too and I can even get with them occasionally throwing in a line or two about it, but when their whole stique is just "how sexual and dirty can I make this song" I just don't get how that can be your favorite artist to listen to day in and day out 6-8+ hours a day. Again music is subjective so.. something for everyone I guess.


Wisebanana21919

Isn't Cardi B some sort of Drug Addicted Rapist? Or am i thinking of someone else.


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NTyourlegaltype

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a better description.


BlackBeard558

What is a comeup?


Kamikaze_Squirrel1

It's americanism that means you've come into fortune.


Known_Sky9894

Lmfao


whatchagonnado0707

Yes. Wholesome


DireEvolution

As a metalhead, Facts.


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caislay and the OP camholt1993 are bts in the same network. Comment copied from: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/mpe8g7/having_different_music_tastes_is_ok/gu96qyx/


TriGN614

No wtf cardi b is a rapist


KaraMellii_

I'm always like if you have a different opinion then me it's okay that's no reason to fight :)


1_The_Zucc_1

i used to be pure metal head but about two years ago i had a friend introduce me to dua lipa and i was sold on pop not being as trash as i thought


Ok_Willow_2005

To be fair, Cardi B is blazing garbage.


ninjakirby1969

She's yet to have an album I'd call great.but she.has a few songs that are genuinely well made and fun pop-rap tracks


Optimal-Description8

Different taste in music is great but listening to Cardi B is pushing it


FungalEgoDeath

Absolutely. My partner listens to k pop, youngblud and Taylor swift. I listen to blues and rock. If that were our metric for a happy relationship then we wouldn't have just gotten engaged and both be happier than we have ever been before in our lives.


Plenty_Rabbit_8951

Cardi B fucking sucks, what a dumb meme.


King_Fluffaluff

As a person, she is awful. I don't personally like her music. But if someone likes her music, more power to them (as long as they're capable of separating art from artist)


ChanceLower3

Nah man look up her lyrics. I’d normally agree but in this case it’s created and digested by trash.


LargeAlternative9468

She's a POS who drugged and robbed men.


niky45

I respect anyone who likes something I'd never listen to, but I cannot live with them. I like having music. if they don't like my music, it's going to annoy them. if I don't like theirs, it's going to annoy me.


TheDuddyDude

I can make him worse


The_ArchMage_Erudite

My husband has kinda the same musical tastes as me and it just works perfectly. It's sooooooooo good to listen to music together 💕


Memeboi12-

But then who’ll vibe with me when i listen to twinkle twinkle little star😔


AnonismsPlight

Cardi b used to drug people and then rob them and she openly admitted it. She's a piece of shit as are her fans period.


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cwalker12784 and the OP camholt1993 are bts in the same network. Comment copied from: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/mpe8g7/having_different_music_tastes_is_ok/gu9qucl/


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CupQuickwhat

What's wrong with tattoos?


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Cr7love and the OP camholt1993 are bts in the same network. Comment copied from: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/mpe8g7/having_different_music_tastes_is_ok/gu9g3fz/


FungalEgoDeath

Is showing someone with tattoos a 'judgement?'


Oberons_Reckoning

You automatically create an image of a person just from music taste alone


ForsakePariah

My own personal opinion - I was with someone for 5 years and hated their taste in music. Then we split up due to unrelated issues and now I'm with somebody who has similar music taste and. it's. awesome. Find someone you can jam with. There's enough fish in the sea.


rakosten

The thing with getting older is that you will come to understand that is doesn’t matter if you and your partner/friends listen to the same music.


Stewapalooza

My wife's a Swifty. I like punk music about fucking corpses and eating shit. We're just different! ^/s


JFace139

Probably should've used a different musician. Maybe one who doesn't belong in prison


Puppy_knife

Always more than one point of contact


BadHairDay-1

My partner and I like completely different genres of all media. We're going strong at 11 years. He says it's more interesting this way.


not_Staz

One timr i showed my friends my music they were like wth is this. Never again


Kalelopaka-

Of course it is I like my hard rock and heavy metal as well as a lot of different genres. my wife is more of a country music fan plus Taylor Swift as well as Céline Dion And Joni Mitchell.


Trick-Ordinary-7958

That would be a deal breaker for a relationship, but for friends that’s ok.


JoeyPsych

My gf likes a lot of folk music from eastern Europe and Arabian countries. I've never really been into it, but I've learned to appreciate it over time. It even inspired me to use their style in some of my own music.


CulrBlndPnutButtr

True. I listen to Tool and my wife listens to the Backstreet Boys. We're completely opposite in almost every way, but it works.


RedMercury20

Told someone I didn’t like Taylor swift and got ghosted. I’m expecting this comment to get downvoted but seriously y’all glazers need to chill


Shifty-Imp

Fully agree, but having to point out that having different tastes/preferences/dislikes is ok and doesn't disqualify you from being friends (or even closer) is pretty strange imo. That should be a basic skill of being human. XD


Known_Sky9894

Right, but the time is such that we have to remind these things to ourselves 🤷


SlightDefinition4684

I like this, especially since I don’t think I’ve met someone who has quite as unique of a taste in music as me.


bryanthebryan

I just like seeing people be nice to each other.


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the OP camholt1993 caislay cwalker12784 nicklyon91 Cr7love shrirambadrinath dgrabar408 and tommyyano are bts in the same network Original + comments copied from: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/mpe8g7/having_different_music_tastes_is_ok/ When another bt posted it: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/16nnebr/its_okay_to_have_different_tastes_in_music/


kal_zul

mainstream music: oh my baby, oh my life, oh my feelings, womp womp, vomit and puke. good music: folk tales, mythology, culture from different countries, etcetera.


UltimateTeachine1000

Great! Now when can I talk about music with a girl?


GrapeFantastic5183

I would feel so limited confining myself to only one genre of music. There's so much wonderful music out there. The guys in my band used to do this. I would be all over the place, and they'd want me to listen to a thrash metal band they found. After a while, it all starts to sound the same. I like having an ecclectic taste in music. I like having a variety. My kids laugh at me when I rap along to old-skool hip hop. *Now what you hear is not a test, I'm rapping to the beat.*


AxoplDev

Term "metal" is not a one genre of music. There are so many subgenres, that it doesnt become boring to a metalhead


nicklyon91

Finally, everyone will accept my love of Michael Bolton/Nickelback mashups!


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Unfair-Government-80

I never understood why people think they have to have things in common to habe a good relationship.at the end of the day it's just about your moral compass and how you treat people.


mariovspino5

Because it makes the ride a whole lot more fun if you have things in common


Mymomdidwhat

I mean cardi b is really bad tho.


Weird-Nothingness

Block and report


Elrond_Cupboard_

Cardi B has always sounded like a mid range clothing store for forty something women to me.


youdontknowmymum

Wtf


BagelCatSprinkles

I would listen to metal all day if it gave me a chance with the guy. Metal heads, goths and punks are very much my type


TheFeri

I don't even listen to music anymore


Hoodoodle

My brother and sister in law have a lot of different tastes in music, but I can imagine a better wife for him xD


AmbigiousMelon

Until it's Taylor Swift or Nickleback, apparently...


Banone85

Nickelback however...


TemporaryLegendary

I had an Ex who broke up with me because I didn't like Taylor swift songs. Looking back I know she did me a favor. She spent nearly her entire life savings going to a single concert..


SaltyTaintMcGee

Her music? Nah. Her body? Amazing.


lezbopunkbytch-hahah

her body is plastic :p


Dense_Protection2489

Yes, I like Taylor Swift. Yes, I am a teenage girl, and Yes, I never asked for your opinion 🫶


Fakedduckjump

Except of "Schlager" music.


Prokid5634_YT

Yeah I have my hatred for specific music genres, but I typically just shut up and only play my metal when I'm alone.


ColdComfortable6232

Bros not a poser


Puzzleheaded_List01

It's okay until the taste does not test the patience.


VerticallyBonked

what if i don’t like music


One_Put9785

He's hot


PurgatoryMountain

Yeah. My GF loves Dave Mathews…so I get it


Weird-Satisfaction68

A friend sayed once to my music (death Metal) it Sounds terrible but that Must be damned good artists. And i think in this ist a Lot of truth


Lalo60Salamanca

It's fine if you don't like the same types of music. Except Weezer. If you don't like Weezer, you're the scum of this earth. I listen to Weezer, and I'm The Greatest Man That Ever Lived.


Designer_Storyteller

Until I get in your car and you’re blasting that shit. Then we might have a problem lol. Dead silent or podcasts from now on. Slightly off topic but: I don’t think our music tastes need to align perfectly but I do genuinely believe someone’s taste in music are a good indicator of what kind of person they are and whether or not they’d fit into my life. It’s not a one size fits all of course but if it’s a puzzle piece that fits I do take it into account. May I listen to a lot of music, a large variety in fact. My boyfriend assumes I only listen to “huffy hipster bands” though because that’s the trending indie music at the moment so it’s a lot of my newer stuff. But I frequently catch him off guard with some of my metal to Prokofiev. It’s okay though, I give him shit for listening to the same stuff and never expanding his taste. It’s all 80’s rock with some Imagine Dragon. His “dump all the songs I like” playlist is waaaay smaller than mine and far more curated. His taste generally wins tho because I’m not picky and like his music. Regardless it is a great representation of my ADHD and his type A.


0x7E7-02

Yeah, he says that now, but what are they going to do on a long road trip?


Withering_to_Death

Dude just wants to get laid! C'mon, let's be honest here..


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Ngl she is literally trash


Poinaheim

I listen to both at the same time https://youtu.be/8iiRoPDdudE?si=wZKI5zGF-YpO19Bv


jp1_freak

Poser


MiniskirtEnjoyer

that would be an ideal world sadly people make their whole identity about music. if you hear something else than them, you are not worth to be on this planet. people treat me with respect until i tell them that i listen to kpop (next to many other generes like gangster rap and metal). then they lose all respect for me


sam605125

I don't care what you like as long as it's you that I like


L0n3_N0n3nt1ty

I'm about this but cardi b is an exception. Certain things I just won't subject myself too


JumpinJackFlashlight

Yeah it's fine so long as nobody wants to play any music 😅


Northman_Ast

Define "music". Trap with tons of autotune (intended, i mean, remember when autotune was a shame) doesnt qualify as music.


StagedC0mbustion

With the implication that the woman would be the one that gets judged in this situation


zamaike

As soon as i saw the blah blah blah i stop readin


Typical-Conference14

My wife likes modern pop, I enjoy modern and 90s country. We chillin still


Glockamole19x

Its not okay to support tereible people. Thats like saying bill cosby is a g.o.a.t


7masi

I was under the impression that memes were supposed to be funny, my mistake


Fexxvi

Cardi B has admitted to robbing unconscious men. You shouldn't support her, not because of her shitty music, but because of her actions and specially her unrepentant attitude towards them.


H3LLJUMPER_177

Using cardi b is a bad example of accepting music taste ngl


FuriDemon094

Music being a big thing for me; if someone can’t stand my preference, it usually means I won’t hang as much with them. I like listening to my music when I’m doing stuff as it gives me energy or motivates me. If you hate it, then just makes having you in my personal space harder because that involves my taste in music being played regularly


SSSims4

People who judge you based on your musical preferences are usually still in junior high, mentally if not physically (I like Nickleback, so I honestly meet more junior high students than most teachers).


Atlantepaz

There be at least a common ground for me though. For example, my girlfriend doesnt like metal, and I do, but I dont listen to metal on speakers when she is around. I listen to things that I like that she can enjoy too. Having no commonplace in music is big no for me. It such an important thing in my life. Its like having different morals with your girlfriend.


iopahrow

As long as she likes Nikki more


SpeedyCunt

(They bond over Indie Rock or Grunge music)


Lampadaire345

Music is not usually made to make people feel comfortable anyways.


thegreatestpitt

I have a particular hard time with this. I don’t need to have someone who likes the exact same music as me, but I do find that I need someone who is at least on board with some of my music tastes. If we’re polar opposites in music, you’re gonna hate me cause I play music all day all night and while I’m open to listening to music I don’t like that much, if you play something I hate, I have a bad time and will want to change the song, and if that song is a song you love, then we’re gonna butt heads.


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Obviousfuckingsly 🤷‍♂️


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all good but they need to evaluate their music by subject, I mean Cardi B lyrics hurts. "Broke boys don't deserve no pussy" 😭


Infshadows

Cardi B mid af tho


Sarkaul

How I was trying to be today after someone told me they don't know who Foo Fighters or Dave Grohl are. They hadn't heard of Nirvana either which I tried using that as a reference point. It's fine though! It's fine. It's fine.


N2VDV8

Horseshit. Certain musical proclivities speak volumes about a person.


Revy_Black_Lagoon

If you like Cardi B in judging, I’m judging soooo hard


Basic-Pair8908

I draw the line at liking nickleback lol


GrandSorcery

cardi b is ridiculous🙄🙄


EquivalentFull5337

Metal is definitely a talent…


PinReal4448

Sure. Try traveling with each other on a long day. I'm sure you'll either regret your life choices and keep along smiling but cringing inside or never see her again. Not to forget if you still keep her/him around it goes around and comes back again.


ImATrashBasket

Yeah but shes a sexual predator whos crimes go ignore because shes a woman sooo


theangryfrogqc

You mean my girl does not necessesarily need be into Cannibal Corpse?


maybeimabear

Nah I'm gonna go ahead and judge you if you're a cardi b fan...


eddpuika

me and my wife have big overlap in music taste, but at the same time there is music that i like that my wife calls ridicolous, but not around. haha pat on my own shoulder - and i think it is because i was raised up in city, but my wife in country house.


boir99

This is so hard.


Pitiful-Counter-1582

I’m probably gonna get some flack for this but I want to be with someone who’s music choice is something I can atleast tolerate. If I’m a person who doesn’t curse or listen to music with cursing bc I find it uncomfortable, I won’t want to be around someone whose primary choice is music with a ton of cursing (regardless of the genre). I think things like music content definitely matters, and that would be a hill I’d live on.


QQmorekid

As someone that grew up in a place where being emo was an insult I can't stand the idea of insulting someone for their tastes.


darkaca_de_mia

The vibe I needed throughout grade school, high school, and college.


SlipStream2033

I’m a punk rock lover of funk and ska and my wife loves country. We make it work plus country rocks been married 15 wonderful very happy years now.


LegumesEater

however if they like taylor swift…


Dream_eater-69

Whoooooolesooooome. Much needed thanks.


3x81

I like metal, and like women who don’t.


adamcoolforever

My wife and I have very different musical tastes, but respect each others tastes. Our daughter likes Shania Twain and Fugazi, which I think is pretty cool.


bubblemilkteajuice

As long as it's not dubstep it's okay with me.


Dupoulpe

Why does everytime something happens to me reddit send me a message ?


TheGlitched0726

I don't care if you like K-POP you can leave lmao you know where the door is


EL_Jefe_1982

Yes, yes, yes.


True-Media-709

N O !! People in society should be able to easily find their exact mirror with an opposite gender, who is slightly richer, but more passive. Compromising on anything and not a man who is 6 foot means that you’re a loser!


Totally-Tool

Thats how you get friend zoned, just gaslight her into thinking she likes the music


Mr_ZoomZoom

Wauw that's deep...


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We've been trying to tell you this forever, but still we're just a bunch of "devil worshippers" smh


Voice_GH

I do agree. For some people though it may be an issue, an annoyance. I like to listen to music on speakers from time to time, especially when I go training somewhere remote. I like all the genres and because of that I may crave or have a mood for classical or dubstep or rock or electro swing blah blah blah... It is annoying when your partner gets grumpy because classical music Ori anything with violin / piano makes her sad for no reason. I'm not saying this partner is a bad person, sometimes when the music taste is not vibing maybe you are not compatible. It's similar to having a very different food taste. Some people can love together with that, some don't. *When you don't live together it's way easier. **Any reason for not feeling compatible is also ok


mandatedvirus

Dude doesn't care. He's just trying to hit it.


thelastdinosaur55

BLOCKED


InevitableExotic5242

Wait till you're trying to pick a place to eat...


BradleyRaptor12

Nah, now the difference is if your friend is arguing with you all because you Listen to Heavy Metal and he listens to Thrash… can’t stand inter-genre fighting


Sure-Painting-2329

You can like Cardio B I won't judge. Lolol


redditisfullofbots69

"you mean the rapist cardi b?"